WEBVTT 00:01.674 --> 00:05.355 [SPEAKER_00]: Before we hear those first beats of your favorite theme song, we want to ask for your support. 00:05.495 --> 00:16.397 [SPEAKER_00]: If homemaker chic podcast has become a comforting part of your week and encouragement, something you listen to while folding laundry, driving to work, or tending your garden, we'd be honored if you'd help us keep it going. 00:16.537 --> 00:23.639 [SPEAKER_00]: Your Patreon support helps us continue creating conversations like this week after week free for everyone to enjoy. 00:24.079 --> 00:28.520 [SPEAKER_00]: If you'd like to join us, visit patreon.com forward slash homemaker chic podcast. 00:29.060 --> 00:30.101 [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you for being here. 00:36.234 --> 01:02.219 [SPEAKER_01]: Welcome to Homemakersheet Podcast, where we are rescuing the art of homemaking from the daily grind or red love snowed and I'm jumpers, we've been at it for six years here while you do the laundry, drive to work, take care of children or your parents or yourself, make your bed, mock your floors, organize your closet, like we talked about the last week, you're busy, yeah, yeah, but here we are. 01:05.540 --> 01:10.902 [SPEAKER_01]: If you're watching, you're watching on YouTube or Spotify, which we're so pleased about. 01:12.282 --> 01:14.723 [SPEAKER_01]: And if you're listening, I love you likewise. 01:15.923 --> 01:17.263 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 01:17.343 --> 01:17.683 [SPEAKER_02]: Hi. 01:17.703 --> 01:17.763 [SPEAKER_02]: Hi. 01:18.604 --> 01:19.684 [SPEAKER_02]: Happy New Year. 01:19.704 --> 01:22.965 [SPEAKER_01]: Happy like in the like super deep rows of summer. 01:25.350 --> 01:26.311 [SPEAKER_02]: August is weird. 01:26.972 --> 01:28.013 [SPEAKER_02]: August shifts. 01:28.393 --> 01:30.015 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 01:30.235 --> 01:31.776 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't, I'm not saying the effort. 01:31.796 --> 01:34.879 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm saying like we're in the high desert here. 01:34.899 --> 01:35.099 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 01:35.480 --> 01:36.861 [SPEAKER_02]: We have irrigation. 01:37.181 --> 01:38.503 [SPEAKER_02]: We irrigate everything. 01:39.103 --> 01:40.585 [SPEAKER_02]: Or it doesn't grow. 01:41.225 --> 01:41.425 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 01:41.445 --> 01:42.647 [SPEAKER_02]: You don't get rain. 01:42.807 --> 01:43.027 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 01:43.453 --> 01:48.717 [SPEAKER_02]: really to speak of, but in August, the gardens are still so full. 01:48.777 --> 01:49.737 [SPEAKER_02]: There's sunflow. 01:49.777 --> 01:52.919 [SPEAKER_02]: There's beautiful stuff everywhere, but like the edges are curled. 01:53.580 --> 01:58.983 [SPEAKER_02]: Like there's like this great tint that kind of like sits on everything. 01:59.003 --> 01:59.203 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 01:59.984 --> 02:03.166 [SPEAKER_02]: And it's not that hot vibrant green in the Midwest. 02:03.246 --> 02:04.427 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a mild Jew tint. 02:05.550 --> 02:07.812 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I'm like race not quite right. 02:07.832 --> 02:28.249 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, it's like because yeah, yeah, you know the B-bombs like kind of speckled and looking a little Yeah, we have different problems We get rain, but then it's just like our topsoil so thin like so thin that it just it's gone Yeah, so Yeah, you've been you've been by the pool. 02:29.009 --> 02:29.710 [SPEAKER_02]: Yes, good. 02:29.730 --> 02:30.991 [SPEAKER_02]: I've been very good about 02:32.742 --> 02:35.323 [SPEAKER_02]: I've been really good about doing all the things. 02:35.383 --> 02:42.547 [SPEAKER_02]: Like even if I can just get 30 minutes, I'll just slap my swimsuit on and go outside and soak it up. 02:43.507 --> 02:44.667 [SPEAKER_02]: I've been reading a lot. 02:44.768 --> 02:47.089 [SPEAKER_02]: I went to the, I was, I read through Oliver Twist. 02:47.409 --> 02:49.630 [SPEAKER_02]: I love Charles Dickens and saying writer. 02:49.650 --> 02:51.851 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, probably not that nice of a human. 02:51.871 --> 02:53.592 [SPEAKER_02]: We've discussed that, but great writer. 02:54.812 --> 02:58.655 [SPEAKER_02]: And, man, I just got like super slogged down in all of her twists. 02:58.695 --> 03:05.941 [SPEAKER_01]: I was like, I don't want to be in like cold, dark, subtly London, right? 03:05.961 --> 03:08.403 [SPEAKER_01]: That's not where I want to go. 03:08.423 --> 03:08.624 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 03:09.124 --> 03:10.805 [SPEAKER_02]: So I was just like, what are why? 03:11.066 --> 03:12.927 [SPEAKER_02]: You don't, you're a grown woman. 03:13.488 --> 03:14.508 [SPEAKER_02]: Went to the library. 03:15.009 --> 03:16.570 [SPEAKER_02]: Got some great fiction. 03:17.391 --> 03:17.651 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm like, 03:19.058 --> 03:21.040 [SPEAKER_02]: Let's just have some, let's chill out. 03:21.100 --> 03:24.103 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, let's read some fun little fiction. 03:24.163 --> 03:26.625 [SPEAKER_02]: It's not total twaddle, right? 03:27.186 --> 03:31.670 [SPEAKER_02]: You know, I got some like really great modern retellings of Greek myths. 03:31.730 --> 03:35.533 [SPEAKER_02]: I got some like Roman legends woven and I got some cool ones. 03:35.694 --> 03:37.295 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 03:38.156 --> 03:40.298 [SPEAKER_02]: But anyway, let me end up man. 03:41.820 --> 03:45.363 [SPEAKER_01]: I am in the water. 03:45.483 --> 03:46.144 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm in the sun. 03:46.664 --> 03:47.164 [SPEAKER_01]: Give it to me. 03:47.244 --> 03:54.831 [SPEAKER_01]: Give me all the vitamin D in the morning like after my workouts, the cardio portion of my workout. 03:54.871 --> 03:59.935 [SPEAKER_01]: I've just been like, I take off my best, my vest and my shoes and I just go right into the lake. 04:01.336 --> 04:03.397 [SPEAKER_01]: And I just swim swim around in my gym clothes. 04:03.778 --> 04:04.638 [SPEAKER_01]: It's so wonderful. 04:04.678 --> 04:06.300 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm the only person out there. 04:07.397 --> 04:08.879 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, it's so wonderful. 04:09.059 --> 04:10.140 [SPEAKER_01]: It's so wonderful. 04:10.340 --> 04:11.742 [SPEAKER_01]: It's so wonderful. 04:12.062 --> 04:21.032 [SPEAKER_01]: I can't even tell you and every time like this morning I was just Trying to get some grounding barefoot on the beach walking back and forth and I just thought get in 04:22.653 --> 04:40.287 [SPEAKER_01]: You're going to get in today too, just get in and I swam with the kids in the afternoon, but in the morning there's something about having this space that's usually packed with a lot of tourists like completely to yourself and it's so rewarding after sweating and doing those hills and I'm only gosh love it 04:41.408 --> 04:46.991 [SPEAKER_02]: There are some such good things like that that just remind you you're like a human. 04:47.451 --> 04:49.732 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh yeah, no, it's like I'm alive. 04:50.653 --> 04:52.934 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, we have to work. 04:53.434 --> 04:57.596 [SPEAKER_02]: We have to like, we do have to kind of optimize some stuff. 04:57.676 --> 05:00.217 [SPEAKER_02]: We gotta like, we gotta do these things in our home. 05:00.257 --> 05:01.638 [SPEAKER_01]: It's part of existing. 05:01.718 --> 05:01.938 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 05:02.879 --> 05:04.079 [SPEAKER_02]: And I think that's fine. 05:04.780 --> 05:07.741 [SPEAKER_02]: So long as we don't forget that we're not machines 05:09.922 --> 05:14.325 [SPEAKER_02]: particular things that make you realize, no, oh my goodness, I'm alive. 05:14.845 --> 05:26.953 [SPEAKER_02]: The same thing can kind of happen in the winter when you go out and it's freezing cold and it punches you in the face and you almost can't breathe because it's so cold and you're like, oh yeah, I'm alive. 05:28.294 --> 05:33.057 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, um, yeah, dang. 05:34.438 --> 05:41.103 [SPEAKER_02]: I went paddle boarding for the first time this summer, which was really fun and I went with Amber. 05:41.383 --> 05:45.186 [SPEAKER_02]: We went all around this lake and it was so fantastic. 05:46.347 --> 05:48.129 [SPEAKER_02]: And I super enjoyed it. 05:48.449 --> 05:54.754 [SPEAKER_02]: So actually when we get done recording today, I'm going again, great on the lake. 05:55.114 --> 05:56.455 [SPEAKER_02]: So I'm really excited about that. 05:57.172 --> 05:57.792 [SPEAKER_02]: I love that. 05:58.072 --> 05:58.612 [SPEAKER_01]: I love that. 05:58.952 --> 06:02.133 [SPEAKER_01]: I took my board to the to the to the water. 06:02.193 --> 06:04.074 [SPEAKER_01]: That's what I was going to do instead of like the hills. 06:04.094 --> 06:06.775 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, okay, I'll get some good core in with a paddle board. 06:07.335 --> 06:08.795 [SPEAKER_01]: I could not find the fins. 06:08.875 --> 06:10.075 [SPEAKER_01]: I was ready to go. 06:10.095 --> 06:11.056 [SPEAKER_01]: All right. 06:11.076 --> 06:12.496 [SPEAKER_01]: I got my blower upper. 06:12.536 --> 06:15.257 [SPEAKER_01]: I got like an electric one this year that I can plug into this cigarette later. 06:15.757 --> 06:18.438 [SPEAKER_01]: Instead of like, uh, uh, with the pump, you know. 06:19.138 --> 06:21.478 [SPEAKER_01]: And I couldn't find the fins anywhere. 06:21.498 --> 06:22.459 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm texting kids. 06:22.499 --> 06:23.179 [SPEAKER_01]: Everybody's still 06:25.232 --> 06:27.313 [SPEAKER_01]: I have a beach wagon that I keep in the back of the truck. 06:27.333 --> 06:33.816 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like, got my chairs, it's got all the beach towels in it, whatever, and they should have been in there. 06:34.056 --> 06:35.416 [SPEAKER_01]: And they just weren't. 06:35.617 --> 06:36.417 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't understand it. 06:36.557 --> 06:38.218 [SPEAKER_01]: I tore that thing apart three times. 06:38.578 --> 06:40.959 [SPEAKER_01]: Shay, they were in there the whole time. 06:41.999 --> 06:45.941 [SPEAKER_01]: When we went to the beach later that afternoon, the fins were in the beach wagon. 06:45.961 --> 06:47.522 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if I just... 06:48.435 --> 06:52.378 [SPEAKER_01]: wasn't awake or I was so flustered that I couldn't see them. 06:52.759 --> 06:55.180 [SPEAKER_01]: I felt like people were like actually kind of gaslighting me. 06:55.741 --> 07:00.705 [SPEAKER_01]: Like are you sure somebody didn't run out to the truck and throw those fins in in the afternoon? 07:00.725 --> 07:03.087 [SPEAKER_02]: Because like that's what I was my first thought. 07:03.107 --> 07:03.787 [SPEAKER_02]: Because like you're bad. 07:03.807 --> 07:05.589 [SPEAKER_02]: I wonder if I could use them for something. 07:05.609 --> 07:06.910 [SPEAKER_02]: They weren't supposed to happen. 07:06.930 --> 07:07.090 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 07:07.711 --> 07:08.011 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 07:08.411 --> 07:10.853 [SPEAKER_01]: So let's see if this is going to air in August. 07:10.893 --> 07:22.805 [SPEAKER_01]: So right now there's some acquaintances in the community and we're trying to put together like a paddleboard group where we go out fun once a week together like a bunch of us, which I think would be so cool. 07:23.686 --> 07:24.767 [SPEAKER_02]: So that'd be really fun. 07:24.807 --> 07:25.007 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 07:26.228 --> 07:27.589 [SPEAKER_02]: You are going out in the morning. 07:27.629 --> 07:28.210 [SPEAKER_02]: Reminded me. 07:28.250 --> 07:30.312 [SPEAKER_02]: I can't remember if I told you this, but 07:32.273 --> 07:34.977 [SPEAKER_02]: We leave the end of this month for our trip. 07:35.378 --> 07:44.072 [SPEAKER_02]: And I've shared with you guys, this is kind of a funky trip to Italy because we have were there with my parents for a week ahead of time. 07:44.535 --> 07:50.537 [SPEAKER_02]: Then the guests come and we have a week with them and then we're staying for an additional week with additional family members. 07:50.957 --> 07:53.478 [SPEAKER_02]: So it's like this, this big trip. 07:54.078 --> 08:08.583 [SPEAKER_02]: Well, in my planning, we are leaving the villa on a certain day and then we're flying out of Rome back to Seattle the next day and I realized as I'm polishing up these details that we have like 30 hours in Rome. 08:10.458 --> 08:10.718 [SPEAKER_02]: done. 08:11.519 --> 08:11.919 [SPEAKER_02]: Let's go. 08:12.799 --> 08:15.021 [SPEAKER_02]: So I'll also share with you guys. 08:15.041 --> 08:15.681 [SPEAKER_02]: This is just fun. 08:15.841 --> 08:19.724 [SPEAKER_02]: This is just fun that I'm following A.S. Roma. 08:19.804 --> 08:22.285 [SPEAKER_02]: This club soccer team in Italy. 08:23.066 --> 08:31.851 [SPEAKER_02]: And it just so happens that they have a game that night at home with their like big Italian rivals in Dermalon. 08:33.307 --> 08:34.629 [SPEAKER_02]: which is my friend Andrea's team. 08:35.430 --> 08:40.195 [SPEAKER_02]: And I was like, Andrea, do you wanna go to soccer game in Rome with me and my family? 08:40.616 --> 08:41.717 [SPEAKER_02]: That's so great, Shay. 08:41.837 --> 08:44.080 [SPEAKER_01]: I can't even, it's so great. 08:45.141 --> 08:48.565 [SPEAKER_02]: So we're going to soccer game in Rome. 08:49.665 --> 08:50.826 [SPEAKER_02]: And it's, I'm just so excited. 08:51.146 --> 08:53.488 [SPEAKER_02]: But the next morning, I met with my parents last night. 08:53.528 --> 08:55.410 [SPEAKER_02]: This is their first time traveling internationally. 08:55.430 --> 08:57.652 [SPEAKER_02]: We have two other people on our trip. 08:57.692 --> 09:00.154 [SPEAKER_02]: This is their first time traveling internationally like this, too. 09:01.075 --> 09:01.595 [SPEAKER_02]: And it's fun. 09:01.635 --> 09:03.817 [SPEAKER_02]: It's fun to open this up to people. 09:05.779 --> 09:08.021 [SPEAKER_02]: So I was asking my parents, OK, you're going to be tired. 09:08.041 --> 09:09.322 [SPEAKER_02]: It's going to be at the end of this trip. 09:11.023 --> 09:13.626 [SPEAKER_02]: But if you're not too tired, 09:14.742 --> 09:20.565 [SPEAKER_02]: Our final day, the day we fly out, we can get up really early in the morning. 09:21.625 --> 09:25.807 [SPEAKER_02]: And we can go into like old Rome, and we can hit all the major sites. 09:25.827 --> 09:27.468 [SPEAKER_02]: We won't be able to like go in them. 09:27.508 --> 09:33.931 [SPEAKER_02]: They won't be open yet, but like we can go see the Colosseum, you know, and we can we can go to the Trevvy fort. 09:33.951 --> 09:40.454 [SPEAKER_02]: Like you can do this whole tour in like 45 minutes and walking before it's just before people come. 09:40.474 --> 09:40.734 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 09:44.055 --> 09:46.456 [SPEAKER_02]: Man, I'll go into walk and to do it. 09:47.336 --> 09:50.977 [SPEAKER_02]: I'll say to you guys want to do that and they were just like yeah Let's do it. 09:51.057 --> 09:51.718 [SPEAKER_02]: Let's plan on it. 09:52.078 --> 09:55.739 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, so we're like you're gonna be dead on the plane. 09:55.859 --> 09:58.320 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, you're gonna be Like we're good dead. 09:58.540 --> 10:01.000 [SPEAKER_02]: Just all we have to do is get on the plane though. 10:01.020 --> 10:05.702 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, like get on and sleep Who cares coming back is so different than go with you 10:07.300 --> 10:07.640 [SPEAKER_02]: anyway. 10:07.801 --> 10:10.063 [SPEAKER_02]: It's just going to be fun. 10:10.383 --> 10:13.726 [SPEAKER_02]: And, you know, I thought about it under the context of our theme. 10:15.687 --> 10:16.448 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, this season. 10:16.668 --> 10:17.409 [SPEAKER_02]: Make it lovely. 10:17.449 --> 10:19.991 [SPEAKER_02]: It's like, you always have these opportunities. 10:20.011 --> 10:22.253 [SPEAKER_02]: And this is what I told my parents because they are going to have a long time. 10:22.293 --> 10:32.062 [SPEAKER_02]: I was like, you're going to have opportunities where you could be like, you know, we could just, we could just hang out and grab a little something to eat out of the refrigerator and take a nap or you could go sit at the coffee shop. 10:32.342 --> 10:34.364 [SPEAKER_02]: You could try to make conversations with strangers. 10:35.765 --> 10:41.348 [SPEAKER_02]: You could do, we'll walk around the village, like you could go out and have a glass of wine instead of going to bed early. 10:41.368 --> 10:46.911 [SPEAKER_02]: Like these are all these beautiful options that you have ways that make your days lovely. 10:47.371 --> 10:47.571 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 10:48.431 --> 10:53.274 [SPEAKER_02]: And those are really the differences between like, people you want to travel with. 10:53.654 --> 10:55.695 [SPEAKER_02]: People you don't want to travel with. 10:56.856 --> 10:58.277 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, I, yeah. 10:59.037 --> 11:00.198 [SPEAKER_01]: I am like kind of in that, 11:03.533 --> 11:13.660 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm in that space right now, like make something interesting, make something fun, you know, whatever, whether it's me, like deciding to just jump in after my workout. 11:13.680 --> 11:21.085 [SPEAKER_01]: So we're doing this paddleboard group, but the other day my mom came up and she's like, do you want to go out for oysters? 11:21.125 --> 11:25.427 [SPEAKER_01]: Cause you didn't get to one of your birthday, my birthday was super weird this year and lame. 11:26.348 --> 11:28.129 [SPEAKER_01]: Super weird, cause that my family was gone. 11:28.469 --> 11:29.250 [SPEAKER_01]: They went to the air show. 11:29.811 --> 11:33.293 [SPEAKER_01]: I think I've mentioned that online and they got home early. 11:33.393 --> 11:38.176 [SPEAKER_01]: I was going to take myself out and they got home early and totally ruined my vibe. 11:38.496 --> 11:41.418 [SPEAKER_02]: You know, I was all in the, like, okay, how are they like, Mom, what's for dinner? 11:42.038 --> 11:44.099 [SPEAKER_01]: I got the text, like, do you want me to feed them on the way home? 11:44.139 --> 11:45.260 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, yeah. 11:46.120 --> 11:50.463 [SPEAKER_01]: Are you kidding me? 11:53.380 --> 11:56.701 [SPEAKER_01]: So I didn't go out and so that was great. 11:56.721 --> 12:12.684 [SPEAKER_01]: She came five days later and because she likes to come up and like work in the store with me for a day and help me Clean it up and whatever so We were gonna go out for oysters and then We had this tornado in our community a couple hours from here. 12:12.744 --> 12:18.545 [SPEAKER_01]: Our and a half hour and 45 from here and it was really bad and it was quite a surprise and 12:20.185 --> 12:37.321 [SPEAKER_01]: uh just devastating um and uh Aiden texted me the next day said I just was gonna touch base with you because I'm gonna go down and help because he's got all the heavy equipment and everything and I'm gonna go down and help and I don't think they have service down there right now so I just wanted to let you know. 12:38.222 --> 12:48.746 [SPEAKER_01]: where I am for the day blah blah blah and he goes, it's Samara's day off and Samara's his sweetie and she works like six days a week and he's like, I don't think she's very thrilled. 12:50.247 --> 12:54.069 [SPEAKER_01]: And so I said, well, mom's coming up and we're gonna go out for dinner. 12:54.149 --> 13:00.671 [SPEAKER_01]: So why don't I ask Samara, she wants to go out for dinner and she works really close to the house and she can just spend the night and hang out with us. 13:01.212 --> 13:06.354 [SPEAKER_01]: So it turns out my mom and I and Samara and Amelie went out for oysters. 13:07.054 --> 13:30.935 [SPEAKER_01]: like my favorite restaurant in town and my grandma would have this expression we had big extended family and every time at the farm there was like a new combination she'd go oh we've never had this combination before you know like if it was like an uncle and a random cousin and whatever so my mom was like oh we've never had this combination before she kept saying it all evening and this restaurant is right on the water so we went out to look 13:35.126 --> 13:43.075 [SPEAKER_01]: two or three, just yachts that come up where you're just like, wow, that is how the other half lives. 13:43.155 --> 13:45.618 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, it's incredible. 13:45.898 --> 13:46.759 [SPEAKER_01]: It's just incredible. 13:47.339 --> 13:53.066 [SPEAKER_01]: And there was someone sitting on the top of the yacht, and somehow I was like, I want to see the inside of that yacht. 13:54.688 --> 13:56.930 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to go ask her if I can see the inside of that yacht. 13:57.837 --> 13:58.197 [SPEAKER_01]: Wow. 13:58.477 --> 14:09.040 [SPEAKER_01]: So I'm just getting to know this young woman like hanging out with her outside of Aiden being around, which is so precious to me if she's going to be my new daughter someday, right? 14:09.780 --> 14:11.601 [SPEAKER_01]: So we're walking down the pier. 14:12.161 --> 14:13.221 [SPEAKER_01]: She totally bales. 14:13.261 --> 14:14.982 [SPEAKER_01]: She goes, are you going to ask her or am I? 14:15.002 --> 14:17.022 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, oh gosh. 14:17.563 --> 14:18.923 [SPEAKER_01]: It just dogged me. 14:20.003 --> 14:20.763 [SPEAKER_01]: So I did. 14:20.823 --> 14:23.804 [SPEAKER_01]: She was like one of the tackiest things I've ever done in my life. 14:24.064 --> 14:25.165 [SPEAKER_00]: Like excuse me. 14:27.026 --> 14:35.813 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm poor, I'm poor, and you're just sitting there watching this sunset could we see the inside of your six million dollars. 14:39.695 --> 14:41.377 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, what I would do anything for my kids. 14:41.657 --> 14:44.639 [SPEAKER_01]: So if this falls under the I'll do anything for my kids category. 14:44.899 --> 14:48.342 [SPEAKER_01]: So the woman was we took her a little back, plus her heart. 14:48.542 --> 14:49.783 [SPEAKER_01]: She was so gracious. 14:50.383 --> 14:55.227 [SPEAKER_01]: We got to visiting, we just took a peek inside because they were like remodeling and we could. 14:56.080 --> 14:59.344 [SPEAKER_01]: They were like shifting out the mattresses and like literally remodeling this yacht. 14:59.484 --> 15:07.272 [SPEAKER_01]: And I tell her I have a shop in town, blah, blah, blah, blah, just like trying to thank her and be cool, trying to be cool. 15:07.292 --> 15:09.174 [SPEAKER_02]: Well, you're like, you have six million dollars. 15:09.234 --> 15:11.256 [SPEAKER_02]: Have you heard of every day of truck tow? 15:12.458 --> 15:12.618 [UNKNOWN]: No. 15:13.238 --> 15:17.180 [SPEAKER_02]: Do you need some chandeliers and vintage French art for your y'all? 15:17.200 --> 15:18.100 [SPEAKER_02]: You're terrible, baby. 15:20.221 --> 15:25.324 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, she was just so kind, and then, so we had fun. 15:25.344 --> 15:39.150 [SPEAKER_01]: That was a funny story, okay, and asked to see this yacht, like, it was just, we got the giggles about it on the way home and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, and then we got home and we're trying to figure out how they get from Miami to Sister Bay and blah, blah, blah. 15:39.470 --> 15:41.531 [SPEAKER_01]: So then the next day, I take the kids to the beach. 15:42.977 --> 15:45.378 [SPEAKER_01]: Just get situated, I've worked all day at the shop. 15:45.938 --> 15:51.440 [SPEAKER_01]: We switch spots, Joel comes in, so I can take the kids to the beach for an hour before coming home to make dinner. 15:51.740 --> 15:55.801 [SPEAKER_01]: And I get situated in my chair, I'm like, oh, I'm alive. 15:56.341 --> 15:56.621 [SPEAKER_01]: Right? 15:57.081 --> 15:59.182 [SPEAKER_01]: I check my phone, Joel's like, she's here. 16:02.978 --> 16:06.359 [SPEAKER_01]: I stand up, I'm like, ship to shore, I'm waving at the kids out in the water. 16:06.720 --> 16:08.941 [SPEAKER_01]: Don't drown, I'll be back. 16:09.401 --> 16:15.123 [SPEAKER_01]: And like, for the first time ever, I left my kids at the beach, I'm like, I go run to the truck, run to the shop. 16:15.823 --> 16:21.106 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm in my beach cover up, I'm like, hey, oh, hey girl, oh, hey girl. 16:23.447 --> 16:27.428 [SPEAKER_01]: But it was great because like, I think we might get to know each other. 16:27.608 --> 16:28.009 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, we get on. 16:30.032 --> 16:34.055 [SPEAKER_01]: So we've we've we stood there and visited for like 45 minutes was fun. 16:34.075 --> 16:39.738 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, yeah, so it's just like Just live in right feel good. 16:39.858 --> 16:40.839 [SPEAKER_01]: It feels so good. 16:40.859 --> 16:44.781 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah You gotta just do some of those things. 16:44.881 --> 16:53.467 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh my gosh I'll tell you what is that partly like an old age thing does it come over you and you're just like I got it I need to 16:55.375 --> 17:01.297 [SPEAKER_01]: Did you just say, is that an old age thing? 17:01.317 --> 17:08.899 [SPEAKER_02]: Holy crap, Shay, the losers are screaming at you right now saying that's you. 17:08.999 --> 17:13.041 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm saying like, you're way more like that now than you were when you were a 40. 17:13.281 --> 17:15.942 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, way more like that now at 40 than I was it third. 17:15.962 --> 17:17.562 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, to be fair for sure to be fair. 17:17.602 --> 17:22.964 [SPEAKER_02]: That's what I mean, as you get older, does that piece of you grow where? 17:24.248 --> 17:26.890 [SPEAKER_02]: You know, I think held on the right trajectory. 17:26.950 --> 17:48.687 [SPEAKER_02]: This is where you get like the really cool, eclectic grandma vibe because you've just had this person who for the last 30 or 40 years has sort of been undoing in some ways that thirst, that first 30 or 40 years of trying to do the exact right thing and trying to people please and trying to be this version of herself and everybody thinks she's supposed to be. 17:48.747 --> 17:52.009 [SPEAKER_02]: Like, no, we don't ask people to go see their yachts or you know? 17:53.935 --> 17:56.496 [SPEAKER_02]: She's sort of just kind of veers over time. 17:57.436 --> 18:04.418 [SPEAKER_02]: Decades, even, veers in a slightly different direction of just like liveness. 18:05.279 --> 18:14.062 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I think, I mean, I think I'm the kind of person that would probably always ask to say the had someone asked me to like that wouldn't be something I would come up on my own with. 18:14.122 --> 18:17.243 [SPEAKER_01]: But like, if I was like, what happened to the other night in a group of people? 18:17.283 --> 18:18.343 [SPEAKER_01]: All right, so who's doing this? 18:19.244 --> 18:32.609 [SPEAKER_01]: Right, I'm doing it, you know, but to the, I think I've talked about this before to the idea of community, like, I'm, I'm down with it. 18:32.949 --> 18:33.709 [SPEAKER_01]: I need it. 18:34.109 --> 18:40.871 [SPEAKER_01]: I want it in a way like I did not for well over for probably 20, 20 years. 18:42.572 --> 18:47.236 [SPEAKER_01]: like friends, friends, stupid thing, paddleboard groups, whatever. 18:47.276 --> 18:49.078 [SPEAKER_01]: Like I'm just like, who wants to hang out with me? 18:49.899 --> 18:53.602 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, you know, and I, I just think it's a bandwidth for me. 18:54.002 --> 18:57.245 [SPEAKER_01]: I think it's a, it's probably partly hormonal. 18:58.146 --> 19:07.049 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like many things too that I feel like in my life I'm doing to get ready for the last car to leave, which again, don't want to talk about. 19:07.429 --> 19:09.550 [SPEAKER_01]: But like, you know, that's why I started the trips. 19:09.690 --> 19:22.074 [SPEAKER_01]: I wanted like a solid portion of my business that wasn't me sitting at a computer that involved other people and I wanted it to be like a star blusher by the time my kids left home. 19:22.834 --> 19:23.015 [SPEAKER_02]: Right. 19:23.035 --> 19:24.635 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, that's why I started the store. 19:24.855 --> 19:25.135 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 19:25.715 --> 19:27.136 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want to be sitting in front of a computer. 19:27.596 --> 19:28.276 [SPEAKER_02]: Right. 19:28.336 --> 19:46.142 [SPEAKER_01]: I want to have like this energetic piece where I'm in my community and I'm like people people people you know and so and now like even relationally like I am I hope they're not listening but like I have people in the community like I am seeking them out. 19:46.683 --> 19:47.843 [SPEAKER_01]: I want to be friends with them 19:49.863 --> 20:05.728 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, yeah, I want to build a relationship with a few people that I've interacted with a few times in the last couple of years and and I have a couple Will they listen to the show, but I have a couple of ladies that I've connected with in other areas. 20:05.768 --> 20:06.608 [SPEAKER_01]: They've been on my trips. 20:06.648 --> 20:07.328 [SPEAKER_01]: They listen to the show. 20:07.348 --> 20:08.929 [SPEAKER_01]: Like we do zoom calls like why? 20:08.949 --> 20:09.349 [SPEAKER_00]: Hi Nadine. 20:09.369 --> 20:09.609 [SPEAKER_00]: Hi Nadine. 20:09.629 --> 20:10.369 [SPEAKER_01]: Nadine and Krista. 20:10.409 --> 20:10.929 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay shout out. 20:11.209 --> 20:13.070 [SPEAKER_00]: Look at this scarf Nadine gave me for my birthday. 20:13.390 --> 20:14.390 [SPEAKER_01]: Nadine, I'm wearing a scarf. 20:15.011 --> 20:16.651 [SPEAKER_01]: Um, yeah, I want it. 20:16.811 --> 20:17.932 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I'm hungry for it. 20:18.152 --> 20:20.833 [SPEAKER_01]: And I, that's so interesting to me. 20:20.893 --> 20:27.236 [SPEAKER_01]: So I'm like getting to know this person that, um, I still really like to be alone. 20:28.036 --> 20:29.497 [SPEAKER_01]: I really like to be alone. 20:30.657 --> 20:36.200 [SPEAKER_01]: But in the past, I was like not hungry for other people in the way that I am now. 20:36.320 --> 20:37.900 [SPEAKER_01]: And so I'm having a lot of fun. 20:37.920 --> 20:38.681 [SPEAKER_01]: And. 20:40.502 --> 20:52.050 [SPEAKER_01]: Yesterday on the beach, I was just after I got back from this experience and I just get settled in my chair again, my ears like, Hark, I hear French. 20:53.502 --> 20:57.305 [SPEAKER_01]: And like this family walked past me and I'm like, that is not Canadian. 20:57.846 --> 20:59.407 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, that is French French. 21:00.668 --> 21:04.511 [SPEAKER_01]: So I just buy it at my time if you can use buy it in the past tense. 21:05.552 --> 21:06.693 [SPEAKER_01]: I bought it at my time. 21:06.713 --> 21:08.154 [SPEAKER_01]: I did it at my time. 21:08.635 --> 21:13.739 [SPEAKER_01]: And I just waited and then I went for a swim and I heard them on the out on the like, 21:14.991 --> 21:16.852 [SPEAKER_01]: floaty thing that the kids jump off of. 21:16.992 --> 21:19.173 [SPEAKER_01]: I was like, in front, it feels me. 21:20.814 --> 21:23.556 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, so that was you want to talk with me? 21:23.576 --> 21:25.357 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, so it's fun. 21:25.557 --> 21:26.157 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm having fun. 21:28.198 --> 21:28.699 [SPEAKER_01]: It's different. 21:28.879 --> 21:30.940 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a different it's different. 21:32.261 --> 21:33.281 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, that's what I mean. 21:34.202 --> 21:36.263 [SPEAKER_02]: I think that just changes as you get older because 21:38.740 --> 21:54.738 [SPEAKER_02]: It does, you know, okay, so this season we were talking about making it lovely and I was actually thinking about suggesting that we do an episode on like making friendships lovely because I think it's a piece of, um, of life that women actually really struggle with. 21:56.600 --> 21:57.360 [SPEAKER_02]: And it's different. 21:57.821 --> 21:59.583 [SPEAKER_02]: So like when your kids are really little. 22:01.018 --> 22:23.059 [SPEAKER_02]: you just what I go to the park you know you want to do a quick play date where we have coffee and the kids play for an hour um that stuff was always really hard for me I really didn't like it at all I didn't I was like I just kind of wanted to do play dates not isolate but like I wasn't really interested in I was not either yeah and so I I guess I can look at it like 22:24.826 --> 22:33.611 [SPEAKER_01]: Like now I'm paying for that because I don't have that or like that's just where I you know I okay, so yeah, I see women and I used to 22:37.749 --> 22:40.592 [SPEAKER_01]: Whatever, you throughout your life, you see these groups of women. 22:40.812 --> 22:42.054 [SPEAKER_01]: My mom and I were talking about this. 22:42.134 --> 22:48.021 [SPEAKER_01]: She's like, there's women in her neighborhood and they've all grown up in this same community and now they live in the same neighborhood. 22:48.041 --> 22:49.903 [SPEAKER_01]: Their kids were all catechized together. 22:49.923 --> 22:52.365 [SPEAKER_01]: Da-da-da-da-da-da-da, they go on vacation together. 22:52.666 --> 22:54.248 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, they're like a tribe, right? 22:54.868 --> 22:55.869 [SPEAKER_01]: I never had that. 22:56.650 --> 23:03.432 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, the closest I had was like, um, a really great small group in church for a handful of years. 23:03.472 --> 23:09.313 [SPEAKER_01]: And the husbands were friends, the wives were friends, we did stuff together, you know, but that we were young and people went their separate ways. 23:09.833 --> 23:17.195 [SPEAKER_01]: I think there is something to, for my experience, having, like, for the most part lived not in a neighborhood. 23:19.468 --> 23:32.273 [SPEAKER_01]: Um, I didn't go to college, you know, I got married young, so it's like I didn't go do all my friends were doing in high school or whatever, um, entrepreneur. 23:33.966 --> 23:40.310 [SPEAKER_01]: like a lot of kids, so that does segregate you a little bit from people with one or two, you know, it's different. 23:42.531 --> 23:53.317 [SPEAKER_01]: And so I think there was like a lot of where my soloness was like a part of my circumstances and also intentional. 23:55.805 --> 23:57.866 [SPEAKER_01]: And so it's it is interesting to me. 23:58.187 --> 23:59.788 [SPEAKER_01]: No, I'm like no, no, no, no, no, no. 24:00.548 --> 24:05.891 [SPEAKER_01]: We're going to have some old lady friends that we can throw down with in a decade. 24:06.112 --> 24:08.013 [SPEAKER_01]: Like we're going to build this here. 24:09.434 --> 24:20.921 [SPEAKER_01]: So yeah, maybe as you said, an old age, but I do, no, no, I know, but like I've talked to Nadine and Krista and they concur like the building of friendships is hard. 24:22.665 --> 24:32.550 [SPEAKER_01]: It is hard, and there is a loneliness aspect, for sure, which I have seen over and over and over again in conversations with the women on my trips. 24:33.531 --> 24:39.514 [SPEAKER_01]: It's not just that there's a couple people, maybe like me, who just really wanna make a few more friends. 24:40.235 --> 24:40.915 [SPEAKER_01]: It's not just like, 24:41.475 --> 24:49.057 [SPEAKER_01]: All the other ladies have these groups of friends and these tribes that they've been hanging out with and they I think that's probably more rare Based on what I've seen. 24:49.558 --> 24:59.521 [SPEAKER_01]: I do think and like blow up the comments like I do think there are women that are just low-key lonely They just want more relationships. 25:02.522 --> 25:03.522 [SPEAKER_02]: I Was explaining to 25:05.223 --> 25:19.843 [SPEAKER_02]: One of my daughters recently about how friendships kind of have to work because I do think they kind of come, especially when they're younger if you have something in common, it's like, oh, we'll work best friends and as you get older. 25:21.608 --> 25:32.234 [SPEAKER_02]: friendships do get a little bit more complicated, but I was also trying to explain to her like, you don't have to love everything about a person to be friends with them. 25:32.614 --> 25:33.015 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 25:33.515 --> 25:41.640 [SPEAKER_02]: There is a lot of covering things over with love and with grace and just saying, you're my friend, you're being kind of pissy today. 25:42.060 --> 25:42.800 [SPEAKER_02]: Whatever. 25:43.161 --> 25:45.922 [SPEAKER_02]: I really don't like the way you handle this or, you know, 25:48.743 --> 25:52.465 [SPEAKER_02]: letting them be a human too and just saying, but we're friends. 25:53.066 --> 25:57.669 [SPEAKER_02]: And that means that love covers a multitude of things. 25:58.029 --> 25:58.189 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 25:58.249 --> 26:02.732 [SPEAKER_02]: And you just, you decide, no, we are going to be friends. 26:03.453 --> 26:07.575 [SPEAKER_02]: And that means we're going to extend love, charity, and grace to each other. 26:07.595 --> 26:09.397 [SPEAKER_02]: We're going to keep short accounts. 26:09.917 --> 26:14.420 [SPEAKER_02]: You know, we're going to just have this relationship, 26:16.541 --> 26:42.252 [SPEAKER_02]: I'll give and take in a friendship takes effort and I think because we can kind of be so semi-ish connected you have a coin in says you know people online I think it actually makes like real big intimate like a handful of intimate relationships kind of hard because it does mean you got to check in with people. 26:42.672 --> 26:42.812 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 26:42.872 --> 26:50.176 [SPEAKER_02]: It means you got to like remember their birthday and and reach out to them when you know they're having a hard time or these kinds of things. 26:50.556 --> 26:51.137 [SPEAKER_02]: That takes effort. 26:51.377 --> 26:53.658 [SPEAKER_02]: You can't really do that for a ton of people. 26:55.279 --> 26:55.459 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 26:55.599 --> 26:58.381 [SPEAKER_01]: And I think it's good to have eyes to who else. 27:00.608 --> 27:02.431 [SPEAKER_01]: who else is seeking friends. 27:02.651 --> 27:08.119 [SPEAKER_01]: I think it's just really easy to think like everybody's got their friends at. 27:08.179 --> 27:16.711 [SPEAKER_01]: And there are things that, you know, like I have kind of even looked into why has it been hard to make friends in this community. 27:18.373 --> 27:25.955 [SPEAKER_01]: in particular for me, you know, and there is research that shows like after a certain age, people are pretty established. 27:26.675 --> 27:30.036 [SPEAKER_01]: Like that it does become harder to make friends. 27:30.696 --> 27:46.320 [SPEAKER_01]: People have their little system, whether it's adequate or inadequate, and they're not on the pursuit like when you're younger, like when you're sitting on the park bench, and you meet another mom, and you're like, oh, we have something in common, you know, people are kind of, 27:48.302 --> 27:48.513 [UNKNOWN]: Thank you. 27:50.038 --> 27:51.158 [SPEAKER_01]: Hi, friends, it's Angela. 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know yeah yeah you can't just keep taking them on yeah 30:49.945 --> 31:07.377 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, we've had a lot of people reach out since doing the rebrand asking if we're planning to move to Italy and it's an interesting question, we have some comments that I want to read through, but it's an interesting question because what happens when you move, which is a very normal thing. 31:07.790 --> 31:09.272 [SPEAKER_02]: for our families to do nowadays. 31:09.332 --> 31:21.745 [SPEAKER_02]: We're so much more mobile than we used to be, yeah, relocation is such a common occurrence for families, but when you do that, you are signing on to be an outsider. 31:22.446 --> 31:29.854 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, and there were a bunch of families and our vicinity that moved out of Washington during COVID to, 31:31.737 --> 31:32.377 [SPEAKER_02]: easier states. 31:33.017 --> 31:48.981 [SPEAKER_02]: Let's just say how you say yeah but you know like they didn't want to tell people they were from Washington because it pins you in sort of this particular hole and people see you as an outsider. 31:50.222 --> 31:59.384 [SPEAKER_02]: I think that's like it's not that it can't be done obviously lots of people do it but you have to know you are not belonging here. 32:00.787 --> 32:05.432 [SPEAKER_02]: for some time, for some time. 32:06.253 --> 32:08.376 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I would say I was not aware of that. 32:08.936 --> 32:11.519 [SPEAKER_01]: I was like, okay, I've vacationed up here for 20 years. 32:11.679 --> 32:14.703 [SPEAKER_01]: I know a few people, I know my way around totally. 32:14.763 --> 32:17.366 [SPEAKER_01]: Nothing's, I know, you know, everything, you know. 32:20.783 --> 32:40.439 [SPEAKER_01]: this is easy and I'm still like we live in a very elderly community so it's easy to think okay everybody here is just ancient you know what you quote the story and you're like oh my goodness gracious this is like am I the youngest person in the building even me and woman of elder 32:44.700 --> 32:54.003 [SPEAKER_01]: Um, I have, in the last couple of years coming, content or like I've met like new groups of people and I'm like, where have you been the whole time? 32:54.583 --> 32:57.964 [SPEAKER_01]: You live here, you've lived here for the last eight years, whatever. 32:58.044 --> 33:03.806 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my gosh, you surely weren't going to the pig on a nursing home day. 33:04.106 --> 33:04.986 [SPEAKER_01]: Goodness gracious. 33:05.666 --> 33:06.727 [SPEAKER_02]: You know what's interesting though? 33:06.747 --> 33:07.307 [SPEAKER_02]: So like I, 33:07.907 --> 33:09.808 [SPEAKER_02]: live in the town where I grew up. 33:11.109 --> 33:12.930 [SPEAKER_02]: I live in the town where my parents grew up. 33:15.111 --> 33:17.572 [SPEAKER_02]: My great grandparents didn't grow up here. 33:17.972 --> 33:19.113 [SPEAKER_02]: They grew up in Montana. 33:21.975 --> 33:31.300 [SPEAKER_02]: But, you know, they grew up all of my grandparents sort of grew up in various places because all of their family were immigrants. 33:32.480 --> 33:58.565 [SPEAKER_02]: Right, and so they didn't really have a place of belonging, so they like, one of my families came down through, it was like the Norwegian sweep through Canada, that came down through then like South Dakota, Montana into Washington, which is like a really common trail for groups of Norwegians, the other group of Norwegians did the same sweep, but through the United States, they did up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, they ended up here, 33:58.705 --> 34:00.286 [SPEAKER_01]: in Washington and in Door County. 34:00.306 --> 34:04.089 [SPEAKER_02]: Well, a lot of them stopped in Door County because they just came across those top states. 34:04.149 --> 34:04.330 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 34:04.390 --> 34:05.651 [SPEAKER_01]: And they're like, oh, that looks like home. 34:05.811 --> 34:06.291 [SPEAKER_02]: We'll get mad. 34:06.311 --> 34:07.472 [SPEAKER_02]: That's far enough, right? 34:10.234 --> 34:12.036 [SPEAKER_02]: But um, so I grew up. 34:12.396 --> 34:18.681 [SPEAKER_02]: I have generational family community ties to where I live. 34:20.683 --> 34:22.324 [SPEAKER_02]: But what's interesting is that 34:24.092 --> 34:37.716 [SPEAKER_02]: I wouldn't say those particular like arc-stended families are like particularly close, but it will be the type of thing like you're at safe way and you're right into your uncle okay okay and I've weighed I've tried to really way. 34:39.237 --> 34:42.978 [SPEAKER_02]: How much value that holds because on one hand. 34:46.333 --> 34:58.886 [SPEAKER_02]: You know people right you have connection and no one can say you don't belong here because you're like, well, this yes I do yes I do on the other hand. 35:01.489 --> 35:02.991 [SPEAKER_02]: It can be really tricky to. 35:04.720 --> 35:06.641 [SPEAKER_02]: live in a place that you have lived your whole life. 35:06.801 --> 35:12.284 [SPEAKER_02]: Like, that comes with its own weighty things where I'm like, oh, look, that's why I went to high school and that's where that stupid thing happened. 35:12.304 --> 35:13.585 [SPEAKER_02]: And that stupid thing happened. 35:15.746 --> 35:18.768 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know, like, if one of those is better than the other. 35:19.729 --> 35:21.570 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, I think, no, I don't think so. 35:21.710 --> 35:22.270 [SPEAKER_01]: And I think, uh, 35:26.162 --> 35:30.326 [SPEAKER_01]: I was going to say either is temporary, but it's not temporary if you're going to stay and you've been there your whole life. 35:30.426 --> 35:35.531 [SPEAKER_02]: But like, right, what I thought about living in Italy, like, could I live as an alien? 35:36.032 --> 35:38.434 [SPEAKER_02]: Could I live as somebody who does not belong? 35:39.716 --> 35:43.680 [SPEAKER_02]: And to the point where, like, you couldn't even say, oh, well, yeah, this is where my grandma was from. 35:43.860 --> 35:47.043 [SPEAKER_02]: Like, no, there's not a tie, there's not a draw. 35:47.463 --> 35:48.825 [SPEAKER_02]: Could you live like that? 35:50.672 --> 35:57.137 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, that's, okay, but that's the temporary because like we have no connection to this place. 35:57.397 --> 36:09.327 [SPEAKER_01]: We've been here almost a decade and while we knew like three people when we got here, like we, I know everybody, like I, I actually like get excited leaving the house. 36:09.347 --> 36:10.548 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, I'm gonna run into somebody. 36:10.918 --> 36:21.484 [SPEAKER_01]: Like the community is so small and I love that and it took time, you know, but obviously I would never say like I have family from here. 36:21.524 --> 36:30.068 [SPEAKER_01]: I have no kin in the area to speak of, but, but now I know, but now I, you know, I'm a part of the community. 36:31.209 --> 36:38.413 [SPEAKER_02]: So yeah, even if you're still assassinate, you know, yeah, exactly, even if you're still a trans plan. 36:38.473 --> 36:38.693 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 36:40.122 --> 36:45.866 [SPEAKER_02]: And also, you, you know, you've told me this this week on our private got, you're like, look, you're allowed to take up space. 36:46.926 --> 36:47.207 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 36:47.587 --> 36:47.967 [SPEAKER_02]: Hello. 36:48.367 --> 36:49.548 [SPEAKER_02]: You're allowed to take up space. 36:50.569 --> 36:52.290 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, oh, you know, I shade. 36:52.590 --> 36:55.352 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm, I'm, that's, I forgot I said that. 36:56.092 --> 36:57.033 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm taking it all up. 36:58.554 --> 36:59.014 [SPEAKER_02]: What do you mean? 36:59.254 --> 37:00.315 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, that's my chapter. 37:00.395 --> 37:01.776 [SPEAKER_01]: That's the next chapter of my life. 37:01.836 --> 37:03.117 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm just going to be a space taker. 37:04.236 --> 37:12.510 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, even more so like I love it like how so I don't know just everything like think about the stories I've told for the last 20 minutes like taking it up 37:14.240 --> 37:14.480 [SPEAKER_01]: do it. 37:16.520 --> 37:16.981 [SPEAKER_01]: Go to Italy. 37:17.241 --> 37:17.741 [SPEAKER_01]: Take up space. 37:18.461 --> 37:18.661 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 37:20.301 --> 37:20.981 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I don't know. 37:21.121 --> 37:21.682 [SPEAKER_01]: It's interesting. 37:21.842 --> 37:23.282 [SPEAKER_02]: Not planning on moving to Italy anyway. 37:23.382 --> 37:23.622 [SPEAKER_02]: I know. 37:24.662 --> 37:25.102 [SPEAKER_02]: She's not. 37:25.202 --> 37:26.202 [SPEAKER_01]: She's actually not guys. 37:26.523 --> 37:27.263 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm actually not. 37:27.523 --> 37:27.683 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 37:28.423 --> 37:28.603 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 37:28.743 --> 37:29.483 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm actually not. 37:29.543 --> 37:30.443 [SPEAKER_02]: Despite what I don't think. 37:31.183 --> 37:31.944 [SPEAKER_02]: Well, it's interesting. 37:32.024 --> 37:33.044 [SPEAKER_02]: So we got this comment. 37:33.204 --> 37:33.924 [SPEAKER_02]: Two comments. 37:33.984 --> 37:34.584 [SPEAKER_02]: We're in a row. 37:34.744 --> 37:34.864 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 37:34.884 --> 37:36.305 [SPEAKER_02]: And I wonder if they were Goats. 37:36.745 --> 37:37.265 [SPEAKER_02]: Goats. 37:39.085 --> 37:40.766 [SPEAKER_02]: But here's one from Madison, sushi. 37:40.826 --> 37:42.307 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, I'm loving this season. 37:42.347 --> 37:46.169 [SPEAKER_02]: It would be fun if you guys did a make it lovely, being an American. 37:47.090 --> 37:53.474 [SPEAKER_02]: I love so, so much hearing you guys talk about Italy and France, especially as someone who has never been to Europe, but would possibly like to someday. 37:53.854 --> 37:57.896 [SPEAKER_02]: But as an American, I would just love to hear what you both find lovely about living in the United States. 37:58.917 --> 38:03.619 [SPEAKER_02]: And it sounds like she has a lot of family heritage that has been passed on beautifully, just an idea. 38:06.717 --> 38:08.662 [SPEAKER_02]: I cannot stress enough. 38:10.226 --> 38:16.160 [SPEAKER_02]: Once you get past that like cage stage of like, oh, Europe is so cool, it has so much history. 38:17.569 --> 38:20.271 [SPEAKER_02]: I love being an American. 38:20.871 --> 38:21.091 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. 38:21.772 --> 38:25.434 [SPEAKER_02]: I genuinely love being an American. 38:26.534 --> 38:34.219 [SPEAKER_02]: I love this country and I feel so truly blessed to live here. 38:34.919 --> 38:38.161 [SPEAKER_02]: And that's not something that I'm willing to give up. 38:39.662 --> 38:43.404 [SPEAKER_02]: There is a reason why there was a mass 38:46.638 --> 39:09.443 [SPEAKER_02]: And, you know, it's interesting because people who do move to Europe, I'm generalizing, typically, okay, where does this go, don't have fat, don't, sometimes I like to scare her, she's like, are we going to have to edit this out, they don't have families, and they're not Christian. 39:13.442 --> 39:35.092 [SPEAKER_01]: This isn't true of everywhere in Europe, but it is a very pagan place, it is, it is, it is, it is, I had, I mean, just objectively, it is, I think it's her name, Leanne, I follow this girl on Instagram, she is so adorable, she's like in her early 20s and she is a French girl obsessed with the United States. 39:37.535 --> 39:39.036 [SPEAKER_02]: And it's a Josh from England. 39:39.256 --> 39:40.818 [SPEAKER_01]: Have you ever watched Josh from England? 39:40.978 --> 39:42.379 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I love him. 39:42.399 --> 39:42.779 [SPEAKER_01]: I love him. 39:43.780 --> 39:44.961 [SPEAKER_01]: She is just so precious. 39:45.061 --> 39:51.425 [SPEAKER_01]: She's just like, look, I don't think she's a believer per se, but she's like, you're actually allowed to talk about God here. 39:51.926 --> 39:54.548 [SPEAKER_01]: And like, people don't think you're having like a mental breakdown. 39:55.428 --> 39:55.749 [SPEAKER_01]: You know? 39:56.689 --> 39:58.631 [SPEAKER_01]: And or mentally unstable, rather. 39:59.311 --> 40:02.354 [SPEAKER_01]: And she, I cash, I don't quite remember what her story is. 40:02.394 --> 40:05.476 [SPEAKER_01]: If she lived here with her parents and then fell in love with it so much that she came back. 40:07.933 --> 40:11.878 [SPEAKER_01]: She's like going on long, dry, like Sunday drives, listening to country music. 40:11.958 --> 40:14.201 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, she fell in love. 40:14.801 --> 40:14.982 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 40:15.162 --> 40:22.450 [SPEAKER_01]: And the things that she loves about America, like, are the, you know, there's no NASCAR vibe in France, right? 40:22.590 --> 40:23.031 [SPEAKER_01]: That like, 40:24.212 --> 40:33.034 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sorry if this is offensive like hillbilly like just country Love it I look it gives me goose bumps. 40:33.054 --> 40:44.117 [SPEAKER_01]: You know when like my son pulls in the driveway with his big old rusty pickup truck And it's loud and he's got a flag and it gets out with his dirty oily boots and he's just so adorable. 40:44.157 --> 40:45.298 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like yeah 40:47.158 --> 40:49.499 [SPEAKER_02]: No, there's there's no vibe like that. 40:49.519 --> 40:50.139 [SPEAKER_02]: No vibe like that. 40:50.219 --> 41:10.206 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm like there's no vibe like and I'll tell you what when I come home The first thing I do is let's not the country The home country roads There's a place for like non-ironic flannel wearing and there's there is space here 41:11.426 --> 41:34.437 [SPEAKER_01]: there is freedom like we're just it's the soup we swim in so we just don't even we don't even think about it yeah and you think about it you really you know in our I'm sure in our respective language lessons you really unpeeled that onion a lot because your comparing notes and you're like really can't do that what oh man you know and I'll tell you what like I've explained in Italian to multiple dooders the five solos are the referements 41:35.597 --> 41:37.678 [SPEAKER_02]: because they don't have any context. 41:37.698 --> 41:41.760 [SPEAKER_02]: When I say, I'm a Christian, they're like, oh, you're Catholic, I'm like, no, I'm a Protestant. 41:42.421 --> 41:43.521 [SPEAKER_02]: There's no context. 41:44.022 --> 41:53.687 [SPEAKER_02]: They don't know what I mean when I say that, because for so many, for the mass majority, especially the younger generations, they are 41:54.685 --> 41:56.265 [SPEAKER_02]: all speak plainly and generally. 41:56.625 --> 41:57.706 [SPEAKER_02]: They are struggling. 41:58.006 --> 41:59.646 [SPEAKER_02]: They have a hard time finding jobs. 42:00.026 --> 42:01.706 [SPEAKER_02]: The jobs don't pay very much money. 42:02.006 --> 42:11.768 [SPEAKER_02]: My Italian tutor was telling me that her friend interviewed for a job and had the audacity to ask how much the job paid. 42:12.408 --> 42:13.909 [SPEAKER_02]: And because of that, they say, you can't. 42:14.309 --> 42:15.809 [SPEAKER_02]: You'll know when you get your first paycheck. 42:16.249 --> 42:19.590 [SPEAKER_02]: And Alexander was telling me, you do not ask how much a job pays. 42:19.650 --> 42:20.890 [SPEAKER_02]: It's not in the job listing. 42:21.690 --> 42:28.393 [SPEAKER_02]: If you get the job, when they send you your first paycheck, you'll know how much, but you do not switch careers. 42:29.153 --> 42:31.814 [SPEAKER_02]: Working online is not a valid career. 42:31.974 --> 42:33.315 [SPEAKER_02]: It's incredibly shunned. 42:34.415 --> 42:36.616 [SPEAKER_02]: They pay insane taxes. 42:37.036 --> 42:37.756 [SPEAKER_02]: You don't move. 42:38.137 --> 42:39.757 [SPEAKER_02]: You don't cross boundaries. 42:40.497 --> 42:45.179 [SPEAKER_02]: It's very difficult as a young Italian to make a living. 42:46.220 --> 42:47.960 [SPEAKER_02]: So it's not that they don't have children. 42:48.220 --> 42:48.961 [SPEAKER_02]: A lot of them want 42:50.468 --> 43:01.090 [SPEAKER_02]: They can't, they cannot afford to have children because there's a lot of regulation and it's just really hard to make money. 43:01.191 --> 43:02.251 [SPEAKER_02]: It's hard to start a business. 43:02.871 --> 43:05.411 [SPEAKER_02]: It's hard to maintain a business and it's a tourism. 43:05.872 --> 43:06.072 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 43:06.552 --> 43:10.353 [SPEAKER_02]: There's a lot of red tape, you know, it's not a culture. 43:11.333 --> 43:12.853 [SPEAKER_02]: Again, I'm speaking very broadly. 43:13.053 --> 43:17.134 [SPEAKER_02]: You guys know I love this country and I don't know anything about France, so you can tell us about that when I'm done. 43:21.315 --> 43:28.076 [SPEAKER_02]: that wants people to thrive and succeed and give them like a step up. 43:28.096 --> 43:38.498 [SPEAKER_02]: If you succeed or find a career, it's in spite of everything and that's why I think the young Italians even now are coming to America. 43:38.958 --> 43:39.178 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 43:39.679 --> 43:40.259 [SPEAKER_02]: Or they're leaving. 43:40.339 --> 43:45.220 [SPEAKER_02]: I know Italians in Mexico a lot in Saudi Arabia, a lot in America. 43:46.380 --> 43:47.760 [SPEAKER_02]: They don't stay in Italy. 43:49.621 --> 43:50.702 [SPEAKER_02]: they go other places. 43:51.282 --> 43:52.883 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, my friend's tutors in Mexico. 43:53.483 --> 44:01.427 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, and he was, I think he was like, he was in banking, yeah, an engineer, and now he says like, teaches French on the computer. 44:02.048 --> 44:02.208 [SPEAKER_01]: Yep. 44:02.888 --> 44:09.752 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, no, they're, I know England isn't Europe per se, but I think that sort of like squish you down. 44:10.632 --> 44:14.274 [SPEAKER_01]: vibe is, I mean, I'm not expert. 44:14.454 --> 44:15.975 [SPEAKER_01]: It seems universal over there. 44:16.641 --> 44:16.921 [SPEAKER_02]: Mm-hmm. 44:17.161 --> 44:17.461 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 44:17.781 --> 44:25.024 [SPEAKER_02]: Like a lot of British people say that what surprises them about America is that we want other people to succeed. 44:25.104 --> 44:25.384 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes. 44:26.305 --> 44:26.545 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 44:26.685 --> 44:27.805 [SPEAKER_02]: And we are like, what is this? 44:28.005 --> 44:28.545 [SPEAKER_02]: We're not there. 44:28.565 --> 44:29.486 [SPEAKER_01]: You don't disparage. 44:29.966 --> 44:30.206 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 44:30.726 --> 44:37.809 [SPEAKER_01]: And like, I know the French like their vibe is not like entrepreneur, motivation, blah, blah, blah. 44:37.829 --> 44:41.150 [SPEAKER_01]: There's, we just were talking about this in my French list in the other day about like a, 44:43.260 --> 44:51.348 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, like Eric War, you know, like a motivational speaker guy, like well, there's somebody that is but you you just recognize Tony Robbins. 44:51.508 --> 44:52.649 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, like that kind of a person. 44:52.709 --> 44:53.030 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 44:53.470 --> 44:55.772 [SPEAKER_01]: So there's a Tony Robbins Eric War. 44:55.792 --> 44:56.012 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 44:56.413 --> 44:59.336 [SPEAKER_01]: Ask guy and France and like. 45:01.650 --> 45:11.743 [SPEAKER_01]: Like on the news like they called it like a cult like they just don't do that like you show up for seminars You pay you learn things you take those skills into your career. 45:11.763 --> 45:19.112 [SPEAKER_01]: You know like they it's just different You yeah, yeah, it's a different culture 45:20.403 --> 45:23.465 [SPEAKER_01]: One of my favorite parts of ending the day is lighting a candle. 45:23.965 --> 45:27.768 [SPEAKER_01]: It's such a simple ritual, but it 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about being in the United States is we're just used to hearing the things we hear walking through the red tape that we had know how we have to walk through the greatest thing about America is that we have 50 states competing for. 47:44.497 --> 47:48.199 [SPEAKER_01]: your money and your little citizenship. 47:48.379 --> 47:48.599 [SPEAKER_01]: Right? 47:48.639 --> 47:49.020 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 47:49.040 --> 47:49.620 [SPEAKER_01]: That's true. 47:49.860 --> 47:56.143 [SPEAKER_02]: And so every state has its own economy, every state has its own rules, every state has its own taxes. 47:56.824 --> 48:07.790 [SPEAKER_02]: So if we don't like this is what you just you see just a lot of inner, um, inner movement from state to state, um, and sometimes that's worth it and sometimes it's not, you know, like, 48:08.582 --> 48:17.809 [SPEAKER_02]: We really walk against a lot of the things in Washington, but have just decided, well, this is where our family is and to us, for this stage of life, that's worth more. 48:20.571 --> 48:22.512 [SPEAKER_02]: Then we just call it the Washington tax. 48:23.333 --> 48:28.277 [SPEAKER_02]: We live in this beautiful state with amazing people, and you gotta pay to play. 48:28.297 --> 48:29.478 [SPEAKER_02]: It's just the way I used to do it. 48:29.498 --> 48:36.503 [SPEAKER_02]: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 48:38.412 --> 48:42.730 [SPEAKER_02]: Actually, you're actually seeing a lot of, at least in Italy, they call it their called the attempt. 48:44.198 --> 48:44.658 [SPEAKER_02]: What are they called? 48:44.718 --> 49:01.614 [SPEAKER_02]: Amaritalians where they do three months there, three months here, three months there, three months there, because you can be there a total 90 to 180 days here, not consecutively without having to mess with anything, like no citizenship, no visas, no nothing like that. 49:01.654 --> 49:03.316 [SPEAKER_02]: You can just travel there. 49:04.037 --> 49:08.481 [SPEAKER_02]: And then you're only on board for your American, you're only on the line for American taxes. 49:11.643 --> 49:12.724 [SPEAKER_02]: I think our country is amazing. 49:13.664 --> 49:13.984 [SPEAKER_02]: I love it. 49:14.584 --> 49:16.906 [SPEAKER_02]: And I'm super happy to be here. 49:19.207 --> 49:23.569 [SPEAKER_02]: Doesn't mean you don't like everything, but pick a country where you like every. 49:24.349 --> 49:24.549 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 49:25.130 --> 49:25.310 [UNKNOWN]: Yeah. 49:27.751 --> 49:28.592 [SPEAKER_02]: Pick a country. 49:28.972 --> 49:30.553 [SPEAKER_02]: I think we had some interesting. 49:33.230 --> 49:33.770 [SPEAKER_02]: There was, yeah. 49:33.830 --> 49:34.750 [SPEAKER_02]: Multiple ones, there's just funny. 49:35.711 --> 49:36.191 [SPEAKER_01]: Next comment. 49:37.011 --> 49:37.571 [SPEAKER_01]: Sure, go ahead. 49:39.972 --> 49:45.393 [SPEAKER_01]: Hey ladies, I've been enjoying you both since before the podcast and just love what you bring to my days. 49:45.453 --> 49:48.294 [SPEAKER_01]: I got to know, have you heard of David Kibi? 49:49.475 --> 49:56.637 [SPEAKER_01]: I think his whole theory is from the 1980s, but one category in his system is Gamin, sourcing this, Gamin. 49:57.137 --> 50:01.438 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm especially curious if Angela resonates with this category, affectionally called Spitfire Sheek. 50:02.383 --> 50:03.004 [SPEAKER_01]: It's piff iron. 50:03.204 --> 50:04.025 [SPEAKER_01]: She do tell. 50:04.525 --> 50:06.047 [SPEAKER_00]: Anyways, I'm loving this season. 50:06.067 --> 50:09.871 [SPEAKER_00]: I think you're podcast is all the better for its real life ambience, shake, but never stuffy. 50:09.891 --> 50:10.431 [SPEAKER_00]: Love you both. 50:12.694 --> 50:13.434 [SPEAKER_00]: Gamin. 50:13.915 --> 50:14.676 [SPEAKER_01]: Gamin to me. 50:14.716 --> 50:16.297 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like fire, shake. 50:16.698 --> 50:20.862 [SPEAKER_01]: Is, I mean, are we talking about, like, fashion, female style? 50:20.902 --> 50:21.883 [SPEAKER_02]: Piff iron pants? 50:22.664 --> 50:23.785 [SPEAKER_01]: Gamin feels like, 50:25.616 --> 50:35.764 [SPEAKER_02]: Spitfire Sheek is a fashion style concept created by image consultant David Kibi to describe this signature look of the soft demeaned body type. 50:36.505 --> 50:43.070 [SPEAKER_02]: It mixes a bold fiery and energetic attitude with small, rounded, and soft feminine details. 50:43.330 --> 50:44.911 [SPEAKER_02]: That actually sounds exactly like you. 50:46.613 --> 50:49.315 [SPEAKER_02]: You, blah, blah, blah. 50:50.253 --> 50:53.494 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, the picture going with what you just read is awful. 50:53.935 --> 50:54.235 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 50:54.435 --> 50:54.715 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 50:54.795 --> 50:55.395 [SPEAKER_01]: Some images. 50:56.296 --> 50:58.877 [SPEAKER_02]: I can't find this comment, but I wanted to comment on it. 50:58.937 --> 51:04.059 [SPEAKER_02]: Somebody was asking me about like, where do we get linen in the United States? 51:04.239 --> 51:05.580 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, I did just see that a second ago. 51:05.600 --> 51:06.540 [SPEAKER_01]: I can't go to Sicily. 51:06.560 --> 51:07.020 [SPEAKER_01]: Where do I go? 51:07.100 --> 51:07.801 [SPEAKER_01]: Go to Queens. 51:08.601 --> 51:10.722 [SPEAKER_02]: I will put a link in the, um, 51:12.275 --> 51:12.856 [SPEAKER_02]: show notes. 51:14.357 --> 51:18.341 [SPEAKER_02]: Quince has all kinds of linen and silk super great quality. 51:18.621 --> 51:21.343 [SPEAKER_02]: So when I buy linen that's where I tend to buy it from. 51:21.964 --> 51:23.886 [SPEAKER_02]: And if you use that link you'll get free shipping. 51:24.086 --> 51:24.806 [SPEAKER_02]: So which is pretty cool. 51:25.327 --> 51:28.730 [SPEAKER_02]: They also do 365 day returns, Quince does, which is awesome. 51:29.190 --> 51:34.115 [SPEAKER_02]: So if you don't like it if it doesn't wear right or whatever, that's a great place to source. 51:34.375 --> 51:35.036 [SPEAKER_02]: If you're going to dress 51:38.399 --> 51:40.321 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, here's one from Averley. 51:42.323 --> 51:43.244 [SPEAKER_02]: Averley lanes. 51:43.865 --> 51:45.666 [SPEAKER_02]: Shay, have you seen the free right? 51:45.707 --> 51:47.969 [SPEAKER_02]: It's like a digital screen free typewriter. 51:48.369 --> 51:53.535 [SPEAKER_02]: They are gorgeous wildly overpriced, but the earnest Hemingway one makes me try to make the cost. 51:53.575 --> 51:53.975 [SPEAKER_02]: Makes sense. 51:54.676 --> 51:54.696 [SPEAKER_02]: I 51:55.737 --> 52:01.338 [SPEAKER_02]: have almost pulled the plug on this earnest Hemingway free-right, so many of you guys are freaking me out. 52:01.638 --> 52:11.360 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm like, Stu, I need this, I need this, I need this and he's like, that is, you could buy a fully functional laptop for the price of that for real. 52:11.460 --> 52:11.720 [SPEAKER_02]: There. 52:12.980 --> 52:13.961 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, expensive. 52:14.801 --> 52:19.742 [SPEAKER_02]: But writing with distractions is truly the most difficult. 52:20.862 --> 52:22.303 [SPEAKER_02]: part of writing. 52:23.283 --> 52:25.684 [SPEAKER_02]: So I'm okay. 52:26.144 --> 52:26.924 [SPEAKER_02]: What is happening? 52:27.565 --> 52:39.809 [SPEAKER_02]: It's just a word processor, but it's also you can connect it to a cloud so you can transfer it as a digital file so it can connect really easily to all your other stuff but it's like just like this amazing sexy little. 52:40.590 --> 52:43.291 [SPEAKER_01]: So you can't check your Amazon cart while you're in the flow. 52:43.311 --> 52:43.831 [SPEAKER_01]: That's right. 52:44.511 --> 52:45.191 [SPEAKER_01]: Wow. 52:45.471 --> 52:46.532 [SPEAKER_01]: I know I've looked at 52:50.239 --> 52:51.059 [SPEAKER_01]: How much is it? 52:51.079 --> 52:52.540 [SPEAKER_02]: $5,000. 52:52.780 --> 52:53.280 [SPEAKER_02]: $5,000. 52:53.981 --> 52:54.361 [SPEAKER_02]: $1,000. 52:55.741 --> 52:56.222 [SPEAKER_02]: Free right. 52:56.542 --> 52:58.483 [SPEAKER_02]: I want you to sponsor the podcast. 52:58.903 --> 53:00.603 [SPEAKER_02]: Help a girl out, right? 53:00.623 --> 53:01.764 [SPEAKER_02]: Go to sub-stack. 53:02.224 --> 53:02.824 [SPEAKER_02]: Good. 53:02.844 --> 53:03.185 [SPEAKER_02]: Gosh. 53:03.945 --> 53:07.326 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, the sub-stack writing with distractions is so bad. 53:08.847 --> 53:09.967 [SPEAKER_02]: I, it's really bad. 53:10.147 --> 53:18.371 [SPEAKER_02]: To my public library yesterday and combated, they're pretty not good. 53:20.759 --> 53:23.921 [SPEAKER_02]: And there's there was quite a few unsafe, unsafe, very people. 53:24.501 --> 53:25.841 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, okay, public spaces. 53:26.062 --> 53:27.322 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, it's like, what are you saying? 53:27.402 --> 53:28.863 [SPEAKER_02]: But I was just like, you know what? 53:29.623 --> 53:31.344 [SPEAKER_02]: I think I might have to come here and write. 53:31.624 --> 53:33.505 [SPEAKER_02]: I've got, I love my children. 53:34.946 --> 53:37.747 [SPEAKER_02]: But when you're writing, when you're trying to write, 53:40.330 --> 53:41.711 [SPEAKER_02]: You cannot be distracted. 53:42.011 --> 53:43.232 [SPEAKER_02]: It needs to be for me at least. 53:43.332 --> 53:45.173 [SPEAKER_02]: It's like an isolated experience. 53:45.873 --> 53:46.493 [SPEAKER_01]: It's terrible. 53:46.573 --> 53:51.936 [SPEAKER_02]: When somebody comes in and talks to you and you're like, Oh, I was mid-sentence. 53:52.556 --> 53:52.857 [SPEAKER_02]: I know. 53:53.457 --> 53:56.518 [SPEAKER_02]: I had six interruptions yesterday when I was writing my sub-stack. 53:56.779 --> 54:00.801 [SPEAKER_02]: And I would just like tears weld in my eyes because they're not being naughty. 54:00.981 --> 54:01.421 [SPEAKER_02]: They're not. 54:01.561 --> 54:01.801 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 54:02.381 --> 54:04.743 [SPEAKER_02]: They're just like, is it okay if I want to now? 54:04.823 --> 54:05.523 [SPEAKER_02]: It's like... 54:06.183 --> 54:07.044 [SPEAKER_02]: But that's all it takes. 54:07.504 --> 54:10.166 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, or one notification coming up on your computer. 54:10.607 --> 54:23.596 [SPEAKER_02]: So yeah, yeah, the idea of taking this this earnest Hemingway free right to the beach and just being like I'm going to go sit by the lake side or the library, we'll sit at the library. 54:24.437 --> 54:25.758 [SPEAKER_02]: Can I vent for a second? 54:26.098 --> 54:28.819 [SPEAKER_02]: Somebody, I need you guys to tell me in the comments, okay? 54:29.619 --> 54:30.759 [SPEAKER_02]: I went to my library. 54:30.920 --> 54:35.561 [SPEAKER_02]: It's been, it got really weird during COVID, and we kind of fell out of favor with it. 54:36.082 --> 54:41.684 [SPEAKER_02]: Also, the librarian suggested these very inappropriate books to my daughters. 54:41.804 --> 54:46.345 [SPEAKER_02]: And I was like, you're, you're out of the safe zone. 54:46.826 --> 54:50.047 [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like with the books and kids, you have to like, like you do with a movie. 54:50.427 --> 54:51.247 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, you have to do that. 54:51.267 --> 54:52.208 [SPEAKER_01]: I look up every single one. 54:52.228 --> 54:52.928 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, because they're 54:54.330 --> 54:56.471 [SPEAKER_02]: and they're a gender-driven big-time. 54:58.073 --> 54:59.674 [SPEAKER_02]: So anyway, I go to the library. 54:59.694 --> 55:00.954 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm like, I can do this now. 55:01.095 --> 55:01.875 [SPEAKER_02]: The kids are older. 55:01.975 --> 55:02.616 [SPEAKER_02]: I took Georgia. 55:02.656 --> 55:04.297 [SPEAKER_02]: She's going on a trip and she wanted some books. 55:04.337 --> 55:05.017 [SPEAKER_02]: So we go to the library. 55:06.178 --> 55:13.583 [SPEAKER_02]: Their whole fiction section is organized by the author's last name. 55:16.447 --> 55:17.888 [SPEAKER_02]: That makes no sense. 55:18.729 --> 55:23.432 [SPEAKER_02]: There's no romance sections, sci-fi, horror, mystery, comedy. 55:23.452 --> 55:24.532 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm, how do I know who Eva Pug is? 55:24.552 --> 55:26.273 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know who that is. 55:26.293 --> 55:27.614 [SPEAKER_02]: How am I supposed to find a book? 55:27.634 --> 55:29.956 [SPEAKER_02]: Why do they get to break the rules? 55:29.976 --> 55:40.923 [SPEAKER_02]: I have, I, I, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, there's no, 55:41.476 --> 55:43.177 [SPEAKER_02]: Well, and they have iPads hanging on all the way. 55:43.477 --> 55:44.598 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, just go search. 55:44.638 --> 55:45.238 [SPEAKER_02]: Dead, dead, dead, dead. 55:45.639 --> 55:53.304 [SPEAKER_02]: But that means that the 200 mystery titles, let's say that they stop intermingled with they're all intermingled with everything. 55:53.604 --> 55:54.284 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't like that. 55:54.304 --> 55:55.845 [SPEAKER_01]: So many help me understand. 55:56.066 --> 55:57.046 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't like that at all. 55:57.226 --> 56:02.550 [SPEAKER_01]: And I thought like the do we decimal or whatever, I'm like, wait, is that even how we do things? 56:02.910 --> 56:08.416 [SPEAKER_02]: Well I get on and I'm like looking for this specific book so I get on the iPad which is already I'm already angry because there's no buttons. 56:09.097 --> 56:10.078 [SPEAKER_02]: This isn't a free, right? 56:10.158 --> 56:11.480 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm like geeky. 56:11.560 --> 56:13.662 [SPEAKER_02]: You get no satisfaction from pushing it. 56:14.503 --> 56:15.804 [SPEAKER_02]: I told you I was going to vent, okay? 56:15.844 --> 56:16.385 [SPEAKER_02]: Mm-hmm. 56:16.425 --> 56:17.346 [SPEAKER_02]: Not saying this is logical. 56:18.367 --> 56:23.249 [SPEAKER_02]: The book pulls up and I can't really tell, like, is it this library? 56:23.309 --> 56:24.750 [SPEAKER_02]: Is it in stock at this library? 56:24.890 --> 56:26.070 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, we can order it for you. 56:26.110 --> 56:31.052 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, but now I'm on the awesome how I'm on the audio book tab and you're like, listen on who blog is it? 56:31.152 --> 56:32.373 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, that is super. 56:32.433 --> 56:32.813 [SPEAKER_01]: What are you? 56:32.993 --> 56:33.313 [SPEAKER_01]: What are you? 56:33.413 --> 56:35.974 [SPEAKER_01]: And I was just like, I am done. 56:37.231 --> 56:39.752 [SPEAKER_02]: Now I have to just go to Goodreads and buy it for $2. 56:40.012 --> 56:41.493 [SPEAKER_01]: Now I am overstimulated. 56:42.253 --> 56:43.754 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not overstimulated. 56:43.774 --> 56:43.894 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 56:44.674 --> 56:45.454 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 56:46.255 --> 56:47.095 [SPEAKER_02]: It's wild. 56:47.895 --> 56:49.996 [SPEAKER_01]: Tell me, am I a thousand years old? 56:50.036 --> 56:51.897 [SPEAKER_01]: Or is that what libraries are doing now? 56:51.997 --> 56:57.799 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know that would actually really irritate me to have all the genres like melanched. 56:58.179 --> 56:58.859 [SPEAKER_01]: That would bug me. 56:59.800 --> 56:59.980 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 57:01.420 --> 57:01.560 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 57:01.881 --> 57:04.722 [SPEAKER_02]: If you guys, if you young crowd ever wonder what getting old is like, 57:06.199 --> 57:08.121 [SPEAKER_01]: They organized the library. 57:08.141 --> 57:09.442 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know what to do. 57:09.462 --> 57:15.527 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, apparently you need to use my National Podger. 57:15.567 --> 57:20.311 [SPEAKER_02]: I make you angry to tell everyone how much I hate the way they organize this. 57:20.331 --> 57:25.655 [SPEAKER_02]: That's great. 57:26.536 --> 57:27.657 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, here's one of our meaty. 57:27.677 --> 57:28.798 [SPEAKER_02]: We have time for just a couple more. 57:28.998 --> 57:29.238 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 57:29.945 --> 57:30.585 [SPEAKER_02]: Hallelujah. 57:31.186 --> 57:32.966 [SPEAKER_02]: Can't believe you all covered this. 57:33.246 --> 57:34.907 [SPEAKER_02]: So this was the E-Drin can be married episode. 57:34.947 --> 57:36.328 [SPEAKER_02]: That was some of an popular episode. 57:37.168 --> 57:41.770 [SPEAKER_02]: I was at Costco yesterday thinking, I need to know how Shay and Angela handle Costco. 57:42.491 --> 57:48.673 [SPEAKER_02]: I have so many feelings when I walk into the grocery store about the process, junk, and plastic, but at the end of the day, my family needs to be fed. 57:49.314 --> 57:52.455 [SPEAKER_02]: I'd love to know the Costco favorites that you always buy. 57:52.895 --> 57:59.138 [SPEAKER_02]: Been a listeners since 2020, when I was living in an apartment with my husband, and we now have a three and five year old in a little house with a little garden. 57:59.718 --> 58:02.159 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh my gosh, unbelievable. 58:03.019 --> 58:04.120 [SPEAKER_01]: You guys are amazing. 58:05.400 --> 58:06.580 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, okay, E.B. 58:06.701 --> 58:07.321 [SPEAKER_02]: Costco. 58:09.822 --> 58:11.642 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm tired just thinking about going to Costco. 58:11.962 --> 58:12.262 [UNKNOWN]: I know. 58:13.043 --> 58:15.384 [SPEAKER_02]: I walk in sometimes I buy batteries. 58:15.424 --> 58:18.585 [SPEAKER_02]: That's my first thing on my left hand side. 58:18.665 --> 58:27.368 [SPEAKER_02]: I try to bypass all the cool, Tupperware and mixers and I try not to just look or I can just spend too much money. 58:30.175 --> 58:38.401 [SPEAKER_02]: That I used to get the glass containers though, yeah, yes, once or twice a year, I've been sure and get some new towels or something. 58:38.462 --> 58:48.489 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, like the, they have those great, just almost like disposable white washcloths, yes, which is a lot of motor engineer, the automotive area, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 58:48.629 --> 58:50.031 [SPEAKER_02]: So once or twice here, I grab those. 58:51.852 --> 58:54.014 [SPEAKER_02]: Produce section, I grab bananas. 58:56.396 --> 58:57.596 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know, sometimes 58:59.636 --> 59:00.036 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know. 59:00.877 --> 59:01.337 [SPEAKER_02]: What do you mean? 59:01.357 --> 59:03.959 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, they're lemon school moldy so fast. 59:04.700 --> 59:04.920 [SPEAKER_01]: All right. 59:04.960 --> 59:05.080 [SPEAKER_01]: No. 59:05.160 --> 59:06.041 [SPEAKER_01]: They don't need to work. 59:06.081 --> 59:07.442 [SPEAKER_02]: What's lemon is costing. 59:08.943 --> 59:09.303 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 59:09.443 --> 59:11.405 [SPEAKER_02]: I mean, they're not my favorite lemons for sure. 59:11.425 --> 59:20.471 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, okay, like produce aside because my staples there are like these sprouted oats. 59:21.512 --> 59:21.792 [SPEAKER_01]: Yep. 59:22.353 --> 59:22.793 [SPEAKER_01]: For sure. 59:24.114 --> 59:27.817 [SPEAKER_01]: The crushed tomatoes and tomato sauce, organic box. 59:28.552 --> 59:29.653 [SPEAKER_02]: okay I don't get those. 59:31.734 --> 59:37.438 [SPEAKER_01]: I get the olive oil from barri for like our general all-purpose olive oil. 59:38.519 --> 59:39.960 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah I get a big in the glass. 59:40.440 --> 59:40.660 [SPEAKER_01]: Uh-huh. 59:41.761 --> 59:49.846 [SPEAKER_01]: All purpose and then I get like a nicer one for yeah at the grocery store for top coconut oil. 59:51.887 --> 59:52.828 [SPEAKER_01]: Flaked sea salt. 59:53.388 --> 59:55.710 [SPEAKER_01]: I do get their butter, the Kirkland grass-fed butter. 59:56.359 --> 01:00:22.388 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, yep, a bunch of that peppercorns, mm-hmm, cinnamon, for it's, you know, it's not ideal, but for ease, I do get like two big things of the grass fed hamburger patties, because if I'm not home or the kids have friends, they want to make it's just they're done, they can, like, them out, yep, okay. 01:00:23.460 --> 01:00:43.268 [SPEAKER_02]: Sometimes I'll do a top round roast because I cook it like I put olive oil on the outside a bunch of herbs like um powdery herbs on the outside hot oven for 20 minutes low for 20 minutes take it out let it rest and then I slice it for roast beef so like that we get that takes us a long way. 01:00:45.151 --> 01:00:50.073 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a bum, I mean, it's not, they're organic meat section is, they don't even have it anymore. 01:00:50.093 --> 01:00:52.214 [SPEAKER_01]: They don't have organic ground anymore at mine. 01:00:53.034 --> 01:00:53.554 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh really? 01:00:53.714 --> 01:00:58.256 [SPEAKER_01]: No, it's just conventional and it's just as expensive as the organic needs to be. 01:00:58.836 --> 01:00:59.396 [SPEAKER_01]: Wow. 01:01:00.817 --> 01:01:03.098 [SPEAKER_01]: The only organic they have is chicken. 01:01:04.220 --> 01:01:06.202 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, heart isn't like that. 01:01:07.063 --> 01:01:14.711 [SPEAKER_02]: I do, this doesn't have to do with Costco, but I do big bulk orders from Porter Road, which is an online meet place. 01:01:15.431 --> 01:01:16.012 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 01:01:17.894 --> 01:01:19.956 [SPEAKER_02]: Because it's hard to find good meat. 01:01:21.320 --> 01:01:24.101 [SPEAKER_01]: And it's one of those things that I really want good quality here. 01:01:24.921 --> 01:01:28.822 [SPEAKER_02]: I do really want good quality as somebody who has worked in a feedlot. 01:01:29.402 --> 01:01:38.245 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but when you just get conventional and you do that roast, because sometimes, it's like if I'm in a pinch, it's like that better, best, best whenever kind of thing. 01:01:38.365 --> 01:01:41.046 [SPEAKER_02]: Like I do sometimes I just have to feed the family. 01:01:41.166 --> 01:01:43.767 [SPEAKER_02]: So I don't love your organic chicken breasts. 01:01:44.767 --> 01:01:45.908 [SPEAKER_02]: They're weird Frank and bird. 01:01:45.928 --> 01:01:55.298 [SPEAKER_02]: They're still sometimes that's sometimes that's just what I got to do and I just got to cook up a big mess of them and just let it be what it is like we talked about. 01:01:55.798 --> 01:01:57.220 [SPEAKER_01]: I always get like the Chihuahua cheese. 01:01:58.632 --> 01:02:01.714 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, and I always get their frozen vegetables. 01:02:02.915 --> 01:02:04.696 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, because I get parmesan. 01:02:04.716 --> 01:02:07.277 [SPEAKER_02]: They have great parmesan and I get a big wedge race. 01:02:07.337 --> 01:02:11.860 [SPEAKER_02]: Race, race, race, y'all all spurt because we make the y'all spurt. 01:02:11.880 --> 01:02:12.820 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, reclet. 01:02:14.801 --> 01:02:20.765 [SPEAKER_02]: And sometimes, Spindriff, if I'm feeling rich. 01:02:21.405 --> 01:02:21.885 [SPEAKER_02]: What is that? 01:02:22.726 --> 01:02:23.426 [SPEAKER_02]: Sparkling water. 01:02:24.107 --> 01:02:25.327 [SPEAKER_01]: Labor sparkling water. 01:02:25.728 --> 01:02:26.308 [SPEAKER_01]: Gotcha. 01:02:26.827 --> 01:02:28.587 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 01:02:28.667 --> 01:02:29.487 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 01:02:29.868 --> 01:02:30.768 [SPEAKER_01]: Depends on the month. 01:02:33.508 --> 01:02:33.768 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 01:02:33.868 --> 01:02:34.248 [SPEAKER_02]: One more. 01:02:34.668 --> 01:02:37.109 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 01:02:39.189 --> 01:02:39.529 [SPEAKER_01]: Tell me. 01:02:40.129 --> 01:02:40.469 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 01:02:40.489 --> 01:02:41.650 [SPEAKER_01]: I was I was off. 01:02:41.730 --> 01:02:44.030 [SPEAKER_01]: So actually, I know I'm actually on the wrong page now. 01:02:44.350 --> 01:02:44.630 [SPEAKER_01]: I know. 01:02:45.570 --> 01:02:45.890 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 01:02:45.950 --> 01:02:47.331 [SPEAKER_02]: Here's one from Elizabeth. 01:02:47.551 --> 01:02:48.011 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 01:02:48.071 --> 01:02:48.971 [SPEAKER_02]: This is a silly one. 01:02:49.591 --> 01:02:50.211 [SPEAKER_02]: Elizabeth Young. 01:02:50.271 --> 01:02:50.931 [SPEAKER_02]: Shay and Angela. 01:02:50.991 --> 01:02:53.092 [SPEAKER_02]: Here is your permission to get your bits. 01:02:56.920 --> 01:02:57.902 [SPEAKER_02]: say that word to laughter. 01:02:58.102 --> 01:03:01.627 [SPEAKER_02]: It's gonna flag it on Spotify. 01:03:02.409 --> 01:03:03.670 [SPEAKER_02]: I know I am every day. 01:03:03.690 --> 01:03:07.596 [SPEAKER_02]: We got to fill up our energy reserves now before well, before the effort. 01:03:08.277 --> 01:03:10.681 [SPEAKER_02]: But I don't even want to say that word in the glorious summer. 01:03:10.701 --> 01:03:12.484 [SPEAKER_02]: I've been listening along with you both. 01:03:14.070 --> 01:03:36.423 [SPEAKER_02]: instance my children were toddlers and babies and now I'm in the thick of early homeschooling years thank you for breeding bringing beauty and joy to us all Elizabeth I am not I am 100% for this just not with other people around husband find you're going to make a little area mommy her mom's in her little tent right right out the ceiling 01:03:38.784 --> 01:03:39.885 [SPEAKER_02]: I did have this funny moment. 01:03:39.905 --> 01:03:45.150 [SPEAKER_02]: It was the 4th of July, and I was wearing my swimsuit, which is fine. 01:03:47.853 --> 01:03:51.476 [SPEAKER_02]: But normally, I do have like a little pair of shorts or something. 01:03:51.516 --> 01:03:53.198 [SPEAKER_02]: I wear if I'm walking around. 01:03:53.238 --> 01:03:55.940 [SPEAKER_02]: But it was just the family here, so I was just wearing a swimsuit. 01:03:56.100 --> 01:03:58.903 [SPEAKER_02]: And we had some Jehovah's Witnesses pull into the driveway. 01:03:59.323 --> 01:04:00.964 [SPEAKER_02]: My driveway is very private. 01:04:01.484 --> 01:04:06.186 [SPEAKER_02]: You have to try to find it and it looks like an orchard road. 01:04:06.226 --> 01:04:09.548 [SPEAKER_02]: So you shouldn't be coming down my road all that's to say. 01:04:10.168 --> 01:04:16.451 [SPEAKER_02]: I hear this car pull up and I was like already halfway walking and so they saw me and I was like, oh shit. 01:04:17.451 --> 01:04:20.533 [SPEAKER_02]: So I got to walk up to them and I'm nice, but I'm in my swimsuit. 01:04:20.653 --> 01:04:20.793 [SPEAKER_02]: Like 01:04:22.492 --> 01:04:25.633 [SPEAKER_02]: They were very uncomfortable, very, very uncomfortable. 01:04:25.853 --> 01:04:28.094 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, that's what you get when you go to somebody's house. 01:04:28.154 --> 01:04:30.375 [SPEAKER_01]: On the 4th of July, on private property. 01:04:30.895 --> 01:04:31.515 [SPEAKER_02]: Hmm. 01:04:34.416 --> 01:04:35.277 [SPEAKER_02]: They like wouldn't look. 01:04:35.377 --> 01:04:37.317 [SPEAKER_02]: They were just like handing me their litter trails. 01:04:37.337 --> 01:04:37.978 [SPEAKER_02]: Like, thank you. 01:04:38.738 --> 01:04:40.118 [SPEAKER_02]: I know Jesus, thank you. 01:04:41.059 --> 01:04:42.459 [SPEAKER_02]: Have a great 4th, my friends. 01:04:43.300 --> 01:04:44.400 [SPEAKER_01]: They probably won't be back. 01:04:46.841 --> 01:04:48.421 [SPEAKER_02]: Imagine if I would have had my bit-sau. 01:04:48.942 --> 01:04:49.982 [SPEAKER_01]: Who would have really scared them? 01:04:53.729 --> 01:04:55.192 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, you were star-fishing. 01:04:55.212 --> 01:04:55.292 [SPEAKER_01]: Ooh! 01:04:59.555 --> 01:05:01.776 [SPEAKER_02]: don't think they would alike to that. 01:05:02.036 --> 01:05:05.777 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay ladies, we hope you have a beautiful sun-filled week. 01:05:06.518 --> 01:05:07.218 [SPEAKER_02]: Let's enjoy it. 01:05:08.078 --> 01:05:09.599 [SPEAKER_02]: This is a beautiful month. 01:05:10.719 --> 01:05:16.001 [SPEAKER_02]: It's beyond the edges, but it's so full of tomatoes and life and all the good stuff. 01:05:16.342 --> 01:05:18.943 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm crispy on the edges, so I'm full of heart me all. 01:05:21.163 --> 01:05:23.644 [SPEAKER_00]: Alrighty, we'll see you next week. 01:05:23.924 --> 01:05:25.085 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay cheers, cheers.