WEBVTT 00:04.428 --> 00:05.949 [SPEAKER_00]: Welcome to HomeMakerShek Podcast. 00:06.029 --> 00:09.192 [SPEAKER_00]: We are rescuing the art of homemaking from the daily grind. 00:09.232 --> 00:11.413 [SPEAKER_00]: Red lips, no denim jumpers, season 29. 00:11.433 --> 00:11.914 [SPEAKER_00]: Goodness! 00:14.510 --> 00:16.592 [SPEAKER_01]: That was an official episode. 00:17.112 --> 00:17.993 [SPEAKER_00]: Season finale. 00:18.153 --> 00:18.754 [SPEAKER_00]: Holy cow. 00:19.514 --> 00:24.478 [SPEAKER_00]: This season, we have been with you for the last nine weeks making it lovely. 00:25.119 --> 00:36.969 [SPEAKER_00]: So if you have things in your home, in your life, in your head space, that need a little loveliness, go back and check out everything we've talked about, because it's been nine episodes. 00:37.669 --> 00:47.478 [SPEAKER_00]: of us yacking about making x, y, or z lovely we've talked about, taking care of ourselves, we've talked about pushing our minds, we've talked about aging. 00:47.498 --> 00:49.400 [SPEAKER_00]: I think we talked about aging a few times. 00:49.840 --> 00:52.502 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, from Ben's thinking differently. 00:52.983 --> 00:53.824 [SPEAKER_00]: What's on the brain? 00:53.844 --> 00:55.905 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, food. 00:55.925 --> 01:00.550 [SPEAKER_00]: I talked about making the kitchen lovely was a good season. 01:00.850 --> 01:01.370 [SPEAKER_01]: I think so. 01:01.430 --> 01:01.691 [SPEAKER_01]: Can we? 01:02.291 --> 01:03.693 [SPEAKER_00]: Gosh, I think I think so. 01:03.713 --> 01:05.034 [SPEAKER_01]: Kitchen is not lovely. 01:05.254 --> 01:05.995 [SPEAKER_00]: Mine is not right now. 01:06.035 --> 01:08.778 [SPEAKER_00]: I just want downstairs and I'm clean and stuff and beyond that microphone. 01:08.878 --> 01:09.999 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to come down to this mess. 01:10.599 --> 01:11.220 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, gosh. 01:11.861 --> 01:14.343 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, do you get grouchy when you get tired? 01:17.126 --> 01:19.388 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, now I'm old enough. 01:20.069 --> 01:21.470 [SPEAKER_00]: Now I just go away. 01:22.711 --> 01:22.871 [SPEAKER_00]: right. 01:23.171 --> 01:25.453 [SPEAKER_00]: But when you feel it and you're like, I need to go away. 01:25.513 --> 01:26.534 [SPEAKER_00]: Now, I need to go away. 01:26.574 --> 01:29.116 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not going to do me any good to be around you people. 01:29.616 --> 01:29.836 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 01:30.497 --> 01:30.977 [UNKNOWN]: You're fine. 01:33.119 --> 01:35.361 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not going to go well for either party. 01:35.421 --> 01:35.681 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 01:35.861 --> 01:36.121 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 01:36.281 --> 01:50.512 [SPEAKER_01]: I had a day like that yesterday where I was in the I was, you know, I'm just triple timing cooking community efforts right now because of the trip and had spent the day in the kitchen and Stewart had spent the 01:52.394 --> 01:53.216 [SPEAKER_01]: becing out me. 01:53.296 --> 01:54.839 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, it was just a rack. 01:54.920 --> 01:56.583 [SPEAKER_01]: I tried so hard to get it cleaned. 01:57.746 --> 01:58.488 [SPEAKER_01]: Didn't even make dinner. 01:58.528 --> 02:01.254 [SPEAKER_01]: We kind of had like a leftovers dinner, which we'd never do. 02:01.928 --> 02:03.870 [SPEAKER_01]: But I was like, we have all this food we're going to eat. 02:03.910 --> 02:08.553 [SPEAKER_00]: It just makes so many, which we never do. 02:09.154 --> 02:10.295 [SPEAKER_01]: I like to cook dinner. 02:10.515 --> 02:11.636 [SPEAKER_01]: I like that time. 02:11.756 --> 02:13.277 [SPEAKER_01]: I like to pour a glass of wine. 02:13.297 --> 02:14.178 [SPEAKER_01]: I like to. 02:14.198 --> 02:15.839 [SPEAKER_00]: I like it. 02:16.360 --> 02:16.860 [SPEAKER_00]: That's why. 02:17.160 --> 02:17.401 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 02:17.561 --> 02:19.262 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to eat leftovers for dinner. 02:19.782 --> 02:24.746 [SPEAKER_01]: I want to reward myself after a big full day with something really nice. 02:24.767 --> 02:26.228 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 02:27.068 --> 02:28.970 [SPEAKER_01]: And it doesn't feel nice to me to eat leftovers. 02:33.009 --> 02:36.651 [SPEAKER_01]: So we do this and I leave, I leave to go to Amber's and use her son. 02:36.691 --> 02:39.914 [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, when I come back this bit, bit, bit, bit. 02:40.094 --> 02:40.374 [SPEAKER_01]: Right? 02:41.174 --> 02:43.436 [SPEAKER_01]: Because I've been in here all day. 02:43.556 --> 02:45.417 [SPEAKER_00]: And I was clean, okay? 02:45.597 --> 02:45.857 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 02:46.058 --> 02:46.818 [SPEAKER_00]: That's just it. 02:46.998 --> 02:48.919 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not like I'm leaving it a mess. 02:49.060 --> 02:52.602 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not like I'm leaving food in the sink strainer for people. 02:52.662 --> 02:54.283 [SPEAKER_00]: It was like, do your dinner dishes? 02:54.863 --> 02:55.104 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 02:56.264 --> 03:06.213 [SPEAKER_00]: Like actually I put the leftovers in the glass containers take them all the way to the cooler clean out this skill it like just leaving the food in the skill like that's That's not fun. 03:06.233 --> 03:09.396 [SPEAKER_01]: So I thought I came home to it was like there was food in the skill list stuff. 03:09.416 --> 03:16.362 [SPEAKER_01]: They'd like put they put a plate on it Thanks, you guys. 03:16.402 --> 03:17.382 [SPEAKER_01]: I got so upset. 03:17.943 --> 03:20.665 [SPEAKER_01]: I didn't say anything because I was like hey 03:21.726 --> 03:27.649 [SPEAKER_01]: This was this was their bad, but you are not in a frame of mind to handle this well. 03:27.889 --> 03:32.032 [SPEAKER_01]: So you're going to go to bed and we'll deal with it tomorrow. 03:33.913 --> 03:34.813 [SPEAKER_00]: It's so tough. 03:35.313 --> 03:35.554 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 03:36.714 --> 03:37.555 [SPEAKER_01]: It's so tough. 03:37.995 --> 03:43.978 [SPEAKER_01]: And look, I shared with you guys a couple of weeks ago, we rebranded to share his Italian kitchen. 03:44.559 --> 03:44.979 [SPEAKER_01]: Woo-hoo. 03:46.420 --> 03:46.900 [SPEAKER_01]: My kitchen. 03:46.980 --> 03:48.901 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, there is no fake kitchen. 03:49.561 --> 03:50.342 [SPEAKER_01]: There's no set. 03:51.441 --> 03:54.262 [SPEAKER_01]: There's no studio, there's no office. 03:55.202 --> 03:56.963 [SPEAKER_01]: There's just the actual kitchen. 03:57.023 --> 03:57.203 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 03:58.484 --> 04:00.965 [SPEAKER_01]: That one in there, where all the people are right now. 04:02.165 --> 04:02.545 [SPEAKER_01]: That's it. 04:03.226 --> 04:05.106 [SPEAKER_01]: That is the, that is my kitchen. 04:07.507 --> 04:09.248 [SPEAKER_01]: So sometimes I do get a little. 04:10.766 --> 04:16.629 [SPEAKER_01]: I do get a little grouchy and I do get a little upset like I have to come in here and conduct business, basically. 04:16.809 --> 04:19.351 [SPEAKER_01]: I have to come like this is what after we were done filming today. 04:19.391 --> 04:22.453 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going in there to do three cooking community recipes. 04:23.953 --> 04:37.021 [SPEAKER_01]: And I know I'm going to walk into, I told students like a bunch of drunk frack guys come into your office and thrash it at night time and then you have to come back in and like, work the next morning. 04:37.161 --> 04:38.762 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that's what it feels like. 04:40.776 --> 04:49.279 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it's everything like when they were little, it was so much easier, but like I could bend before everyone now. 04:50.360 --> 04:57.322 [SPEAKER_00]: And so I can put it, it's lovely to bend and then somebody decides to make a case at 1130. 04:57.462 --> 05:03.404 [SPEAKER_01]: I smooth these, smooth these. 05:04.825 --> 05:05.125 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 05:07.810 --> 05:09.232 [SPEAKER_00]: How do your kids do this movie. 05:09.312 --> 05:19.001 [SPEAKER_01]: I use a quiz in our Yeah, it's I think we said in the last episode, the worst thing that parents can be like, oh, just wait right here. 05:19.021 --> 05:27.450 [SPEAKER_00]: We are just waiting for your kids to make smoothies and it is true and it is true smoothies in case it is like, 05:27.930 --> 05:31.374 [SPEAKER_00]: Is it so hard just to get the cheese on the tortilla? 05:33.156 --> 05:34.618 [SPEAKER_00]: Not on the stove top. 05:35.499 --> 05:38.242 [SPEAKER_01]: It was so much easier when the kids were little. 05:38.402 --> 05:43.488 [SPEAKER_00]: I would just be like In this right look at its sparkles late. 05:43.568 --> 05:46.531 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm very slay in this parents seven o'clock bedtime 05:50.014 --> 05:53.715 [SPEAKER_01]: When you said like change their diaper, give them a bath, tuck them in, go to sleep. 05:54.295 --> 05:57.036 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, it was just, man, things were a little tidier. 05:57.256 --> 05:58.637 [SPEAKER_01]: They just were a little tidier. 05:58.757 --> 06:04.379 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, they were a little more like, like, systematic, is that the word, like, yeah, you know? 06:04.399 --> 06:04.639 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 06:05.599 --> 06:18.323 [SPEAKER_00]: Mine are like, it's just like a turn style, come in, go in, can I go to so-and-so, and I say yes to like, I do try to say yes to almost everything with my kids, so that when I say no, it's not so devastating. 06:19.323 --> 06:25.009 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, and the, one of the biggest things I say, yes, you every time is can so and so spend the night. 06:26.090 --> 06:26.790 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, absolutely. 06:27.151 --> 06:30.674 [SPEAKER_00]: You don't, I mean, you're asking to be polite, but like, absolutely. 06:31.335 --> 06:36.159 [SPEAKER_00]: But, you know, then I come down in the morning and there's blankets and pillows because they sleep on the couch and 06:37.020 --> 06:57.970 [SPEAKER_00]: food on we've like the deep set windowsills behind the couch so then the tortilla plates are there and the opens also container and then they decided to pick all their pinker nails they do their nails and then they decide the glue didn't stick all the way so they take them off and leave them in the window sill and it's like oh my gosh how does set a nails in my car the other day like in the little hand thing that you used to 07:01.298 --> 07:03.721 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, I'm enjoying my new truck so much. 07:03.801 --> 07:17.275 [SPEAKER_00]: Can I just say that I am enjoying my new truck so much so I got a big box of antiques from from Paris the other day and my postmaster like he has like the side door and a lot of times he'll just take it out to the lot for me. 07:17.315 --> 07:21.039 [SPEAKER_00]: So I don't think go out and around with this big often sized box. 07:21.800 --> 07:22.900 [SPEAKER_00]: So I kicks open the door. 07:22.920 --> 07:23.981 [SPEAKER_00]: He's like, where are you? 07:24.201 --> 07:25.761 [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm yelling as I'm leaving the building. 07:25.781 --> 07:27.922 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, it's the navy blue suburban. 07:29.442 --> 07:30.162 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 07:30.222 --> 07:31.003 [SPEAKER_00]: That's mine. 07:31.483 --> 07:32.323 [SPEAKER_00]: That's mine. 07:33.063 --> 07:35.684 [SPEAKER_00]: But I, oh my gosh, do you know what I did the other day? 07:36.404 --> 07:39.025 [SPEAKER_00]: You're going to be, you're going to be like Angela, that's disgusting. 07:39.845 --> 07:42.086 [SPEAKER_00]: I got a salt and pepper for my console. 07:43.745 --> 07:45.728 [SPEAKER_01]: Are you, why are you eating in your corner? 07:45.748 --> 07:52.957 [SPEAKER_00]: No, but like the kids and I, we go to the store on our way to the beach, if I get like chicken salad or something, then it needs salt and pepper. 07:54.843 --> 07:56.744 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, I'm so scared. 07:56.924 --> 07:58.865 [SPEAKER_00]: My console has everything now. 07:59.205 --> 08:00.026 [SPEAKER_00]: It's got everything. 08:00.226 --> 08:01.046 [SPEAKER_00]: It's got nail glue. 08:01.086 --> 08:01.907 [SPEAKER_00]: It's got tweezers. 08:01.967 --> 08:03.187 [SPEAKER_00]: It's got a little vacuum cleaner. 08:03.247 --> 08:03.988 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a garbage can. 08:04.008 --> 08:06.009 [SPEAKER_00]: It has an umbrella as a spare deodorant. 08:06.029 --> 08:06.869 [SPEAKER_00]: It has salt and pepper. 08:06.889 --> 08:10.171 [SPEAKER_00]: I have everything you could need. 08:10.671 --> 08:13.373 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like a little old lady with hankies and her sleeve. 08:14.113 --> 08:14.433 [UNKNOWN]: Yeah. 08:14.493 --> 08:14.813 [UNKNOWN]: Yeah. 08:17.535 --> 08:18.475 [SPEAKER_00]: It's so great. 08:18.675 --> 08:19.736 [SPEAKER_00]: I've got plastic forks. 08:19.756 --> 08:20.556 [SPEAKER_00]: Who needs a fork? 08:21.197 --> 08:21.437 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 08:22.960 --> 08:23.520 [SPEAKER_01]: We'll listen. 08:24.481 --> 08:26.823 [SPEAKER_01]: I know we're not supposed to be materialistic. 08:26.903 --> 08:28.644 [SPEAKER_00]: And like, I love my trust. 08:28.824 --> 08:35.689 [SPEAKER_01]: I, if you be materialistic for a long time, you know, we've, we, Angela, and I, we've had a history with cards. 08:35.909 --> 08:36.249 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 08:36.349 --> 08:42.593 [SPEAKER_00]: We are not, we've had a history with, specifically, we have had a history with rust and duct tape. 08:43.234 --> 08:43.654 [SPEAKER_00]: Duck tape. 08:43.834 --> 08:45.055 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 08:45.155 --> 08:47.016 [SPEAKER_01]: Go back and listen to the episodes about that time. 08:47.036 --> 08:51.019 [SPEAKER_01]: I was driving down the highway with two little kids in my sliver door on my van, flew open. 08:54.521 --> 09:04.444 [SPEAKER_01]: I, I, we about a new to us car in February, I, every time I get in it, I just am like, Lord, thank you. 09:04.564 --> 09:08.266 [SPEAKER_01]: No, for really love having this car. 09:08.586 --> 09:09.486 [SPEAKER_00]: That's how I feel. 09:09.726 --> 09:11.727 [SPEAKER_00]: I, I told the kids were like, Mom, it's, oh, sorry. 09:12.467 --> 09:14.308 [SPEAKER_00]: Mom, it's so nice that you, because I'm always dressed. 09:14.328 --> 09:16.008 [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm like, I'm always dressed. 09:16.028 --> 09:17.909 [SPEAKER_00]: So nice to see you get out of the vehicle and like, 09:18.169 --> 09:30.678 [SPEAKER_00]: The vehicle matches you now, like, yeah, like this, total rust bucket, but I got like Persian rug floor mats and mine came with those rubber floor mats like those really nice ones everywhere. 09:30.999 --> 09:34.922 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, every other because I use it, you know, it's like my house. 09:34.942 --> 09:36.062 [SPEAKER_00]: It gets used really hard. 09:36.082 --> 09:46.210 [SPEAKER_00]: I have the big beach wagon in the back and my paddle board and that's beach umbrella and wet towels, blah, blah, blah, but every other day I take out my leaf blower and I just 09:46.470 --> 09:52.418 [SPEAKER_00]: flow all the sand out and I have little wipes in the console with my salt and pepper and I wipe the dashboard down. 09:52.438 --> 09:52.498 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 09:54.140 --> 09:55.342 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, I just love it. 09:55.843 --> 10:01.010 [SPEAKER_01]: If I'm having a beautiful organized purse, you're like, I'm a better person. 10:02.205 --> 10:02.946 [SPEAKER_00]: because of this. 10:03.206 --> 10:03.367 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 10:03.407 --> 10:04.629 [SPEAKER_01]: I can do my job better. 10:04.849 --> 10:05.670 [SPEAKER_01]: I feel better. 10:06.371 --> 10:07.573 [SPEAKER_00]: Can we talk about that per second? 10:07.853 --> 10:09.996 [SPEAKER_00]: Because I think it kind of has to do with today's topic. 10:10.016 --> 10:11.498 [SPEAKER_00]: We're going to talk about making our homes lovely. 10:11.518 --> 10:17.407 [SPEAKER_00]: But you guys, I have I will confess like I have lived most of my adult life with a messy vehicle. 10:19.480 --> 10:38.357 [SPEAKER_00]: So I buy used vehicles and I always say like okay, this is the one I'm going to keep clean and it lasts about 23 minutes and I don't know if it's just like a phase of life with kids or whatever but I do feel like I'm up and over that feeling I am now a better person and this dumb truck. 10:39.638 --> 10:43.779 [SPEAKER_00]: Speaking of being materialistic, we got a black suburban. 10:43.979 --> 10:47.380 [SPEAKER_00]: Black used suburban, like, I don't know, like a 2012. 10:47.980 --> 10:49.560 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, it was old. 10:49.900 --> 10:51.021 [SPEAKER_00]: Right when we started to show. 10:52.381 --> 10:54.781 [SPEAKER_00]: And I don't know if I've said this on the show. 10:54.801 --> 10:58.722 [SPEAKER_00]: Like the next day, I saw that Chevy made a navy blue suburban. 10:58.782 --> 11:00.142 [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't even know that was an option. 11:00.242 --> 11:06.424 [SPEAKER_00]: And I have spent the duration of the Home Maker Sheet Podcast coveting a navy blue suburban. 11:07.725 --> 11:12.810 [SPEAKER_00]: So I am just elated to have this stupid vehicle. 11:13.651 --> 11:15.052 [SPEAKER_00]: So we're talking about making things lovely. 11:15.072 --> 11:17.795 [SPEAKER_00]: And I am enjoying keeping it lovely. 11:18.115 --> 11:22.980 [SPEAKER_00]: And listening to Gwen Stefani on car play brings me so much pleasure. 11:23.541 --> 11:26.924 [SPEAKER_00]: Just instead of having it playing on my phone sitting next to me. 11:28.005 --> 11:28.886 [SPEAKER_00]: I can't even tell you. 11:30.947 --> 11:42.755 [SPEAKER_00]: As far as Perse's go, I'm a little bit of a situation with the Perse's because I have my crossbody, I have my like Italian one that's like orange leather, and I have my big one that I sell in my shop. 11:42.795 --> 11:45.757 [SPEAKER_00]: This is Portimoire, which is death store in French. 11:47.258 --> 11:56.705 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, which is why it's called Door County, uh, I'm mainly gave me this idea the other day about a purse, sorry, a purse bowl. 11:56.826 --> 11:58.747 [SPEAKER_00]: Have you seen this purse bowl idea? 11:59.728 --> 12:00.508 [SPEAKER_00]: No, okay. 12:01.169 --> 12:09.375 [SPEAKER_00]: She said she saw this old lady on Instagram has this big bowl in her kitchen or her, uh, boot room like at the exit, a big bowl. 12:10.096 --> 12:11.717 [SPEAKER_00]: And that's where she dumps her purse. 12:13.107 --> 12:17.551 [SPEAKER_00]: And so then, depending on what purse she's carrying that day, she picks out what she needs. 12:18.692 --> 12:20.893 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's just, she calls it her purse bowl. 12:21.774 --> 12:23.696 [SPEAKER_01]: And I thought that was a pretty big bowl. 12:23.716 --> 12:34.264 [SPEAKER_00]: And I would have to be a big bowl, but I thought it was an excellent idea because I'm always swapping, like if I want to just like go casual, then I've got my crossbody, if I'm going to the pig or whatever, and if I've gotten out fit on, then I have my orange one. 12:35.005 --> 12:37.067 [SPEAKER_00]: If I'm going to the beach, then I have my beach one. 12:37.667 --> 12:39.909 [SPEAKER_00]: So how is that different than like a coat rack or something? 12:40.958 --> 12:54.548 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, because you can see it, all your your purse contents stay in the bowl and then depending on what purse you're using that day, like, and I'm during the summer, I'm definitely more like fluid with my person's and the winter is just one. 12:55.967 --> 13:06.275 [SPEAKER_00]: but between beach bag and like running to a garage sale or, you know, or having a proper outfit on then I'm like, oh, where's my earpods and my lip gloss and where's that lip gloss? 13:06.295 --> 13:08.197 [SPEAKER_00]: Which bag did I put it in, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 13:08.918 --> 13:12.300 [SPEAKER_00]: So I loved this idea of a purse, a purse, a purse, all. 13:12.881 --> 13:16.083 [SPEAKER_00]: The other day, I did have said crossbody on. 13:17.024 --> 13:18.045 [SPEAKER_00]: and a cute outfit. 13:18.565 --> 13:20.167 [SPEAKER_00]: After church, we came home. 13:20.267 --> 13:22.188 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to go into town and get us some coffees. 13:22.749 --> 13:26.152 [SPEAKER_00]: So I pull up and it's like this big hill in town. 13:26.372 --> 13:32.037 [SPEAKER_00]: I pull up and I wear a lot of bracelets and my bangle falls off on the highway. 13:33.097 --> 13:35.039 [SPEAKER_00]: So I bend down, jump out of the car. 13:35.099 --> 13:36.040 [SPEAKER_00]: I look for traffic. 13:36.100 --> 13:37.861 [SPEAKER_00]: I bend down to pick up my bangle. 13:38.081 --> 13:41.304 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm really irritated that the stupid thing keeps falling off. 13:47.070 --> 13:49.174 [SPEAKER_00]: And it spilled all over the highway. 13:50.135 --> 13:54.644 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, on a Sunday afternoon in Door County, okay, this is a big deal. 13:54.884 --> 13:55.706 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm scrambling. 13:55.806 --> 13:57.128 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm trying not to get run over. 13:57.289 --> 13:58.210 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm picking everything up. 13:59.490 --> 14:02.172 [SPEAKER_00]: very agitated, go and get two coffees, take them back to Joel. 14:02.692 --> 14:11.338 [SPEAKER_00]: The next morning, I get up super early, and I go, this hill is part of my workout, and I should have had my purse bulk, because I'm like, where are my air pods? 14:11.818 --> 14:12.799 [SPEAKER_00]: I can only find one. 14:13.259 --> 14:15.121 [SPEAKER_00]: I can find the one that's at my right ear. 14:15.181 --> 14:16.802 [SPEAKER_00]: My right ear is my hearing loss ear. 14:16.842 --> 14:17.582 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not my good one. 14:17.822 --> 14:18.643 [SPEAKER_00]: I love my left ear. 14:19.363 --> 14:21.485 [SPEAKER_00]: I cannot find my left air pod. 14:22.986 --> 14:24.227 [SPEAKER_00]: So I use the find my app. 14:24.407 --> 14:27.609 [SPEAKER_00]: It says it's where I drop my purse. 14:29.470 --> 14:30.511 [SPEAKER_01]: got to be kidding me. 14:31.011 --> 14:31.852 [SPEAKER_00]: But it's got a signal. 14:31.872 --> 14:35.415 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, okay, maybe it's just right in the gutter or maybe the coffee shop has it. 14:35.715 --> 14:36.216 [SPEAKER_00]: Wonderful. 14:36.896 --> 14:37.757 [SPEAKER_00]: So I go over there. 14:37.917 --> 14:38.558 [SPEAKER_00]: It's got a signal. 14:38.598 --> 14:39.218 [SPEAKER_00]: It's got a signal. 14:39.258 --> 14:41.880 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like using it, you know, trying to find it, trying to find it. 14:42.801 --> 14:47.245 [SPEAKER_00]: Sure enough, there it is just flat end in the middle of the highway. 14:47.265 --> 14:48.766 [SPEAKER_01]: I like it. 14:50.339 --> 14:51.039 [SPEAKER_00]: of course it is. 14:51.099 --> 14:52.560 [SPEAKER_00]: My left air pod. 14:52.780 --> 15:00.105 [SPEAKER_00]: So now if you see me on my walks at I've 30 in the morning you'll see up my right one like contorted in my left ear. 15:00.485 --> 15:01.706 [SPEAKER_01]: No, that's Barbara. 15:01.806 --> 15:02.807 [SPEAKER_00]: I can't at my right. 15:03.087 --> 15:05.068 [SPEAKER_00]: It's sounds terrible in my right ear. 15:05.248 --> 15:06.149 [SPEAKER_01]: You got to go buy a new one. 15:06.189 --> 15:09.471 [SPEAKER_00]: I know, but that's 40 minutes away and 200 dollars. 15:10.291 --> 15:10.531 [SPEAKER_00]: I know. 15:10.551 --> 15:11.152 [SPEAKER_00]: So here we are. 15:12.192 --> 15:12.653 [SPEAKER_00]: Here we are. 15:13.373 --> 15:13.653 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 15:13.693 --> 15:14.494 [SPEAKER_00]: Vue Lepers bowl. 15:17.456 --> 15:24.601 [SPEAKER_01]: I have a crossbody, and my car that I got is a lot smaller, so I have a pathfinder, any sun pathfinder. 15:25.181 --> 15:29.264 [SPEAKER_01]: And I, from a suburban, I had a Chevy suburban for 13 years. 15:29.284 --> 15:32.487 [SPEAKER_01]: We still have it, it's George's car now, which is a great first car. 15:32.507 --> 15:32.867 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:32.887 --> 15:33.267 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:33.287 --> 15:33.648 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a great car. 15:33.668 --> 15:34.969 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a great car. 15:34.989 --> 15:35.669 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a great car. 15:35.769 --> 15:36.470 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a great car. 15:36.530 --> 15:37.170 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:37.190 --> 15:37.731 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a great car. 15:38.331 --> 15:39.192 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:40.713 --> 15:41.173 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:41.413 --> 15:42.134 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:42.154 --> 15:42.734 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:42.754 --> 15:43.495 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:44.075 --> 15:44.516 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:44.536 --> 15:44.936 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:44.976 --> 15:45.556 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:45.576 --> 15:46.017 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great car. 15:47.116 --> 15:51.482 [SPEAKER_01]: I love having a cross-spotty because when you get in, you don't need to find a place to put your purse. 15:51.722 --> 15:52.943 [SPEAKER_01]: It's just on you. 15:53.224 --> 15:53.384 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 15:53.444 --> 15:56.908 [SPEAKER_01]: I got a lip gloss, my keys, my wallet, like very, very simple. 15:57.689 --> 15:58.991 [SPEAKER_01]: And so it's just on you. 15:59.131 --> 16:03.997 [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm telling you what, I feel like this is the biggest luxury that I get in with my cross-spotty. 16:04.017 --> 16:05.619 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't have to find a spot to put my purse in like. 16:06.232 --> 16:20.755 [SPEAKER_01]: I got two hands, B, do whatever I want, and my car has apple car play, like my suburban had a CD player, and so I get in here, and it connects to my phone, right? 16:20.775 --> 16:25.416 [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, hey, Siri, you know, text inch, I'm just driving down the road. 16:25.536 --> 16:26.436 [SPEAKER_01]: What do you want to say to 16:32.654 --> 16:35.595 [SPEAKER_01]: It says, hey girl, I'm heading into town, I called you. 16:36.015 --> 16:36.435 [SPEAKER_01]: What's up? 16:36.895 --> 16:37.815 [SPEAKER_01]: Do you like to send it? 16:37.835 --> 16:38.736 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, yes, please. 16:39.556 --> 16:43.477 [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like sending to Rich's person in the world. 16:43.497 --> 16:46.998 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't say if I was a rich girl, it's like I don't think I know. 16:47.018 --> 16:47.838 [SPEAKER_00]: I know. 16:47.858 --> 16:54.040 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like so funny just when you've been driving something that's like a little bit more. 16:55.342 --> 16:55.742 [SPEAKER_00]: whatever. 16:56.323 --> 17:01.346 [SPEAKER_01]: Like my rustic, rustic, patina, patina, shabby cheek. 17:02.146 --> 17:06.168 [SPEAKER_01]: We say, we don't say, we say as the patina of a bygone era. 17:06.188 --> 17:09.831 [SPEAKER_00]: I knew you were going to say that. 17:10.551 --> 17:17.115 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my gosh, Shay, somebody came in the store the other day and she made the mistake of mentioning she loves that movie. 17:17.937 --> 17:20.039 [SPEAKER_00]: and I made such an idiot out of myself. 17:20.819 --> 17:23.101 [SPEAKER_01]: I busted out my phone and I'm like, here's me at the house. 17:23.441 --> 17:24.642 [SPEAKER_01]: No, no, no, no, no, no. 17:25.062 --> 17:30.706 [SPEAKER_00]: And then I took over to my table because I have a quimparadou bottle of wine like on the table and look, it's a real bottle. 17:30.786 --> 17:33.188 [SPEAKER_00]: She's like, oh my gosh, I should anything. 17:33.348 --> 17:34.289 [SPEAKER_00]: I know, I regret. 17:34.849 --> 17:35.670 [SPEAKER_01]: I am beautiful. 17:36.310 --> 17:44.532 [SPEAKER_01]: When I tell people I love that movie, they think, oh, casually, and I'm like, no, because I'll quote it, which is this used to be a big thing back in the day. 17:44.572 --> 17:49.233 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, we used to quote movies because you watched them over, over, over, over. 17:49.253 --> 17:52.633 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, people don't really do that so much anymore because there's so much available. 17:53.274 --> 17:54.634 [SPEAKER_01]: But like I quote a good year. 17:54.654 --> 17:59.075 [SPEAKER_01]: So like, I cater, oh, I went to the bank to get euros for my trip. 17:59.395 --> 17:59.535 [SPEAKER_01]: Mm. 18:00.682 --> 18:20.382 [SPEAKER_01]: and I came out and I was talking to this dude and I just go, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money, money 18:22.487 --> 18:23.207 [SPEAKER_00]: Is that a way? 18:23.267 --> 18:35.131 [SPEAKER_00]: That's gotta be why we, you know, that's interesting because I can't think of like popular movies like even from the last 10 years, they get quote, there's no cultural, there's no cultural coding of movies anymore. 18:35.551 --> 18:37.812 [SPEAKER_00]: Everything I think is 20 years old. 18:38.072 --> 18:40.293 [SPEAKER_00]: Now that you say it, oh my gosh. 18:40.693 --> 18:42.174 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, people don't do it anymore. 18:42.594 --> 18:45.695 [SPEAKER_01]: They don't realize like, we used to have to make a movie last for, 18:47.045 --> 18:49.646 [SPEAKER_01]: three or four years until like the next week. 18:49.666 --> 18:50.727 [SPEAKER_01]: So quote, dumb and dumber. 18:51.327 --> 18:51.787 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, yeah. 18:52.007 --> 18:57.390 [SPEAKER_01]: Are you because it was such a cultural thing and a stu grew up in Georgia. 18:57.530 --> 19:00.711 [SPEAKER_01]: I grew up in Washington and we're we're quoting the same movie. 19:00.731 --> 19:06.174 [SPEAKER_01]: Like there was a cultural narrative that's spanned across time and space. 19:07.119 --> 19:08.279 [SPEAKER_01]: those don't really exist anymore. 19:08.439 --> 19:09.620 [SPEAKER_01]: We've lost our cultural. 19:09.960 --> 19:11.220 [SPEAKER_01]: We've done the same thing with music. 19:11.460 --> 19:12.780 [SPEAKER_01]: We can all sing Whitney Houston. 19:12.800 --> 19:13.060 [SPEAKER_01]: Why? 19:13.140 --> 19:14.641 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, because that's what was on the radio. 19:15.301 --> 19:16.821 [SPEAKER_01]: That's what was on the late night shows. 19:17.281 --> 19:19.662 [SPEAKER_01]: Now, everything's so customizable. 19:19.702 --> 19:22.142 [SPEAKER_01]: We've lost the universal language. 19:22.942 --> 19:23.963 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a real shame. 19:24.363 --> 19:26.343 [SPEAKER_01]: In one sense, you get to listen to exactly what you want. 19:26.363 --> 19:28.223 [SPEAKER_01]: You don't have to listen to. 19:28.243 --> 19:29.624 [SPEAKER_01]: You don't like her. 19:30.264 --> 19:33.224 [SPEAKER_01]: In the other sense, in the other lane, we've really lost 19:36.365 --> 19:37.886 [SPEAKER_00]: Huh, I never thought about that. 19:38.266 --> 19:39.066 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. 19:39.086 --> 19:40.467 [SPEAKER_01]: We talk about it all the time. 19:41.087 --> 19:51.131 [SPEAKER_01]: We talk about it all the time because shows, we talk about like, what was the last show that made it into the, like, we're all kind of experiencing this together. 19:52.011 --> 19:53.912 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, like, do you remember the show boy meets world? 19:54.693 --> 19:55.693 [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't like that show. 19:55.973 --> 19:58.054 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, well, that was like, but like, TGIS. 19:59.546 --> 20:02.687 [SPEAKER_01]: was like a, it was a big thing when I was, then goodness is Friday, right? 20:02.707 --> 20:06.269 [SPEAKER_01]: So it was like four shows back to back that they would air on prime time. 20:06.309 --> 20:10.470 [SPEAKER_01]: And like, we would get groups of people together to watch TGIF. 20:10.830 --> 20:12.151 [SPEAKER_00]: But you're younger than me. 20:12.571 --> 20:15.432 [SPEAKER_00]: I know it's watching friends in Fraser on Thursdays. 20:16.212 --> 20:16.892 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, yeah. 20:17.213 --> 20:23.995 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, friends was a little bit before me, although I will say, I mean, it was very, it's still an inappropriate show. 20:24.475 --> 20:25.055 [SPEAKER_01]: Unbularly. 20:25.075 --> 20:25.796 [SPEAKER_01]: Evo, believe so. 20:26.176 --> 20:26.856 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, okay. 20:29.731 --> 20:56.162 [SPEAKER_01]: I watched it on the plane right back from Italy and I was laughing my face off that show is so funny it's so funny I'm sorry you totally have my wheels spinning on like the movies thing What movie in the last five years have you rewatched 20:57.818 --> 20:59.019 [SPEAKER_00]: in the last five years? 20:59.379 --> 20:59.639 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 21:00.139 --> 21:03.041 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, when that's come out in the last five years that you've rewatched. 21:06.963 --> 21:08.043 [SPEAKER_00]: I couldn't tell you. 21:08.183 --> 21:13.826 [SPEAKER_00]: Anything I'm rewatching, like the last 10 years or so, is like Jane Aust, like a drama. 21:15.667 --> 21:15.867 [SPEAKER_00]: But, 21:17.902 --> 21:20.383 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, I don't know where. 21:21.043 --> 21:23.765 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that's like the only thing I watch is like drama. 21:23.785 --> 21:29.327 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like my family, the kids in Joel, like they do the Marvel Spider-Man stuff. 21:29.587 --> 21:30.848 [SPEAKER_01]: They love Spider-Man. 21:32.068 --> 21:33.489 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I love Spider-Man. 21:33.569 --> 21:33.809 [SPEAKER_00]: Love. 21:34.009 --> 21:35.730 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like Toby McGuire is Spider-Man. 21:36.290 --> 21:39.231 [SPEAKER_01]: That's the only Spider-Man that has ever been and will ever be. 21:39.271 --> 21:41.792 [SPEAKER_00]: That's how I'm like with Batman, Christian Bale. 21:42.512 --> 21:43.613 [SPEAKER_01]: Christian Bale is Batman. 21:44.272 --> 21:45.613 [SPEAKER_00]: That's the end of the story. 21:46.253 --> 21:46.974 [SPEAKER_01]: Exactly. 21:48.054 --> 21:48.454 [SPEAKER_01]: That's it. 21:48.795 --> 21:49.395 [SPEAKER_01]: Exactly. 21:49.675 --> 21:51.176 [SPEAKER_01]: And Daniel Craig is James Bond. 21:51.196 --> 21:52.437 [SPEAKER_00]: Daniel Craig is James Bond. 21:52.577 --> 21:56.079 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my gosh, don't get me started on who they're looking at for the next James Bond. 21:56.159 --> 21:56.539 [SPEAKER_01]: Idris? 21:56.799 --> 21:57.299 [SPEAKER_01]: What was his name? 21:57.339 --> 21:57.960 [SPEAKER_01]: Idris Alba. 21:58.180 --> 21:59.501 [SPEAKER_01]: He should be the next James Bond. 21:59.521 --> 21:59.681 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes. 21:59.841 --> 22:00.541 [SPEAKER_00]: Idris Alba? 22:00.882 --> 22:01.062 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 22:01.622 --> 22:02.042 [SPEAKER_00]: I can see that. 22:02.062 --> 22:03.083 [SPEAKER_00]: I think we've talked about him. 22:03.803 --> 22:06.765 [SPEAKER_00]: But the other ones, I don't think I don't even know if he's a contender anymore. 22:07.625 --> 22:08.306 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, he should be. 22:08.766 --> 22:09.286 [UNKNOWN]: He should be. 22:10.587 --> 22:11.047 [SPEAKER_01]: He should be. 22:11.388 --> 22:12.048 [SPEAKER_01]: He's amazing. 22:13.665 --> 22:14.386 [SPEAKER_01]: He's an amazing actor. 22:14.406 --> 22:15.848 [SPEAKER_01]: I've no idea what he's like, it's a person. 22:17.529 --> 22:18.070 [UNKNOWN]: But. 22:20.112 --> 22:22.435 [SPEAKER_01]: No, I love rewatching movies. 22:22.655 --> 22:26.620 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't, but only I only rewatch like four. 22:28.462 --> 22:31.205 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, I rewatch Muffett's Christmas Carol. 22:31.686 --> 22:32.927 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my gosh. 22:34.795 --> 22:37.076 [SPEAKER_01]: I could always watch a Muppet's Christmas Carol. 22:38.516 --> 22:44.397 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm getting me so much. 22:45.077 --> 22:50.218 [SPEAKER_00]: You guys, if you don't know this about Shay, she hates this album of music. 22:50.779 --> 22:54.659 [SPEAKER_00]: But now you know, she loves the Muppet's Christmas Carol. 22:54.739 --> 22:59.860 [SPEAKER_01]: I have seen the Muppet's Christmas Carol a hundred times and I have yet to not cry when 23:02.873 --> 23:06.055 [SPEAKER_01]: they project into the future and tiny Tim dies. 23:06.515 --> 23:07.215 [SPEAKER_01]: But it's Carmen. 23:07.856 --> 23:08.796 [SPEAKER_00]: We'll baby Carmen. 23:14.659 --> 23:15.320 [SPEAKER_01]: You've got mail. 23:16.781 --> 23:18.301 [SPEAKER_01]: Yep, just tops tops. 23:18.321 --> 23:19.402 [SPEAKER_01]: I know that's yours for me. 23:19.442 --> 23:20.743 [SPEAKER_01]: I still have only seen that like once. 23:21.823 --> 23:22.964 [SPEAKER_01]: And, and a good year. 23:23.024 --> 23:25.285 [SPEAKER_01]: Those are really the only movies that I will rewatch. 23:25.725 --> 23:26.726 [SPEAKER_00]: Not dirty rotten scoundrels. 23:28.218 --> 23:29.899 [SPEAKER_01]: No, I'll rewatch dirty dancing. 23:30.059 --> 23:31.340 [SPEAKER_01]: That's, I will show you a free phrase. 23:31.400 --> 23:34.021 [SPEAKER_01]: But I have a hard time with that one since Patrick Swayzee died because. 23:34.302 --> 23:37.023 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it's a, it's a so bittersweet. 23:37.703 --> 23:40.725 [SPEAKER_00]: 30 rat and scoundrels is like a every 18 month during this house. 23:40.965 --> 23:42.706 [SPEAKER_00]: We just, as a family, I don't know. 23:42.726 --> 23:43.207 [SPEAKER_00]: Labyrinth. 23:43.547 --> 23:43.827 [SPEAKER_00]: Shay. 23:45.343 --> 23:46.984 [SPEAKER_00]: it's perfection. 23:47.004 --> 23:48.145 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 23:48.825 --> 23:49.106 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 23:49.546 --> 23:50.507 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, to my left. 23:50.527 --> 23:51.167 [SPEAKER_00]: You had to watch that. 23:51.347 --> 23:53.268 [SPEAKER_00]: I can't believe I'm interested in that movie. 23:53.409 --> 23:53.769 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 23:54.129 --> 23:55.650 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 23:55.950 --> 24:03.455 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm in a deep, I'm deep into like the soccer documentary world right now. 24:03.736 --> 24:06.557 [SPEAKER_01]: Stuart was just like, you got to dial it back a little 24:08.385 --> 24:15.129 [SPEAKER_01]: I talked about last episode about the cage stage of like when I had babies and was like doing all this, I'm in the cage stage of soccer right now. 24:16.750 --> 24:17.911 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm in the deep cage stage. 24:17.951 --> 24:23.314 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, there's one person all allowed myself to text about it because otherwise I might come on too strong. 24:23.755 --> 24:24.815 [SPEAKER_01]: That's so funny. 24:26.296 --> 24:27.837 [SPEAKER_00]: It's freaking fun. 24:28.258 --> 24:28.838 [SPEAKER_00]: It's so. 24:31.048 --> 24:32.708 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, oh, this is why this is the thing. 24:34.689 --> 24:43.911 [SPEAKER_00]: That's like, okay, so my friend Mary Kate, she's like, for years, she's like, Ted Lazo this, Ted Lazo that, Ted Lazo this, what is Ted Lazo? 24:43.971 --> 24:44.811 [SPEAKER_00]: Is it a person? 24:44.931 --> 24:46.031 [SPEAKER_00]: Is it a fictional person? 24:46.071 --> 24:47.071 [SPEAKER_00]: Is it a fictional person? 24:47.091 --> 24:50.472 [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm just like, gosh, what is this Ted Lazo? 24:50.492 --> 24:58.254 [SPEAKER_00]: She's always yacking about, and I wasn't like not in a derogatory way, but I'm like, gosh, like this is, she loves him. 24:59.234 --> 25:01.035 [SPEAKER_00]: And then last year, I'm like, okay, fine. 25:01.595 --> 25:01.876 [SPEAKER_00]: Fine. 25:02.076 --> 25:02.676 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm watching it. 25:04.157 --> 25:05.177 [SPEAKER_00]: Brilliant. 25:06.078 --> 25:07.138 [SPEAKER_00]: Just brilliant. 25:08.099 --> 25:08.679 [SPEAKER_00]: British. 25:09.280 --> 25:10.000 [SPEAKER_00]: There's your clue. 25:10.260 --> 25:11.361 [SPEAKER_00]: Don't watch it with kids around. 25:12.021 --> 25:12.761 [SPEAKER_01]: But yeah. 25:13.462 --> 25:14.302 [SPEAKER_01]: But football. 25:14.322 --> 25:15.243 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, you should watch it. 25:16.103 --> 25:16.363 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 25:16.684 --> 25:17.304 [SPEAKER_01]: You have no Ted. 25:17.684 --> 25:18.344 [SPEAKER_01]: I saw it somewhere. 25:18.485 --> 25:20.125 [SPEAKER_01]: And I was like, what is Ted Lasso? 25:20.225 --> 25:20.866 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, what is? 25:21.166 --> 25:22.447 [SPEAKER_01]: What am I missing out on? 25:23.474 --> 25:28.077 [SPEAKER_00]: So in the world cup, during half a time, you were kind of lost when he came out and that it mean anything. 25:28.097 --> 25:31.439 [SPEAKER_01]: We fast forward and came out because we it aired when we were in church. 25:31.519 --> 25:32.559 [SPEAKER_01]: So we were quiet. 25:32.639 --> 25:32.880 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 25:33.580 --> 25:34.060 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 25:34.340 --> 25:35.541 [SPEAKER_01]: And I hate Madonna. 25:36.282 --> 25:37.642 [SPEAKER_01]: So fast forward. 25:39.123 --> 25:42.385 [SPEAKER_00]: She was only on there for like did watch a second or so. 25:42.825 --> 25:43.065 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 25:43.666 --> 25:45.167 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, he was part of the Ted Lasso. 25:45.507 --> 25:45.667 [SPEAKER_00]: So. 25:48.122 --> 25:57.348 [SPEAKER_00]: So there was like a little play on words with the leave and the Justin Bieber and yeah, the Hallelujah was the song he said. 25:57.368 --> 25:59.050 [SPEAKER_01]: That's what I saw him sing on his guitar. 26:00.050 --> 26:01.251 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, World Cup Hallelujah. 26:01.311 --> 26:01.872 [SPEAKER_00]: You know what I mean? 26:02.492 --> 26:03.673 [SPEAKER_01]: Right, right, right. 26:06.455 --> 26:07.296 [SPEAKER_01]: What are we talking about? 26:07.536 --> 26:07.976 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. 26:08.276 --> 26:08.857 [UNKNOWN]: First bulls. 26:09.137 --> 26:09.818 [SPEAKER_00]: First bulls. 26:10.418 --> 26:11.199 [SPEAKER_00]: First bulls. 26:12.399 --> 26:12.820 [SPEAKER_00]: First bulls. 26:12.860 --> 26:15.121 [SPEAKER_01]: First bulls and clean cars to be my gosh. 26:16.168 --> 26:19.570 [SPEAKER_00]: My mom gave me the idea to use a leaf blower 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29:15.525 --> 29:18.426 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm 64 raised my three kids as a stay-at-home mom. 29:18.606 --> 29:22.328 [SPEAKER_00]: Went to nursing school at 45, began running at 49. 29:22.468 --> 29:27.330 [SPEAKER_00]: I completed seven marathons over nine years with four being the Boston. 29:27.950 --> 29:32.072 [SPEAKER_00]: I now still run a couple days, but have begun more strength training to build muscle. 29:32.352 --> 29:35.514 [SPEAKER_00]: I am currently doing Gordon Ramsay Masterclass to skill up on cooking. 29:35.694 --> 29:36.834 [SPEAKER_00]: Love the show, cheers. 29:38.055 --> 29:39.816 [SPEAKER_01]: Gloria, this is amazing! 29:41.170 --> 29:44.491 [SPEAKER_01]: My gosh, she began running at 49. 29:44.531 --> 29:47.092 [SPEAKER_01]: That's when a lot of people are like, my knees are done. 29:47.112 --> 29:47.812 [SPEAKER_01]: The old's in. 29:47.872 --> 29:48.633 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, the old's in. 29:49.133 --> 29:49.913 [SPEAKER_00]: The old's in. 29:50.533 --> 29:51.394 [SPEAKER_00]: Wow. 29:53.214 --> 29:54.475 [SPEAKER_00]: That's just fantastic. 29:55.035 --> 29:56.135 [SPEAKER_01]: I love this Gloria. 29:56.435 --> 29:57.716 [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you for that encouragement. 29:58.656 --> 30:00.377 [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe someday I'll be able to do a push-up. 30:04.234 --> 30:05.355 [SPEAKER_01]: You can do a push-up. 30:06.495 --> 30:08.556 [SPEAKER_01]: It's really hard for me to do a push-up. 30:08.916 --> 30:09.237 [SPEAKER_00]: Really? 30:09.277 --> 30:10.297 [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm strong. 30:10.597 --> 30:12.178 [SPEAKER_00]: That's a problem. 30:13.279 --> 30:14.279 [SPEAKER_00]: Not out like eight. 30:15.340 --> 30:16.380 [SPEAKER_01]: He can't knock out. 30:16.720 --> 30:17.621 [SPEAKER_00]: I can't stand. 30:17.681 --> 30:23.364 [SPEAKER_00]: Look, I gave you lots of cred last week for being able to go from sitting cross-legged to standing. 30:23.604 --> 30:25.785 [SPEAKER_00]: I cannot do that at all. 30:26.505 --> 30:28.447 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, hmm, y'all have our strengths. 30:29.388 --> 30:31.370 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, let's go to Morrently on it. 30:31.490 --> 30:37.036 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, I loved hearing you talk about ballots with food priorities in the last episode. 30:37.557 --> 30:46.827 [SPEAKER_01]: I I have a toddler and a baby and have tried to accept that at this time in our family's life we are quote 30:47.607 --> 30:51.928 [SPEAKER_01]: or doing quote, best I can, not quote, best there is. 30:52.908 --> 30:56.889 [SPEAKER_01]: Morgan, I love this and this is something I've said for a really long time. 30:57.289 --> 31:00.590 [SPEAKER_01]: We're doing the best we can with what we have where we are. 31:02.470 --> 31:09.752 [SPEAKER_01]: Because what you can see is you see the best there is, especially in today's culture with social media and all this kind of stuff. 31:09.992 --> 31:14.853 [SPEAKER_01]: You see the best there is and then you think, well, what's I can't do that or you live in constant. 31:16.192 --> 31:24.939 [SPEAKER_01]: self-deprecation or frustration or whatever it is because live in the shadows of what you have exposure to is what happens. 31:25.219 --> 31:27.181 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, right. 31:27.501 --> 31:32.185 [SPEAKER_01]: Or you see, you know, somebody writing a marathon on social media and like, well, I can't do that. 31:32.205 --> 31:33.666 [SPEAKER_01]: So I might as well not do anything. 31:33.986 --> 31:35.707 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I'll never be able to do that. 31:37.249 --> 31:40.631 [SPEAKER_01]: Which this best I can is so meaningful. 31:40.671 --> 31:44.574 [SPEAKER_01]: And by the way, this can change from season to season year to year day to day. 31:46.707 --> 31:47.628 [SPEAKER_01]: day to day. 31:47.648 --> 31:49.029 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 31:50.290 --> 31:55.875 [SPEAKER_01]: So I asked Angela to talk about the home today because I was sharing with her before we recorded. 31:55.955 --> 32:05.683 [SPEAKER_01]: So we're having to pre-record some of these episodes because I'm in Italy and then like the day I get back to go to France. 32:06.183 --> 32:09.466 [SPEAKER_01]: And so there was just some recording time issues. 32:11.823 --> 32:19.086 [SPEAKER_01]: And what I was telling her is, it's really tricky to get that like, let's just call it like a home high. 32:19.106 --> 32:26.668 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, it's really hard to get that home high when you're sort of having to prepare to leave. 32:27.689 --> 32:34.651 [SPEAKER_01]: And so I've been feeling a little displaced, even in my own home lately, where normally you mopped the floor and whatever. 32:34.991 --> 32:39.093 [SPEAKER_01]: You put away the towels and you're like, yeah, girl, get it, love this, this feels so good. 32:42.177 --> 32:47.198 [SPEAKER_01]: it doesn't it's like not landing quite the same and I think it's just because there's a bunch of looming stuff. 32:47.958 --> 32:52.719 [SPEAKER_01]: I know somebody else is going to be staying here while we're gone so it just sort of feels a little bit off. 32:53.299 --> 32:53.559 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 32:54.340 --> 32:59.461 [SPEAKER_01]: But this idea of like best I can versus best there is. 33:00.621 --> 33:00.801 [SPEAKER_01]: Is. 33:00.821 --> 33:10.243 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, like that's exactly that hits it on that hits it on the head because you're really not letting yourself off the hook just saying look. 33:11.189 --> 33:12.210 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm triple timing work. 33:12.490 --> 33:15.532 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm preparing to take six people across the world. 33:16.173 --> 33:19.715 [SPEAKER_01]: The best I can right now looks a little bit different than the best there is. 33:20.175 --> 33:20.415 [SPEAKER_00]: Mm-hmm. 33:21.456 --> 33:22.537 [SPEAKER_00]: Significantly different. 33:22.737 --> 33:22.977 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 33:24.318 --> 33:24.899 [SPEAKER_01]: And that's okay. 33:25.259 --> 33:25.739 [SPEAKER_01]: That's okay. 33:27.220 --> 33:28.061 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I love that. 33:29.782 --> 33:30.042 [SPEAKER_01]: Um. 33:33.905 --> 33:35.326 [SPEAKER_01]: Here's one from fellow traveler. 33:35.870 --> 33:37.932 [SPEAKER_01]: Angela, a toe rope for your truck. 33:38.292 --> 33:41.055 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not sure what we were talking about. 33:41.215 --> 33:46.960 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, you need a toe rope because I did talk about maybe I talked about being tricked out. 33:48.681 --> 33:48.881 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 33:48.901 --> 33:52.104 [SPEAKER_00]: In another episode, like I've got emergency stuff in the back. 33:52.284 --> 33:55.527 [SPEAKER_00]: Remember I was talking about like women needing to be prepared for emergencies? 33:56.028 --> 33:56.668 [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe she's okay. 33:56.688 --> 33:56.928 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. 33:57.809 --> 33:58.430 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, okay. 33:58.450 --> 33:58.790 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 33:59.411 --> 34:21.371 [SPEAKER_01]: She also says I'm learning something in my fifties that you ladies mastered a bit younger learning to allow myself to be beautiful Not just useful making the appointments and doing some shopping would love another episode on where to find trusted sources and online shopping for clothes etc Six kids are launched and I'm doing some remodeling of myself Cool, that's that's really fun 34:24.657 --> 34:25.998 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not an online shopper. 34:26.078 --> 34:28.579 [SPEAKER_00]: I know you're way more of an online shopper than I am. 34:28.979 --> 34:29.520 [SPEAKER_00]: Way more. 34:29.660 --> 34:31.641 [SPEAKER_00]: I just don't have so many options. 34:31.721 --> 34:34.782 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I just don't have so many options here. 34:34.863 --> 34:39.205 [SPEAKER_01]: And I don't know if this is universal, but the clothing's like, we have it. 34:39.225 --> 34:42.307 [SPEAKER_01]: We do have a macy's here, okay? 34:42.727 --> 34:44.568 [SPEAKER_01]: Which is where I will typically go. 34:45.448 --> 34:50.691 [SPEAKER_01]: But like I went there to find a swimsuit because I don't want to online shop for a swimsuit. 34:51.111 --> 34:53.172 [SPEAKER_01]: There's a lot of pieces that need to fall together. 34:54.493 --> 34:57.035 [SPEAKER_00]: And they said, oh, well, we don't have swimsuits this year. 34:58.656 --> 34:58.896 [SPEAKER_01]: What? 34:59.517 --> 35:01.038 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, you're a clothing store. 35:01.058 --> 35:02.879 [SPEAKER_01]: What do you mean you don't have swimsuits? 35:03.359 --> 35:04.680 [SPEAKER_01]: You're a department store. 35:05.020 --> 35:09.643 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, you know, to a part- So my question to you is, in the department. 35:10.044 --> 35:17.188 [SPEAKER_01]: Have you noticed that, like, um, in-person stores are, like, are they going to become a thing of the past? 35:17.389 --> 35:19.350 [SPEAKER_01]: Because people are only online shopping. 35:21.005 --> 35:25.329 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, okay, I don't have, I don't live anywhere by stuff like that. 35:25.930 --> 35:34.718 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, I shop, resale, mostly, and small shops. 35:34.738 --> 35:37.681 [SPEAKER_00]: So like, I just bought a sweater at a little small shop in town. 35:39.928 --> 35:59.138 [SPEAKER_01]: I think that only works where you live because there's like an older door county generation that still had access to nice brands of things because there was a market switch when When I started thrifting for clothes and like, oh, I can find these Calvin Klein or vintage Ralph Lauren or these kinds of things and now it's like, 36:00.590 --> 36:01.270 [SPEAKER_01]: just garbage. 36:01.750 --> 36:04.051 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, like I'm not shopping or potatoes closet. 36:04.651 --> 36:04.931 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 36:04.971 --> 36:07.131 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, I don't mean that. 36:07.151 --> 36:09.892 [SPEAKER_00]: When I say recently, I shop at an upscale. 36:10.432 --> 36:15.193 [SPEAKER_00]: It's, I mean, I guess you would call it again upscale clothing resaler. 36:15.933 --> 36:16.753 [SPEAKER_00]: It's her specialty. 36:16.793 --> 36:23.034 [SPEAKER_00]: She's been selling secondhand clothing since she was like 14 and it's her. 36:23.214 --> 36:23.414 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 36:23.634 --> 36:26.675 [SPEAKER_00]: So, and I don't always find something in there, but 36:28.595 --> 36:46.980 [SPEAKER_00]: But I also, like, because I don't shop, like, I don't go out and shop, like, yeah, I just, if I see something that I know will work with my body type, and I like it, I buy it, like, just by chance, then I just get it, because I know better, like you just get it. 36:48.041 --> 36:54.142 [SPEAKER_01]: So I, I remind myself that when I'm traveling, you can't, sometimes you can't, I can 36:58.077 --> 37:00.478 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, you're just totally missed the opportunity. 37:00.498 --> 37:01.539 [SPEAKER_01]: I got this great jump suit. 37:01.599 --> 37:02.280 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a little loud. 37:03.560 --> 37:05.101 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh yeah, tell us about your jump suit. 37:05.161 --> 37:06.302 [SPEAKER_00]: Have you talked about that on the show? 37:07.903 --> 37:08.403 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think so. 37:08.423 --> 37:09.484 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. 37:09.704 --> 37:10.244 [SPEAKER_01]: It's really great. 37:10.284 --> 37:12.125 [SPEAKER_01]: It's just, I got it in Orvieto. 37:12.465 --> 37:14.247 [SPEAKER_01]: It was in the window and I like walked past it. 37:14.267 --> 37:16.748 [SPEAKER_01]: And I was like, I think I should wear that jump suit. 37:19.535 --> 37:22.079 [SPEAKER_01]: It's kind of got like red geometric pattern on it. 37:23.160 --> 37:29.370 [SPEAKER_01]: It's all, you know, it's a unipiece and then it has a little belt that ties around the waste like that matches the fabric and 37:31.563 --> 37:34.084 [SPEAKER_01]: I think it was like $45 or something. 37:34.164 --> 37:35.244 [SPEAKER_01]: It wasn't expensive. 37:35.665 --> 37:38.966 [SPEAKER_01]: And I went in and tried it on. 37:39.566 --> 37:40.826 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, great, I'll take it. 37:41.307 --> 37:43.687 [SPEAKER_01]: And I've gone past that store three times since then. 37:44.868 --> 37:47.509 [SPEAKER_01]: Once later, that day once and another trip and it has never been opened. 37:47.989 --> 37:49.930 [SPEAKER_01]: And I always just pat myself on the back of it. 37:50.770 --> 37:52.091 [SPEAKER_01]: Good job. 37:52.171 --> 37:52.631 [SPEAKER_01]: You did it. 37:53.391 --> 37:53.771 [SPEAKER_01]: You did it. 37:54.752 --> 37:58.333 [SPEAKER_01]: Um, because you sometimes you got to do it when the iron strikes you do. 37:58.353 --> 38:00.094 [SPEAKER_01]: I actually would take that for some of you. 38:00.454 --> 38:02.235 [SPEAKER_00]: So I carry a little clothing in the shop. 38:02.515 --> 38:03.035 [SPEAKER_00]: Did you know that? 38:03.876 --> 38:14.340 [SPEAKER_00]: And I love watching women come in and I tell you what, darned if it's the older ones that know how to execute. 38:15.867 --> 38:16.027 [SPEAKER_01]: Hmm. 38:16.788 --> 38:19.189 [SPEAKER_00]: The younger ones are like, I don't know where I'd wear it. 38:19.530 --> 38:19.690 [UNKNOWN]: Yeah. 38:19.710 --> 38:20.410 [SPEAKER_00]: What do I wear that? 38:20.851 --> 38:21.231 [SPEAKER_00]: Where mom? 38:21.251 --> 38:22.212 [SPEAKER_00]: What do I wear this? 38:22.272 --> 38:23.552 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, or to their best friend? 38:23.833 --> 38:24.333 [SPEAKER_00]: What do you think? 38:24.353 --> 38:25.454 [SPEAKER_00]: Do you think this would look good on me? 38:25.474 --> 38:40.024 [SPEAKER_00]: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 38:46.172 --> 38:58.694 [SPEAKER_00]: They don't care, they're trying it on, they've got this, they know what works and they just put it on the comp, I'm, it's intriguing to me. 38:58.934 --> 38:59.774 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not kidding. 39:00.074 --> 39:04.615 [SPEAKER_00]: The countenance, like the confidence, even with which they set it on the counter. 39:05.915 --> 39:06.555 [SPEAKER_00]: It's different. 39:08.336 --> 39:15.517 [SPEAKER_00]: I have a couple, I only carry a couple dresses, one has been really popular and it's just this same execution. 39:16.907 --> 39:18.768 [SPEAKER_00]: in the same age bracket. 39:19.309 --> 39:22.091 [SPEAKER_00]: It's really, really intrigues me. 39:23.652 --> 39:24.853 [SPEAKER_00]: That's really intriguing. 39:25.113 --> 39:28.715 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I feel like we could do a whole episode on that. 39:29.416 --> 39:29.756 [SPEAKER_00]: I think 39:32.699 --> 39:35.382 [SPEAKER_01]: If we move this into the home, the same is true for the call. 39:35.583 --> 39:45.075 [SPEAKER_01]: Come back and go, no, no, I'm just like, we've just been free chatting because it's so fun to do that with you guys and thanks for letting us do that. 39:46.076 --> 39:48.399 [SPEAKER_01]: Confidence in the home. 39:49.681 --> 39:51.323 [SPEAKER_01]: They do the same thing as you get older. 39:51.683 --> 39:53.604 [SPEAKER_01]: They're like, no, I know what I want. 39:54.444 --> 39:55.665 [SPEAKER_01]: I know what I'm going to do here. 39:56.485 --> 40:08.430 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, when you're younger and you're just kind of like figuring it out, like I did this, you know, I remember like mirroring a lot more of your style where I would constantly send you text messages, like, I'll give you all that about this. 40:09.631 --> 40:10.851 [SPEAKER_01]: Do you know what I want to think about this? 40:11.232 --> 40:12.052 [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't know. 40:12.252 --> 40:12.692 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 40:12.752 --> 40:12.872 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 40:12.892 --> 40:14.773 [SPEAKER_01]: I was in my like mid 20s. 40:14.793 --> 40:15.333 [SPEAKER_01]: Uh-huh. 40:16.734 --> 40:18.335 [SPEAKER_01]: Still very much figuring it out. 40:19.564 --> 40:22.346 [SPEAKER_01]: Now, there's something that's so... 40:24.527 --> 40:33.693 [SPEAKER_01]: There's something so visceral and life-giving about knowing themselves, which is kind of what you're talking about with these ladies. 40:33.933 --> 40:35.394 [SPEAKER_01]: I think we can do the same thing in the home. 40:35.654 --> 40:36.734 [SPEAKER_01]: I think it does take time, though. 40:37.455 --> 40:41.057 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, which is, that's what makes me so sad about when we just try to cover up each 40:44.829 --> 40:48.974 [SPEAKER_01]: It just bumps me out because I'm like, there's a lot of cool things that come alongside that. 40:49.294 --> 40:49.535 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 40:49.695 --> 40:49.895 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 40:51.137 --> 40:52.518 [SPEAKER_01]: So you should have a place. 40:52.798 --> 40:56.563 [SPEAKER_01]: You should be able to freely enjoy the last the second half of your life. 40:56.863 --> 40:57.083 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 40:57.624 --> 40:57.844 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 40:58.185 --> 40:58.445 [SPEAKER_01]: You know? 40:59.486 --> 41:01.008 [SPEAKER_01]: Let your home be expressive. 41:05.403 --> 41:07.505 [SPEAKER_01]: You, your house is much bigger than mine. 41:07.805 --> 41:11.508 [SPEAKER_01]: Just, just, it just does. 41:11.908 --> 41:12.088 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 41:12.368 --> 41:12.769 [SPEAKER_01]: Tell me. 41:13.989 --> 41:14.390 [SPEAKER_01]: It's big. 41:14.490 --> 41:16.211 [SPEAKER_01]: Um, I just don't want to do. 41:16.331 --> 41:17.672 [SPEAKER_01]: I do not want to move. 41:18.553 --> 41:27.079 [SPEAKER_01]: However, I want our house to look like we're okay, meaning like, yeah. 41:27.820 --> 41:27.960 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh. 41:30.543 --> 41:55.874 [SPEAKER_01]: Keeping it lovely is really challenging and we have this beautiful gallery wall in our dining room And it's like really special pieces like I've got pieces I collected from my very first trip to Spain when I was 20 years old That I was like they have amazing stories and like they're real all of them family trips places gifts from friends It's really special wall It's a big 41:58.162 --> 41:58.862 [SPEAKER_01]: How do I say this? 41:59.343 --> 42:00.944 [SPEAKER_01]: The school is getting ready to start for us. 42:00.964 --> 42:02.485 [SPEAKER_01]: When we get back from our trip, school starts. 42:03.385 --> 42:05.666 [SPEAKER_01]: There's always school stuff on that table. 42:05.867 --> 42:10.029 [SPEAKER_01]: Pens, papers, backpacks, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 42:11.050 --> 42:13.671 [SPEAKER_01]: And that room starts to feel really claustrophobic to me. 42:16.053 --> 42:19.435 [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm, but I don't want to live in a sterile environment. 42:19.455 --> 42:20.635 [SPEAKER_01]: So help me, help me. 42:20.755 --> 42:22.656 [SPEAKER_01]: How do I keep it lovely when there's 42:25.043 --> 42:36.716 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know, you're asking no, person, I don't know because I just, I just gathered a garbage bag the other day and I'm just like, okay, you don't get to have 75 shoes in the boot room. 42:37.295 --> 42:42.417 [SPEAKER_00]: I can't do this anymore, you know, yeah, there's so much stuff everywhere. 42:42.578 --> 42:46.439 [SPEAKER_00]: And I actually took all the homeschool tops and had the kids put them in the basement. 42:47.140 --> 42:53.683 [SPEAKER_00]: And I will be honest, like, I'm having a little bit of dread about thinking about all that crap coming back into circulation. 42:54.323 --> 42:54.984 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's out. 42:55.784 --> 42:58.105 [SPEAKER_00]: It's, like, it's, oops, geez, it's out. 42:58.445 --> 42:58.665 [SPEAKER_00]: Mm-hmm. 42:59.626 --> 43:03.688 [SPEAKER_01]: We talked last episode about how when your kids are a little, you, there are a little bit more borders. 43:04.548 --> 43:05.709 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, clean up the tub. 43:06.510 --> 43:13.114 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, when they're like writing papers into the evening and you know, wrestling with their algebra to homework on the couch for hour. 43:15.376 --> 43:16.756 [SPEAKER_01]: You don't get that delineation. 43:16.776 --> 43:18.698 [SPEAKER_01]: I was like, okay, now pack up all this stuff. 43:18.778 --> 43:22.460 [SPEAKER_01]: So it's really not difficult to keep the home lovely. 43:22.781 --> 43:23.861 [SPEAKER_01]: It is difficult. 43:24.222 --> 43:32.127 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not so like, when you said you wanted to do this episode, I'm like, gosh, I don't even know if I'm like the right person for this because I'm not in that chapter. 43:32.647 --> 43:34.569 [SPEAKER_00]: My home, I will confess to you guys. 43:34.669 --> 43:36.850 [SPEAKER_00]: It does not feel lovely to me right now. 43:37.691 --> 43:51.020 [SPEAKER_00]: We, you know Joel started working again ever since then like the little things don't get repaired like Yeah, it's I feel like I'm just like constantly behind and I never get to like get that like ground zero. 43:51.040 --> 43:51.080 [SPEAKER_00]: No 43:52.162 --> 44:17.298 [SPEAKER_00]: feeling it something's always broken and then the broken is like building up so then there's like 15 things that are broken the the kids is like cloth foot tub needs to be repainted so bad it looks like something out of a horror movie from hair dye and chip paint and it's awful and then like you or so there's like that where I'm like okay well even if I got it cleaned up 44:18.399 --> 44:42.447 [SPEAKER_00]: there's still 75 light bulbs that need to be replaced and hole in the wall and does it you know just it's so as accumulated so much um and like you were saying with small kids when they're small okay gonna take a bath and we're gonna pull all your little ABCs back in the bath backscat and the bath basket goes in the vanity and that's it and then 44:48.035 --> 44:52.237 [SPEAKER_00]: in a house, and each one has the thick hair products that they need. 44:52.257 --> 45:14.670 [SPEAKER_00]: My shampoo, this is my shampoo, this is my conditioner, this is my conditioner, this is my leave in conditioner, this is my razor, this is my heat protectant, this is my curly gel, this is my straightening gel, and so then four people are doing their hair, and it's all those products times four on the counter, may or may not get put away, may fall on the floor and not get picked up, you know, like just 45:16.290 --> 45:21.092 [SPEAKER_00]: Golly, can I just get like... That's the problem. 45:21.112 --> 45:21.713 [SPEAKER_01]: That's okay. 45:22.353 --> 45:24.194 [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe we're the perfect people to talk about this. 45:24.214 --> 45:26.134 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think that's what I'm saying. 45:26.194 --> 45:29.256 [SPEAKER_00]: I just don't have that pleasure point anymore. 45:29.636 --> 45:30.816 [SPEAKER_00]: I checked it in my life. 45:31.437 --> 45:32.817 [SPEAKER_01]: And I don't get it to that thing. 45:33.137 --> 45:34.598 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I can't get it to that thing. 45:34.658 --> 45:39.420 [SPEAKER_00]: And so the reality for me, and I've been here for a hot minute. 45:40.765 --> 45:48.909 [SPEAKER_00]: And I kind of just personally feel like we, who was that person that just put out a tea towel and a fresh bouquet of flowers? 45:48.969 --> 45:52.130 [SPEAKER_01]: And, oh, it's so lovely, you know? 45:53.171 --> 45:54.991 [SPEAKER_00]: I really miss her. 45:56.572 --> 45:57.773 [SPEAKER_01]: Or she's gonna miss her. 45:58.073 --> 46:04.235 [SPEAKER_00]: She's not dead, I just don't know how to back, but you guys, I need to figure out how to flourish while she's not around. 46:04.596 --> 46:05.576 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I gotta focus. 46:06.316 --> 46:08.457 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, because it's like being in a convertible 46:12.428 --> 46:13.028 [SPEAKER_01]: That's what it's like. 46:13.269 --> 46:13.949 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, okay. 46:14.109 --> 46:16.251 [SPEAKER_01]: And you're like, oh, oh, that's not gonna happen. 46:18.032 --> 46:19.272 [SPEAKER_01]: It's not gonna be flying. 46:19.293 --> 46:21.154 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not that you don't know how to do a slick back. 46:21.334 --> 46:23.235 [SPEAKER_01]: It's just your interconverting pull. 46:23.275 --> 46:23.635 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 46:23.835 --> 46:25.657 [SPEAKER_01]: And that's exactly what it feels like. 46:25.757 --> 46:32.001 [SPEAKER_01]: And the only solution that I, two solutions that I've been employ, whether or not these work, I have no idea. 46:32.101 --> 46:34.102 [SPEAKER_01]: Because it's been summer, everyone's been home. 46:34.202 --> 46:37.024 [SPEAKER_01]: I've had zero time by myself. 46:37.705 --> 46:38.145 [SPEAKER_00]: Zero. 46:39.558 --> 46:40.518 [SPEAKER_01]: No, zero. 46:41.599 --> 46:42.019 [SPEAKER_01]: Zero. 46:42.359 --> 46:42.699 [SPEAKER_01]: Zero. 46:45.240 --> 46:50.942 [SPEAKER_01]: I've been trying to hyper control the kitchen, because it's just the place where I have the most affordy. 46:51.602 --> 46:54.023 [SPEAKER_00]: Where I'm like, get out of here. 46:54.644 --> 46:57.905 [SPEAKER_01]: Go eat that somewhere else or go cook it on the black whatever. 46:58.965 --> 47:02.486 [SPEAKER_01]: And I need to have the most control in there, because that's where I work, right? 47:02.566 --> 47:02.827 [SPEAKER_01]: So, 47:04.027 --> 47:09.210 [SPEAKER_01]: I've been trying to hyper control the kitchen, and I just keep simplifying. 47:09.270 --> 47:11.711 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm just like, okay, my style is now simple. 47:12.111 --> 47:13.112 [SPEAKER_01]: It's more simple. 47:13.232 --> 47:14.332 [SPEAKER_01]: It's more simple. 47:15.553 --> 47:21.576 [SPEAKER_01]: Trying to take assessment of like, okay, what is the frustration? 47:21.856 --> 47:26.599 [SPEAKER_01]: Just use something you need to let go of because you've got all these beautiful people in your home when you look so much. 47:28.245 --> 47:38.188 [SPEAKER_01]: Or like to pay attention to how you're using the space in this season to days, to days needs pay attention to how you're using that so like. 47:39.219 --> 47:42.940 [SPEAKER_01]: We've been actually watching some pretty fun shows as a family. 47:43.140 --> 47:50.822 [SPEAKER_01]: And so instead of everyone going on their own screen, like we're trying to do this and so we've been watching this show, by the way, Julian with Love It, called Forged in Fire. 47:50.842 --> 47:54.103 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, to black Smith's show, competition show. 47:54.363 --> 47:55.703 [SPEAKER_01]: He would have loved it. 47:55.863 --> 47:57.104 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, okay, okay. 47:57.524 --> 47:58.464 [SPEAKER_01]: So we've been watching that together. 47:58.584 --> 48:01.705 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, we only have one room, like one room with couches. 48:02.872 --> 48:07.954 [SPEAKER_01]: And one of the couches, by the way, sits like this because the leg popped off, of course. 48:10.614 --> 48:18.577 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, I'm going to have to, I tried to fix it and I broke two nails and I was like, okay, it's fine. 48:18.617 --> 48:19.057 [SPEAKER_01]: We're fine. 48:20.197 --> 48:22.378 [SPEAKER_01]: My point is, okay, we're using this space. 48:22.898 --> 48:28.820 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, there needs to not be extra stuff in there because when six people are in one room, 48:30.553 --> 48:33.135 [SPEAKER_01]: me know, tooling around, hanging, lounging and everything. 48:33.456 --> 48:34.496 [SPEAKER_01]: You need a lot of blankets. 48:34.516 --> 48:35.938 [SPEAKER_01]: You need a lot of squishy pillows. 48:36.638 --> 48:39.141 [SPEAKER_01]: You need places to set and you don't need a ton of other stuff. 48:39.661 --> 48:41.282 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, how are you using your space? 48:41.643 --> 48:43.584 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, we have to, we have to do our school room. 48:43.664 --> 48:45.746 [SPEAKER_01]: We have, we have to do it in our dining room. 48:45.926 --> 48:46.667 [SPEAKER_01]: That's all on me table. 48:46.687 --> 48:47.087 [SPEAKER_01]: We have. 48:48.108 --> 48:49.710 [SPEAKER_01]: So, okay. 48:49.750 --> 48:51.731 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, then, is there a place nearby where 48:53.736 --> 48:57.559 [SPEAKER_01]: You're just trying to make your feels lovely as you can't give in what you actually have to do in your house. 48:57.919 --> 48:59.680 [SPEAKER_00]: Is my soul in my living room? 48:59.700 --> 49:02.482 [SPEAKER_00]: Because that's no matter what, I'm like, can you please put the TV in the basement? 49:02.542 --> 49:04.244 [SPEAKER_00]: Can you please take the TV to the dungeon? 49:04.264 --> 49:22.977 [SPEAKER_00]: Please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please 49:23.542 --> 49:23.942 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, yeah. 49:23.982 --> 49:26.945 [SPEAKER_01]: No, I just have a tub like a cool old wooden tub. 49:27.245 --> 49:28.706 [SPEAKER_01]: I just pile them in. 49:28.746 --> 49:34.030 [SPEAKER_01]: I stopped like stretching them over the couches and stuff because, oh, yeah, no, no, not only something that just made me upset. 49:34.610 --> 49:34.910 [SPEAKER_00]: Mm-hmm. 49:35.751 --> 49:36.532 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I just got rid of him. 49:36.732 --> 49:37.953 [SPEAKER_00]: I just took him out of salvation. 49:38.713 --> 49:53.673 [SPEAKER_00]: like you can be called if you can't hold it when you're done then you can be called you don't deserve it and for the school year I'm actually I'm just I don't know how I'm in a for it but I'm gonna call my carpenter and have him finally do those built-ins in the kitchen because there's no where to put 49:56.165 --> 49:59.226 [SPEAKER_00]: One of my favorite parts of ending the day is lighting a candle. 49:59.726 --> 50:03.507 [SPEAKER_00]: It's such a simple ritual, but it changes the entire feeling of a home. 50:03.847 --> 50:14.469 [SPEAKER_00]: Lately, I've been reaching for the candles from salt and light by Sammy, because they're intentionally made with clean ingredients, and I love knowing they've put so much thought into what 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52:12.486 --> 52:17.754 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, even though we're moved on to the subject at hand, but there was one up here that 52:20.076 --> 52:28.099 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, this is from CC Lesta, husband mounted a plastic wrap parchment foil dispenser to my wall and it has totally changed my kitchen life. 52:28.639 --> 52:33.040 [SPEAKER_01]: No more foil falling out of the cardboard box and no more struggling to shut the drawer 10 out of 10 would recommend. 52:34.201 --> 52:37.142 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want foil on my wall, but I would put parchment paper on my wall. 52:37.582 --> 52:39.383 [SPEAKER_00]: I have that parchment paper dispenser shape. 52:39.403 --> 52:40.004 [SPEAKER_00]: You should get one. 52:40.204 --> 52:41.164 [SPEAKER_01]: I have nowhere to put. 52:41.224 --> 52:42.865 [SPEAKER_01]: I have nowhere to put something like that. 52:42.905 --> 52:45.147 [SPEAKER_01]: Like I had on your counter shoot. 52:45.247 --> 52:49.910 [SPEAKER_01]: I just had something out yesterday and I was like, I use this all the time where can I put it. 52:50.810 --> 52:54.453 [SPEAKER_00]: And I, I just don't have that much space in my kitchen. 52:55.113 --> 53:08.866 [SPEAKER_01]: But I do have wall space and a couple of years ago I put little rolling pin holders like four dollars from Amazon right there's like these little plastic little lips that you screw into your wall so that your rolling pin can mount on your wall. 53:12.422 --> 53:16.344 [SPEAKER_01]: Where, like, my point in this and I love this and I think this is a great idea. 53:16.364 --> 53:23.927 [SPEAKER_01]: Like where are the friction points because what makes a home lovely is not that it smells perfect or that it's perfectly clean. 53:24.007 --> 53:32.571 [SPEAKER_01]: What makes a home lovely is that it feels functional and it feels like it feels useful and conducive to the life and season that you're in. 53:33.091 --> 53:35.072 [SPEAKER_01]: That's what makes my house feel lovely. 53:35.192 --> 53:39.274 [SPEAKER_01]: I love when it's clean, you guys, but that, whoo, that is. 53:41.346 --> 53:43.969 [SPEAKER_01]: a difficult battle right now, for me. 53:46.792 --> 53:54.299 [SPEAKER_01]: So, given that, people do have gel creams and piles of earrings and like, hairbrushes, effort. 53:56.862 --> 54:00.466 [SPEAKER_01]: Given that, how can we make the home? 54:00.946 --> 54:03.088 [SPEAKER_01]: I guess the most useful. 54:03.148 --> 54:04.630 [SPEAKER_00]: So, I told you that I got 54:05.862 --> 54:08.003 [SPEAKER_01]: a new digital scale because mine was broken. 54:08.123 --> 54:09.004 [SPEAKER_01]: It was not lovely. 54:09.124 --> 54:10.185 [SPEAKER_01]: It was not functional. 54:10.245 --> 54:11.986 [SPEAKER_01]: It could, you couldn't read the screen. 54:12.006 --> 54:13.727 [SPEAKER_01]: You had to use your light on your flashlight. 54:14.067 --> 54:14.668 [SPEAKER_01]: Not lovely. 54:14.928 --> 54:15.988 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 54:16.008 --> 54:18.930 [SPEAKER_01]: $20 new digital scale. 54:20.251 --> 54:25.014 [SPEAKER_01]: There's been a couple things like that lately, and I think parchment dispenser could be one of those. 54:25.054 --> 54:29.357 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, okay, what are the things that make it just functional to make it work well? 54:29.837 --> 54:32.919 [SPEAKER_01]: Because you're not going to eliminate the function point of having people in your house. 54:33.579 --> 54:34.500 [SPEAKER_01]: Right, it's not possible. 54:34.948 --> 54:43.251 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, well sometimes I think those things are like really affordable like parchment paper dispensers, and then I think I told you a couple weeks ago on the show I ordered a fridge. 54:44.351 --> 54:50.053 [SPEAKER_00]: I ordered a bag, like the kind that goes in like a convenience store. 54:50.613 --> 54:52.574 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 54:52.694 --> 54:55.535 [SPEAKER_00]: 40 plus cubic feet, three glass doors. 54:55.835 --> 54:57.155 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a convenient store fridge. 54:57.655 --> 55:02.277 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I don't know where it's going to go yet because the garage is such a disaster, there's no room for it in there. 55:03.065 --> 55:07.866 [SPEAKER_00]: I have this scary feeling it's gonna sit in my boat room till like I have an nervous breakdown at Christmas time. 55:08.806 --> 55:14.108 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but yeah, but the cooler has the cooler must be retired. 55:15.148 --> 55:16.328 [SPEAKER_00]: It has to be retired. 55:17.168 --> 55:18.449 [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you for your service. 55:19.929 --> 55:26.671 [SPEAKER_00]: That's where it gets really scary though is like those big projects where you're like, this bouquet is gonna fix this. 55:27.691 --> 55:30.492 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, you know, a candle lighting a candle 55:33.365 --> 55:39.649 [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm, those are the hard pieces that, yeah, stuff that feel a little suffocating. 55:39.749 --> 55:46.114 [SPEAKER_00]: I just felt like that I really needed to just execute that, um, yeah, for the school year. 55:46.814 --> 55:48.395 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, let's talk about a pinch point. 55:48.735 --> 55:49.816 [SPEAKER_00]: Ooh, yeah. 55:50.296 --> 56:01.184 [SPEAKER_01]: So when you have a project like that, do you, you don't have, I sound a little down right now, you don't 56:03.160 --> 56:05.441 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, you and I have both been triple timing at the summer. 56:05.661 --> 56:25.526 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, um, when you have a project, let's say that overwhelms you in the home or that just doesn't really feel right, do you like set a timer and be like, you know, I'll just give this 30 minutes of attention because those big chunks of time that we used to have like, oh, nap time, you get three hours or whatever. 56:25.666 --> 56:27.626 [SPEAKER_01]: We don't really get chunks of time like that anymore. 56:29.267 --> 56:30.767 [SPEAKER_01]: How do you tackle stuff then? 56:32.722 --> 56:34.744 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, I used to have like a deep clean day for the house. 56:35.084 --> 56:45.595 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't have that because I don't have one day that I can just set aside to do all my errands and all my cleaning like, it sounds blissful, right? 56:45.715 --> 56:46.856 [SPEAKER_01]: But I don't really have that. 56:47.356 --> 56:48.978 [SPEAKER_01]: So how do you how do you do that? 56:49.298 --> 56:49.939 [SPEAKER_01]: How do you go about that? 56:53.245 --> 56:53.746 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. 56:53.766 --> 56:54.026 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sorry. 56:55.207 --> 56:56.228 [SPEAKER_00]: I do not know. 56:56.808 --> 56:58.950 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what that's going to look like that installation. 56:59.171 --> 57:15.745 [SPEAKER_00]: I know Like there's things I can do like on my end like if it's probably gonna end up in the boot room for a while So I don't know if I need to take down some hoax on a wall so at least has somewhere to sit I don't know Those big chunks of time are just so like what was that like? 57:19.759 --> 57:27.982 [SPEAKER_00]: Right, yeah, I kind of, I find like, it's cringy as it sounds like Sundays between like five and seven in the evening. 57:28.963 --> 57:31.804 [SPEAKER_00]: I usually like dive into something that's going to make my week feel better. 57:33.205 --> 57:35.446 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm always like, why did I do this? 57:35.926 --> 57:37.086 [SPEAKER_00]: But then I'm glad Monday morning. 57:38.127 --> 57:39.267 [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm. 57:41.468 --> 57:44.629 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I always just say like, I wish you could just pause life. 57:44.709 --> 57:45.730 [SPEAKER_00]: Could I just have two weeks? 57:47.305 --> 57:52.307 [SPEAKER_00]: If I could just have two weeks, everything in order and then just like a full reset, and now I shall proceed with life. 57:52.527 --> 57:52.727 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 57:52.927 --> 57:54.428 [SPEAKER_01]: Now I can do it. 57:54.488 --> 58:06.093 [SPEAKER_01]: We have this loose piece of trim that, for some reason, never got painted, not only knows what color the trim is anyway, and you want it to paint and I don't think that's good, right? 58:06.773 --> 58:10.855 [SPEAKER_01]: And whenever somebody comes in the kitchen door, it gets knocked off and knocked over. 58:12.275 --> 58:26.898 [SPEAKER_01]: Archigen's stucco, stucco has a really hard time with nails and things, so there was just some trim nails that went up and those have now been out so many times that they're just bent, so it doesn't really go up against the wall anymore, right? 58:26.938 --> 58:31.439 [SPEAKER_01]: So this piece of trim is just like forever flopping around on the kitchen floor. 58:35.480 --> 58:39.861 [SPEAKER_01]: I want to take it and break it over my knee and like throw it through a window. 58:42.069 --> 58:46.531 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, do you think you want to now wait till you're 51? 58:50.173 --> 58:56.917 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, there's pieces that um, why don't you just glue it like E6000? 58:59.738 --> 59:01.099 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, why don't I? 59:02.320 --> 59:04.661 [SPEAKER_00]: No, I mean it's because I hate those things with the nails. 59:04.681 --> 59:08.483 [SPEAKER_01]: Because it's wallpaper, it's up against wallpaper and so I guess like that. 59:08.543 --> 59:08.963 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 59:09.503 --> 59:10.684 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. 59:12.635 --> 59:29.942 [SPEAKER_01]: Um, I don't want this to sound discouraging lately because all the things we've talked about for so many years, yes, and amen to those things like they're so valuable and they're so good, but also if you're in a season where it's just not quite that simple anymore. 59:31.363 --> 59:36.505 [SPEAKER_01]: And I don't know if it's because here we are and of, you know, switching over of the seasons. 59:36.865 --> 59:37.726 [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe that's part of it. 59:38.586 --> 59:40.847 [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe it'll get, but also, 59:43.220 --> 01:00:12.772 [SPEAKER_00]: Is it that your house, maybe it's your house uses to be your priority in the same way it does when your family is so home-centered when they're a little maybe Yeah, I think it's just a it's just an adjustment and sometimes like the change happens And eight months nine months later your brain is like, oh things are different You know, I've I've been like trying to figure out like why can't I just get a handle on this place why can't I why don't I have those like 01:00:13.275 --> 01:00:14.135 [SPEAKER_00]: warm fuzzies. 01:00:14.635 --> 01:00:15.315 [SPEAKER_01]: The fuzzies. 01:00:15.355 --> 01:00:16.096 [SPEAKER_01]: That's what I'm saying. 01:00:16.156 --> 01:00:18.316 [SPEAKER_00]: Where are they there right now? 01:00:18.796 --> 01:00:19.076 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. 01:00:19.476 --> 01:00:30.618 [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, well, because a long time ago stuff really, really changed and you didn't really recognize it and how it was impacting like the light, the lighting, the candle at the end of the day. 01:00:31.158 --> 01:00:37.559 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I like, I, my got a text from my sister and she was showing me a house plant and her table looked so pretty. 01:00:37.579 --> 01:00:40.340 [SPEAKER_00]: She had like a doily in the house plant and the lit candle and I was like, 01:00:44.956 --> 01:00:46.538 [SPEAKER_01]: I just can't do that. 01:00:46.798 --> 01:00:47.839 [SPEAKER_01]: I can't do that. 01:00:48.139 --> 01:00:49.560 [SPEAKER_01]: I always do that. 01:00:51.262 --> 01:00:51.462 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 01:00:54.265 --> 01:00:54.505 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 01:00:54.805 --> 01:01:06.696 [SPEAKER_00]: But, you know, in my house right now, in 10 minutes, four teenagers are going to walk in with their respective Amazon packages and set them on the table and proceed to unpack. 01:01:08.057 --> 01:01:08.778 [SPEAKER_00]: That's what it feels like. 01:01:10.542 --> 01:01:11.903 [SPEAKER_01]: I cleaned my living room the other day. 01:01:11.963 --> 01:01:13.945 [SPEAKER_01]: This is my, we talked about a good year. 01:01:14.145 --> 01:01:16.246 [SPEAKER_01]: Was that this episode or less, our wallstress? 01:01:16.286 --> 01:01:20.369 [SPEAKER_00]: Anyway, this is my good year room. 01:01:20.589 --> 01:01:23.191 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, I painted it like provincial yellow. 01:01:23.992 --> 01:01:27.675 [SPEAKER_01]: And I have all my plants in my terracotta and rod iron. 01:01:27.695 --> 01:01:28.755 [SPEAKER_01]: And I love this room. 01:01:30.116 --> 01:01:32.038 [SPEAKER_01]: And I got this coffee table and I do. 01:01:32.198 --> 01:01:33.859 [SPEAKER_01]: I like, here's my little basket. 01:01:33.919 --> 01:01:36.061 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm a little box, I'm a little plant. 01:01:36.101 --> 01:01:36.541 [SPEAKER_01]: My can. 01:01:38.224 --> 01:01:45.992 [SPEAKER_01]: Three times a day, that is moved off and replaced with like board games, D&D stuff, smoothie glasses. 01:01:46.152 --> 01:01:54.320 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, and they pull the coffee table on the rug, clope really close to the couch, so they can lay and read on the couch and have their smoothie with it. 01:01:54.760 --> 01:01:55.781 [SPEAKER_00]: What's right now? 01:01:55.841 --> 01:01:56.482 [SPEAKER_00]: How dare they? 01:01:56.562 --> 01:02:01.026 [SPEAKER_01]: And I go in there and I yank the coffee table back to the center of the rug. 01:02:02.728 --> 01:02:04.190 [SPEAKER_00]: Do you see these works in the carpet? 01:02:04.630 --> 01:02:05.111 [SPEAKER_01]: That's right. 01:02:05.211 --> 01:02:06.352 [SPEAKER_01]: I'll dare you. 01:02:07.513 --> 01:02:08.835 [SPEAKER_01]: That's the kind of stuff I'm talking about. 01:02:08.915 --> 01:02:09.896 [SPEAKER_01]: And I don't want to live in... 01:02:10.657 --> 01:02:11.598 [SPEAKER_01]: They're not doing anything wrong. 01:02:11.858 --> 01:02:12.018 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 01:02:12.519 --> 01:02:12.859 [SPEAKER_01]: They're not. 01:02:13.139 --> 01:02:13.680 [SPEAKER_01]: That's the thing. 01:02:14.261 --> 01:02:17.304 [SPEAKER_01]: It's not, yes, you should care about the space you have to clean up after yourself. 01:02:17.344 --> 01:02:20.928 [SPEAKER_01]: You have to reset the home needs to be a place of blessing, not just to you, but to other people. 01:02:21.268 --> 01:02:23.329 [SPEAKER_01]: We need to be able to, like, welcome people in and I'm home. 01:02:23.429 --> 01:02:43.536 [SPEAKER_01]: No, no, it's, please, like, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes 01:02:48.435 --> 01:02:52.298 [SPEAKER_01]: So it's like us, partly it's just emitting to you. 01:02:52.438 --> 01:03:06.207 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, this is the season of life for in and I'll tell you what God helped me if I become the type of grandmother whose house is so precious and so put together that she can't be bothered to build a pillow fort in her living room with her grandkids. 01:03:06.627 --> 01:03:06.967 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yeah. 01:03:07.327 --> 01:03:07.827 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 01:03:08.047 --> 01:03:08.768 [SPEAKER_00]: That's no. 01:03:08.788 --> 01:03:11.088 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I think the point. 01:03:11.508 --> 01:03:12.969 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I think the, okay. 01:03:12.989 --> 01:03:15.569 [SPEAKER_00]: So for me, like I'm, this is my season. 01:03:15.629 --> 01:03:21.071 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not getting fixed anytime soon or changing or both. 01:03:22.311 --> 01:03:25.772 [SPEAKER_00]: My winds are smaller, so my winds are much smaller. 01:03:25.972 --> 01:03:29.152 [SPEAKER_00]: My winds are my made bed, neurotic about baking my bed. 01:03:30.153 --> 01:03:30.953 [SPEAKER_00]: Our new advertiser. 01:03:32.253 --> 01:03:37.575 [SPEAKER_00]: Uh, yes, salt and light, my salt and 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01:04:19.615 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like when I shave my legs. 01:04:19.655 --> 01:04:26.519 [SPEAKER_01]: I win Awesome Yep, I scrubbed out my sink I win 01:04:27.178 --> 01:04:27.819 [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm, whatever. 01:04:28.639 --> 01:04:30.941 [SPEAKER_01]: Um, really, um, bathrooms. 01:04:31.201 --> 01:04:33.362 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, blessed teenage girls. 01:04:34.423 --> 01:04:37.505 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, if I can just clean the toilet, that's a win. 01:04:38.025 --> 01:04:39.586 [SPEAKER_01]: It's really, really difficult. 01:04:39.646 --> 01:04:47.171 [SPEAKER_01]: Like you just don't, like, right, you don't get those big, explosive moments of like, it's perfect for a moment. 01:04:47.331 --> 01:04:47.952 [SPEAKER_01]: But it's just... 01:04:49.958 --> 01:04:52.440 [SPEAKER_01]: Those are really, really hard to get some things. 01:04:53.140 --> 01:04:54.721 [SPEAKER_01]: And yeah, our homes are still lovely. 01:04:55.382 --> 01:04:56.403 [SPEAKER_01]: Our homes are here to serve. 01:04:57.263 --> 01:05:02.327 [SPEAKER_01]: So if they're serving the people, they're doing what they need to do, right? 01:05:03.668 --> 01:05:04.548 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, for sure. 01:05:08.631 --> 01:05:09.492 [SPEAKER_01]: We got this ladies. 01:05:10.973 --> 01:05:13.114 [SPEAKER_01]: Actually, we're going to take two weeks off to try to get it. 01:05:15.416 --> 01:05:16.917 [SPEAKER_00]: This is our season finale. 01:05:17.548 --> 01:05:18.488 [SPEAKER_00]: We've made it lovely all the season. 01:05:18.508 --> 01:05:19.229 [SPEAKER_00]: We've made it lovely all the season. 01:05:19.269 --> 01:05:20.249 [SPEAKER_00]: We've made it lovely all the season. 01:05:20.269 --> 01:05:20.989 [SPEAKER_00]: We've made it lovely all the season. 01:05:21.010 --> 01:05:22.710 [SPEAKER_01]: We've made it lovely all the season. 01:05:23.331 --> 01:05:27.892 [SPEAKER_01]: It gives us time to recharge a little bit so that we can come back to you here. 01:05:28.473 --> 01:05:31.394 [SPEAKER_01]: And then we'll be back with our new season, season 30. 01:05:39.434 --> 01:05:40.635 [SPEAKER_00]: That'll take us right into the holidays. 01:05:41.676 --> 01:05:41.877 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 01:05:42.097 --> 01:05:42.317 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 01:05:42.377 --> 01:05:43.098 [SPEAKER_00]: Wonderful. 01:05:43.879 --> 01:05:44.179 [SPEAKER_00]: Wow. 01:05:44.219 --> 01:05:44.520 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 01:05:44.780 --> 01:05:46.262 [SPEAKER_00]: Ladies and gentlemen. 01:05:46.282 --> 01:05:47.063 [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you. 01:05:47.583 --> 01:05:48.925 [SPEAKER_01]: And we'll see you in a few weeks. 01:05:49.546 --> 01:05:49.866 [SPEAKER_01]: Cheers.