WEBVTT 00:00.111 --> 00:02.294 [SPEAKER_00]: you want to decrease your dog's anxiety. 00:02.814 --> 00:04.877 [SPEAKER_00]: You want to better fulfill your dog. 00:04.917 --> 00:06.278 [SPEAKER_00]: You want to have a happier dog. 00:06.298 --> 00:11.104 [SPEAKER_00]: You want to have a less anxious, less reactive dog that checks in with you and is more engaged. 00:11.384 --> 00:13.647 [SPEAKER_00]: This is what we're talking about right here. 00:20.588 --> 00:24.450 [SPEAKER_00]: Hello everybody, welcome back to the NoBedDogs podcast and my second YouTube channel. 00:24.470 --> 00:25.471 [SPEAKER_00]: Thanks for joining me today. 00:25.491 --> 00:29.453 [SPEAKER_00]: We're going to be talking about fulfillment and purpose in life. 00:29.533 --> 00:35.577 [SPEAKER_00]: Guys, I had to come down here and have this conversation because I mean, I don't even have my NoBedDogs shirt on. 00:35.657 --> 00:36.518 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm drinking water. 00:36.558 --> 00:37.258 [SPEAKER_00]: It's late at night. 00:37.278 --> 00:38.499 [SPEAKER_00]: I have to talk you about this. 00:39.159 --> 00:41.841 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a quick press release on fulfillment. 00:41.881 --> 00:49.526 [SPEAKER_00]: I had this epiphany on my way home about you how board dogs get and what people Overlook in dogs. 00:49.726 --> 01:01.394 [SPEAKER_00]: So every single thing on this planet a B has a purpose a Woodpecker a go for a penguin even an ant walking around with something on its back 01:02.375 --> 01:03.216 [SPEAKER_00]: has a purpose. 01:03.416 --> 01:05.037 [SPEAKER_00]: Every single thing has a purpose. 01:05.057 --> 01:25.049 [SPEAKER_00]: And if we think about dogs, dogs 90% of dog breeds out there have, or plus, you know, I could look it up, but most dog breeds out there have the back history and the genetics of being bred and being born into this world that we live on 01:28.751 --> 01:35.456 [SPEAKER_00]: retrieve something, track something, find something, protect something, etc. 01:35.536 --> 01:38.237 [SPEAKER_00]: Pull something, dogs have a purpose. 01:39.158 --> 01:40.699 [SPEAKER_00]: And, you know, I had this epiphany. 01:40.719 --> 01:48.864 [SPEAKER_00]: I was at the facility today for those of you who don't know, I have a dog training facility and I was there working board and trains with some of my staff and 01:49.825 --> 01:53.371 [SPEAKER_00]: Some of the dogs that I got out, we're just so happy to get, I got out of the pointer. 01:53.651 --> 02:00.482 [SPEAKER_00]: I got a little wolf-hound, not an Irish wolf-hound, but one of those, where do they call it? 02:01.813 --> 02:12.418 [SPEAKER_00]: Hmm, I forget, but I got out the I got out of these dogs and they were just so excited to get out and I was just like, man So many people get their dogs out and they don't work their dogs. 02:12.518 --> 02:22.623 [SPEAKER_00]: They don't fulfill their dogs They don't give their dog purpose and the dogs would be so much happier less stress less anxious and I've created this whole ethos of 02:23.463 --> 02:42.906 [SPEAKER_00]: all the things that I do with dogs in my life to help dogs have a better life, to help owners, to help humans connect better with dogs in a sippifony, I was like, man, so many dog owners go out and they walk their dog and they let their dog go potty and here's what a normal, and 02:44.147 --> 02:49.712 [SPEAKER_00]: I am guilty of this as well sometimes, so I'm not trying to make you guys feel bad. 02:49.813 --> 02:52.675 [SPEAKER_00]: I just want us to put things into perspective real quick. 02:53.376 --> 02:57.560 [SPEAKER_00]: To a typical walk for a dog owner is to go out like this. 02:59.762 --> 03:00.162 [SPEAKER_00]: Good job. 03:01.083 --> 03:04.386 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, we're pooping, right? 03:04.506 --> 03:06.068 [SPEAKER_00]: Like that's a typical walk. 03:07.126 --> 03:08.366 [SPEAKER_00]: many reasons why this happens. 03:08.726 --> 03:09.706 [SPEAKER_00]: We are busy. 03:10.367 --> 03:12.947 [SPEAKER_00]: We work, right? 03:13.027 --> 03:13.987 [SPEAKER_00]: We go to work. 03:14.027 --> 03:14.727 [SPEAKER_00]: We're clocked in. 03:14.767 --> 03:15.447 [SPEAKER_00]: We're locked in. 03:15.487 --> 03:18.648 [SPEAKER_00]: We have to sit down and do stuff that sometimes we don't want to do. 03:19.948 --> 03:20.908 [SPEAKER_00]: Or whatever. 03:20.988 --> 03:26.970 [SPEAKER_00]: And so when we get home and we're outside, we a lot of people, you know, we're hooked on our phones or we're doing it. 03:26.990 --> 03:29.090 [SPEAKER_00]: That's not even about like social media in particular. 03:29.110 --> 03:30.230 [SPEAKER_00]: It's about checking emails. 03:30.290 --> 03:31.810 [SPEAKER_00]: It's about returning text messages. 03:31.850 --> 03:32.590 [SPEAKER_00]: People are busy. 03:32.630 --> 03:33.071 [SPEAKER_00]: I get it. 03:33.591 --> 03:33.771 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 03:33.811 --> 03:34.831 [SPEAKER_00]: But dogs. 03:36.060 --> 03:45.925 [SPEAKER_00]: Our dogs at home, the reason why I see so much anxiousness and reactivity and this disconnect with dogs and their owners. 03:46.465 --> 03:49.506 [SPEAKER_00]: This is part of the reasons because dogs are bored and they're unfulfilled. 03:49.526 --> 04:00.872 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to tell you guys how to fulfill your dogs and work your dogs and give your dogs in better life in a minute, but that's why this podcast is so great is because I can dive deep into this because you guys are dog nerds just like me and we're going to talk about 04:05.874 --> 04:08.338 [SPEAKER_00]: and we're kind of along for this ride together. 04:08.558 --> 04:14.286 [SPEAKER_00]: Again, like this podcasting thing and even this second channel here on YouTube and it's all just... 04:15.497 --> 04:20.399 [SPEAKER_00]: kind of this new thing that I've been doing to really dive deeper into my thoughts. 04:20.720 --> 04:27.663 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, again, I've been working with dogs and dedicating my whole life, talking to all these different people and learning more. 04:27.703 --> 04:29.344 [SPEAKER_00]: And so this is this is exciting for me. 04:29.364 --> 04:30.224 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm excited about this. 04:30.824 --> 04:31.485 [SPEAKER_00]: Got my water. 04:34.006 --> 04:36.887 [SPEAKER_00]: So dogs who, again, they all have a purpose. 04:36.907 --> 04:37.568 [SPEAKER_00]: They all have a job. 04:37.668 --> 04:38.328 [SPEAKER_00]: Everything does. 04:38.448 --> 04:39.469 [SPEAKER_00]: Except maybe a jellyfish. 04:40.229 --> 04:40.989 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know, maybe they do. 04:43.951 --> 04:45.812 [SPEAKER_00]: When, well, how do I say this? 04:45.892 --> 04:47.272 [SPEAKER_00]: You want to work your dog, right? 04:47.352 --> 04:48.793 [SPEAKER_00]: So you want to give your dog a job. 04:48.873 --> 04:51.955 [SPEAKER_00]: And a lot of times we don't, we can't fulfill them the way that they need to. 04:52.615 --> 04:56.897 [SPEAKER_00]: So we can't go work on a ranch and let our border collie herd cattle all day. 04:57.457 --> 05:02.780 [SPEAKER_00]: We can't let our newfoundland jump into the ice cold ocean and save somebody. 05:04.220 --> 05:05.301 [SPEAKER_00]: et cetera et cetera et cetera. 05:05.321 --> 05:27.229 [SPEAKER_00]: I can put I can go down the line of all the breeds that are supposed to be doing things that they would rather be doing but they don't they sit inside all day and kind of wait for us to come home and then when we do come home they're just like out like this not everybody right if you're out there and you're you're hiking you're walking you're training you're playing fetch it's good they're still going to be benefits to this this video in this podcast so stay tuned and I think 05:29.170 --> 05:35.534 [SPEAKER_00]: The big missed opportunity is people don't have to go out and do this stuff in order to fulfill their dogs or make their dogs happy or less anxious. 05:35.974 --> 05:36.895 [SPEAKER_00]: They can work their dogs. 05:36.915 --> 05:37.535 [SPEAKER_00]: What does that mean? 05:37.576 --> 05:40.838 [SPEAKER_00]: When you work your dog, it means getting them to think. 05:43.239 --> 05:43.499 [SPEAKER_00]: So... 05:44.749 --> 05:53.642 [SPEAKER_00]: Challenging your dogs every day, and that's what real work is to a dog is making them not get into this autopilot mundane Tunnel vision. 05:53.682 --> 05:58.870 [SPEAKER_00]: I do the same thing over and over again really challenging them putting them to a test 05:59.711 --> 06:10.240 [SPEAKER_00]: That's that mental stimulation I've been talking about for years, really just asking a dog to, for an example, okay, so here's how you can start working your dog and giving them a challenge. 06:11.061 --> 06:16.306 [SPEAKER_00]: Thresholds are an easy one, low hanging fruit, you go up to a door, you tell your dog to stay, you start to go through. 06:16.726 --> 06:26.175 [SPEAKER_00]: I bet every single person listening and watching this likely goes through with your dog and your dog goes through with you and there's no hesitation, there's no threshold, there's no gatekeeping. 06:26.775 --> 06:42.745 [SPEAKER_00]: Unless maybe you say sit and stay so you can start working on things like that go to a threshold your door your back door your side door Ask your dog to stay Ask your dog to sit and then stay Ask your dog to down and stay start start messing with the different triggers 06:43.525 --> 06:49.787 [SPEAKER_00]: go out, walk out the door without you being right next to your dog or your dog being right next to you and the dog just sits there. 06:50.247 --> 06:52.308 [SPEAKER_00]: So now their brain starts firing off. 06:52.388 --> 06:56.069 [SPEAKER_00]: Now their brain starts thinking, even giving you, I was working with this. 06:56.949 --> 07:03.492 [SPEAKER_00]: I'll show you guys here if you guys are watching this and if you guys are listening to this and Spotify, you can look at the screen and watch this. 07:03.512 --> 07:06.332 [SPEAKER_00]: I was working with this pointer which I'll put on 07:11.054 --> 07:16.939 [SPEAKER_00]: It was a black and white pointer, you guys can see here, and I'm going to post some of these videos on my Instagram. 07:17.379 --> 07:22.344 [SPEAKER_00]: But this dog was a young pointer, and he was excited to work. 07:22.404 --> 07:23.404 [SPEAKER_00]: He was happy to work. 07:23.464 --> 07:24.685 [SPEAKER_00]: He was eager to work. 07:24.746 --> 07:26.067 [SPEAKER_00]: He was motivated to work. 07:26.527 --> 07:30.610 [SPEAKER_00]: This is a dog that was literally bred for hundreds of years. 07:31.031 --> 07:33.353 [SPEAKER_00]: I dare say thousands, but I would say thousands. 07:33.813 --> 07:34.193 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. 07:34.694 --> 07:37.216 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm really bad with timeframes to be honest guys, but 07:38.637 --> 07:41.098 [SPEAKER_00]: And this dog was just hungry for information. 07:41.118 --> 07:41.818 [SPEAKER_00]: Tell me what you're going to do. 07:41.838 --> 07:42.358 [SPEAKER_00]: What are you going to do? 07:42.378 --> 07:42.478 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 07:42.498 --> 07:42.678 [SPEAKER_00]: I do it. 07:42.698 --> 07:42.838 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 07:42.858 --> 07:42.998 [SPEAKER_00]: Great. 07:43.018 --> 07:43.478 [SPEAKER_00]: You got food. 07:43.558 --> 07:43.818 [SPEAKER_00]: Awesome. 07:43.838 --> 07:44.018 [SPEAKER_00]: Great. 07:44.518 --> 08:00.742 [SPEAKER_00]: And it was just so fun that seeing this dog just like Drull for engagement and drool for work where it doesn't get so like the board and train program is so beneficial for dogs because for the first time in their life they're getting out they're okay. 08:00.762 --> 08:03.723 [SPEAKER_00]: They're normal outside routine with their owner likely 08:04.823 --> 08:12.287 [SPEAKER_00]: Forgive me if it's not, but likely is we put on a leash, we walk our dogs, they go pee and poop, and They're disengaged the whole time. 08:12.307 --> 08:26.675 [SPEAKER_00]: They're not thinking So that's the thing is like, you know, I've put out videos on how important it is for dogs to sniff and To interact with their senses and take all that information in but and it is it is important But it has nothing to do with you, right? 08:26.695 --> 08:29.176 [SPEAKER_00]: So they're not so it's a different type of work, right? 08:29.236 --> 08:31.518 [SPEAKER_00]: It's kind of like a dog going out for a sniff 08:32.158 --> 08:33.678 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, it's fascinating to them. 08:33.738 --> 08:39.180 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, it's engaging and interesting for them, but it's not challenging for them at all. 08:39.840 --> 08:43.181 [SPEAKER_00]: So it's important for for that to happen and you should have both. 08:43.841 --> 08:53.023 [SPEAKER_00]: But just working with that dog today and seeing just like he's oozing a like craving like, yes, I love this. 08:53.103 --> 08:56.404 [SPEAKER_00]: This is so fun and it just made me think, man, so many dogs. 08:57.144 --> 08:58.104 [SPEAKER_00]: are unfulfilled. 08:58.224 --> 09:00.345 [SPEAKER_00]: And again, this is where you start to see anxiousness. 09:00.405 --> 09:06.826 [SPEAKER_00]: I can tell you right now, if you guys listen to this podcast long enough, I tell you all people all the time, like, my baseline is anxious. 09:06.866 --> 09:08.026 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I'm an anxious person. 09:08.607 --> 09:17.889 [SPEAKER_00]: I think, you know, back in the day, I used to blame it on coffee, but I've done so much to help with that and my relationship with that. 09:17.949 --> 09:18.109 [SPEAKER_00]: Right? 09:18.189 --> 09:19.069 [SPEAKER_00]: I go for runs. 09:19.109 --> 09:23.850 [SPEAKER_00]: I do all these different things to get me back down to my nervous system. 09:24.850 --> 09:36.873 [SPEAKER_00]: into a better place so I can think clearly and I can be happier and less anxious and I'm a human who doesn't eat rabbit poop. 09:37.153 --> 09:44.635 [SPEAKER_00]: I can think grander if you will and so dogs that's why they have this anxious behavior. 09:44.895 --> 09:49.936 [SPEAKER_00]: That's why they can become reactive is because every single day they're 09:54.917 --> 10:02.181 [SPEAKER_00]: And there's something in intuition deep down inside of you and some sort of gut feeling that's like Man, you should be doing something different. 10:02.201 --> 10:20.070 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like that GSP I was working with today like his nose was going I had the big garage doors open at the facility his nose was going he was smelling the birds and the chipmunks Dogs knows is our 100,000 times more literally a 100,000 times more powerful than ours so like he was sniffing all the things and You know 10:20.890 --> 10:23.252 [SPEAKER_00]: It's just amazing how these dogs operate. 10:23.332 --> 10:26.075 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like this operating system that never gets kicked on. 10:26.595 --> 10:29.077 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like buying a Ferrari or Lamborghini and parking. 10:29.097 --> 10:30.338 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't care what kind of dog you have. 10:30.378 --> 10:35.303 [SPEAKER_00]: If you have a corgi, a shitsu, a shiba, or doberman, these dogs light up. 10:35.463 --> 10:43.390 [SPEAKER_00]: Their brains start to fire off really when you start challenging them and working with them, with Lakota, my Dutch Shepherd. 10:43.410 --> 10:44.571 [SPEAKER_00]: I get a tug toy out. 10:44.811 --> 10:45.892 [SPEAKER_00]: By the way, let me see. 10:46.312 --> 10:51.814 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't have it here, I don't think, but we have a brand new color tug toy to interact with your dog. 10:53.055 --> 10:59.117 [SPEAKER_00]: I'll leave the link below, but when you have a tug toy or a frisbee or something that your dog likes tugging on, right? 10:59.157 --> 11:00.998 [SPEAKER_00]: Not a true toy, big difference. 11:01.578 --> 11:04.359 [SPEAKER_00]: Something that your dogs like tugging and ripping and playing with you. 11:04.399 --> 11:05.339 [SPEAKER_00]: You work on your out. 11:05.719 --> 11:06.840 [SPEAKER_00]: You work on your discipline. 11:07.320 --> 11:11.181 [SPEAKER_00]: Right, so with Lakota for an example, she's my 10-year-old Dutch Shepherd. 11:11.221 --> 11:11.841 [SPEAKER_00]: God bless her. 11:11.881 --> 11:12.602 [SPEAKER_00]: She's amazing. 11:13.322 --> 11:15.602 [SPEAKER_00]: I have a tug toy with her. 11:15.642 --> 11:16.643 [SPEAKER_00]: I hang on to the handle. 11:17.263 --> 11:17.843 [SPEAKER_00]: I say out. 11:18.263 --> 11:18.883 [SPEAKER_00]: She spits it out. 11:18.903 --> 11:20.784 [SPEAKER_00]: So she's thinking, boom, and she's looking at me. 11:21.264 --> 11:23.285 [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, all right, all right, what are we doing next? 11:23.585 --> 11:24.205 [SPEAKER_00]: Because she knows. 11:24.285 --> 11:25.585 [SPEAKER_00]: I could put her into a heel. 11:25.665 --> 11:26.746 [SPEAKER_00]: I could put her into a down. 11:26.786 --> 11:27.866 [SPEAKER_00]: I could put her into a place. 11:28.226 --> 11:29.106 [SPEAKER_00]: I could throw the ball. 11:29.506 --> 11:30.687 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, so her brain is going to poop. 11:32.247 --> 11:32.687 [SPEAKER_00]: What are we doing? 11:33.067 --> 11:33.507 [SPEAKER_00]: What are we doing? 11:33.527 --> 11:34.028 [SPEAKER_00]: What are we doing? 11:34.428 --> 11:37.428 [SPEAKER_00]: Right, and the more your dog knows, the more they fire off, right? 11:37.528 --> 11:41.949 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like, if you only have one gear, you're only going to go so fast. 11:42.329 --> 11:48.791 [SPEAKER_00]: You're going to go, you're whole life versus, like, grabbing those gears. 11:49.371 --> 11:51.291 [SPEAKER_00]: And that's what a lot of dogs thrive on. 11:51.311 --> 11:52.952 [SPEAKER_00]: And that's why a lot of dogs want and crave. 11:55.192 --> 12:24.181 [SPEAKER_00]: right so like with Lakota again I have that tug out or have that frisbee I say stay oh my throw it she's sitting there she's looking at me she's looking at the tug she's looking at the tug she's looking at me and I say yes bang and she fires off her adrenaline is going or dopamine's firing off she's targeting that ball she comes up bang grabs it off the ground shakes it comes it comes ripping back with it I say out bang she spits it out what do we do next okay heal bang got that right it's like this it's this pattern it's this routine that 12:25.261 --> 12:27.082 [SPEAKER_00]: keep kind of keeps are guessing, right? 12:27.142 --> 12:36.367 [SPEAKER_00]: And so dog owners who are out there, this is you want to you want to decrease your dogs and anxiety You want to better fulfill your dog. 12:36.387 --> 12:37.747 [SPEAKER_00]: You want to have a happier dog. 12:37.767 --> 12:42.590 [SPEAKER_00]: You want to have a less anxious less reactive dog that checks in with you and is more engaged. 12:42.870 --> 12:46.072 [SPEAKER_00]: This is what we're talking about right here and 12:47.092 --> 12:53.777 [SPEAKER_00]: Again, like have some sort of like when you go out with your dog, have some sort of a challenge, right? 12:53.797 --> 12:55.038 [SPEAKER_00]: That's what it all comes down to. 12:55.538 --> 12:58.080 [SPEAKER_00]: Working your dog is challenging your dog. 12:59.400 --> 13:02.022 [SPEAKER_00]: Again, grab your leash, go to a door, stay. 13:03.063 --> 13:04.724 [SPEAKER_00]: There's triggers to this. 13:04.744 --> 13:05.525 [SPEAKER_00]: You go up to the door. 13:07.037 --> 13:09.379 [SPEAKER_00]: You put your hand on the door, that's trigger one. 13:09.819 --> 13:11.420 [SPEAKER_00]: Usually dogs are like, oh, we're going. 13:11.480 --> 13:13.681 [SPEAKER_00]: Nope, usually it's corrected dog. 13:13.721 --> 13:17.964 [SPEAKER_00]: Nope, the correction helps the dog understand clarity and think, okay, that wasn't the right thing. 13:18.024 --> 13:20.026 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, shoot, what was that, right? 13:20.046 --> 13:22.928 [SPEAKER_00]: So you put your hand on the door again, the dog doesn't react. 13:23.048 --> 13:24.869 [SPEAKER_00]: The dog doesn't, doesn't try to get out. 13:24.969 --> 13:25.489 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, good. 13:25.509 --> 13:26.150 [SPEAKER_00]: You pay the dog. 13:26.670 --> 13:28.031 [SPEAKER_00]: You're not letting the dog back out the door. 13:28.051 --> 13:30.453 [SPEAKER_00]: You're just paying the dog with food that you have on you, right? 13:31.133 --> 13:33.558 [SPEAKER_00]: So then the second trigger is grabbing the door. 13:33.718 --> 13:34.399 [SPEAKER_00]: Dog doesn't move. 13:34.519 --> 13:35.080 [SPEAKER_00]: I learned that. 13:35.201 --> 13:35.942 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't go out yet. 13:36.543 --> 13:39.268 [SPEAKER_00]: Opening the door cracked just a little bit the dogs and oh that's our time. 13:39.348 --> 13:40.330 [SPEAKER_00]: No bang correction. 13:40.390 --> 13:40.731 [SPEAKER_00]: What? 13:40.811 --> 13:41.352 [SPEAKER_00]: Holy crap. 13:41.392 --> 13:41.612 [SPEAKER_00]: What? 13:42.033 --> 13:43.976 [SPEAKER_00]: So again guys, two things happen here. 13:46.448 --> 13:48.751 [SPEAKER_00]: And I think the big picture, I'll go to the small picture. 13:48.771 --> 13:52.035 [SPEAKER_00]: I always used to talk about this, or shout out to the OGs who've been following me for a while. 13:52.055 --> 13:54.117 [SPEAKER_00]: There's a micro and a macro, a little and a big. 13:54.798 --> 13:58.563 [SPEAKER_00]: The little is, is it August working on door manners? 13:58.683 --> 13:59.785 [SPEAKER_00]: They're not rushing through the door. 14:00.626 --> 14:01.086 [SPEAKER_00]: That's great. 14:01.647 --> 14:02.147 [SPEAKER_00]: That's huge. 14:02.387 --> 14:05.409 [SPEAKER_00]: A lot of people like that right in the exercise we're talking about right now. 14:05.429 --> 14:06.010 [SPEAKER_00]: We'll help you with that. 14:06.390 --> 14:11.593 [SPEAKER_00]: The bigger picture is is your dog is thinking your dog is engaged with you your dog is actively going okay. 14:11.893 --> 14:12.414 [SPEAKER_00]: That wasn't it. 14:12.494 --> 14:13.274 [SPEAKER_00]: I think right. 14:13.434 --> 14:17.157 [SPEAKER_00]: So again, they're not just on the leash walk in sniffing. 14:17.977 --> 14:19.038 [SPEAKER_00]: It's kind of like this. 14:20.989 --> 14:37.586 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, it's, I don't know, man, it's just like this disconnect that I see so much and and so then the third step is hand of the door trigger one, no movement good open the door to good third trigger. 14:39.832 --> 14:44.856 [SPEAKER_00]: you open the door and you walk through it and the dog still stays there and looks it and goes to sit time is it time is it time is it time break? 14:45.276 --> 14:46.577 [SPEAKER_00]: those are all thresholds right? 14:47.178 --> 15:07.814 [SPEAKER_00]: the dog goes I want what you're I want a certain thing either the ball the tug or go through the door or the food or the treat to say how do the person jump out of the car get out of the crate whatever they want something and they're looking at you and they're asking for permission right so same thing with kids if you think about it right let's say you know back in the day I'm traditional um I kind of 15:09.815 --> 15:11.976 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, you were asked to be excused from the table. 15:11.996 --> 15:14.098 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, you don't just get up and say, oh, it piece out. 15:14.418 --> 15:14.638 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 15:14.978 --> 15:16.319 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, there's structure to that. 15:16.479 --> 15:16.659 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 15:16.699 --> 15:19.941 [SPEAKER_00]: So for an example, if we really break it down, micro macro. 15:21.342 --> 15:23.863 [SPEAKER_00]: We're all eating dinner as a family, no phones. 15:24.483 --> 15:25.144 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, back in my day. 15:25.164 --> 15:26.685 [SPEAKER_00]: There wasn't pattern my day. 15:27.845 --> 15:37.913 [SPEAKER_00]: But really when we had to fall in on the wall a lot of you guys can probably let me know in the comments you guys are my age But it's one of those things that you sit at the table we're all engaging. 15:37.953 --> 15:46.040 [SPEAKER_00]: We're talking how is your day and Then the the structure and the respect and just the engagement of 15:46.720 --> 15:52.423 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not the one in charge here because I'm a child, I'm a dog, I'm a puppy, can I be excused? 15:52.923 --> 15:55.784 [SPEAKER_00]: Yep, clean up your plate, do your dishes and yep, absolutely, right? 15:55.824 --> 16:03.048 [SPEAKER_00]: There's like structure versus just like, all right, I'm done, boom, they didn't eat anything, they left their veggies, they left their protein, they're back playing video games. 16:03.468 --> 16:10.811 [SPEAKER_00]: That's the same type of stuff y'all are doing with your dogs when you just let them outside and they do what they want, when they want, how they want with whoever they want. 16:11.411 --> 16:14.373 [SPEAKER_00]: And you're basically a glorified roommate. 16:15.073 --> 16:38.774 [SPEAKER_00]: Now the difference is a lot of people might be offended by that and you know think I'm crazy of course, but that happens, but and you know, maybe I am, but I can tell you this, um, the reality is is I'm not saying that your dog doesn't love you, right, just like I'm not saying your kid doesn't love you and they talk back or spit or leave the table without eating anything to go back to play video games that is nothing to do with love. 16:39.881 --> 16:40.982 [SPEAKER_00]: that's your relationship. 16:41.362 --> 16:42.623 [SPEAKER_00]: That's discipline, right? 16:43.063 --> 16:52.771 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I know when, you know, my, you know, it's one of my kids order, like, you know, my son, if we go out, and he wants to lemonade if we go to a restaurant. 16:53.872 --> 16:54.933 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, I'm a type of parent. 16:55.053 --> 16:57.474 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, and he's almost four, right? 16:57.555 --> 17:01.117 [SPEAKER_00]: So he's not a baby, but he's not, you know, he's a toddler, I guess. 17:02.078 --> 17:05.961 [SPEAKER_00]: A young kid, and I tell him, hey, yeah, you want to, you want to, you want to lemonade? 17:06.181 --> 17:08.483 [SPEAKER_00]: Ask the waitress or ask the waiter for one. 17:09.574 --> 17:12.156 [SPEAKER_00]: And I tell him make sure you say please make sure you use your manners. 17:12.776 --> 17:16.319 [SPEAKER_00]: And so here's this little almost four year old and I'll set them up. 17:16.339 --> 17:25.244 [SPEAKER_00]: I won't completely leave them out on the deep end right because he's a shy kid and life is, you know, scary sometimes and so the waiter comes over and I'll say, oh, thanks. 17:25.284 --> 17:27.626 [SPEAKER_00]: Did you want something and he'll kind of go. 17:28.110 --> 17:30.351 [SPEAKER_00]: Can I have a lemonade please? 17:30.991 --> 17:32.312 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh yeah, you want to lemonade, right? 17:32.352 --> 17:37.013 [SPEAKER_00]: So micro macro guys, the micro is is my boys getting lemonade. 17:37.954 --> 17:45.476 [SPEAKER_00]: The macro is is he's learning manners and he's learning from a young age that he has to assert himself if he wants something. 17:45.516 --> 17:46.317 [SPEAKER_00]: That's just how life is. 17:47.570 --> 17:53.515 [SPEAKER_00]: I've read a couple different books on parenting and I know one of the biggest problems is the same thing for dogs. 17:53.555 --> 17:55.897 [SPEAKER_00]: That's why it's so relatable. 17:56.037 --> 18:00.161 [SPEAKER_00]: If you do everything for your kids, they never really learn how to do it. 18:00.221 --> 18:03.804 [SPEAKER_00]: There's tons of studies out there on that. 18:04.464 --> 18:19.118 [SPEAKER_00]: Science studies, reality studies, right, because those two don't always go hand in hand as we know But it's the same thing for dogs, you know, just in general if we're just never expecting things from them They're not as fulfilled like that that freaking pointer today. 18:19.638 --> 18:29.187 [SPEAKER_00]: He was like fired up so excited and I was like man I really wish and I don't know the owners or anything about the dog But I'm like I really hope that the owners 18:30.228 --> 18:38.513 [SPEAKER_00]: see what they have here and realize how incredible this dog is and all the things that you can do with this dog and, you know, I started thinking, man, all these dogs can benefit from that. 18:38.593 --> 18:44.697 [SPEAKER_00]: All these dogs are unfulfilled, all these dogs are bored, you know, and it's really important for us to work them. 18:45.498 --> 18:56.905 [SPEAKER_00]: And, you know, like a 15 minute session of real work and challenges and having the dog think, corrections and payments and good and bad and nope and yes, 18:57.805 --> 19:01.166 [SPEAKER_00]: is much better for the dog than a 30-minute walk. 19:01.747 --> 19:03.247 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, they need to go outside. 19:03.287 --> 19:04.368 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, they need to sniff. 19:04.428 --> 19:06.389 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, they need their exercise physically. 19:06.889 --> 19:11.210 [SPEAKER_00]: But most importantly, on top of all that, they need that challenge. 19:11.290 --> 19:12.371 [SPEAKER_00]: They need to work. 19:12.811 --> 19:18.353 [SPEAKER_00]: These dogs are literally so unfulfilled, and that's why we have all the behavioral problems that we have. 19:18.393 --> 19:24.196 [SPEAKER_00]: Guys, I've been working with dogs that have really bad reactivity, really bad anxiety, 19:27.617 --> 19:37.043 [SPEAKER_00]: And one of the main reasons why that happens, and I'll talk about the other one at some other point, make sure you subscribe, is that they're unfulfilled in their board. 19:37.283 --> 19:40.726 [SPEAKER_00]: They literally are just like think about it, our days in the morning. 19:41.926 --> 19:46.509 [SPEAKER_00]: We let the dog outside and they go potty, or we walk them, they go potty. 19:46.629 --> 19:47.590 [SPEAKER_00]: Great, that's amazing. 19:47.650 --> 19:50.532 [SPEAKER_00]: That's better than not going outside for half an hour before we go to work. 19:50.892 --> 20:01.276 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, you come home or maybe you work from home and then midday or when you get home from work like I would say probably 80% of people Let me know in the comments which which which like how you how you guys have your schedule. 20:01.316 --> 20:05.597 [SPEAKER_00]: I'd love to know But you come home, you know, you're like, okay. 20:05.617 --> 20:06.117 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm hungry. 20:06.137 --> 20:06.838 [SPEAKER_00]: I got to get dinner. 20:06.878 --> 20:07.718 [SPEAKER_00]: I got to get the kids dinner. 20:07.738 --> 20:10.739 [SPEAKER_00]: I got to get my husband and my wife whatever your your your life is 20:11.319 --> 20:21.650 [SPEAKER_00]: And then the dog gets that extra walk and then it's like, okay, these dogs are literally supposed to be getting hours of work a day And now it's come down to maybe an hour outside if they're lucky. 20:21.911 --> 20:23.192 [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe and not for everybody. 20:23.212 --> 20:27.256 [SPEAKER_00]: I know a lot of people like for me I live in a call to sack my dogs are always outside and 20:28.037 --> 20:33.840 [SPEAKER_00]: We go on probably three or four walks, I'm training, I'm filming, I'm they're always active with me and doing stuff. 20:34.381 --> 20:44.266 [SPEAKER_00]: Last night my neighbor brought in my dog because I forgot her outside, you know, that happens often or she's, you know, the Amazon guy won't get out of his car and these beat, you know, that stuff happens all the time. 20:45.367 --> 20:54.812 [SPEAKER_00]: But, you know, my dogs are active as heck and they're outside all the time and I think it's just important for people, you know, if you don't have that lifestyle, you don't have that dog or you don't have that freedom or you don't have that yard. 20:55.692 --> 20:59.394 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, you have more of a responsibility to get out there to really work your dog. 20:59.774 --> 21:05.077 [SPEAKER_00]: And so I'll tell you this, work your dog, challenge your dog, make your dog think. 21:05.677 --> 21:16.363 [SPEAKER_00]: Make your dog actually think about stuff for 15 to 20 minutes and start to see the anxiousness and the fear and potentially even the reactivity and your relationship become better. 21:17.043 --> 21:34.763 [SPEAKER_00]: all the things that you really don't love about your dog and all the things your dog really probably doesn't love doing start to get less or even go away the dog will sleep better the dog will be more fulfilled and happier in life if you start doing these very easy and basic things just by making them think and you guys are smart people 21:35.243 --> 21:38.924 [SPEAKER_00]: get creative, figure out, oh, how can I get my dog to think today? 21:38.984 --> 21:40.304 [SPEAKER_00]: How can I challenge my dog? 21:40.324 --> 21:57.929 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to do this, you know, like make it really advanced to where your dog is actively firing off on all cylinders instead of just being in this zombie state of mind where they're just out for a walk and, you know, they're doing their normal thing and they're going on the same walk and they're doing the same thing. 21:57.969 --> 21:59.169 [SPEAKER_00]: They're not fulfilled. 21:59.209 --> 22:00.890 [SPEAKER_00]: Like these animals are work horses. 22:01.390 --> 22:08.732 [SPEAKER_00]: these animals are Clydesdale, these animals are literally bread and born and developed to work all day and they're not getting it. 22:09.332 --> 22:21.276 [SPEAKER_00]: So even before training or whatever you're doing know that your dog wants more needs more and deserves more and it's really honestly low hanging fruit for you guys to do this. 22:21.356 --> 22:24.697 [SPEAKER_00]: Even if you didn't even go outside you can work your dog just as much. 22:25.557 --> 22:34.328 [SPEAKER_00]: spend 10 15 minute sessions multiple times a day in your dog will significantly get better and all aspects and I hope this was helpful. 22:35.029 --> 22:42.719 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, we're going to keep firing off at least two podcasts a week here on my second YouTube channel and of course 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