WEBVTT 00:00.431 --> 00:04.933 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not about being alpha, or being in control, or being dominant. 00:04.973 --> 00:06.254 [SPEAKER_00]: That stuff is ridiculous. 00:06.674 --> 00:16.338 [SPEAKER_00]: What it's about is it's about making sure that the thing that you love the most, and the thing that you're most responsible of the most, listens to you when you say something. 00:16.638 --> 00:21.540 [SPEAKER_00]: They don't ignore you because you've been pleading with your dog and begging with your dog their whole life. 00:31.965 --> 00:34.546 [SPEAKER_00]: Hello everybody, welcome back to the Minobad Dog's podcast. 00:34.606 --> 00:35.546 [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you for joining me. 00:35.626 --> 00:43.069 [SPEAKER_00]: If you have a puppy, if you have a dog in general, that you just got, doesn't matter if it is a tiny little puppy or it's a dog that you just got. 00:43.589 --> 00:54.212 [SPEAKER_00]: If it's a dog that you just rescued, a dog that you're fostering, a dog that you found on the side of the road, there's some really important things that people struggle with with a brand new dog, right? 00:54.252 --> 00:59.814 [SPEAKER_00]: And I typically talk about puppies in this sense because typically they're puppies when you get a brand new dog, but not always. 01:02.135 --> 01:11.822 [SPEAKER_00]: And I think for me, the struggle for most dog owners is understanding, particularly, especially if you rescue a new dog or if you got a new puppy. 01:12.203 --> 01:22.731 [SPEAKER_00]: As people just assume, well, this is a young dog or this is a young girl dog and this is a dog that maybe has gone through a lot in life and indoor, right? 01:23.351 --> 01:27.373 [SPEAKER_00]: It's either one side of the other of us humans put in our human emotion on the dog. 01:27.933 --> 01:30.614 [SPEAKER_00]: And the biggest struggle is people wait, right? 01:30.654 --> 01:32.615 [SPEAKER_00]: They wait for there to be huge issues. 01:33.176 --> 01:34.876 [SPEAKER_00]: And they don't know which direction to go. 01:34.916 --> 01:36.517 [SPEAKER_00]: They don't know when they should start training. 01:36.657 --> 01:38.378 [SPEAKER_00]: If they should start training at a young age. 01:38.518 --> 01:40.379 [SPEAKER_00]: And if so, what should you be doing? 01:40.399 --> 01:42.480 [SPEAKER_00]: And that's what this whole podcast is about. 01:43.000 --> 01:44.741 [SPEAKER_00]: And again, this is my second YouTube channel. 01:44.761 --> 01:53.387 [SPEAKER_00]: If you're watching this on YouTube, so make sure you hit that subscription, because we do reaction videos, podcast tutorials, et cetera, right here, and a bunch of other fun stuff we have in the pipeline. 01:53.447 --> 01:58.310 [SPEAKER_00]: And if you're listening to this obviously on Spotify or any other podcast platform, thank you so much for listening. 01:58.870 --> 02:04.632 [SPEAKER_00]: So the struggle that people make is you get a new puppy, you get a new dog, they come home, and you go, oh, they're so cute. 02:06.072 --> 02:08.052 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to give them any discipline. 02:08.092 --> 02:11.113 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to give them, and guys, let's define that, right? 02:11.133 --> 02:18.135 [SPEAKER_00]: Because there's a lot of terms being thrown around out there, and every single term for the most part is going to be subjective to the particular trainer. 02:18.515 --> 02:20.796 [SPEAKER_00]: And I've been saying that for over a decade. 02:20.836 --> 02:21.016 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, 02:21.596 --> 02:22.356 [SPEAKER_00]: Don't take it for me. 02:22.616 --> 02:23.317 [SPEAKER_00]: Watch what I do. 02:23.457 --> 02:24.197 [SPEAKER_00]: See if it makes sense. 02:24.237 --> 02:29.079 [SPEAKER_00]: If it doesn't move on, if it does grate hopefully you'll learn something and maybe your relationship will be good with your dog. 02:29.119 --> 02:40.262 [SPEAKER_00]: But it's important for you to understand discipline for me is just making sure that we ask and tell the dog to do something that maybe they don't want to do. 02:40.582 --> 02:45.144 [SPEAKER_00]: Like sitting before they go up the door or sitting before you feed them. 02:46.264 --> 02:50.625 [SPEAKER_00]: or sitting or staying calmly before they rush out of a crate or something like that. 02:50.645 --> 02:54.166 [SPEAKER_00]: So discipline is essentially, in my opinion, it's hard work. 02:54.667 --> 03:00.228 [SPEAKER_00]: It's getting the dog to do some hard work for usually an objective or reward or motivation. 03:00.268 --> 03:01.948 [SPEAKER_00]: And a lot of times it's just freedom, right? 03:02.029 --> 03:06.310 [SPEAKER_00]: So just like with kids or really any adult is like, we got to put in the work. 03:06.410 --> 03:07.890 [SPEAKER_00]: Even if we don't want to wake up. 03:08.050 --> 03:14.472 [SPEAKER_00]: So discipline for us is like going to the gym, when maybe we don't want to or were tired or maybe we don't feel good or 03:14.912 --> 03:38.100 [SPEAKER_00]: you know we're in another country and we're jet lag or whatever or discipline maybe somebody offering you a donut and you're like hmm I eat a lot of sweets last week no that's discipline it's having the ability to do the right thing or do the thing that you know you should do even know the the odds are against you or maybe it's a little tempting to not do it that one more episode of Yellowstone or that one more 03:38.840 --> 03:39.640 [SPEAKER_00]: whatever, right? 03:40.581 --> 03:42.681 [SPEAKER_00]: So it's that's the discipline that we're talking about. 03:42.701 --> 03:44.182 [SPEAKER_00]: And so with dogs, it's the same thing. 03:44.822 --> 04:00.727 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, there's many studies out there about psychology teaching us that if we just get stuff without work, it actually ruins a lot of road maps within your brain to understand that the efforts that are supposed to be put in for that reward, right? 04:00.787 --> 04:00.907 [SPEAKER_00]: So 04:01.707 --> 04:06.769 [SPEAKER_00]: I remember growing up, I would always drive to certain locations for vacation. 04:07.069 --> 04:10.850 [SPEAKER_00]: We went on one vacation a year when I was growing up and we would drive there. 04:10.890 --> 04:11.991 [SPEAKER_00]: Like a lot of people, I'm sure. 04:12.051 --> 04:19.934 [SPEAKER_00]: We would drive there and the destination and the journey of getting to, let's say North Carolina from New York or Colorado from New York. 04:19.954 --> 04:20.774 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a long time. 04:20.794 --> 04:21.874 [SPEAKER_00]: You're staying in a hotel. 04:21.894 --> 04:22.595 [SPEAKER_00]: You're going to eat. 04:22.615 --> 04:23.235 [SPEAKER_00]: You're in the car. 04:23.275 --> 04:24.935 [SPEAKER_00]: You're doing nothing back then, right? 04:29.337 --> 04:35.658 [SPEAKER_00]: Now when I get on a plane and I fly four hours and I'm in the mountains in Denver, it's like, go. 04:36.238 --> 04:37.238 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, that was really easy. 04:37.478 --> 04:40.319 [SPEAKER_00]: And so it's not as rewarding sometimes. 04:40.339 --> 04:42.999 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, so it's the same thing with dogs, right? 04:43.079 --> 04:45.000 [SPEAKER_00]: And just the psychology in which it's baked in. 04:45.040 --> 04:49.300 [SPEAKER_00]: If we just allow them to have everything all the time, we don't teach them that discipline. 04:49.320 --> 04:50.661 [SPEAKER_00]: We don't teach them those boundaries. 04:50.681 --> 04:53.081 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's the same thing with puppies and it's the same thing with newer dogs. 04:53.521 --> 04:56.602 [SPEAKER_00]: And the reason why it's the same thing is because overall the arc here, 04:59.382 --> 05:01.464 [SPEAKER_00]: trying to create a healthy relationship. 05:01.825 --> 05:07.590 [SPEAKER_00]: So I think healthy fits the bill more than good because good is again subjective. 05:07.610 --> 05:12.875 [SPEAKER_00]: And I guess so is healthy, but when I say healthy, I want people, I want the dog to look at you. 05:13.756 --> 05:15.197 [SPEAKER_00]: I want the dog to engage with you. 05:15.277 --> 05:17.239 [SPEAKER_00]: I want your dog to ask for permission. 05:17.299 --> 05:19.761 [SPEAKER_00]: I want your dog to know the difference between right and wrong. 05:20.182 --> 05:24.466 [SPEAKER_00]: I want your dog to be safe in situations when you say down, they down, when they come, they come. 05:24.866 --> 05:26.247 [SPEAKER_00]: when you say, stay, they stay. 05:26.608 --> 05:28.669 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want you chasing your dog around the neighborhood. 05:28.709 --> 05:30.291 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want your dog running away from you. 05:30.331 --> 05:32.092 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want your dog drag in you on the leash. 05:32.572 --> 05:38.357 [SPEAKER_00]: All this stuff is predicated off of the foundation, which we're talking about literally right at this very moment. 05:38.898 --> 05:40.979 [SPEAKER_00]: A lot of people, dog owners, and general, 05:41.920 --> 05:58.369 [SPEAKER_00]: they have what I call a stop at syndrome so we just we just dog owners will say I want my dog to stop pulling I want my dog to stop reacting I want my dog to stop ignoring me there's always this stop thing and it's not that's not what it is dog trainers in general or at least ones in my opinion that are good 05:58.949 --> 06:07.542 [SPEAKER_00]: aren't going to just try to stop something and send you on your way without a sustainable road map and game plan and understanding and which why you got there. 06:07.682 --> 06:14.351 [SPEAKER_00]: That's always my goal no matter if I'm seminary in Australia, New Zealand, Belgium, whatever, Paris. 06:15.813 --> 06:22.476 [SPEAKER_00]: I always want to see a dog with a problem and try to help the dog owner and myself understand why the dog got there. 06:22.576 --> 06:30.020 [SPEAKER_00]: Because if you can get to the core of the kind of the spark that flamed everything, there's a good chance you can sustainably put out that fire. 06:30.180 --> 06:38.524 [SPEAKER_00]: But if you're constantly just putting out smoke and not getting to the actual core of the issue, you're going to likely see this problem happen over and over again. 06:38.544 --> 06:41.506 [SPEAKER_00]: And that's why I spend so much time educating dog owners. 06:42.046 --> 06:47.228 [SPEAKER_00]: And the beginning of my, let's say, YouTube career when I started, I was training well before YouTube. 06:47.248 --> 06:57.872 [SPEAKER_00]: I started putting things out there just because I just wanted to help people and I thought maybe me training a dog could help a couple people online and now it's become what it is today for me and which I'm so grateful for. 06:57.912 --> 07:00.032 [SPEAKER_00]: But I remember so many people were like you talk too much. 07:00.433 --> 07:06.835 [SPEAKER_00]: Stop talking because people were not used to a dog trainer on the internet talking through why I'm doing what I'm doing. 07:07.755 --> 07:13.981 [SPEAKER_00]: I'll never forget that almost every video I put out and almost every comment people were like, I'm so bored. 07:14.041 --> 07:19.506 [SPEAKER_00]: This is stop talking, get to the action, and because nobody on the internet was doing that. 07:19.667 --> 07:25.712 [SPEAKER_00]: And that's something I've never gotten away from, hence my podcast, right, that you guys are listening to right now. 07:26.693 --> 07:29.015 [SPEAKER_00]: I just think it's so important for people to understand. 07:29.876 --> 07:39.259 [SPEAKER_00]: Why do dogs get to a certain place of anxiety, reaction, uncertainty, insecurity, fear, aggression, etc. 07:39.499 --> 07:44.681 [SPEAKER_00]: And almost always, almost always, every time it comes down to a foundation. 07:44.861 --> 07:55.725 [SPEAKER_00]: And so, when you guys are talking about discipline and we're talking about structure, again, structure is, you know, instead of like, my, again, same thing with kid, same thing with human psychology, you wake up, what are you doing today? 07:55.745 --> 07:56.345 [SPEAKER_00]: I have no idea. 07:57.045 --> 08:02.769 [SPEAKER_00]: Nothing on my, nothing, I mean, it made sound good and for us adults, we could say like, Oh, I would love that. 08:02.809 --> 08:05.150 [SPEAKER_00]: You would love it for about two days and then you'd lose your mind. 08:05.750 --> 08:06.371 [SPEAKER_00]: That's the truth. 08:06.511 --> 08:08.772 [SPEAKER_00]: For me, it would be about four hours and then it'd lose my mind. 08:09.313 --> 08:10.273 [SPEAKER_00]: Structures important. 08:10.333 --> 08:12.314 [SPEAKER_00]: Here's what we're doing at this time and it could be loose. 08:13.195 --> 08:17.757 [SPEAKER_00]: I have to do this today, I have to do this tomorrow, I have to, you know, it's important to just have structure, right? 08:17.937 --> 08:20.898 [SPEAKER_00]: The routines, dogs, and animals, and general love routines. 08:21.378 --> 08:32.521 [SPEAKER_00]: So when we talk about discipline and structure and boundaries and all this stuff, that just lets the dog know at a bigger scale, at a macro scale, that you are creating the schedule for the day. 08:32.641 --> 08:34.222 [SPEAKER_00]: You are telling the dog when they can, 08:34.682 --> 08:41.891 [SPEAKER_00]: break and be free and run around and you are telling the dog when it's okay to do all those things and the dog is looking at you for that advice. 08:41.951 --> 08:44.034 [SPEAKER_00]: The dog is looking at you for that direction. 08:44.534 --> 08:48.319 [SPEAKER_00]: So your relationship with your dog is really healthy in that way. 08:48.619 --> 08:49.881 [SPEAKER_00]: They're not going outside and 08:50.862 --> 09:08.292 [SPEAKER_00]: running around crazy and being insane right all the time they are you go to the door you say sit you say stay you open the door they look at you you say break then they go out and they go crazy that is the healthiest relationship you can have with the dog 09:08.912 --> 09:09.973 [SPEAKER_00]: as it would be with kids. 09:10.013 --> 09:19.063 [SPEAKER_00]: You get to the amusement park, all your kids get out, they hold your hand, they're respectful, they're not running around, they're not being crazy, more importantly, they're not being dangerous, right? 09:19.083 --> 09:25.229 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not about, well, my kids are, you know, being kids and yelling, you know, you have no dull, that's what kids do, but it's about really understanding. 09:25.330 --> 09:26.891 [SPEAKER_00]: When I say stop, you stop. 09:27.832 --> 09:32.333 [SPEAKER_00]: it's not about being alpha or being in control or being dominant. 09:32.373 --> 09:33.654 [SPEAKER_00]: That stuff is ridiculous. 09:34.074 --> 09:43.736 [SPEAKER_00]: What it's about is it's about making sure that the thing that you love the most and the thing that you're most responsible of the most listens to you when you say something. 09:44.037 --> 09:48.938 [SPEAKER_00]: They don't ignore you because you've been pleading with your dog and begging with your dog their whole life. 09:49.298 --> 10:04.228 [SPEAKER_00]: you haven't been giving them discipline or boundaries or structure any of that stuff and that's what all this comes down to so that's the biggest struggle is dogwinner say my dog is not listening to me you know i made another podcast this week about well are you asking your dog or you are you 10:05.109 --> 10:05.990 [SPEAKER_00]: telling your dog, right? 10:06.030 --> 10:08.952 [SPEAKER_00]: So are we saying, please, please, please, please, are we saying, sit? 10:09.613 --> 10:09.853 [SPEAKER_00]: Good. 10:10.394 --> 10:13.476 [SPEAKER_00]: So that's just a little one-off there. 10:13.536 --> 10:20.743 [SPEAKER_00]: But I think that that's the biggest struggle that that puppy owners and new dog owners have the most is they look at a dog and they go, listen, I don't. 10:21.063 --> 10:22.084 [SPEAKER_00]: This dog is so cute. 10:22.124 --> 10:25.247 [SPEAKER_00]: We're going to let it do whatever whatever they want for six months. 10:25.767 --> 10:26.868 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, understand this. 10:27.008 --> 10:29.650 [SPEAKER_00]: First of all, I understand why we do that. 10:29.971 --> 10:30.972 [SPEAKER_00]: If I didn't do this 10:32.753 --> 10:33.813 [SPEAKER_00]: I may think the same thing. 10:33.973 --> 10:37.214 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I'm not going to discipline my dog and teach them boundaries yet. 10:37.234 --> 10:37.594 [SPEAKER_00]: Look at them. 10:37.614 --> 10:40.135 [SPEAKER_00]: They're six months old and they're so cute and they're rolling around. 10:40.275 --> 10:46.377 [SPEAKER_00]: Or I just got a new dog and they were left in a backyard for their whole life and have never seen a furniture. 10:47.317 --> 10:48.998 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not going to tell them what they can't do. 10:49.038 --> 10:52.039 [SPEAKER_00]: They deserve to do whatever they want. 10:52.079 --> 10:52.639 [SPEAKER_00]: No, they don't. 10:52.979 --> 10:53.859 [SPEAKER_00]: That is insane. 10:54.199 --> 10:55.200 [SPEAKER_00]: That is inhumane. 10:55.340 --> 10:56.260 [SPEAKER_00]: That is dangerous. 10:56.920 --> 11:03.727 [SPEAKER_00]: It'd be the same thing as adopting a kid who had a really rough start in life and then just saying, you know what, I'm going to give you everything you want in life. 11:04.288 --> 11:10.113 [SPEAKER_00]: You don't have to work for it, you don't even have to ask for it, all the toys, all the cookies, all the treats, all the love you get it all. 11:10.554 --> 11:16.540 [SPEAKER_00]: Nothing else, no stress is ever going to come from you, no hard work is going to be ever expected, no chores, nothing. 11:16.580 --> 11:18.442 [SPEAKER_00]: You do what you want, it's your world. 11:20.002 --> 11:39.213 [SPEAKER_00]: You, that would be the most inhumane thing you could do as a parent and way more inhumane as a dog owner because the dog is now going to be anxious, insecure, out of control, not know who, up from down and they're going to live a life of anarchy and constant anxiety and stress, and that is... 11:40.233 --> 12:05.891 [SPEAKER_00]: hell for dogs and so we don't want to do that either it's the same I mean guys look at all the look at all the studies in the psychology and all the Netflix documentaries of well well well off people just allowing their kids to use their credit cards and do whatever they want and they end up in bad circles they end up in bad situations not always but the majority of times right they're in rehab they have alcohol issues they 12:06.791 --> 12:08.272 [SPEAKER_00]: Never worked for anything guys. 12:08.332 --> 12:26.244 [SPEAKER_00]: It's it's a cycle that we have to be really mindful of it's the same thing with our dogs Don't so don't when you get that young puppy when you get that new dog No matter the circumstances of which they had I mean obviously there's there's very granular contextual stuff there if a dog was beaten You know 12:27.365 --> 12:28.766 [SPEAKER_00]: with with a leash or something. 12:28.786 --> 12:33.488 [SPEAKER_00]: You're 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loving human being would never do that to their kids to wait for them to be three. 13:46.177 --> 13:48.800 [SPEAKER_00]: Third grade fourth grade second grade for then for you to go. 13:48.860 --> 13:50.222 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, we're going to start working on pleasing. 13:50.242 --> 13:52.284 [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you And we're not going to kick and we're not going to spit. 13:52.725 --> 13:54.207 [SPEAKER_00]: No, you do it immediately. 13:54.307 --> 13:57.270 [SPEAKER_00]: You stop all that stuff immediately right now. 13:57.310 --> 14:03.317 [SPEAKER_00]: It's the same thing for dogs when you get a dog into your life no matter the age But if it's a new dog in your life 14:04.378 --> 14:22.065 [SPEAKER_00]: you want to start working on all these things to teach them the rules of the land to teach them that you are in charge don't worry about being in charge don't ever think that you're in charge that should never be on your plate outside of working dogs that should never be in the plate of a pet dog owner and in the home you don't want them to make decisions just rash like that. 14:22.905 --> 14:25.126 [SPEAKER_00]: that's where the reactivity comes in and the fear. 14:25.146 --> 14:29.547 [SPEAKER_00]: So you might be thinking, Tom, how does the lack of discipline and boundaries create fear and anxiety? 14:29.567 --> 14:30.408 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, good question. 14:30.848 --> 14:31.528 [SPEAKER_00]: I'll think about it. 14:31.848 --> 14:38.230 [SPEAKER_00]: If a dog comes into the world of whatever home or environment that you have and they're going, hey, who's who's in charge here? 14:38.290 --> 14:39.591 [SPEAKER_00]: Does anybody know what they're doing? 14:39.911 --> 14:41.652 [SPEAKER_00]: We go, no, do whatever you want? 14:41.672 --> 14:43.232 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, oh, oh, you want to chew on my socks? 14:43.252 --> 14:43.592 [SPEAKER_00]: That's fine. 14:43.932 --> 14:44.913 [SPEAKER_00]: You want to chew in the furniture? 14:44.973 --> 14:45.433 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, go ahead. 14:45.593 --> 14:48.354 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not going to stop any of this because it's so cute because there's six months. 14:48.914 --> 14:49.294 [SPEAKER_00]: or whatever. 14:49.314 --> 14:53.975 [SPEAKER_00]: And then they turn a year and then they rip up the same couch that you allowed them to do in their six months, you start yelling at them. 14:55.975 --> 14:56.876 [SPEAKER_00]: And then they get confused. 14:56.916 --> 14:57.876 [SPEAKER_00]: I've done this my whole life. 14:58.236 --> 14:59.676 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but now it's serious damage. 14:59.736 --> 15:00.316 [SPEAKER_00]: Now you're bigger. 15:00.356 --> 15:05.317 [SPEAKER_00]: Now you're actually putting holes or you've let you thought it was cute when your dog, I see dog owners do this all the time. 15:05.357 --> 15:08.658 [SPEAKER_00]: It makes me just, I'm like, don't do that. 15:09.018 --> 15:09.998 [SPEAKER_00]: They're going like this to the dog. 15:10.038 --> 15:10.698 [SPEAKER_00]: Jump up on me. 15:10.738 --> 15:11.319 [SPEAKER_00]: It's so cute. 15:11.339 --> 15:13.919 [SPEAKER_00]: And then they get 150 pounds and they're knocking little kids over. 15:14.419 --> 15:15.359 [SPEAKER_00]: And then, you know, they're looking 15:19.220 --> 15:25.742 [SPEAKER_00]: By the way, guys, we have our new no bad dog everyday collars, and we just have the brand new no bad dog pro training leash coming in black. 15:25.842 --> 15:26.503 [SPEAKER_00]: This is gummy. 15:27.043 --> 15:28.003 [SPEAKER_00]: It's four foot guys. 15:28.043 --> 15:32.665 [SPEAKER_00]: Don't use the the handle like the six foot leash with the handle. 15:33.205 --> 15:33.785 [SPEAKER_00]: Don't do that. 15:34.165 --> 15:36.006 [SPEAKER_00]: Don't use the retractables for training. 15:36.046 --> 15:37.787 [SPEAKER_00]: Don't use the six foot leads. 15:37.847 --> 15:39.547 [SPEAKER_00]: Don't use the big thick ropes. 15:39.607 --> 15:40.147 [SPEAKER_00]: Those guys. 15:40.227 --> 15:41.288 [SPEAKER_00]: Those are not good guys. 15:41.308 --> 15:44.789 [SPEAKER_00]: You want to use a leash or in a collar that you can actually feel your dog. 15:44.869 --> 15:46.210 [SPEAKER_00]: You want to be able to feel your dog. 15:46.230 --> 15:47.150 [SPEAKER_00]: That's why I made this. 15:47.830 --> 15:51.411 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, I think quarter inch is a four foot dog training leash. 15:51.451 --> 15:52.211 [SPEAKER_00]: It feels really nice. 15:52.231 --> 15:56.172 [SPEAKER_00]: It's called the gummy leash link in the description But no bad dogs is everywhere. 15:56.192 --> 15:56.873 [SPEAKER_00]: It's on my leash. 15:56.913 --> 15:57.713 [SPEAKER_00]: It's on my callers. 15:57.733 --> 16:04.875 [SPEAKER_00]: It's on my note pad and that's that this is exactly why we're talking about this a lot of dogs end up to be really misbehaved 16:06.095 --> 16:18.026 [SPEAKER_00]: And even aggressive or even mean because owners don't hold their dogs accountable at a very early age We allow them to do what they want when they want how they want with whoever they want and sometimes like I said We teach them this stuff. 16:18.066 --> 16:19.348 [SPEAKER_00]: We teach them to jump up on us. 16:19.648 --> 16:21.189 [SPEAKER_00]: We teach them to pull us around 16:22.150 --> 16:22.671 [SPEAKER_00]: on the leash. 16:22.711 --> 16:28.979 [SPEAKER_00]: And I've made that podcast before about dog owners, particularly puppy owners, who get a puppy in the beginning. 16:28.999 --> 16:33.625 [SPEAKER_00]: They think it's so, you know, endearing and cute to allow your dog to just pull you to meet everybody. 16:34.226 --> 16:38.191 [SPEAKER_00]: Well again, that same brain that is in the head of that dog is now being 16:38.912 --> 16:41.274 [SPEAKER_00]: reinforced that it's okay to pull first of all. 16:41.354 --> 17:04.349 [SPEAKER_00]: It's okay to disengage from the handle or at any time and it's okay to go up to everybody and everything at any given time So now you have a one-year-old big chunky lab that is strong low to the ground and is pulling you everywhere Meeting everybody and it's a nightmare to walk and now you don't want to walk the dog because They're pulling you and dragging you everywhere and it sucks for you and you're hurting your back and you're getting dragged down and 17:04.689 --> 17:18.019 [SPEAKER_00]: the dog's reactive and then you call me up, you call a trainer up, you go my dog is being so bad and they're pulling and I'm like, I wonder how this started, right? 17:18.059 --> 17:23.583 [SPEAKER_00]: So don't wait guys, your dog needs the structure for an week, even an eight week old puppy. 17:23.603 --> 17:26.385 [SPEAKER_00]: You guys have seen the videos with burly 17:28.206 --> 17:30.046 [SPEAKER_00]: Which is which is on my YouTube channel. 17:30.627 --> 17:32.047 [SPEAKER_00]: The day I brought that dog home. 17:32.107 --> 17:50.291 [SPEAKER_00]: I started training like day I brought him home I didn't even get home before I started training him when I got to the hotel because I knew that this dog was gonna need that and so I'm not saying you need to train your dog all day long as a puppy, but start off with boundaries start off with 17:51.285 --> 17:57.786 [SPEAKER_00]: When your dog eats, hold the leash, wait, teach him, stay, and then a break. 17:58.066 --> 18:02.927 [SPEAKER_00]: You can teach your dog stay in break within one day, eight weeks in a buff. 18:03.807 --> 18:06.068 [SPEAKER_00]: Teach your dog when they go out the door, ask for permission. 18:06.128 --> 18:07.948 [SPEAKER_00]: Look at, excuse me, look at you first. 18:09.048 --> 18:11.068 [SPEAKER_00]: Don't just run out and do what you want. 18:11.148 --> 18:19.150 [SPEAKER_00]: The more, excuse me, the more decisions you allow your dogs to do without your involvement, the more your dog is going to start checking out. 18:20.000 --> 18:20.560 [SPEAKER_00]: full stop. 18:21.081 --> 18:29.767 [SPEAKER_00]: Like the more you allow your dog to just completely blow you off for one little thing, they'll do it for everything. 18:30.288 --> 18:33.630 [SPEAKER_00]: So again, how how does this create a monster dog? 18:34.051 --> 18:46.080 [SPEAKER_00]: I'll tell you from from eight weeks all the way up to seven months when a dog starts kind of filling out and getting strong, we allow them to do anything and everything they want. 18:47.027 --> 18:54.932 [SPEAKER_00]: Then they start to become an adult dog around that eight month to depending on the breed, you know, 12 month mark, they'll be start becoming an adult. 18:55.313 --> 19:04.959 [SPEAKER_00]: And then all of a sudden, everything that we've allowed them to do as puppies because they're cute and we felt bad or we adopted the dog and we wanted them to just do whatever they want and get away with everything they want and give them everything that they want. 19:06.060 --> 19:09.542 [SPEAKER_00]: without working forward or without any any structure. 19:10.362 --> 19:16.466 [SPEAKER_00]: Now of a sudden, they're pulling, they're barking, they're jumping on gas, they're out of control and you're going, I don't understand. 19:16.766 --> 19:23.210 [SPEAKER_00]: Guys, the amount of people that I work with even consulting online, because I consult with a lot of dog owners just with my online consulting service. 19:24.150 --> 19:25.251 [SPEAKER_00]: and it which is which is great. 19:25.291 --> 19:25.952 [SPEAKER_00]: I love doing it. 19:25.992 --> 19:27.473 [SPEAKER_00]: That's why you guys hear my podcast. 19:27.493 --> 19:28.534 [SPEAKER_00]: You hear me working with a client. 19:28.554 --> 19:29.214 [SPEAKER_00]: That's what that is. 19:29.274 --> 19:30.295 [SPEAKER_00]: It's an online consulting. 19:30.735 --> 19:32.136 [SPEAKER_00]: You hire me for the hour. 19:32.156 --> 19:34.458 [SPEAKER_00]: I talk about all the things, right? 19:34.478 --> 19:35.619 [SPEAKER_00]: And we consult about everything. 19:35.639 --> 19:37.981 [SPEAKER_00]: And so anyway, it's the same story. 19:38.021 --> 19:39.462 [SPEAKER_00]: Almost always, right? 19:39.542 --> 19:42.925 [SPEAKER_00]: So I Tom, my dog, rushes the door on people come over. 19:44.210 --> 19:46.231 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, did you allow your dog to do that when they were younger? 19:46.411 --> 19:47.611 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, yeah, of course, they were younger. 19:47.651 --> 19:52.212 [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, okay, well, so there's the reason why it's happening, right? 19:52.292 --> 19:53.452 [SPEAKER_00]: So you've allowed this to happen. 19:54.012 --> 19:56.053 [SPEAKER_00]: And then the next question is, is like, well, how's your recall? 19:56.113 --> 19:56.833 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, there are eight months. 19:56.853 --> 19:57.593 [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't work on it. 19:58.274 --> 20:06.156 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, well, if there are eight months and they're doing something that you don't want them to do, then there's no reason why you can't start teaching them behaviors, right? 20:06.276 --> 20:11.457 [SPEAKER_00]: Again, that's like waiting for your kids to be in third grade to start teaching how to read and write and please, and thank you. 20:14.703 --> 20:15.523 [SPEAKER_00]: Makes no sense, right? 20:16.804 --> 20:17.504 [SPEAKER_00]: Same thing with dogs. 20:18.204 --> 20:24.526 [SPEAKER_00]: I remember we started filming a course, and the course was how to prevent your dog from being reactive. 20:24.766 --> 20:26.567 [SPEAKER_00]: How to prevent your dog from being aggressive. 20:27.267 --> 20:31.228 [SPEAKER_00]: Because, again, guys, you guys have seen me on the today's show tons of times. 20:31.289 --> 20:32.429 [SPEAKER_00]: Good morning, America, et cetera. 20:33.349 --> 20:38.371 [SPEAKER_00]: I get asked to do all these things because I'm a specialist in aggression and behavior modification. 20:38.911 --> 20:45.035 [SPEAKER_00]: I love getting into the ring with the dog that is nasty and is mean and aggressive and reactive and anxious and fearful. 20:45.475 --> 20:46.415 [SPEAKER_00]: That's my forte. 20:46.495 --> 20:47.776 [SPEAKER_00]: I get a drawn to that stuff. 20:48.637 --> 21:06.427 [SPEAKER_00]: And so when I started making a course on how to prevent your dog from getting to that point, halfway through it, I looked at my videoographer and I said, this is actually what every single person is missing, like from puppyhood. 21:07.859 --> 21:11.621 [SPEAKER_00]: So I remember it was like, one of those things that I was like, this isn't a puppy course. 21:11.641 --> 21:12.862 [SPEAKER_00]: This isn't a reactive course. 21:13.542 --> 21:15.843 [SPEAKER_00]: This is what everybody is missing in life. 21:16.003 --> 21:17.244 [SPEAKER_00]: It's called the Kickstarter course. 21:17.324 --> 21:18.764 [SPEAKER_00]: Again, you can find it in the link below. 21:18.804 --> 21:21.486 [SPEAKER_00]: But that particular course is exactly what I'm talking about. 21:21.526 --> 21:23.207 [SPEAKER_00]: Like so many people don't have boundaries. 21:23.967 --> 21:26.108 [SPEAKER_00]: They don't know the five things that every dog should know. 21:26.648 --> 21:28.768 [SPEAKER_00]: Like every dog should know the five behaviors. 21:29.408 --> 21:30.028 [SPEAKER_00]: And they don't know them. 21:30.128 --> 21:32.209 [SPEAKER_00]: They don't know heal or break or any of those things. 21:32.249 --> 21:34.850 [SPEAKER_00]: They just go through life kind of hoping things work out. 21:34.970 --> 21:36.070 [SPEAKER_00]: And a lot of times, it doesn't. 21:36.690 --> 21:47.873 [SPEAKER_00]: But because you get so far into the weeds and you've ingrained it into your new dog so early, it's so hard to get rid of those habits that we've created, unfortunately. 21:47.993 --> 21:48.233 [SPEAKER_00]: So... 21:50.272 --> 21:56.055 [SPEAKER_00]: those are the biggest reasons why puppy owners and new dog owners struggle throughout their whole life. 21:56.875 --> 22:02.098 [SPEAKER_00]: And you can save an enormous amount of time and an enormous amount of energy. 22:02.938 --> 22:10.842 [SPEAKER_00]: And money, if you guys just understood the foundations first, you have the right equipment, you have the right tools. 22:12.023 --> 22:16.465 [SPEAKER_00]: So that way you don't have to go into the future and start unwinding all the things that you've created. 22:17.185 --> 22:17.966 [SPEAKER_00]: So if that makes sense, 22:19.308 --> 22:20.169 [SPEAKER_00]: I hope that it's helpful. 22:20.189 --> 22:25.794 [SPEAKER_00]: And again, if you guys want my Kickstarter course to start off on the right foot and all my equipment that I recommend because equipment is so important. 22:26.194 --> 22:28.997 [SPEAKER_00]: Like again, like this forefoot training leash, people might say, oh, I have a leash. 22:29.537 --> 22:30.478 [SPEAKER_00]: But it's six foot. 22:30.558 --> 22:31.980 [SPEAKER_00]: It's got the it's so heavy. 22:32.020 --> 22:32.760 [SPEAKER_00]: It's hanging down. 22:32.780 --> 22:34.081 [SPEAKER_00]: It's putting pressure on the dog. 22:34.101 --> 22:35.042 [SPEAKER_00]: You can't feel your dog. 22:35.062 --> 22:36.243 [SPEAKER_00]: You can't communicate with your dog. 22:36.604 --> 22:38.145 [SPEAKER_00]: All these things make a crucial role. 22:38.165 --> 22:39.666 [SPEAKER_00]: It's just anything else in life, guys. 22:39.907 --> 22:44.030 [SPEAKER_00]: Whether you're working on a car, you're you're scuba diving or you're fishing. 22:44.110 --> 22:45.512 [SPEAKER_00]: If you don't have the right equipment, 22:46.568 --> 22:49.549 [SPEAKER_00]: There's a good chance, every all the hard work you're doing is not gonna work. 22:49.969 --> 22:53.610 [SPEAKER_00]: You win all the way out to see four hours and you forgot your your poles. 22:53.710 --> 22:55.530 [SPEAKER_00]: You forgot the right line, whatever. 22:55.610 --> 22:56.751 [SPEAKER_00]: Equipment makes a difference. 22:56.811 --> 22:57.951 [SPEAKER_00]: It's no different with dogs. 22:58.431 --> 22:59.631 [SPEAKER_00]: That's why I've created my whole line. 22:59.651 --> 23:00.972 [SPEAKER_00]: You guys can find the link in the description. 23:01.232 --> 23:07.393 [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you guys so much for listening, watching and supporting the channel and listening to what I have to say about dogs. 23:07.953 --> 23:09.194 [SPEAKER_00]: I will talk to you guys in the next one. 23:09.234 --> 23:09.594 [SPEAKER_00]: Peace out.