WEBVTT 00:00.351 --> 00:05.840 [SPEAKER_00]: Four score in one fall and winter ago Adam was seeing a guy. 00:06.141 --> 00:08.124 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, that's bad bad bad bad. 00:08.224 --> 00:11.909 [SPEAKER_00]: You can't be going on the yacht Yes, so I potentially have a date life. 00:12.150 --> 00:13.993 [SPEAKER_01]: No one wants a three more teeny lunch anymore. 00:14.013 --> 00:15.054 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, really not 00:24.267 --> 00:25.908 [SPEAKER_00]: I also wasted no time already recording. 00:25.948 --> 00:26.928 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my gosh. 00:27.869 --> 00:30.530 [SPEAKER_01]: My eyes are still like, like, good. 00:31.031 --> 00:33.152 [SPEAKER_00]: I was sad to be couching within two seconds. 00:33.212 --> 00:35.333 [SPEAKER_00]: I had the Zoom recorder on. 00:35.973 --> 00:36.614 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god. 00:36.814 --> 00:38.835 [SPEAKER_00]: And Katie's like going through the emails. 00:38.895 --> 00:39.355 [SPEAKER_00]: Trying to read. 00:39.435 --> 00:40.096 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm trying to read. 00:40.856 --> 00:43.317 [SPEAKER_01]: It's too early for me to read. 00:43.357 --> 00:44.158 [SPEAKER_00]: There's no time for that. 00:44.818 --> 00:51.222 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, your problem, your circadian rhythm is probably off because it's a Tuesday and for the past like, 00:52.042 --> 00:53.524 [SPEAKER_00]: Probably year honestly. 00:53.684 --> 00:55.365 [SPEAKER_00]: We've been recording on Wednesday mornings. 00:55.866 --> 00:56.747 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, what gives? 00:57.768 --> 00:58.468 [SPEAKER_01]: What gives? 00:58.769 --> 01:00.230 [SPEAKER_00]: I have to fly to Boston tomorrow. 01:00.410 --> 01:04.274 [SPEAKER_01]: Everyone's out of town on the Wednesday that we usually are usual recording date. 01:04.635 --> 01:05.015 [SPEAKER_00]: I know. 01:05.275 --> 01:06.456 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm creature of habit. 01:06.516 --> 01:07.297 [SPEAKER_00]: Colby and I is fault. 01:08.278 --> 01:09.439 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, Colby's in Boston. 01:09.459 --> 01:11.982 [SPEAKER_00]: I fly to Boston tomorrow morning. 01:12.002 --> 01:13.884 [SPEAKER_01]: We don't you guys can only hang out? 01:14.482 --> 01:40.738 [SPEAKER_00]: So, Colby was waiting in Boston, essentially, to see if I had an extra ticket to the Nookon concert, because I'm taking a bunch of clients to the Nookon concert, and I was basically, I told Colby, because she was already gonna be in Boston for the Fourth of July, and so I basically told Colby, and I was like, honestly, at these events, there's always somebody who will drop out last minute, and because it's a concert, they'll wanna fill the ticket ASAP, and these are like, not cheap tickets, basically. 01:41.378 --> 02:05.439 [SPEAKER_00]: But I think somebody on my leadership team is part of the Red Sox Foundation, which is like Does something with Fenway Park basically and so she had a block of tickets For me to take clients to and so I'm taking a bunch of clients and of course yesterday I was like Colbu's just basically waiting on standby and Colbu is a client Colbu or is she not a client? 02:05.459 --> 02:06.920 [SPEAKER_00]: Did she get the nod she got it? 02:06.960 --> 02:09.002 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, she got the nod she got the plus one stop it 02:10.079 --> 02:15.905 [SPEAKER_00]: Basically, I went to them and I was like, hey, I know that we even actually get, is that going to go to any use basically? 02:15.925 --> 02:19.789 [SPEAKER_00]: And I was like, but like, let's see if we can fill it with a client first, like that was my whole thing. 02:20.650 --> 02:24.374 [SPEAKER_00]: And yesterday, we tried to fill it with a couple people last minute, but we couldn't get anybody. 02:24.714 --> 02:27.017 [SPEAKER_00]: And so I was like, okay, do you care if I gave it to my best friend Goldway? 02:27.299 --> 02:29.662 [SPEAKER_01]: Will Colby like could be a client? 02:29.822 --> 02:31.223 [SPEAKER_01]: Anyone could be a client? 02:31.243 --> 02:31.524 [SPEAKER_00]: True. 02:32.064 --> 02:34.667 [SPEAKER_00]: So essentially Colby long to ensure extended her trap. 02:35.028 --> 02:38.211 [SPEAKER_00]: Just in case I was going to be able to get her into the concert and sure enough. 02:38.411 --> 02:38.972 [SPEAKER_00]: Smart girl. 02:39.012 --> 02:40.433 [SPEAKER_00]: Literally one ticket was available. 02:40.694 --> 02:41.635 [SPEAKER_01]: So it's like gambling. 02:41.875 --> 02:42.976 [SPEAKER_00]: Yep, she's gambling. 02:43.777 --> 02:47.860 [SPEAKER_00]: And she was literally texting me all day yesterday being like, do I need to book a train tomorrow? 02:47.920 --> 02:49.281 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, when are you going to know? 02:49.421 --> 02:53.585 [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, I love you, but I need to make sure I can try to fill it with a client first. 02:54.806 --> 02:57.107 [SPEAKER_00]: And then, sure enough, I got the nod from the event coordinator. 02:57.227 --> 03:00.750 [SPEAKER_00]: Wow, so Colby's coming with me and all my clients. 03:01.391 --> 03:02.852 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, I'm so jealous. 03:02.872 --> 03:03.272 [SPEAKER_00]: I know. 03:03.512 --> 03:04.653 [SPEAKER_00]: So I've lined up all since tomorrow. 03:04.993 --> 03:09.237 [SPEAKER_00]: We go to the Noah Concord tonight and then Colby and I put a flyback Thursday morning at 6am. 03:10.114 --> 03:19.372 [SPEAKER_00]: you fly together how sweet flat it will currently I'm on the 9 a.m. copies on the 6 a.m. and so it's still TVD if I'm changing to the 6 a.m. because it's an early flight. 03:19.493 --> 03:20.394 [SPEAKER_01]: Where's the fire? 03:20.455 --> 03:20.635 [SPEAKER_01]: What? 03:22.135 --> 03:23.956 [SPEAKER_00]: So we need to get to the office. 03:24.096 --> 03:26.318 [SPEAKER_00]: She told her boss she was like, hey, at a month. 03:26.398 --> 03:27.058 [SPEAKER_01]: On Friday? 03:27.858 --> 03:28.799 [SPEAKER_00]: No, it's on Thursday. 03:28.839 --> 03:30.020 [SPEAKER_00]: Cause the concert's Wednesday night. 03:30.420 --> 03:30.840 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god. 03:30.860 --> 03:31.541 [SPEAKER_00]: Like a day tomorrow night. 03:31.561 --> 03:32.181 [SPEAKER_01]: What day is it? 03:32.201 --> 03:33.822 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, doesn't she work from home on Fridays? 03:33.842 --> 03:35.463 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, yeah, she does. 03:35.483 --> 03:36.204 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, okay, got it. 03:36.324 --> 03:37.444 [SPEAKER_00]: My wife. 03:37.504 --> 03:39.185 [SPEAKER_00]: I know my wife's entire schedule. 03:39.506 --> 03:39.766 [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm. 03:40.706 --> 03:42.707 [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, so that's what we're doing tomorrow, which would be fun. 03:43.268 --> 03:43.668 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 03:43.888 --> 03:44.669 [SPEAKER_00]: I know, I'm excited. 03:44.729 --> 03:45.569 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm very excited. 03:45.709 --> 03:47.650 [SPEAKER_00]: I was about, do you remember when we went to Boston? 03:47.670 --> 03:50.092 [SPEAKER_00]: And we went to that place with the amazing bathtub martinis? 03:51.233 --> 03:51.773 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, I do. 03:52.412 --> 03:59.776 [SPEAKER_00]: So I was gonna take one of my clients there, good old grilled 23, with the ice-shared, beautiful, beautiful baths of martinis. 04:00.537 --> 04:02.098 [SPEAKER_01]: But I'm not calling it a bath tub. 04:02.918 --> 04:06.200 [SPEAKER_00]: Cause it's just like a big, goblet martini. 04:07.077 --> 04:08.578 [SPEAKER_01]: but it's like has ice cubes in it. 04:09.359 --> 04:10.800 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like so icy. 04:11.200 --> 04:12.801 [SPEAKER_01]: That would not be a comfortable bath. 04:12.861 --> 04:15.743 [SPEAKER_00]: See, when I think of bathtub, I'm thinking of like the volume. 04:15.763 --> 04:18.084 [SPEAKER_00]: Besides the volume of a bathtub. 04:18.104 --> 04:20.646 [SPEAKER_01]: Cause I don't like my bath tub with ice sharks. 04:20.686 --> 04:21.387 [SPEAKER_00]: Totally right. 04:21.807 --> 04:22.507 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a cold. 04:22.527 --> 04:23.248 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like an ice bath. 04:24.728 --> 04:36.459 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, you know accurate, but I'm more referring to the the volume of it when you said back to our Tini's I was like I heard martinis and then I associated it with girls 23 But I got baths on March back to size. 04:36.760 --> 04:40.584 [SPEAKER_00]: That's exactly okay, but we can't go because apparently they only opened a 5 p.m 04:42.100 --> 04:42.801 [SPEAKER_01]: They open at five. 04:42.841 --> 04:43.862 [SPEAKER_01]: They don't open for lunch. 04:44.402 --> 04:44.602 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 04:45.083 --> 04:46.904 [SPEAKER_01]: No one wants a three-mart teeny lunch anymore. 04:46.924 --> 04:47.985 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, apparently not. 04:48.025 --> 04:49.387 [SPEAKER_01]: Have you heard of a three-mart teeny lunch? 04:49.487 --> 04:49.907 [SPEAKER_01]: No, that is. 04:49.967 --> 04:52.129 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, I have a scene crawl through that on TikTok, I think. 04:52.550 --> 04:52.850 [SPEAKER_01]: Really? 04:52.870 --> 04:53.290 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 04:53.811 --> 04:54.451 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, it's back? 04:54.752 --> 04:55.032 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 04:55.372 --> 04:58.195 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, this is from like the Mad Men era. 04:58.774 --> 05:13.239 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, I didn't know that was what that was like the three martini lunch was like back in the day when execs would literally have like a bar cart in their office because that was normal to do right like have you ever seen Madman? 05:13.814 --> 05:15.915 [SPEAKER_00]: I have, but not like, like, all of the way through. 05:15.975 --> 05:17.536 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I've seen this clip in episodes. 05:17.716 --> 05:20.758 [SPEAKER_01]: I believe it's like the 50s and 60s era, if I had to gas. 05:20.798 --> 05:22.279 [SPEAKER_01]: I would need to, like, fact check myself. 05:22.319 --> 05:23.980 [SPEAKER_01]: But I think that that was, like, the era. 05:24.200 --> 05:28.722 [SPEAKER_00]: Does Madman follow bankers, lawyers, advertisers, advertising? 05:28.982 --> 05:30.583 [SPEAKER_01]: I want to start it again from the beginning. 05:30.623 --> 05:33.225 [SPEAKER_01]: It's such a good show in New York. 05:33.345 --> 05:38.628 [SPEAKER_01]: But they, that time, they had this thing called a three martini lunch, which is when you would, like, 05:39.515 --> 05:41.836 [SPEAKER_00]: have three more teenagers at lunch and go back to work. 05:42.377 --> 05:42.897 [SPEAKER_00]: So funny. 05:42.917 --> 05:45.178 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, like the times were different. 05:45.198 --> 05:53.783 [SPEAKER_01]: But a lot of people, like some of the biggest mergers and deals and acquisitions and everything happened over a three more teenie line. 05:53.803 --> 05:54.424 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not surprised. 05:54.564 --> 05:57.526 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, that's literally why I travel so much as a salesperson. 05:57.626 --> 05:58.866 [SPEAKER_01]: To have three more teenies at lunch. 05:58.886 --> 05:59.907 [SPEAKER_00]: To have three more teenies a lot. 06:00.948 --> 06:01.808 [SPEAKER_00]: And now I wish. 06:02.468 --> 06:03.949 [SPEAKER_00]: That's like not really the culture anymore. 06:03.989 --> 06:08.292 [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like like even if you go to a work dinner, I feel like people optimize now to get home earlier. 06:08.732 --> 06:19.545 [SPEAKER_00]: To my Adam's favorite word has made an appearance like but like when I went to Korea We were talking there to talk about this how we were talking about like business etiquette in Korea No, I don't think so. 06:19.565 --> 06:20.687 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm intrigued though. 06:20.767 --> 06:24.611 [SPEAKER_00]: So Asian countries traditionally their business etiquette is their like 06:25.212 --> 06:32.818 [SPEAKER_00]: go from the office, go to a dinner, and then after dinner, they'll go out after, and then after they go out, they'll go to like a nightclub or a strip club until like all hours of the night. 06:32.878 --> 06:35.440 [SPEAKER_00]: And so they won't get home into like 6.70m. 06:35.840 --> 06:45.987 [SPEAKER_00]: And so it's like a known thing in Korea that like it would be like a joke that the husbands would get home at like 6.70m and they'd be back in the office like two hours later at 9.00m, essentially. 06:46.167 --> 06:47.168 [SPEAKER_00]: 9.00m. 06:47.188 --> 06:53.152 [SPEAKER_00]: They start their day a little bit later because traditionally in Korea, at least, and also Japan, their culture is like, go out and drink all night. 06:54.093 --> 06:57.975 [SPEAKER_00]: because it's like build a sense of camaraderie when you're taking clients out. 06:58.335 --> 07:08.699 [SPEAKER_01]: It is interesting how like Miran Japan, they had at all these temples and shrines, they had sacrifices or nuts, I think that's the wrong word, offerings. 07:08.899 --> 07:09.439 [SPEAKER_01]: What's it called? 07:10.179 --> 07:10.840 [SPEAKER_01]: Not a sacrifice. 07:10.880 --> 07:11.600 [SPEAKER_00]: What are you talking about? 07:11.620 --> 07:11.880 [SPEAKER_00]: No, no. 07:11.900 --> 07:15.122 [SPEAKER_01]: The things that they put at the base of the shrine is like an offering. 07:15.242 --> 07:15.562 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a thing. 07:15.582 --> 07:16.303 [SPEAKER_01]: It's an offering. 07:16.323 --> 07:16.843 [SPEAKER_00]: It's an offering. 07:16.883 --> 07:17.343 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:17.883 --> 07:18.384 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:18.404 --> 07:18.844 [SPEAKER_00]: To the gods. 07:18.924 --> 07:19.444 [SPEAKER_00]: To the gods. 07:19.464 --> 07:19.965 [SPEAKER_00]: To the gods. 07:19.985 --> 07:20.325 [SPEAKER_00]: To the gods. 07:20.385 --> 07:20.725 [SPEAKER_00]: To the gods. 07:20.745 --> 07:21.625 [SPEAKER_00]: To the gods. 07:21.645 --> 07:22.086 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:22.106 --> 07:22.406 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:22.706 --> 07:23.086 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:23.106 --> 07:23.607 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:23.627 --> 07:24.527 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:24.587 --> 07:25.127 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:25.167 --> 07:25.468 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:25.708 --> 07:26.068 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:26.088 --> 07:26.348 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:26.388 --> 07:27.609 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:27.629 --> 07:28.129 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:28.449 --> 07:29.170 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:29.190 --> 07:29.710 [SPEAKER_01]: To the gods. 07:37.534 --> 07:45.357 [SPEAKER_01]: but oftentimes they would have like a bottle or something at like the base of the Buddha or something and I asked our tour guide. 07:45.377 --> 07:48.018 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, okay, what's with all the alcohol everywhere? 07:48.038 --> 07:49.998 [SPEAKER_01]: Because I could look at it and I'm like, that looks like an alcohol. 07:50.418 --> 07:51.499 [SPEAKER_01]: She's like, oh, yeah, it's saki. 07:51.919 --> 07:53.239 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, saki is often. 07:53.319 --> 07:53.820 [SPEAKER_00]: Saki, yeah. 07:54.000 --> 07:54.180 [SPEAKER_01]: The 07:56.162 --> 08:02.010 [SPEAKER_01]: whatever the professional spiritual word is for like offering to the gods, like alcohol. 08:02.752 --> 08:09.281 [SPEAKER_01]: And at the one shrine that we went to, Shinto shrine in Harajuku, they had like 08:10.022 --> 08:32.425 [SPEAKER_01]: literally a thousand like really I posted an Instagram photo in front of it was a very cool like it looks like these like little jars like but they I asked again the tour guide i'm like okay what's that she's like once again sake sake barrels that were like offered by businesses for like to get their business prosperity or something but there's literally a thousand 08:33.714 --> 08:34.757 [SPEAKER_01]: Soky containers. 08:34.857 --> 08:35.639 [SPEAKER_01]: I just like never. 08:36.020 --> 08:41.012 [SPEAKER_01]: I grew up thinking that alcohol and religion were early spirituality of any kind. 08:41.052 --> 08:42.255 [SPEAKER_01]: We're extremely separate. 08:43.260 --> 08:46.241 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I think in the US, I mean, at least now it is. 08:46.401 --> 08:49.883 [SPEAKER_01]: Or like, it's in a, like, you know, oh, alcohol, I don't even know what that is. 08:49.963 --> 08:51.343 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, but I'm going to church, you know? 08:51.363 --> 08:53.544 [SPEAKER_00]: In the US, like alcohol is a very negative perception. 08:53.904 --> 08:57.466 [SPEAKER_01]: Except for wine, blood of Christ. 08:57.986 --> 09:03.128 [SPEAKER_00]: I guess, but like, even like, so for, again, the US, the drinking age is obviously, what even is the drinking age? 09:03.148 --> 09:03.448 [SPEAKER_00]: 21. 09:03.568 --> 09:04.229 [SPEAKER_01]: Are you kidding me? 09:04.289 --> 09:06.770 [SPEAKER_00]: I was supposed to say 18, but then I was like, that's what it used to be. 09:07.530 --> 09:14.897 [SPEAKER_01]: Is it it's 21 it was 18 when our parents were like right growing up right and now it's 21 But in like you're up. 09:14.917 --> 09:17.219 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm pretty sure it's like is there even a drink age? 09:19.021 --> 09:21.022 [SPEAKER_01]: In England it was eight it is 18. 09:21.182 --> 09:21.723 [SPEAKER_00]: It is 18. 09:22.504 --> 09:25.727 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but people like the culture is different It is different there. 09:25.987 --> 09:30.070 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but I'm also thinking like Japan and Korea like I don't even know if there is a cheeky Google it. 09:30.351 --> 09:33.814 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I'm curious drinking age in Korea 09:35.535 --> 09:36.055 [SPEAKER_00]: 19. 09:36.075 --> 09:37.096 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, interesting. 09:37.116 --> 09:37.356 [SPEAKER_00]: 19. 09:38.217 --> 09:39.077 [SPEAKER_00]: That feels random. 09:39.298 --> 09:41.899 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think alcohol is such a negative connotation in other countries. 09:41.919 --> 09:43.581 [SPEAKER_01]: Japan, drinking Asian Japan 20. 09:43.981 --> 09:44.301 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 09:44.321 --> 09:47.423 [SPEAKER_00]: All right. 09:47.443 --> 09:49.284 [SPEAKER_00]: So they're approaching 21. 09:49.304 --> 09:50.445 [SPEAKER_01]: 20. 09:51.506 --> 09:53.467 [SPEAKER_01]: Everyone just like, we'll just pick a random number. 09:54.248 --> 09:55.469 [SPEAKER_00]: The numbers all seem very random. 09:55.529 --> 09:57.130 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, what does the number even mean? 09:58.211 --> 10:03.054 [SPEAKER_00]: Isn't it kind of funny that when you grow up, you realize that there's somebody like sitting behind a desk just deciding these things? 10:04.397 --> 10:06.858 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, and they're often doing it over a three martini lunch. 10:06.938 --> 10:20.725 [SPEAKER_01]: So, no, I'm getting, but now the drinking age thing actually, we were talking about it over July 4th because, you know, we covered a lot of ground in Maryland on July 4th weekend with Jack's whole British family there. 10:20.745 --> 10:21.285 [SPEAKER_01]: What was there? 10:21.465 --> 10:23.568 [SPEAKER_01]: for July and we had expanded. 10:23.608 --> 10:28.794 [SPEAKER_01]: We had his sister brother-in-law and niece this year as well, so we had quite this squad. 10:29.454 --> 10:36.402 [SPEAKER_01]: I am like still in recovery from my social battery has never been this day in a good way, like obviously, but 10:37.023 --> 10:52.515 [SPEAKER_01]: We were talking about the drinking age, of course, and like just the differences between the British way of life and American way of life and you know what you grow up doing and What not I mean we were talking about the drinking age and I was like do you think that the the drinking age would ever go back down to 18 because I feel like 10:53.295 --> 10:53.715 [SPEAKER_01]: Twenty one. 10:53.735 --> 10:54.595 [SPEAKER_01]: There's a reason for it. 10:54.635 --> 10:57.036 [SPEAKER_01]: It's because of all the drinking and driving, I think. 10:57.436 --> 11:00.097 [SPEAKER_01]: Mothers against, mothers against drunk drivers. 11:00.137 --> 11:09.700 [SPEAKER_01]: I think that was like the, the like crew, that was like, we got, we got to raise this drinking age back in like the 80s or 90s. 11:09.780 --> 11:10.020 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 11:10.780 --> 11:12.601 [SPEAKER_01]: But I don't think it'll ever go back down. 11:12.841 --> 11:13.501 [SPEAKER_00]: That don't make it either. 11:13.821 --> 11:16.942 [SPEAKER_01]: Because who's going to be the lawmaker that's going to push for that? 11:17.682 --> 11:20.423 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that's what we're going to like try to like advance their career. 11:21.450 --> 11:23.751 [SPEAKER_00]: I was going to say we got we've a lot of other problems. 11:23.771 --> 11:24.092 [SPEAKER_00]: What is it? 11:24.172 --> 11:24.912 [SPEAKER_01]: Is it the Senate? 11:24.932 --> 11:26.353 [SPEAKER_00]: I have no phone. 11:26.373 --> 11:33.077 [SPEAKER_01]: Like I don't know if it's like a state thing, like I don't know who would be, but who wants to be like that's going to be the hill that I die on. 11:33.617 --> 11:36.639 [SPEAKER_01]: It should be drinking earlier, you know? 11:37.352 --> 11:46.397 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, there'd have to be like some weird reason as to money, money, okay, that would have to be the reason, like we need Okay, this is smart, you're so right. 11:46.437 --> 11:56.923 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, I'm just putting two and two together, like what influences people the most Money capital capital capital Glad to see capitalism is alive and well 11:58.063 --> 11:59.626 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh honey, it's alive and well. 11:59.906 --> 12:01.689 [SPEAKER_01]: Capitalism has touched everything now. 12:02.310 --> 12:02.851 [SPEAKER_01]: Weddings? 12:03.552 --> 12:04.394 [SPEAKER_01]: Don't let me get me started. 12:04.434 --> 12:05.115 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god. 12:05.415 --> 12:06.036 [SPEAKER_01]: Don't let me get started. 12:06.096 --> 12:09.462 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, they're estimates of how much our good friend teller so sweating has cost yet. 12:10.053 --> 12:10.894 [SPEAKER_01]: I was watching the news. 12:11.014 --> 12:15.057 [SPEAKER_01]: Actually, funny enough, my dad was watching the news, and it was on, obviously. 12:15.417 --> 12:21.902 [SPEAKER_01]: It's Taylor and Travis' wedding has touched every, has touched even my dad's news channel. 12:23.102 --> 12:24.003 [SPEAKER_01]: But they were talking about it. 12:24.343 --> 12:27.005 [SPEAKER_01]: It was estimated on that channel at like 50 million. 12:27.526 --> 12:28.366 [SPEAKER_01]: But I think that's 50. 12:28.386 --> 12:31.929 [SPEAKER_01]: I think it's love, she rented out the entire MSG. 12:33.250 --> 12:34.751 [SPEAKER_00]: Does it cost $50 million to do that there? 12:35.091 --> 12:35.571 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 12:36.072 --> 12:37.012 [SPEAKER_00]: I can't imagine it does. 12:37.072 --> 12:37.913 [SPEAKER_01]: I guess I have no concept. 12:37.973 --> 12:42.736 [SPEAKER_01]: I saw a blind item that she was handing out Rolexes or something. 12:42.916 --> 12:43.656 [SPEAKER_01]: There was a bad wedding. 12:43.676 --> 12:44.417 [SPEAKER_01]: There was a raffle. 12:44.717 --> 12:47.679 [SPEAKER_01]: I think she did a lot of charity stuff even at the wedding. 12:47.739 --> 12:49.160 [SPEAKER_01]: She did this big raffle. 12:50.280 --> 12:53.502 [SPEAKER_01]: and I think like the proceeds or something went to charity. 12:54.602 --> 12:58.844 [SPEAKER_01]: I believe, but she also did, I'm seeing like rumors. 12:59.284 --> 12:59.724 [SPEAKER_01]: Rumors. 13:00.165 --> 13:08.108 [SPEAKER_01]: There was also apparently a karaoke moment where she would like invite her famous guests that sang up and do karaoke. 13:08.128 --> 13:09.869 [SPEAKER_00]: No, I saw what's in the cry. 13:09.889 --> 13:11.530 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a green carpenter. 13:11.950 --> 13:13.711 [SPEAKER_01]: Who did she, I believe it was like, 13:14.451 --> 13:20.759 [SPEAKER_01]: I think there's somebody cool allegedly Lana Del Rey sang, I think, young and beautiful. 13:20.779 --> 13:22.622 [SPEAKER_01]: Do you know that song? 13:23.203 --> 13:23.563 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 13:23.824 --> 13:24.284 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 13:24.324 --> 13:27.328 [SPEAKER_01]: I think there was another song that I don't know. 13:27.348 --> 13:28.850 [SPEAKER_01]: Lana Del Rey allegedly sang. 13:29.691 --> 13:32.094 [SPEAKER_01]: And then I believe one of the Beatles was there. 13:33.092 --> 13:36.856 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, I think she invited pretty much the entirety of A-list Hollywood. 13:36.876 --> 13:39.359 [SPEAKER_01]: She said, she had a thousand guests at the same. 13:39.559 --> 13:48.108 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, I saw the clips of her being like, I don't want to be teetering on whether or not I shouldn't write somebody like, if you're somebody you consider as me potentially a friend you're invited to the wedding. 13:48.782 --> 13:51.322 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, that was the ultimate networking event ever. 13:52.163 --> 13:52.463 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yeah. 13:52.503 --> 13:54.163 [SPEAKER_00]: It may as well have been like the Oscars. 13:55.423 --> 13:57.303 [SPEAKER_01]: She made her own award show pretty much. 13:57.463 --> 13:58.004 [SPEAKER_00]: No, literally. 13:58.564 --> 13:59.764 [SPEAKER_00]: I want to see pictures of the answer. 13:59.784 --> 14:00.944 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm out of sand, they're officiated. 14:00.964 --> 14:01.484 [SPEAKER_01]: Do you see that? 14:01.504 --> 14:02.064 [SPEAKER_00]: I did see that. 14:02.144 --> 14:02.764 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my God. 14:03.004 --> 14:03.925 [SPEAKER_01]: No, I'm dying to see photos. 14:03.965 --> 14:04.785 [SPEAKER_01]: I wonder if we will. 14:06.025 --> 14:06.705 [SPEAKER_01]: Do you think we will? 14:07.105 --> 14:08.305 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sure it'll be a documentary. 14:09.246 --> 14:09.806 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 14:09.826 --> 14:13.046 [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like this might be the one time she doesn't do a documentary. 14:13.226 --> 14:14.006 [SPEAKER_00]: I kind of think she will. 14:14.086 --> 14:15.227 [SPEAKER_00]: She'll want to get back to the fans. 14:15.487 --> 14:15.967 [SPEAKER_00]: You don't think so? 14:16.667 --> 14:17.467 [SPEAKER_01]: Her wedding, though. 14:18.097 --> 14:21.343 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, to sponsor her wedding, none other than her fans. 14:21.403 --> 14:23.787 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, I'm, I mean, true. 14:24.227 --> 14:29.036 [SPEAKER_01]: I am of the belief that she and Travis did actually get married before. 14:29.707 --> 14:34.451 [SPEAKER_01]: And this is just like there is the party, which she's allowed to do whatever she wants. 14:34.832 --> 14:40.817 [SPEAKER_01]: And she doesn't need to tell a soul, but I believe that this was like a, I believe it for sure. 14:41.398 --> 14:45.982 [SPEAKER_01]: Performance of sort, I mean, still like a very impactful, very like special, very special. 14:46.702 --> 14:52.327 [SPEAKER_01]: But she did walk down the aisle allegedly, but like I think she may have already walked down the aisle before. 14:52.347 --> 14:56.391 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, Grace, as she had to have gone and gotten her license, yeah. 14:57.160 --> 15:01.502 [SPEAKER_01]: but I also feel like she might have done like an intimate ceremony. 15:01.562 --> 15:02.482 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I believe it. 15:03.063 --> 15:09.466 [SPEAKER_00]: I loved all this speculation leading up to it of people being like, this is to a, like, look at the clipboards in the handwriting. 15:09.506 --> 15:10.706 [SPEAKER_00]: She would never have anything that happened. 15:10.726 --> 15:11.647 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, it really did. 15:11.667 --> 15:12.747 [SPEAKER_01]: I was, I was in that camp. 15:13.127 --> 15:21.831 [SPEAKER_01]: I will admit, I was absolutely like, until literally the moment a celebrity was photographed, I had thought that this was all a ruse. 15:22.471 --> 15:23.592 [SPEAKER_01]: A very expensive ruse. 15:23.612 --> 15:25.333 [SPEAKER_01]: There's no way her weddings at MSG. 15:26.454 --> 15:35.991 [SPEAKER_01]: But now, but as I've had time to sit with it, it makes so much more sense like every yeah every passing second I'm like I think for for Taylor like she's you know 15:37.442 --> 15:46.704 [SPEAKER_01]: I think aesthetics were like the venue like where the venue is, what the venue is, matters so much less to her than privacy. 15:47.465 --> 16:02.488 [SPEAKER_01]: Privacy, which is the one thing that it's very hard for her to get, the hardest element of the wedding day for her would be keeping it private with like all these crying eyes everywhere, and I think that that was top of her list of priorities, not windows. 16:05.269 --> 16:06.633 [SPEAKER_01]: but privacy was number one. 16:07.255 --> 16:10.926 [SPEAKER_01]: And with the amount of money that she has, she could create any world that she wanted in there. 16:11.295 --> 16:12.096 [SPEAKER_00]: That's what I was singing, too. 16:12.516 --> 16:14.017 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, it's literally just a blank campus. 16:14.237 --> 16:18.641 [SPEAKER_01]: If you have, like, unlimited funds, you could really do whatever you want. 16:18.661 --> 16:19.121 [SPEAKER_00]: 100%. 16:19.201 --> 16:20.782 [SPEAKER_00]: She can go in there and fuck the whole place up. 16:21.123 --> 16:21.943 [SPEAKER_01]: Seriously. 16:22.504 --> 16:24.005 [SPEAKER_00]: That's why I really need to see pictures. 16:24.025 --> 16:25.506 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I wanna know what you did with it. 16:25.566 --> 16:27.548 [SPEAKER_00]: I saw so many like, eh, I generated images. 16:27.968 --> 16:28.508 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my God. 16:28.669 --> 16:30.530 [SPEAKER_01]: And I was like, you were getting a job by those. 16:31.090 --> 16:33.012 [SPEAKER_00]: No, yeah, people were like, well, looks so good. 16:33.072 --> 16:39.257 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, if you swipe through this fake carousel, her straps on her dress change in every picture. 16:40.215 --> 16:42.858 [SPEAKER_00]: Now I didn't see, I didn't see the generated images of her. 16:42.958 --> 16:46.362 [SPEAKER_00]: I only saw a generated images of like the venue with the venue. 16:46.802 --> 16:47.162 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 16:47.242 --> 16:47.863 [SPEAKER_00]: Wood look like. 16:48.083 --> 16:59.275 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, I saw, again, I saw someone else talking on the news about, like, of a trusted source said that her color scheme was peach and white or something. 17:00.076 --> 17:02.958 [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, I, like, I don't not believe it. 17:03.238 --> 17:05.439 [SPEAKER_01]: I think I don't really know what Taylor. 17:05.760 --> 17:06.880 [SPEAKER_01]: Taylor, I love her to death. 17:07.221 --> 17:11.103 [SPEAKER_01]: I am such a swifty through and through, but she can be a little bit chuggy sometimes. 17:11.163 --> 17:14.225 [SPEAKER_01]: So like, I don't, I feel like whatever she shows for decor. 17:14.245 --> 17:19.008 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not gonna be like, that's my dream wedding, but she's allowed to do whatever the hell she wants. 17:19.308 --> 17:20.009 [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I mean? 17:20.189 --> 17:20.729 [SPEAKER_00]: Totally great. 17:20.949 --> 17:21.630 [SPEAKER_00]: She's so smart. 17:22.050 --> 17:22.851 [SPEAKER_01]: She's Taylor Swift. 17:22.911 --> 17:25.873 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so humor me this, Blake Lively was not invited to the wedding. 17:26.173 --> 17:39.881 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I think what's most significant about the Taylor Swift, Travis Wedding, of it all is like, who was not invited because it seems like everyone in their mother was invited so the people that were not invited stand out even more to be like, oh, they're like feuding. 17:40.162 --> 17:40.362 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 17:40.842 --> 17:47.766 [SPEAKER_01]: So Blake and Ryan Reynolds, and then what's that guy's name? 17:47.967 --> 17:50.208 [SPEAKER_01]: Miles Teller, Kelly Teller. 17:51.259 --> 17:52.800 [SPEAKER_00]: What's her beef with Miles and Kelly Teller? 17:52.820 --> 17:56.802 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, Miles and Kelly Teller were, they were thickest thieves for a while. 17:57.883 --> 18:03.566 [SPEAKER_01]: And Taylor has a music video where they're literally like in the music video, starring in the music video. 18:04.326 --> 18:06.648 [SPEAKER_01]: I think maybe she was friends with Miles Teller first. 18:06.948 --> 18:08.069 [SPEAKER_01]: He's the actor, obviously. 18:08.509 --> 18:11.791 [SPEAKER_01]: And then became really good friends with his wife, Kelly. 18:12.791 --> 18:26.604 [SPEAKER_01]: Um, and then there was like this like Kelly like posted on her Instagram as she got in Taylor this like Opelite ring for her birthday and like they were like really good friends and then all of a sudden like Radio silence they just like were stopped. 18:26.664 --> 18:39.055 [SPEAKER_01]: They stopped being seen together being photographed and people were like Oh, maybe like they were just keeping their friendship were off away from the cameras But like no, there's definitely something that happened and no one knows 18:39.715 --> 18:40.235 [SPEAKER_01]: No one knows. 18:40.796 --> 18:41.196 [SPEAKER_01]: Interesting. 18:41.276 --> 18:42.156 [SPEAKER_01]: No one knows. 18:43.257 --> 18:44.417 [SPEAKER_01]: So, she wasn't there. 18:44.777 --> 18:47.618 [SPEAKER_01]: What's notable is that Carly Kloss was there. 18:47.638 --> 18:48.559 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, really? 18:48.819 --> 18:51.140 [SPEAKER_01]: Carly Kloss was there, and her husband. 18:51.680 --> 18:54.401 [SPEAKER_00]: And we had thought that they... She was beefing with Carly Kloss one point now. 18:54.602 --> 18:57.223 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, yeah, I mean, never like super confirmed. 18:57.263 --> 19:02.325 [SPEAKER_00]: But like... Wasn't there a lot of stuff about like how at the era store or whatever, Carly was in like... 19:03.493 --> 19:04.834 [SPEAKER_00]: the nose bleeds. 19:04.895 --> 19:06.296 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, she wasn't in the tent. 19:07.076 --> 19:09.398 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, we were like, oh, she bought that ticket herself. 19:09.498 --> 19:21.929 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, she, she, no, but I think that the lore is that Carly Clause somehow kind of sided with the enemies of Taylor's life, like the people that were trying to steal her music and stuff, or the way I say it. 19:21.989 --> 19:22.690 [SPEAKER_01]: Let me double check. 19:23.150 --> 19:25.332 [SPEAKER_00]: She's besties with like the scooter bronze of the world. 19:26.293 --> 19:27.033 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, exactly. 19:27.694 --> 19:27.934 [SPEAKER_01]: We. 19:28.975 --> 19:30.636 [SPEAKER_00]: We're Justin Bieber and Haley Bieber at the wedding? 19:30.696 --> 19:30.917 [SPEAKER_00]: Nope. 19:31.702 --> 19:32.902 [SPEAKER_01]: Kardashians, obviously not. 19:33.223 --> 19:47.128 [SPEAKER_01]: I think the bebers are just too close to the Kardashians and the Kardashians Taylor one nothing and do with them obviously So funny the capital although did you see at the the Nick's game Kering Kylie had a moment. 19:47.928 --> 19:52.770 [SPEAKER_01]: I think it was the last the final That car oh yeah, they hugged on the court. 19:52.790 --> 19:58.452 [SPEAKER_01]: Kylie and Taylor hugged yep and like spoke I did see that and I was like oh my god. 19:58.492 --> 19:58.772 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like 20:00.160 --> 20:03.342 [SPEAKER_01]: watching a dog walk on its hind legs like crazy. 20:03.442 --> 20:05.383 [SPEAKER_00]: Well Kylie's like the least problematic. 20:05.963 --> 20:06.744 [SPEAKER_00]: What did I say like that? 20:06.804 --> 20:07.544 [SPEAKER_01]: Problemetic. 20:07.564 --> 20:08.245 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god. 20:08.265 --> 20:11.346 [SPEAKER_00]: At least the least problematic gender. 20:11.747 --> 20:11.927 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 20:12.747 --> 20:13.508 [SPEAKER_00]: Slash Kardashian. 20:14.829 --> 20:17.530 [SPEAKER_01]: You don't think Kendall's least least problematic? 20:17.970 --> 20:19.671 [SPEAKER_00]: Kendall's getting in fights with everybody. 20:19.731 --> 20:20.292 [SPEAKER_00]: Is she not? 20:20.332 --> 20:21.052 [SPEAKER_01]: What is she doing? 20:21.112 --> 20:27.876 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, she dates half of Hollywood to the odds of her dating somebody that, and then breaking up with them, who is best friends with Taylor Swift, is probably not. 20:30.703 --> 20:31.203 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 20:31.883 --> 20:34.304 [SPEAKER_00]: Like Kylie's just like happy go lucky. 20:34.784 --> 20:38.166 [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like Chloe's like... Chloe's pretty non-problematic. 20:39.226 --> 20:46.248 [SPEAKER_01]: But I feel like she... Yeah, I know you mean there's like there could be like crossover that Taylor would be. 20:47.149 --> 20:50.430 [SPEAKER_00]: Like I think Kylie's just like the most normal of the group. 20:50.768 --> 21:00.497 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, the alleged feud between Taylor Swift and Carly Clause primarily stems from Clause's close ties to Scooter Braun, whose company acquired Taylor Swift's Masters in 2019. 21:00.677 --> 21:00.997 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 21:01.217 --> 21:03.880 [SPEAKER_01]: Swift felt betrayed that Clause maintained a friendship with him. 21:04.981 --> 21:08.784 [SPEAKER_01]: And vacationed on his yacht shortly after the sale of her recordings. 21:08.884 --> 21:09.665 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that's tough. 21:10.085 --> 21:12.608 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, that's bad, bad, bad, bad. 21:12.628 --> 21:13.809 [SPEAKER_00]: You can't be going on the yacht. 21:15.734 --> 21:25.884 [SPEAKER_01]: oh my gosh yeah there's like songs where there was lyrics that are just like obviously about her but i guess water under the bridge huh? 21:25.904 --> 21:37.615 [SPEAKER_01]: water under the bridge and it was very satisfying to watch Taylor at the game at the next game and having scooter brawn and Sydney swinging like seven rows behind it's like not on the court like that was such a satisfying visual 21:38.035 --> 21:39.115 [SPEAKER_00]: She probably also loved that. 21:39.355 --> 21:40.616 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, you know she loved it. 21:41.016 --> 21:43.137 [SPEAKER_01]: Taylor, like you can't get that girl down right now. 21:43.637 --> 21:45.277 [SPEAKER_01]: She had the wedding of her dreams. 21:45.938 --> 21:48.438 [SPEAKER_01]: She has all of her music back. 21:49.259 --> 21:53.260 [SPEAKER_01]: She's like gonna hopefully pop out a kid. 21:53.280 --> 21:54.000 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm just kidding. 21:54.200 --> 21:54.980 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, probably. 21:55.020 --> 21:56.021 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know what her journey is. 21:56.041 --> 22:02.003 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want to project in order to be a crazy fan, but like I would love to see Taylor, a mother. 22:02.983 --> 22:03.463 [SPEAKER_01]: How old is she? 22:03.483 --> 22:03.963 [SPEAKER_01]: I think she's 36. 22:04.003 --> 22:04.403 [SPEAKER_01]: Let's see. 22:07.498 --> 22:08.719 [SPEAKER_00]: She's right. 22:08.859 --> 22:10.500 [SPEAKER_01]: Childbirth from age. 22:10.540 --> 22:10.840 [SPEAKER_01]: 36. 22:11.941 --> 22:12.201 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes. 22:12.401 --> 22:12.842 [SPEAKER_00]: It's time. 22:13.002 --> 22:14.162 [SPEAKER_00]: It's time for it to have a child. 22:15.423 --> 22:17.144 [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like Taylor can have a child whenever she wants. 22:17.364 --> 22:18.865 [SPEAKER_00]: See if Taylor's getting married to 36. 22:18.905 --> 22:20.246 [SPEAKER_00]: I think there's hope for all of us. 22:21.187 --> 22:22.528 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, you're all set, but. 22:23.789 --> 22:25.510 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, hey, there's no ring on my finger yet. 22:27.571 --> 22:28.492 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm still single. 22:29.612 --> 22:30.093 [SPEAKER_00]: It's true. 22:30.773 --> 22:31.834 [SPEAKER_00]: Hopefully not for long. 22:31.874 --> 22:32.414 [SPEAKER_00]: We shall see. 22:34.033 --> 22:37.554 [SPEAKER_00]: People are going to take this clip and be like, does Adam know something that everybody doesn't? 22:37.654 --> 22:38.694 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't for the record. 22:39.214 --> 22:40.754 [SPEAKER_01]: Wow, wait, give up your hand like that. 22:40.814 --> 22:42.935 [SPEAKER_01]: You really were just like, nope, I know nothing. 22:42.995 --> 22:44.775 [SPEAKER_00]: No, by the way, I know absolutely nothing. 22:44.895 --> 22:50.496 [SPEAKER_01]: By the way, speaking of, well, first of all, we need to do the intro because I feel we are getting... 22:50.997 --> 22:51.857 [SPEAKER_00]: I was thinking of my head. 22:52.037 --> 22:55.417 [SPEAKER_01]: Way ahead of ourselves, and also I want to hear about this date that you have tonight. 22:55.477 --> 22:56.738 [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, I'd be dating. 22:56.958 --> 22:57.878 [SPEAKER_01]: How about you take it away? 22:58.567 --> 23:07.709 [SPEAKER_00]: Welcome back to another episode of Matt Spineman hat and with Katie Colby Sans Colby today and Adam girls or girl Singular how we doing. 23:07.809 --> 23:11.869 [SPEAKER_01]: I'll speak for both of us saying we're doing pretty well considering Colby gets to go no No, no a con. 23:12.310 --> 23:13.250 [SPEAKER_00]: I know Colby so blessed. 23:13.290 --> 23:16.630 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just happy to be here Colby so blessed to be my trophy wife. 23:16.850 --> 23:17.691 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, what the heck? 23:18.751 --> 23:19.771 [SPEAKER_01]: Why am I not invited? 23:20.551 --> 23:21.531 [SPEAKER_01]: She's more of a fan than me. 23:21.571 --> 23:22.251 [SPEAKER_00]: Come you come. 23:22.552 --> 23:24.252 [SPEAKER_00]: No sure if somebody will drop out last minute. 23:24.272 --> 23:24.892 [SPEAKER_00]: It's being awesome 23:25.667 --> 23:28.650 [SPEAKER_01]: No, no, no, I forgot, I forgot things to do Adam. 23:28.710 --> 23:29.471 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, now she's busy. 23:29.631 --> 23:30.632 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, to busy. 23:30.652 --> 23:32.674 [SPEAKER_00]: Did you want to get all upset that I hadn't bite her? 23:32.714 --> 23:33.855 [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, here's your ticket. 23:34.415 --> 23:34.996 [SPEAKER_00]: The embossed one. 23:35.056 --> 23:38.078 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know the feeling where it's like, sometimes you're not invited to something. 23:38.459 --> 23:41.041 [SPEAKER_01]: And you're like, I didn't even want to go, but I wanted to be invited. 23:41.081 --> 23:41.382 [SPEAKER_01]: You know? 23:41.462 --> 23:43.123 [SPEAKER_00]: You're like, I wanted the opportunity to say that. 23:43.143 --> 23:47.167 [SPEAKER_01]: So I could just be like, oh, I was, I was wanted, but like, I can't. 23:47.247 --> 23:47.887 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't. 23:48.028 --> 23:48.608 [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I mean? 23:48.628 --> 23:48.728 [SPEAKER_01]: 100%. 23:49.609 --> 23:51.993 [SPEAKER_01]: Thanks, but no thanks, I mean how many about the date? 23:52.013 --> 23:52.614 [SPEAKER_01]: How many about the date? 23:52.714 --> 23:53.815 [SPEAKER_01]: I, I, enough about me. 23:54.136 --> 23:55.017 [SPEAKER_00]: Enough about Katie. 23:56.139 --> 24:01.627 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, I feel like there was also like another dating scenario that I had going on last week. 24:01.647 --> 24:03.430 [SPEAKER_00]: But I just heard two weeks, what did we last record? 24:03.450 --> 24:04.511 [SPEAKER_00]: Do we not look forward to last week? 24:04.972 --> 24:05.974 [SPEAKER_01]: We did for a bus week. 24:06.054 --> 24:18.814 [SPEAKER_01]: We didn't we had a two week break in here two weeks before because we were all traveling So about the record show that we posted July 4th week which we usually take off holidays So we've we've even things out we had to spread out our our vacation days 24:20.156 --> 24:22.298 [SPEAKER_00]: We had a floating holiday. 24:22.559 --> 24:23.960 [SPEAKER_01]: It was our floating holiday. 24:23.980 --> 24:28.865 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, so I potentially have a date tonight, which is very interesting. 24:29.005 --> 24:34.651 [SPEAKER_00]: It's with this guy who I've had a lot of overlap with over the years. 24:35.071 --> 24:35.431 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 24:35.552 --> 24:40.116 [SPEAKER_00]: And so by overlap I mean, I was seeing this guy back in November, December. 24:41.137 --> 24:42.358 [SPEAKER_00]: September, October. 24:42.718 --> 24:43.618 [SPEAKER_00]: Why did I say like that? 24:44.039 --> 24:49.802 [SPEAKER_00]: That in last fall, slash winter, four score in one fall and winter ago. 24:51.923 --> 24:52.963 [SPEAKER_00]: Adam was seeing a guy. 24:53.344 --> 25:01.688 [SPEAKER_00]: That was when I was going on a couple of days with that guy where we went to Uneditaburn with the owner and me like sat in the corner booth and I was like, it's like a whole fun thing. 25:02.248 --> 25:03.809 [SPEAKER_00]: We just kind of like float like faded out. 25:04.329 --> 25:06.531 [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like like it just wasn't, you know, wasn't there. 25:06.551 --> 25:08.071 [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like we'd be better as friends. 25:09.272 --> 25:13.894 [SPEAKER_00]: And also with all of the holidays and stuff like that, I feel like he and I just kind of like fizzled. 25:14.574 --> 25:14.814 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 25:14.954 --> 25:18.055 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, there's just what was a lot of time in between a scene each other. 25:18.275 --> 25:18.515 [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm. 25:19.656 --> 25:21.136 [SPEAKER_00]: And but I ran into him like coping. 25:21.156 --> 25:24.397 [SPEAKER_00]: I ran into him randomly and Brooklyn, like a month or two ago. 25:24.497 --> 25:26.218 [SPEAKER_00]: Like he and I will text sometimes. 25:26.238 --> 25:27.378 [SPEAKER_00]: They're like DM one Instagram. 25:27.398 --> 25:31.360 [SPEAKER_00]: Like he's still like in orbit, but like more and like a friend capacity. 25:31.480 --> 25:31.980 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 25:32.740 --> 25:37.262 [SPEAKER_00]: And so essentially, I always knew that he had this best friend that I always thought was really cute. 25:37.902 --> 25:38.502 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 25:39.262 --> 25:42.984 [SPEAKER_00]: And also the other like third not third. 25:43.024 --> 25:44.104 [SPEAKER_00]: How do I describe this? 25:44.504 --> 25:49.206 [SPEAKER_00]: The other party in this all is our friend, like one of our best friends boyfriends. 25:49.646 --> 25:50.226 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 25:50.746 --> 25:55.428 [SPEAKER_00]: Who I think I talked to one of the podcasts like works out with the guy that I was seeing at the end of last year. 25:55.848 --> 25:57.409 [SPEAKER_00]: So they all go to the same gym together. 25:57.769 --> 25:58.109 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 25:58.209 --> 25:59.309 [SPEAKER_00]: But it's not like a normal gym. 25:59.329 --> 26:00.550 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a club, the 26:07.512 --> 26:07.732 [SPEAKER_00]: at 45. 26:07.772 --> 26:09.233 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not at 45, but it's like that vibe. 26:09.253 --> 26:09.534 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:09.554 --> 26:09.914 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:09.934 --> 26:10.194 [SPEAKER_01]: That's right. 26:10.214 --> 26:10.494 [SPEAKER_01]: That's right. 26:10.514 --> 26:10.795 [SPEAKER_01]: That's right. 26:10.815 --> 26:11.175 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:11.215 --> 26:11.575 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:11.595 --> 26:11.895 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:11.915 --> 26:12.336 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:12.396 --> 26:12.856 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:12.876 --> 26:13.357 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:13.677 --> 26:14.037 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:14.057 --> 26:14.457 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:14.477 --> 26:14.798 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:14.818 --> 26:15.558 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:15.578 --> 26:15.859 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:15.899 --> 26:16.239 [SPEAKER_01]: That's right. 26:16.319 --> 26:17.039 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:17.500 --> 26:17.940 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:18.000 --> 26:18.340 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:18.360 --> 26:18.621 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:18.661 --> 26:18.941 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:18.961 --> 26:19.281 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 26:33.392 --> 26:37.736 [SPEAKER_00]: tea because I'm currently seeing his friend so wasn't going to work out. 26:38.477 --> 26:40.919 [SPEAKER_00]: Obviously me and the guy that I was seeing in the fall, I kind of fizzled out. 26:40.959 --> 26:44.363 [SPEAKER_00]: We saw talk like I mentioned but we're not doing the thing anymore. 26:44.903 --> 26:54.553 [SPEAKER_00]: And so me and the friend so that the other guy in this trio ended up matching on hinge, like maybe a month or two ago at this point. 26:55.153 --> 26:58.715 [SPEAKER_00]: And I was like, okay, like, we match from hinge, we started to chat a little bit. 26:59.235 --> 27:05.339 [SPEAKER_00]: It was, and he'd always been like showing up on my hinge, my rye, like all these different apps over the past six months. 27:05.819 --> 27:06.580 [SPEAKER_00]: But we never match. 27:06.720 --> 27:08.441 [SPEAKER_00]: Like I always liked him, but we never matched. 27:08.761 --> 27:11.343 [SPEAKER_00]: And my theory was that it was always because of... 27:12.416 --> 27:37.377 [SPEAKER_00]: his like bestie at the gym the other guy who I was going on a couple dates with and they would talk about me at the gym so obviously like this guy knows about me okay so he was like yeah gotta stay away like yeah so i think it was like uh i'm not gonna go on a day with him because he is dating my tent he's he's taken by my friend yes obviously now we're like seven months past that and so this guy finally matches with me i'm one of the apps like a 27:41.128 --> 27:42.149 [SPEAKER_00]: We're trying to plan a date. 27:42.849 --> 27:44.510 [SPEAKER_00]: We finally land on tonight. 27:45.230 --> 27:50.873 [SPEAKER_00]: However, it's been like pulling teeth trying to get this guy to go on a date with me, basically. 27:51.454 --> 27:51.934 [SPEAKER_01]: How so? 27:52.474 --> 27:57.797 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I feel like I've been putting in more effort into, but I mean, objectively, he's been traveling a lot. 27:57.977 --> 27:59.998 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, wait, tell me, like more details. 28:00.679 --> 28:01.419 [SPEAKER_01]: Who mess it? 28:01.539 --> 28:03.620 [SPEAKER_01]: Who's like, said? 28:04.561 --> 28:05.661 [SPEAKER_00]: It's actually a good question, he. 28:05.801 --> 28:06.642 [SPEAKER_01]: Let's go on a date. 28:07.405 --> 28:18.710 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean me because it was like you did and was talking on hinge oh you were just like bantering yeah, yeah, but it wasn't even like and you were like so let's get this Show on the road. 28:19.030 --> 28:21.011 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I was like all right. 28:21.151 --> 28:21.371 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 28:21.391 --> 28:29.575 [SPEAKER_00]: He messaged me first And then we've been talking he's been traveling a lot and then finally he was like what did I say? 28:31.307 --> 28:33.969 [SPEAKER_00]: I was basically like, okay, we need to like, over this. 28:34.189 --> 28:34.569 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 28:34.689 --> 28:36.030 [SPEAKER_01]: Are you going to take me on a date or what? 28:36.090 --> 28:38.351 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah, it's like, are we going to go somewhere or what's situation? 28:38.731 --> 28:39.872 [SPEAKER_00]: And so we landed on today. 28:40.332 --> 28:42.533 [SPEAKER_00]: So anyways, we're going to go on a date today, I believe. 28:42.653 --> 28:43.914 [SPEAKER_01]: But how has it been pulling teeth? 28:45.075 --> 28:47.416 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, because I've been the one like driving. 28:47.676 --> 28:48.677 [SPEAKER_00]: Driving the boat. 28:48.737 --> 28:49.317 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 28:49.377 --> 28:50.878 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm driving the boat, which is fine. 28:50.898 --> 28:52.018 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm happy to drive the boat. 28:52.699 --> 28:54.860 [SPEAKER_00]: But like the boat needs to land somewhere, you know? 28:55.220 --> 28:56.561 [SPEAKER_00]: Like we need to port the boat. 28:56.581 --> 28:59.382 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, and you need to feel like he is interested. 28:59.783 --> 28:59.983 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 29:00.847 --> 29:03.569 [SPEAKER_01]: and effort shows interest. 29:03.669 --> 29:05.670 [SPEAKER_01]: So, we need some effort from this man. 29:06.510 --> 29:10.312 [SPEAKER_00]: I saw this video from Pageal Rends about how she got her tennis boyfriend. 29:11.193 --> 29:11.813 [SPEAKER_00]: Did you see this video? 29:12.093 --> 29:14.114 [SPEAKER_01]: I didn't see the video, but I love her. 29:14.374 --> 29:15.335 [SPEAKER_00]: I love everything she does. 29:15.395 --> 29:15.935 [SPEAKER_00]: She's so great. 29:16.416 --> 29:20.298 [SPEAKER_00]: But she was like, yeah, we were messaging on Instagram and he was like, had me and arms like. 29:20.578 --> 29:22.859 [SPEAKER_00]: And one day I just decided that I was gonna FaceTime it. 29:22.959 --> 29:24.480 [SPEAKER_00]: And so she just FaceTimeed him out of the blue. 29:24.700 --> 29:25.180 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my God. 29:25.200 --> 29:28.262 [SPEAKER_00]: And it was basically like, are we gonna hang out while you're in New York or not? 29:29.010 --> 29:32.212 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, when you have a face-like page syringe, I mean, that's just perfect. 29:32.892 --> 29:40.597 [SPEAKER_01]: If a man is face-timed by that gorgeous specimen, you'd be hard-pressed to find a man that would say no to that. 29:40.777 --> 29:41.198 [SPEAKER_00]: Correct. 29:41.478 --> 29:44.740 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, what she said, I don't know if it was a podcast or a video like where I saw this clip. 29:44.780 --> 29:45.581 [SPEAKER_00]: I think I saw it last week. 29:45.621 --> 29:49.523 [SPEAKER_01]: She did a podcast recently where she spilled a lot of stuff like, I feel like it was a podcast. 29:49.563 --> 29:51.264 [SPEAKER_00]: But she basically was like, I know how these athletes are. 29:51.304 --> 29:55.485 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, they have like a million girls, like in every city that they're visiting and he was in New York. 29:56.366 --> 30:00.267 [SPEAKER_00]: And she basically was like, I'm not gonna like wait around and be one of these girls. 30:00.287 --> 30:02.368 [SPEAKER_00]: Like if you want to see me, he's gonna see me if he doesn't. 30:02.428 --> 30:08.110 [SPEAKER_00]: Then I'm done talking to him and so she quite literally just like Instagram videos him out of the blow. 30:08.150 --> 30:09.871 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, it wasn't even if she... 30:09.931 --> 30:12.632 [SPEAKER_00]: I can remember exactly somebody can correct me if they've seen the same clip. 30:12.692 --> 30:15.353 [SPEAKER_00]: It was either an Instagram video or phone number. 30:15.373 --> 30:17.414 [SPEAKER_00]: I think it might have been an Instagram video, but I could be wrong. 30:18.774 --> 30:20.296 [SPEAKER_01]: We that's even like better. 30:20.636 --> 30:23.099 [SPEAKER_01]: So she didn't have his phone number, like maybe. 30:23.219 --> 30:27.303 [SPEAKER_00]: So she just calls Taylor up and she's like, you're in New York or you're gonna see me or not. 30:27.563 --> 30:31.568 [SPEAKER_00]: And she was like, by the way, like, I'm gonna be the first girl that you see and you're gonna decide if you like me or not. 30:31.608 --> 30:35.552 [SPEAKER_00]: And then we're gonna go from there is like, what her, her move was. 30:36.903 --> 30:39.005 [SPEAKER_01]: Wow, that is such a power move. 30:39.065 --> 30:41.466 [SPEAKER_01]: I wish that I had done that back in the day. 30:42.207 --> 30:44.889 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm very inspired by it though, and like the directness. 30:45.409 --> 30:52.414 [SPEAKER_00]: Because I totally agree, I'm like kind of over the whole back and forth endless texting like situation, you know? 30:52.614 --> 30:55.977 [SPEAKER_00]: Like I think it's so much better to just be like, all right, why don't we hang out? 30:56.097 --> 30:57.598 [SPEAKER_00]: Like so we can decide if we like each other or not. 30:58.292 --> 30:58.733 [SPEAKER_01]: You know what? 30:58.753 --> 31:10.326 [SPEAKER_01]: I actually was practicing this strategy with my sister because of course over July 4, my sister and I were getting some good girly sister time and she was asking me for some advice with hinge and stuff. 31:10.667 --> 31:10.887 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 31:11.247 --> 31:16.093 [SPEAKER_01]: Essentially like having me go through her matches and like give it a second log and be like are these people normal? 31:16.373 --> 31:16.754 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 31:18.175 --> 31:24.538 [SPEAKER_01]: And I was going through, and I found two people in her match list that I was like, okay, these are some solid contenders here. 31:25.078 --> 31:32.022 [SPEAKER_01]: Don't seem like serial killers, you know, are cute, have a job listed, you know, things like that. 31:33.082 --> 31:40.886 [SPEAKER_01]: And she was like, why is like, she was like, I don't understand why some of these guys are just like wanting to chat with me, but not asking, like, they're on a dating app. 31:40.946 --> 31:42.386 [SPEAKER_01]: Why are they not asking me on a date? 31:42.606 --> 31:42.807 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 31:43.087 --> 31:45.168 [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, girl, this is a thing. 31:45.228 --> 31:46.028 [SPEAKER_01]: It's an epidemic. 31:46.128 --> 31:47.009 [SPEAKER_00]: No, it is an epidemic. 31:47.049 --> 31:47.829 [SPEAKER_01]: It's an epidemic. 31:47.849 --> 31:51.772 [SPEAKER_01]: Some of these men want the girl to come in and be like, so when are we going on a date? 31:52.292 --> 31:53.193 [SPEAKER_01]: And I don't understand it. 31:54.334 --> 32:01.819 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't understand why they don't just- It's like a fear of rejection type situation, like people are a lot more, I think, scared of being rejected. 32:02.339 --> 32:04.400 [SPEAKER_01]: That and I think they're talking to like 15 girls. 32:04.780 --> 32:05.001 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 32:05.161 --> 32:12.346 [SPEAKER_00]: And just like- The epidemic is hench, like hinge, both like helped a lot of people, but also like ruin the majority of people, I think. 32:12.606 --> 32:14.067 [SPEAKER_01]: Helped me, because- Help you. 32:15.083 --> 32:19.704 [SPEAKER_01]: I just, yeah, I really appreciate the organization of dating out. 32:19.744 --> 32:37.690 [SPEAKER_01]: Like dating apps, how it's, you feel like, because when you're meeting a bunch of people in the wild and you're giving out your phone hours when you're like, slightly intoxicated and you're like, forgetting people's names and what they said they work, do for work and like everything's just like blending together when you meet people in the wild, whereas in hinge, it's like, 32:38.630 --> 32:47.493 [SPEAKER_01]: Organized in a nice little folder like this is where this person went to college and you know This is organized photos. 32:47.533 --> 32:52.475 [SPEAKER_01]: You can like reference go back and reference them like Remind yourself. 32:53.375 --> 32:53.755 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 32:53.795 --> 33:02.138 [SPEAKER_01]: It's it's nice in that way, but it's also just become like a endless pit of just like Information 33:02.598 --> 33:03.419 [SPEAKER_00]: Such an endless pay. 33:03.579 --> 33:08.223 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, people that like, some of these people aren't even actually interested in going on dates. 33:08.243 --> 33:11.105 [SPEAKER_01]: They're just there, taking up space, correct. 33:11.245 --> 33:15.709 [SPEAKER_01]: Wanting to get an ego boost, but they're not even interested in actually dating. 33:16.369 --> 33:18.611 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah, the apps are tough. 33:18.871 --> 33:21.313 [SPEAKER_01]: But I guess that's, that could be said for a bar as well. 33:21.333 --> 33:27.038 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, you walk into a bar and there's single people there that aren't even interested in going on dates either or being serious. 33:27.078 --> 33:27.618 [SPEAKER_01]: They just want to... 33:29.200 --> 33:29.420 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 33:30.095 --> 33:32.376 [SPEAKER_01]: So that's just life I got that's just life anyway. 33:32.396 --> 33:34.956 [SPEAKER_01]: I was telling my sister like You've just got it. 33:34.976 --> 33:38.337 [SPEAKER_01]: So I'm just got a step in and get things done Your own hair. 33:38.357 --> 33:38.818 [SPEAKER_01]: Take matters. 33:38.938 --> 33:39.358 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god. 33:39.638 --> 33:45.680 [SPEAKER_01]: The number of dates that I like essentially Made happen because I was just like so I'm free on Thursday 33:47.457 --> 33:48.678 [SPEAKER_00]: I think that's the way to do it though. 33:48.778 --> 33:53.001 [SPEAKER_00]: Like I think I'm evolving into a new era where I'm like, all right, chop chop. 33:53.201 --> 33:59.445 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't have time to be doing all this back and forth, like let's either go get a drink and see if we like each other or whatever. 33:59.525 --> 34:01.246 [SPEAKER_00]: I think this guy actually and I are getting food. 34:02.126 --> 34:02.907 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, that's nice. 34:03.127 --> 34:04.568 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, which is happy about everything. 34:04.588 --> 34:05.248 [SPEAKER_01]: Optimization. 34:06.069 --> 34:07.330 [SPEAKER_00]: Optimization, we're optimizing. 34:08.300 --> 34:08.920 [SPEAKER_00]: I love optimize. 34:08.940 --> 34:09.480 [SPEAKER_01]: I love optimize. 34:09.520 --> 34:10.900 [SPEAKER_01]: You should name your first born child. 34:11.241 --> 34:11.661 [SPEAKER_00]: Optimize. 34:11.921 --> 34:12.401 [SPEAKER_00]: Optimize. 34:12.741 --> 34:13.521 [SPEAKER_00]: Optimize. 34:13.781 --> 34:14.261 [SPEAKER_00]: Optimize. 34:14.281 --> 34:14.721 [SPEAKER_01]: Prime. 34:15.141 --> 34:15.821 [SPEAKER_01]: The middle name. 34:16.281 --> 34:16.922 [SPEAKER_01]: Optimize. 34:17.162 --> 34:17.862 [SPEAKER_00]: Optimize. 34:18.622 --> 34:19.702 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that'd be perfect. 34:19.842 --> 34:23.823 [SPEAKER_01]: I saw some kind of crazy baby names I saw on Instagram. 34:24.423 --> 34:28.384 [SPEAKER_01]: I like love and hate that Instagram gives you just random content now. 34:28.424 --> 34:30.684 [SPEAKER_01]: Like pictures and stuff that of people you don't follow. 34:31.544 --> 34:34.045 [SPEAKER_01]: And like sometimes I'm just like, I'm sick of it. 34:34.065 --> 34:35.045 [SPEAKER_01]: I need to see my actual. 34:35.625 --> 34:37.267 [SPEAKER_01]: Friends content, please. 34:37.407 --> 34:45.175 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but other times it gives me like a total gem Then I'm like I would never have seen that if I like thank you. 34:45.335 --> 34:56.866 [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you Instagram for showing them Well, like there's some really great like creative content and cool stuff that I like to follow and like watercolor art and whatnot But then there was this thing that came across my desk last week where 34:57.787 --> 35:01.571 [SPEAKER_01]: And I, you know, I hate to like come at people for their baby names because like they did that. 35:01.611 --> 35:06.876 [SPEAKER_01]: They had a whole baby like that's a big achievement and healthy baby is all you want. 35:07.057 --> 35:14.104 [SPEAKER_01]: And whatever, but some people are giving these crazy baby names that this baby is going to grow up and be an adult and this baby could be a lawyer. 35:14.965 --> 35:17.007 [SPEAKER_01]: And I saw this post in the baby's name is Sweetie. 35:17.427 --> 35:17.768 [SPEAKER_00]: Sweetie. 35:18.648 --> 35:19.069 [SPEAKER_00]: Sweetie. 35:19.089 --> 35:19.589 [SPEAKER_00]: That's tough. 35:20.470 --> 35:21.031 [SPEAKER_00]: That is tough. 35:21.383 --> 35:26.145 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, how do you, like, I just, that's gonna be a tough one. 35:26.466 --> 35:27.386 [SPEAKER_01]: It's gonna be a tough one. 35:27.906 --> 35:32.849 [SPEAKER_00]: When I was in high school, I remember my, like, did I ever tell you my, like, baby names that I wanted? 35:33.449 --> 35:33.649 [SPEAKER_00]: Nope. 35:34.150 --> 35:35.470 [SPEAKER_00]: They were, you were psychotic. 35:35.490 --> 35:35.950 [SPEAKER_00]: Do you tell? 35:36.371 --> 35:38.092 [SPEAKER_00]: I like had problems in high school for sure. 35:38.112 --> 35:38.912 [SPEAKER_01]: Can you give me a hint? 35:40.340 --> 35:41.681 [SPEAKER_00]: Ivy league is your hint. 35:42.102 --> 35:42.762 [SPEAKER_00]: I was so Harvard. 35:43.062 --> 35:51.369 [SPEAKER_01]: I literally wanted to name my kid like Harvard Stanford gale Oh, I do feel like I knew this about you But I didn't realize you were serious. 35:51.689 --> 35:52.890 [SPEAKER_00]: No, no, I think I was dead serious. 35:53.050 --> 35:55.953 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, you think no, I was dead serious. 35:56.073 --> 35:59.596 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god dead serious I was like yep, this is perfect. 35:59.816 --> 36:03.119 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, objectively they're actually kind of good names that like I don't think Harvard 36:04.101 --> 36:06.662 [SPEAKER_01]: Like Harvard, that's a really like strong name. 36:07.283 --> 36:08.303 [SPEAKER_01]: But I think Yale. 36:08.584 --> 36:09.124 [SPEAKER_00]: Harvard's tough. 36:09.484 --> 36:10.405 [SPEAKER_00]: Yale is like a normal name. 36:10.425 --> 36:11.565 [SPEAKER_01]: And Stanford is a name. 36:11.745 --> 36:12.826 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, Stanford is a name. 36:12.846 --> 36:13.546 [SPEAKER_01]: So that works. 36:14.207 --> 36:15.507 [SPEAKER_00]: Stanford actually also liked the name. 36:15.527 --> 36:16.128 [SPEAKER_01]: Princeton? 36:16.168 --> 36:17.008 [SPEAKER_00]: Stanford. 36:17.068 --> 36:18.489 [SPEAKER_00]: And I am one of the name I get Princeton. 36:18.509 --> 36:19.630 [SPEAKER_01]: Princeton is the name of Schrinz. 36:19.690 --> 36:20.630 [SPEAKER_01]: Prince for short. 36:21.491 --> 36:23.032 [SPEAKER_00]: Princeton actually could be a name as well. 36:23.412 --> 36:24.873 [SPEAKER_01]: Harvard, you could just call him Harry. 36:25.293 --> 36:25.613 [SPEAKER_00]: Harvey. 36:26.294 --> 36:27.154 [SPEAKER_01]: Harvey. 36:27.354 --> 36:27.634 [SPEAKER_00]: Harvey. 36:28.215 --> 36:28.755 [SPEAKER_00]: Harvey. 36:30.052 --> 36:32.473 [SPEAKER_01]: You're in a name of your child after your company. 36:32.613 --> 36:33.774 [SPEAKER_00]: After my place of water. 36:33.894 --> 36:35.395 [SPEAKER_01]: After your workplace? 36:36.275 --> 36:37.836 [SPEAKER_00]: I... Crazy things. 36:38.016 --> 36:38.857 [SPEAKER_01]: Crazy things have happened. 36:38.877 --> 36:40.037 [SPEAKER_00]: That would not surprise me. 36:40.297 --> 36:40.898 [SPEAKER_00]: I have to honor it. 36:41.298 --> 36:43.079 [SPEAKER_01]: I bet there's a child out there named Google. 36:43.759 --> 36:44.159 [SPEAKER_00]: For sure. 36:45.360 --> 36:46.521 [SPEAKER_00]: A Google or a Amazon? 36:47.001 --> 36:47.781 [SPEAKER_01]: Baby Amazon? 36:49.042 --> 36:49.382 [SPEAKER_00]: Amazon? 36:49.402 --> 36:50.643 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm just thinking of like the big companies. 36:50.703 --> 36:51.143 [SPEAKER_00]: Prada? 36:51.163 --> 36:52.104 [SPEAKER_00]: Because your name is Kid Prada. 36:52.184 --> 36:53.144 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm looking at your diet Prada. 36:54.505 --> 36:55.465 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to make so. 36:55.865 --> 36:56.746 [SPEAKER_00]: Me, you can nickname it Ada. 36:58.172 --> 36:58.552 [SPEAKER_01]: Aida. 36:58.672 --> 36:59.032 [SPEAKER_00]: Prada. 36:59.592 --> 36:59.853 [SPEAKER_00]: Aida. 36:59.933 --> 37:02.513 [SPEAKER_01]: People are being crazy with with baby names these days. 37:02.573 --> 37:05.414 [SPEAKER_00]: Your mom's didn't um Kelly rather for a name her kid, Air Mess. 37:06.295 --> 37:06.715 [SPEAKER_01]: Stop it. 37:07.155 --> 37:09.236 [SPEAKER_00]: No, no, maybe actually maybe. 37:09.716 --> 37:10.076 [SPEAKER_01]: Really? 37:10.716 --> 37:14.177 [SPEAKER_00]: Kelly rather than her kid has some kind of like heavily pretentious name. 37:14.397 --> 37:16.098 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, um, let me. 37:16.418 --> 37:17.318 [SPEAKER_00]: Not don't you Kelly all the time. 37:17.338 --> 37:17.778 [SPEAKER_00]: Kelly all the time. 37:17.798 --> 37:18.139 [SPEAKER_00]: I love you. 37:18.179 --> 37:18.639 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god. 37:18.679 --> 37:19.679 [SPEAKER_01]: She can do no raw. 37:19.699 --> 37:20.059 [SPEAKER_00]: No, no, no. 37:20.719 --> 37:21.740 [SPEAKER_01]: Kelly, rather, 37:23.952 --> 37:24.552 [SPEAKER_01]: child. 37:24.732 --> 37:26.954 [SPEAKER_00]: So Kelly rather for just now if this crosses your desk. 37:27.094 --> 37:28.094 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, yeah, Hermes. 37:28.354 --> 37:28.794 [SPEAKER_00]: Hermes. 37:28.834 --> 37:32.976 [SPEAKER_01]: Hermes, Gustav, Daniel, Gersh, and Helena. 37:33.337 --> 37:33.737 [SPEAKER_01]: Grace. 37:33.917 --> 37:34.557 [SPEAKER_01]: I like Helena. 37:34.677 --> 37:35.438 [SPEAKER_01]: Helena is good. 37:36.358 --> 37:39.720 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a Greek, uh, a Greek goddess and that's a rich name for sure. 37:39.740 --> 37:41.381 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, Kelly. 37:41.461 --> 37:42.121 [SPEAKER_00]: I could be Helena. 37:48.594 --> 37:51.316 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm gonna name my Kadermas, Kelly, I'm taking after you. 37:51.537 --> 37:53.939 [SPEAKER_00]: I love how I'm speaking to Kelly, as if she's listening to the podcast. 37:55.400 --> 37:59.704 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, he's 19, and his name's AirMaz. 38:00.064 --> 38:00.605 [SPEAKER_00]: Does he even take name? 38:02.126 --> 38:02.867 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sure. 38:02.887 --> 38:07.051 [SPEAKER_00]: I kind of feel like not, like, what do you even, like, Herm, AirM? 38:07.991 --> 38:08.372 [SPEAKER_01]: Hermy? 38:08.792 --> 38:09.693 [UNKNOWN]: Ha ha ha ha. 38:10.293 --> 38:12.616 [SPEAKER_00]: Maz, Maz is kind of a cool name, ma'am. 38:12.816 --> 38:13.677 [SPEAKER_01]: Or just like, H? 38:14.798 --> 38:14.838 [SPEAKER_00]: H? 38:15.725 --> 38:16.205 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 38:16.366 --> 38:17.586 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:17.626 --> 38:17.987 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. 38:18.027 --> 38:18.907 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:18.927 --> 38:19.568 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:19.588 --> 38:20.448 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:20.909 --> 38:21.890 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:21.970 --> 38:23.691 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:23.771 --> 38:25.432 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:25.452 --> 38:27.133 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:27.153 --> 38:28.414 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:28.454 --> 38:29.295 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:29.335 --> 38:30.215 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:30.236 --> 38:31.076 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:31.356 --> 38:32.557 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:32.657 --> 38:33.918 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:33.938 --> 38:34.819 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:34.839 --> 38:35.779 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:35.840 --> 38:36.900 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a, I don't know. 38:36.960 --> 38:37.341 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a, 38:44.459 --> 38:46.880 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, I'm hyper fixator right now on Chick-fil-I. 38:48.121 --> 38:48.601 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not kidding. 38:48.621 --> 38:50.862 [SPEAKER_00]: I think I've been going to Chick-fil-I like five to six times per week. 38:51.102 --> 38:53.083 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, you have a Chick-fil-I so close to your apartment. 38:53.163 --> 38:53.643 [SPEAKER_00]: So close. 38:54.204 --> 38:55.724 [SPEAKER_01]: What are you getting the grilled nuggets? 38:55.924 --> 38:57.865 [SPEAKER_00]: I get to 12 count grilled nuggets. 38:57.905 --> 38:58.485 [SPEAKER_01]: I knew it. 38:58.525 --> 39:06.309 [SPEAKER_00]: So I just have 24 grilled nuggets, which is amazing, or sometimes I'll switch it up and I'll get a 12 count grilled nugget and a normal Chick-and-say-I am much or spicy Chick-and-say-am much. 39:06.965 --> 39:08.246 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, I love the chicken sandwiches. 39:08.286 --> 39:08.866 [SPEAKER_00]: Which is amazing. 39:08.926 --> 39:09.887 [SPEAKER_01]: I love Chick-fil-A. 39:09.987 --> 39:11.809 [SPEAKER_01]: Somehow it feels healthier than McDonald's. 39:11.869 --> 39:12.329 [SPEAKER_01]: Totally agree. 39:12.369 --> 39:12.629 [SPEAKER_01]: Is it? 39:13.810 --> 39:14.631 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, where is it? 39:14.651 --> 39:16.632 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, healthy is subjective. 39:17.072 --> 39:20.595 [SPEAKER_01]: But I guess like... Is Chick-fil-A? 39:20.875 --> 39:26.939 [SPEAKER_00]: I think they both fry and peanut oil, so I'd imagine like that's probably the same because the thing that's unhealthy is like the frying of it all. 39:28.020 --> 39:33.784 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, Chick-fil-A is generally considered healthier than in McDonald's because it uses whole, more whole food options. 39:34.064 --> 39:34.605 [SPEAKER_01]: That makes sense. 39:34.745 --> 39:35.986 [SPEAKER_01]: Higher protein content. 39:36.310 --> 39:45.720 [SPEAKER_00]: And also like because of the majority of their food is chicken based and they use like no antibiotic chickens, I think, um, that's probably what makes it out there. 39:45.780 --> 39:46.301 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 39:46.361 --> 39:49.284 [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like this is, I'm reading the AI overview. 39:49.304 --> 39:53.569 [SPEAKER_01]: I think if I did more digging, they would find that Chick-fil-A is just as bad, like probably. 39:53.729 --> 39:56.632 [SPEAKER_01]: As a whole, I'm talking, not like certain entrees. 39:56.652 --> 40:13.028 [SPEAKER_00]: But I mean, if you compare like a Chick-fil-A chicken sandwich to like a McDonald's, McCrispy chicken, or whatever, like their chicken sandwich option is, like the McDonald's chicken sandwich option is like a bunch of ground chicken and like rib meat and stuff like that, where it's like a Chick-fil-A chicken sandwich is a whole piece of chicken. 40:13.168 --> 40:14.029 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like a chicken breast. 40:14.610 --> 40:14.950 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 40:15.010 --> 40:17.373 [SPEAKER_00]: So theoretically, I had to imagine that would be healthier. 40:17.713 --> 40:19.134 [SPEAKER_00]: They both definitely do fry. 40:19.975 --> 40:27.020 [SPEAKER_00]: in peanut oil, I think, like the only thing that can make it healthier is if Chick play was frying it in like olive oil, which I don't even think you can fry things in olive oil. 40:29.122 --> 40:34.326 [SPEAKER_00]: But yeah, that's my synopsis on the healthiness of Chick flavors is McDonald's. 40:34.346 --> 40:36.468 [SPEAKER_01]: So, Grater, are you going to go to Chick Flete tonight on your date? 40:36.528 --> 40:37.268 [SPEAKER_01]: Is that what's happening? 40:38.569 --> 40:40.591 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, yes, exactly. 40:41.271 --> 40:42.132 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, not bad. 40:43.152 --> 40:44.033 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah. 40:44.113 --> 40:47.255 [SPEAKER_01]: You can get one milkshake in two straws and that's my dream. 40:47.515 --> 41:04.506 [SPEAKER_01]: How did I date it check full air date it check full air date it check full air Yeah, yeah Okay, so I can't wait to hear more about the state and then you have an easy out because you've an early flight So yep exactly that's a nice easy out so I'll have some updates for you after thank you You're welcome Well, that's my dating update. 41:04.786 --> 41:05.727 [SPEAKER_00]: Should we do a question? 41:06.446 --> 41:09.329 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, yes, I have an email. 41:10.790 --> 41:15.134 [SPEAKER_01]: By the way, everyone, our inbox is dry, right in. 41:15.735 --> 41:16.095 [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you. 41:16.316 --> 41:16.676 [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you. 41:16.836 --> 41:17.176 [SPEAKER_01]: That's all. 41:17.877 --> 41:18.117 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 41:18.698 --> 41:20.740 [SPEAKER_01]: So, future line is, am I in love with my best friend? 41:21.627 --> 41:22.747 [SPEAKER_01]: Hi Katie Colby and Adam. 41:22.847 --> 41:26.668 [SPEAKER_01]: I love the podcast so much I've been listening from the very beginning it always makes my Friday mornings. 41:27.388 --> 41:29.009 [SPEAKER_01]: I just need to talk to someone about this. 41:29.429 --> 41:33.290 [SPEAKER_01]: I've been in a relationship for five years with my current boyfriend and I'm happy and love him. 41:33.470 --> 41:34.330 [SPEAKER_01]: We also live together. 41:34.850 --> 41:41.272 [SPEAKER_01]: However, I've always felt some kind of feeling and attraction towards my co-worker slash really good guy friend from the moment I met him. 41:41.812 --> 41:49.379 [SPEAKER_01]: For as long as we've known each other, I've been in my same relationships we've never crossed any sort of line, but it's like we both know that we're just, that we're in love with each other. 41:49.859 --> 41:57.906 [SPEAKER_01]: He recently got into a relationship and I'm very close with his new girlfriend, pretty much set them up because I know her, her and I knew each other in high school. 41:58.346 --> 42:04.311 [SPEAKER_01]: And I really do think she's amazing and great for him, but sometimes I get jealous knowing if I really wanted it to be, I would be with him. 42:05.392 --> 42:13.137 [SPEAKER_01]: Last night, I had a dream that we finally admitted how we both felt about one another and kissed, but knew we couldn't be together because we didn't want to hurt our partners. 42:13.538 --> 42:20.923 [SPEAKER_01]: It felt like real life and I kind of wish it was, and my horrible person, do I keep locking this feeling away? 42:20.943 --> 42:24.225 [SPEAKER_01]: I just had to tell someone, exo exo love you see you, bye. 42:24.245 --> 42:25.345 [SPEAKER_00]: I love her. 42:26.726 --> 42:27.287 [SPEAKER_00]: What is that? 42:27.907 --> 42:28.868 [SPEAKER_00]: What are you, what's your thoughts? 42:29.898 --> 42:31.520 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, there goes your stomach again. 42:31.660 --> 42:32.060 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god. 42:32.080 --> 42:33.301 [SPEAKER_00]: You stomach is things to say about this. 42:33.321 --> 42:35.183 [SPEAKER_01]: My stomach is so many thoughts about this. 42:37.625 --> 42:37.705 [SPEAKER_01]: Ah. 42:39.827 --> 42:42.109 [SPEAKER_01]: So like, are you not happy in your relationship? 42:42.129 --> 42:42.949 [SPEAKER_01]: What's going on here? 42:43.430 --> 42:44.591 [SPEAKER_01]: Let's let's peel things back. 42:44.611 --> 42:45.291 [SPEAKER_00]: What's unpack? 42:45.391 --> 42:46.212 [SPEAKER_01]: Let's unpack this. 42:46.772 --> 42:48.554 [SPEAKER_01]: You've been in a relationship for five years. 42:49.695 --> 42:50.656 [SPEAKER_01]: You're happy and love him. 42:50.676 --> 42:51.556 [SPEAKER_01]: We also live together. 42:53.638 --> 42:54.859 [SPEAKER_00]: And then what's her butt at the end? 42:55.240 --> 42:55.540 [SPEAKER_01]: But. 42:56.755 --> 43:02.119 [SPEAKER_01]: So she's like, she has this great relationship, but she's like falling for her co-worker. 43:03.520 --> 43:07.823 [SPEAKER_01]: I think that that... Well, she has been like, she's known this co-worker for a while. 43:07.863 --> 43:08.744 [SPEAKER_01]: This isn't a new thing. 43:09.184 --> 43:11.926 [SPEAKER_00]: Wait, did she say the details of like, why is she's falling for the co-worker? 43:11.966 --> 43:15.689 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, what she feels like she's missing from her current boyfriend that she's finding and co-worker? 43:15.709 --> 43:17.550 [SPEAKER_01]: No, those are important details that we would need. 43:17.790 --> 43:19.552 [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe it's just like an exciting thing. 43:20.112 --> 43:25.236 [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, oh, my co-worker seems exciting because I've been comfortable or complacent in this relationship for five years. 43:25.773 --> 43:28.971 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, it's like the seven year itch. 43:29.313 --> 43:29.856 [SPEAKER_01]: You heard of that? 43:30.653 --> 43:31.353 [SPEAKER_00]: I've not heard of that. 43:31.373 --> 43:36.877 [SPEAKER_01]: In a relationship, when you get to like seven years, it's like some people are like, well, I'm over it. 43:37.057 --> 43:38.177 [SPEAKER_01]: Like I don't feel attracted. 43:38.477 --> 43:40.459 [SPEAKER_01]: It's the seven year, like, it's tough. 43:40.599 --> 43:45.241 [SPEAKER_01]: It either, like, if you can make it through the seven-year inch of like, am I happy? 43:45.321 --> 43:46.102 [SPEAKER_01]: Is this the one? 43:46.122 --> 43:47.563 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, love, and then you're golden. 43:48.083 --> 43:49.324 [SPEAKER_01]: People say, people say. 43:49.564 --> 43:56.928 [SPEAKER_00]: I think if you're already, if you're having doubts, that's probably a tell-tale sign that this might not be the right person for you long term. 43:58.551 --> 44:14.175 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, if you can like, I mean, I, I understand that you can't control dreams, like dreams happen and like, you know, but I'm just, you dream about things that you think about and if you're thinking about this coworker a lot, you're having this dream that, you know, you were together. 44:16.350 --> 44:20.373 [SPEAKER_01]: I, how confident are you that this coworker likes you back? 44:20.413 --> 44:22.474 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, yeah, it'd be kind of tough to risk it all. 44:22.514 --> 44:25.997 [SPEAKER_01]: You also set them up, I think it's a hand by misooming. 44:26.337 --> 44:32.521 [SPEAKER_01]: He, yes, in a relationship with a friend of yours, or someone you know, maybe those are defense. 44:32.541 --> 44:37.004 [SPEAKER_00]: This is messy, messy girl, you messy is hell. 44:37.265 --> 44:40.427 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, how do you know that he's gonna leave her for you? 44:41.559 --> 44:44.161 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, how confident, how are you confident in that way? 44:44.682 --> 44:46.403 [SPEAKER_01]: Has he said something to say? 44:46.583 --> 44:54.730 [SPEAKER_00]: I think she needs to maybe do some therapy and explore internally what she feels like she's missing from her current boyfriend that she's finding in the coworker. 44:54.870 --> 44:55.210 [SPEAKER_01]: Amen. 44:55.530 --> 45:00.995 [SPEAKER_01]: Therapy is the solution in this, like you need an unbiased third party that is like... Or ask chatchiebt. 45:01.215 --> 45:01.495 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 45:01.675 --> 45:02.616 [SPEAKER_00]: My favorite thing to do. 45:02.656 --> 45:02.957 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 45:03.517 --> 45:06.980 [SPEAKER_00]: No guys come on, I'm telling you, like chatchiebt will give you the best advice you could ever get. 45:07.709 --> 45:25.615 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, I do feel like your five-year relationship is not where you need to be right now if you're thinking this much about your coworker and, like, I, but I don't know, I feel like you might maybe need to be single for a bit. 45:26.355 --> 45:26.615 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 45:27.396 --> 45:27.616 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 45:28.216 --> 45:34.538 [SPEAKER_01]: If you're, but here's the thing, like, five years, you're happy and you love him and you live with him. 45:36.062 --> 45:38.304 [SPEAKER_01]: But if you're thinking this much about someone else, it's not the one. 45:38.624 --> 45:39.244 [SPEAKER_01]: He's not the one. 45:39.745 --> 45:39.925 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 45:40.445 --> 45:45.069 [SPEAKER_00]: Or are you just going to unpack what you feel like you're missing from your current relationship that you would then be finding in the coworker? 45:46.030 --> 45:46.410 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 45:46.610 --> 45:52.515 [SPEAKER_00]: Because like, if you understand that, then you can back into whether or not the current relationship is salvageable or not. 45:53.348 --> 45:53.648 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 45:54.088 --> 46:15.056 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, granted, in my relationship, I've been with Jack for three years, so I haven't been with him for five years, like this person, but I will admit, like, there are times where I think about what I would be doing if I was single, but not in a way where I want to be single, like, I'm happy in my relationship, but I ask myself, like, what would my life look like if I hadn't, you know, if I was still out there? 46:15.897 --> 46:18.858 [SPEAKER_01]: And if I think about it too hard, I get scared, because I'm like, oh my god. 46:19.798 --> 46:33.427 [SPEAKER_01]: Like I'm just like a colonel you guys are obviously doing great, but like I I have thought my brain goes there It's not like my brain doesn't go there like yeah, or like if when I'm at a bar I'm like oh, what would happen? 46:33.487 --> 46:37.969 [SPEAKER_01]: What would it what would I be doing right now if I was single right like would I be going up to that guy over there? 46:38.049 --> 46:41.772 [SPEAKER_01]: Would I be it's more just like a my brain just thinks like about like 46:42.863 --> 46:43.183 [SPEAKER_00]: What ifs? 46:43.323 --> 46:43.904 [SPEAKER_01]: What ifs? 46:44.064 --> 46:47.165 [SPEAKER_01]: But not in a way where I actually am like, I want to explore it. 46:47.225 --> 46:49.806 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it seems like this girl is like I'm ready to risk it all potentially. 46:49.826 --> 47:01.932 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I don't want to say it's like not normal to have thoughts about like, and especially like if you have an attractive coworker like it's it would be crazy for you to not to think, oh, that guy is attractive like if I were single what I flirt with him. 47:01.952 --> 47:03.513 [SPEAKER_01]: Like that's not a crazy thought to have. 47:03.573 --> 47:03.673 [SPEAKER_01]: No. 47:04.613 --> 47:31.963 [SPEAKER_01]: it's the wanting to act on it and being confident that if that you could act on it right that's just as me out here yeah that makes me feel like you should break up with your boyfriend I think it at the very minimum you need to explore there be yes why this might be happening yeah i'd say before you do anything book yourself some therapy appointments yeah totally occur and just get like some advice yep and let us know how it goes 47:32.512 --> 47:35.756 [SPEAKER_01]: And then explore if you're going to be a home record. 47:36.797 --> 47:39.480 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, with your friend, too, you set him up with in the first place. 47:39.720 --> 47:42.223 [SPEAKER_01]: No, that's when I feel bad about like that poor girl. 47:42.323 --> 47:44.045 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, you really, you set her up for failure. 47:46.608 --> 47:51.033 [SPEAKER_00]: The way she sets her friend up with the sky, only to potentially want to home record. 47:52.027 --> 47:53.849 [SPEAKER_00]: Girl, I think you might need, I love you. 47:53.869 --> 47:54.469 [SPEAKER_00]: You need therapy. 47:55.170 --> 47:55.610 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 47:55.790 --> 47:57.192 [SPEAKER_00]: You got to unpack this a little bit more. 47:57.212 --> 47:57.612 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 47:59.414 --> 48:01.976 [SPEAKER_01]: But let us know what happens as always. 48:02.716 --> 48:07.721 [SPEAKER_01]: And if you guys have a question or need some advice, shoot us an email, or you know what? 48:07.821 --> 48:09.362 [SPEAKER_01]: If you just have a fun story to tell us. 48:09.542 --> 48:09.763 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. 48:10.083 --> 48:10.864 [SPEAKER_01]: Shoot us an email. 48:10.884 --> 48:14.647 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, we want to do more email advice segment, the whole deal. 48:14.747 --> 48:15.067 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 48:15.588 --> 48:17.069 [SPEAKER_01]: Or if you've thoughts on Taylor's advice. 48:17.089 --> 48:18.390 [SPEAKER_01]: So give us some breath. 48:18.410 --> 48:19.071 [SPEAKER_00]: We'd love to hear it. 48:20.272 --> 48:21.553 [SPEAKER_01]: Um, there we go and with that. 48:21.573 --> 48:22.874 [SPEAKER_00]: I think that's all we have time for calf. 48:23.394 --> 48:25.895 [SPEAKER_01]: I think it is I think that was pretty darn good I have to eat something clearly. 48:26.316 --> 48:27.596 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know why some of this not well. 48:27.676 --> 48:30.558 [SPEAKER_00]: I think I need a thumbs with that It's been fun. 48:30.858 --> 48:31.478 [SPEAKER_00]: Love ya. 48:31.618 --> 48:32.099 [SPEAKER_00]: See ya. 48:32.279 --> 48:32.599 [SPEAKER_00]: Bye 48:44.410 --> 48:45.591 [SPEAKER_00]: who are so in harmony. 48:45.611 --> 48:46.452 [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't even drink my coat. 48:46.512 --> 48:47.734 [SPEAKER_00]: I was just so chatty anymore. 48:47.754 --> 48:48.515 [SPEAKER_00]: No, I can't be mine. 48:49.215 --> 48:49.676 [SPEAKER_00]: My God. 48:49.896 --> 48:50.697 [SPEAKER_00]: My favorite coffee.