WEBVTT 00:00.203 --> 00:03.185 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, the word in San, which is a human being. 00:04.526 --> 00:10.531 [SPEAKER_00]: It comes from two roots, one from Nesia, for getting. 00:11.232 --> 00:12.473 [SPEAKER_00]: And the other is from Ones. 00:13.433 --> 00:16.136 [SPEAKER_00]: Ones was the closest translation to Ones. 00:17.657 --> 00:21.220 [SPEAKER_00]: And they need people around them to survive. 00:22.360 --> 00:23.361 [SPEAKER_00]: They cannot survive alone. 00:23.381 --> 00:24.282 [SPEAKER_00]: They need the community. 00:24.302 --> 00:24.742 [SPEAKER_00]: They need them. 00:25.643 --> 00:26.624 [SPEAKER_00]: People to love them. 00:29.541 --> 00:56.912 [SPEAKER_00]: And tonight in shā'a Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi 00:58.161 --> 01:16.294 [SPEAKER_00]: Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala when He loves someone, He will tell Jibril, Ya Jibril, I love so and so, so love him, so Jibril will love him and then Jibril will call among the angels and He will tell them, Allah loves so and so, so love him, so the angels would love him and then the Hadith ended. 01:17.175 --> 01:20.999 [SPEAKER_00]: Yadah al-Hulqqubu al-Fal-Ard, then people on earth will start loving Him. 01:21.399 --> 01:23.301 [SPEAKER_00]: Son, number one is to earn the love of Allah. 01:23.401 --> 01:27.064 [SPEAKER_00]: How to earn the love of Allah, a satatic by itself was just one ayah. 01:27.344 --> 01:27.885 [SPEAKER_00]: Subhanallah. 01:28.205 --> 01:30.347 [SPEAKER_00]: Allah Subhanahu wa t-ta'ala s-sulat al-Yamran. 01:30.667 --> 01:31.148 [SPEAKER_00]: Kulli. 01:31.588 --> 01:36.693 [SPEAKER_00]: In kuntum t-heboun Allah, f-t-e-be-oni, yuhi bifkum Allah wa yachf-e-l-l-kum dunubak. 01:37.673 --> 01:43.874 [SPEAKER_00]: Ya Muhammad tell them, if you're claiming, which is the first thing that we teach us when we are kids, maybe Tabak Tarshi, who do you love the most? 01:44.134 --> 01:48.895 [SPEAKER_00]: Allah, so if that's true, tell them, if that's true, then follow me. 01:49.435 --> 01:52.616 [SPEAKER_00]: Follow Muhammad, salallahu alayhi wa sallam, Allah will love you. 01:52.896 --> 01:56.337 [SPEAKER_00]: So if I want to gain the love of people, I have to gain the love of Allah. 01:56.697 --> 02:01.598 [SPEAKER_00]: And to gain the love of Allah, I have to follow Rasulullah, salallahu alayhi wa sallam. 02:01.978 --> 02:02.138 [SPEAKER_00]: In, 02:03.038 --> 02:14.804 [SPEAKER_00]: The best effort I have to put, the best effort I can to follow his footsteps from his Abadat, to his behavior, to his treatment to others in every aspect. 02:15.064 --> 02:17.185 [SPEAKER_00]: And Allah Subhanahu al-Alam promised in Surat-Meryam. 02:17.725 --> 02:31.832 [SPEAKER_00]: In al-Nalina man who I'm illusally had, Sayaja al-Olahum or Rahman who the people who do righteous deeds and believe, Allah will make the people love them. 02:32.472 --> 02:33.853 [SPEAKER_00]: So that's number one, number two. 02:35.033 --> 02:52.461 [SPEAKER_00]: Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallamheesad l-ntad khulul jannah atatut minu Wa l-ntut minu atatahabu He'll adollukam alayhi shaykh either if I al-tumuhu t-haad abtum if shussalaamadainakum You will not enter jannah until you believe and you will not believe until you love one another 02:53.261 --> 03:01.307 [SPEAKER_00]: And should I guide you for something if you do, you would love one another, which eventually you'll lead to Jannah, said, what is it ya Rasulullah? 03:01.547 --> 03:05.490 [SPEAKER_00]: He said, F-Shussalam, spread Salam among you. 03:05.810 --> 03:10.454 [SPEAKER_00]: So when we see each other, ya Quan, sometimes you see somebody in the, in the, even in the message. 03:10.794 --> 03:12.454 [SPEAKER_00]: And the whole way, he says salamu alaykum. 03:12.474 --> 03:14.495 [SPEAKER_00]: He put his head as if he doesn't see you. 03:14.755 --> 03:23.117 [SPEAKER_00]: Ya Habib, you are in the house of Allah, and Allah blessed you to be from the people who pray in Jamah, reply to salam to the people you know and the people you do not know. 03:23.397 --> 03:39.401 [SPEAKER_00]: Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, Rasulullah, 03:41.462 --> 04:04.398 [SPEAKER_00]: Salaamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa rahmatullahi wa 04:05.058 --> 04:10.383 [SPEAKER_00]: If I say salam alaikum, say alaikum salam, or wa alaikum salam wa rahmatullah, third, just because of the time. 04:11.984 --> 04:20.111 [SPEAKER_00]: Rasulullah salallahu alaihi salam iman, a bedwin came to him and we all know the bedwin is boom, blunt, yani noh, there's no sugar coating, he immediately asked the question. 04:20.371 --> 04:28.138 [SPEAKER_00]: He said yara sallallahu ala dullani ala amal, guide me to an action that will make Allah love me and the people love me. 04:29.177 --> 04:35.162 [SPEAKER_00]: Here I want to pose one second, because maybe when you heard the topic in the beginning, you might say, I don't care about people loving me. 04:35.402 --> 04:36.823 [SPEAKER_00]: All I care is about Allah, love me. 04:37.543 --> 04:44.669 [SPEAKER_00]: Here when the man asks Rasulullah, say Salam, guide me to a something that will make Allah love me and the people love me. 04:45.089 --> 04:46.850 [SPEAKER_00]: He did not tell him, what's wrong with you? 04:47.091 --> 04:48.572 [SPEAKER_00]: Why do you care about the love of people? 04:48.752 --> 04:50.213 [SPEAKER_00]: No, he answered the question. 04:50.453 --> 04:52.515 [SPEAKER_00]: He said, if you want Allah to love you, 04:54.213 --> 05:13.017 [SPEAKER_00]: Fazahat for dunya, yuhib bu-kallwa wa zahat fi-ma'a'in dunya, siuhib bu-kallwa wa zahat fi-ma'a'in dunya, siuhib bu-kallwa wa zahat fi-ma'a'in dunya, siuhib bu-kallwa wa zahat fi-ma'a'in dunya, siuhib bu-kallwa wa zahat fi-ma'a'in dunya, siuhib bu-kallwa wa zahat fi-ma'a'in dunya, siuhib bu-kallwa wa zahat fi-ma'a'in dunya, siuhib bu-kallwa wa zahat fi-ma'a'in dunya, siuhib bu-kallwa wa zahat fi-ma'a'in dunya, siuhib bu-kallwa wa zahat fi-ma'a 05:14.607 --> 05:22.812 [SPEAKER_00]: And he don't keep asking people for favors, asking people for money, asking people for, you know, constantly, if you keep asking them for stuff, they do not like you. 05:23.152 --> 05:25.713 [SPEAKER_00]: So stay away from what they have, they would love you. 05:26.014 --> 05:32.317 [SPEAKER_00]: Like a bed when came once to a, to a, to a, to a bus stop, a bus stop and he said, men say, you don't come. 05:32.617 --> 05:35.419 [SPEAKER_00]: Who's the master of this, of this village, huh? 05:35.699 --> 05:37.020 [SPEAKER_00]: They told him, al Hassan al Bostri. 05:38.148 --> 05:43.672 [SPEAKER_00]: Hassan Al-Basri, Rahimullah, they said, how did he become the master, Subhanullah? 05:44.012 --> 05:50.858 [SPEAKER_00]: He told them, they needed his knowledge and he had no interest in their worldly possessions. 05:52.319 --> 05:58.043 [SPEAKER_00]: They needed his knowledge, and he had no interest in their worldly possessions, Subhanullah. 05:58.663 --> 05:59.604 [SPEAKER_00]: Number three, number four. 06:00.365 --> 06:04.748 [SPEAKER_00]: Some social etiquettes, ya Quan, smile. 06:04.828 --> 06:05.789 [SPEAKER_00]: Let me see a beautiful smile. 06:06.967 --> 06:09.268 [SPEAKER_00]: Masha Allah, smiling to one another. 06:09.308 --> 06:12.009 [SPEAKER_00]: Rasullah, I say, I said, let it happen in the middle of the maruhi shay'an. 06:12.289 --> 06:16.211 [SPEAKER_00]: Do not belittle any kind of good, even smiling your brother's face. 06:16.891 --> 06:18.371 [SPEAKER_00]: Yani ahwan, let me tell you one thing. 06:18.792 --> 06:23.213 [SPEAKER_00]: You see, the teeth, I am not a mufti, but I am going to give you a fatwa. 06:24.274 --> 06:24.994 [SPEAKER_00]: My first fatwa. 06:26.014 --> 06:27.615 [SPEAKER_00]: The teeth are not taura. 06:32.349 --> 06:35.733 [SPEAKER_00]: So you could show the teeth in shall I see whether Master's teeth beautiful much. 06:36.775 --> 06:44.605 [SPEAKER_00]: So smile, it's a form of charity, give charity to your brother, smiling, please and thank you. 06:44.625 --> 06:45.886 [SPEAKER_00]: They teach us this when we are kids. 06:46.267 --> 06:50.051 [SPEAKER_00]: When we ask for something, do not ask like the way you are entitled. 06:50.632 --> 06:53.173 [SPEAKER_00]: Sometimes we ask, as if we are, you must have it. 06:53.794 --> 06:56.975 [SPEAKER_00]: And when someone do you a favor, Jazakallahuhayran. 06:57.175 --> 06:58.976 [SPEAKER_00]: Rasulullah, I said, I said, I said, I said, I'm so ever. 06:59.257 --> 07:00.737 [SPEAKER_00]: Man's Sunni, I love him, I'm a rufan. 07:00.977 --> 07:02.738 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm so, ever a favor was done to him. 07:02.838 --> 07:03.839 [SPEAKER_00]: Something good was done to him. 07:04.079 --> 07:07.241 [SPEAKER_00]: And said, Jazakallahuhayran, fakhad etna. 07:07.341 --> 07:10.622 [SPEAKER_00]: And if he has exaggerated in gratitude. 07:11.283 --> 07:12.263 [SPEAKER_00]: SubhanAllah. 07:12.303 --> 07:13.304 [SPEAKER_00]: By the way, this is a mistake. 07:13.324 --> 07:14.064 [SPEAKER_00]: There's a common mistake. 07:14.264 --> 07:15.405 [SPEAKER_00]: Many people say Jazakallah. 07:16.911 --> 07:23.636 [SPEAKER_00]: Jazakallah by itself is not enough because Allah Subhanahu ta'ala used the Jazak in the Quran for bad things too. 07:24.157 --> 07:26.839 [SPEAKER_00]: So, Jazakallahu khayran khayran. 07:27.720 --> 07:29.321 [SPEAKER_00]: Number five. 07:29.741 --> 07:30.222 [SPEAKER_00]: Number five. 07:31.723 --> 07:32.764 [SPEAKER_00]: This is very hard for men. 07:34.385 --> 07:36.247 [SPEAKER_00]: Apologize if you did something wrong. 07:37.498 --> 07:38.920 [SPEAKER_00]: You want people to love you, apologize. 07:39.000 --> 07:42.043 [SPEAKER_00]: If I did something wrong, I have to go and apologize. 07:42.463 --> 07:44.245 [SPEAKER_00]: Admit that you are wrong. 07:44.726 --> 07:45.667 [SPEAKER_00]: There's nothing wrong with that. 07:45.727 --> 07:52.854 [SPEAKER_00]: As a matter of fact, this la yuerse n'el eti d'ar, ill al-Qibar, Allah wa'akbar. 07:53.515 --> 08:06.950 [SPEAKER_00]: No, the only people who perfect apology are the Qibari, the other ones, because they know that if I apologize, if I did something wrong, I have to apologize, that will make the people love you. 08:07.491 --> 08:12.316 [SPEAKER_00]: And one more thing, Subhanallah, Jebril Qawater. 08:13.097 --> 08:14.418 [SPEAKER_00]: This is called Jebril Qawater. 08:15.308 --> 08:18.391 [SPEAKER_00]: I tried as much as I can to find the translation in English. 08:18.711 --> 08:23.315 [SPEAKER_00]: I could not find chat, GPT, Claude, Proplexity, you name it. 08:23.555 --> 08:26.677 [SPEAKER_00]: I did not leave any, I, there's no translation for this. 08:26.717 --> 08:29.039 [SPEAKER_00]: But I'm gonna give you an example to know what it means. 08:29.940 --> 08:42.671 [SPEAKER_00]: Jeb de la Hauarte, especially when we go overseas, you left the message and you saw someone selling, you know, the door of the message, they're selling napkins or tissues, right? 08:43.191 --> 08:44.192 [SPEAKER_00]: You do not need the tissue. 08:44.998 --> 08:52.524 [SPEAKER_00]: You do not need that war, but you bore it just to support the guy without making him feel humiliated. 08:52.844 --> 08:54.386 [SPEAKER_00]: That is called Jabral Khalater. 08:54.906 --> 08:56.647 [SPEAKER_00]: There's a beautiful story about Jabral Khalater. 08:56.968 --> 08:58.649 [SPEAKER_00]: There was an older woman from the village. 08:58.949 --> 09:02.052 [SPEAKER_00]: She was traveling and there was an engineer right next to her a man. 09:02.672 --> 09:04.574 [SPEAKER_00]: So they're sitting next to each other and they brought the food. 09:05.374 --> 09:06.335 [SPEAKER_00]: They brought the food. 09:08.076 --> 09:11.903 [SPEAKER_00]: Among the food, there was a triangle, white triangle. 09:12.023 --> 09:14.166 [SPEAKER_00]: She thought it was the cheese. 09:14.667 --> 09:16.971 [SPEAKER_00]: So she took it and she put it on a piece of bread. 09:17.992 --> 09:21.035 [SPEAKER_00]: She put the cheese, she put that triangle on a piece of bread. 09:21.395 --> 09:24.678 [SPEAKER_00]: And when she bite it, she noticed it was white chocolate. 09:25.378 --> 09:26.999 [SPEAKER_00]: So she was very embarrassed, you know. 09:27.280 --> 09:28.801 [SPEAKER_00]: She's putting chocolate in a bread. 09:29.301 --> 09:35.246 [SPEAKER_00]: So the man next to her, he opened the triangle thing and he put it in a bread and he started biting. 09:35.687 --> 09:40.210 [SPEAKER_00]: And she said, you also thought it was cheese. 09:40.370 --> 09:43.993 [SPEAKER_00]: He said, yeah, oh my mother, I also thought it was cheese. 09:44.254 --> 09:45.354 [SPEAKER_00]: He knows it was not cheese. 09:46.155 --> 09:51.538 [SPEAKER_00]: But this is, you make the people not embarrassed, you got what it means, you're able to shout out to them. 09:51.779 --> 09:58.383 [SPEAKER_00]: This is something that we have to really do a lot of, so you can gain, lack, and gain the love of people. 09:58.743 --> 10:01.384 [SPEAKER_00]: Last one or two more, one more, two more. 10:02.965 --> 10:10.590 [SPEAKER_00]: Lassalullah, I say to him, said to have to, to have, give gifts, it will create love between each other. 10:11.705 --> 10:12.866 [SPEAKER_00]: give gifts to one another. 10:13.586 --> 10:16.687 [SPEAKER_00]: My office is in the corner, anybody want to drop any gifts inshaAllah ta'a. 10:17.528 --> 10:19.588 [SPEAKER_00]: Even though I love you already, but to increase my love to you. 10:19.608 --> 10:21.069 [SPEAKER_00]: Tell the people that you love them, that will create love also. 10:21.089 --> 10:22.110 [UNKNOWN]: Right? 10:22.170 --> 10:34.735 [SPEAKER_00]: Subhanallah Rasulullah Sallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallallall 10:35.128 --> 10:35.768 [SPEAKER_00]: Go and tell him. 10:36.028 --> 10:47.393 [SPEAKER_00]: So when we see somebody that we love, go and tell him, I love you for the sake of Allah and the person supports to reply and say, you're supposed to say, we always want it. 10:47.413 --> 10:49.454 [SPEAKER_00]: When you tell somebody, I love you for the sake of Allah. 10:49.474 --> 10:50.594 [SPEAKER_00]: I say, love you too, man. 10:50.614 --> 10:55.136 [SPEAKER_00]: No, no, Islamic way is, may the one that you love me for, love you. 10:55.316 --> 10:59.398 [SPEAKER_00]: Habbaq al-Ladi, al-Tanifi, any, in other words, may Allah love you. 10:59.678 --> 11:03.179 [SPEAKER_00]: And the last one, officially, if you really love somebody, 11:05.276 --> 11:21.968 [SPEAKER_00]: make a dua for them in their absence, without them knowing, without them knowing, in your tajjud, between the Adan and the Qama, when you're traveling, ya Allah guide them, ya Allah protect them, ya Allah, fill their home with love and mercy. 11:22.328 --> 11:34.176 [SPEAKER_00]: So now in shā'a Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llāhi Llā