WEBVTT 00:00.031 --> 00:07.900 [SPEAKER_00]: Welcome to the Jamie See Show, a soft place to land for visionaries, the feelers, the heart led leaders, rewriting the rules of business. 00:08.220 --> 00:17.170 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Jamie See author, educator, and eight figure founder whose work blends nervous system science subconscious rewiring and story driven strategy. 00:17.410 --> 00:26.680 [SPEAKER_00]: If you know that your work is meant to reach more people, if you crave a business that feels as good in your body as it looks on paper, you are in the right place. 00:26.660 --> 00:30.645 [SPEAKER_00]: Here we go way beyond formulas and we go into the felt. 00:30.985 --> 00:35.630 [SPEAKER_00]: This is business, reimagine through softness, strategy, and soul. 00:36.031 --> 00:36.511 [SPEAKER_00]: Let's begin. 00:37.412 --> 00:42.398 [SPEAKER_00]: When I say ease and having ease, this does not mean you're lazy. 00:42.658 --> 00:47.764 [SPEAKER_00]: This does not mean that you don't deserve things, that you just have to kick your feet up and never work again. 00:47.784 --> 00:53.511 [SPEAKER_00]: Ease in your business, essentially means I'm going to put systems in place that support me. 00:53.744 --> 01:05.043 [SPEAKER_00]: I believe in myself, I believe that I'm worthy and deserving of supporting people without it requiring my mental health being affected, my physical health being affected. 01:05.403 --> 01:12.575 [SPEAKER_00]: It means I have faith and trust that I can take action and no matter what I get on the other side of that, I'm going to be okay. 01:14.859 --> 01:15.921 [SPEAKER_00]: Dear Jamie. 01:16.508 --> 01:20.734 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm having a hard time getting past the whole, my business can be easy and just flow. 01:21.074 --> 01:30.586 [SPEAKER_00]: When I have sales coming in on autopilot, I constantly find myself looking for another platform or strategy because it just can't be that easy. 01:30.607 --> 01:35.473 [SPEAKER_00]: This is actually so common, so common. 01:35.613 --> 01:45.486 [SPEAKER_00]: And the fact that you even had this question is incredibly valid and you're not alone, so many people feel this way. 01:45.685 --> 01:49.291 [SPEAKER_00]: easy money where, oh my gosh, you just made more money. 01:49.351 --> 01:49.832 [SPEAKER_00]: I made more money. 01:49.852 --> 01:50.493 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god, it's up. 01:50.533 --> 02:00.110 [SPEAKER_00]: And then you feel the urgency to be more productive and to fix something that's already working, that's already giving me some indication on what possibly could be happening. 02:00.371 --> 02:01.973 [SPEAKER_00]: One thing I want you to remember is this. 02:02.615 --> 02:05.179 [SPEAKER_00]: So many people have been told. 02:05.463 --> 02:09.110 [SPEAKER_00]: You have to work hard to reach your dreams, you have to work hard. 02:09.130 --> 02:10.132 [SPEAKER_00]: It has to be hard. 02:10.472 --> 02:15.261 [SPEAKER_00]: That is historically been the undercurrent for how you reach your goals. 02:15.582 --> 02:16.183 [SPEAKER_00]: You have to grit. 02:16.263 --> 02:16.984 [SPEAKER_00]: You have to grind. 02:17.044 --> 02:17.706 [SPEAKER_00]: You have to move. 02:17.746 --> 02:18.407 [SPEAKER_00]: You have to do. 02:18.447 --> 02:20.130 [SPEAKER_00]: You have to sacrifice something. 02:20.482 --> 02:35.286 [SPEAKER_00]: And that is just one aspect of it and then on the other side of it, you have to work, you have to grind because if you didn't, are you even worthy and deserving of it, did you even deserve it if you didn't bleed yourself drive for it. 02:35.526 --> 02:43.840 [SPEAKER_00]: And those two pieces together can create the feeling of this has to be a fluke, I feel uncomfortable because am I. 02:43.820 --> 02:47.084 [SPEAKER_00]: worthy if I didn't work really, really hard for this. 02:47.725 --> 02:48.867 [SPEAKER_00]: Do I have to produce more? 02:48.887 --> 02:50.009 [SPEAKER_00]: Do I have to do more? 02:50.049 --> 02:51.871 [SPEAKER_00]: Do I have to over complicate this? 02:51.971 --> 02:52.993 [SPEAKER_00]: Do I have to end? 02:53.433 --> 02:55.316 [SPEAKER_00]: This is just one of the most common things. 02:55.957 --> 03:01.484 [SPEAKER_00]: And when I say ease and having ease, this does not mean you're lazy. 03:01.925 --> 03:04.308 [SPEAKER_00]: This does not mean that you don't deserve things. 03:04.348 --> 03:11.498 [SPEAKER_00]: That you just have to kick your feet up and never work again. 03:12.035 --> 03:14.178 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to put systems in place that support me. 03:14.759 --> 03:15.961 [SPEAKER_00]: I believe in myself. 03:16.481 --> 03:26.235 [SPEAKER_00]: I believe that I'm worthy in deserving of supporting people without it requiring my mental health being affected, my physical health being affected. 03:27.156 --> 03:35.208 [SPEAKER_00]: And it means I have faith and trust that I can take action and no matter what I get on the other side of that, I'm going to be okay. 03:35.228 --> 03:36.169 [SPEAKER_00]: That is East. 03:36.503 --> 03:45.232 [SPEAKER_00]: And that is not coming from the historical hustle mode, which is pure adrenaline, pure stress response. 03:45.732 --> 03:53.941 [SPEAKER_00]: And when you are running from adrenaline and stress response that doing the grind, the grind, the grind, you'll often feel this when you're slowing down. 03:53.981 --> 04:00.007 [SPEAKER_00]: You're actually feeling it right now when you would said, things are working, things are working and then you feel like you have to go do something else. 04:00.087 --> 04:04.992 [SPEAKER_00]: That's the stress response coming up because the body remembers this is how we operate. 04:05.393 --> 04:09.901 [SPEAKER_00]: But when you are having that stress response, that's meant to be short term. 04:10.102 --> 04:11.965 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not meant to be the way you operate forever. 04:12.486 --> 04:20.321 [SPEAKER_00]: When you have that burst of cortisol that stress response, that is the gas pedal, right? 04:20.341 --> 04:21.723 [SPEAKER_00]: That's the energy moving forward. 04:21.743 --> 04:23.807 [SPEAKER_00]: That's not meant to be the way that you're meant to operate. 04:24.074 --> 04:26.258 [SPEAKER_00]: the entire time in your business. 04:26.639 --> 04:38.421 [SPEAKER_00]: Also from the adrenaline and stress response where people are actually mostly running their businesses through, I would say that most of them would say to me, I'm afraid of slowing down. 04:38.738 --> 05:04.122 [SPEAKER_00]: Because how am I going to make more money, how am I going to do things are going to work if I'm not constantly productive and not doing things because there's the belief that everything that you do is tied to an outcome now while some of that brings true yes what I would often say is that the real thing underneath is so many people are driven and creating this motivation from a stress response. 05:04.287 --> 05:10.516 [SPEAKER_00]: And that stress response, that motivation is not actually the way where men's operate, like I had mentioned before. 05:11.438 --> 05:20.811 [SPEAKER_00]: And a lot of times when we take that away, their body starts to feel relaxed a little bit more, what ends up happening is the fear is how am I going to stay motivated, how am I going to stay consistent? 05:21.252 --> 05:32.809 [SPEAKER_00]: If I don't have that constant adrenaline that constant push to do and to perform and to create and to make money and to grind, and then to get this temporary relief on the other side 05:33.059 --> 05:52.570 [SPEAKER_00]: When I have to stop, and the reality is that when you are actually in a regulated space, your body feels safe, you are actually in a completely different energetic space where you are so much more well-resourced, you are so much more consistent, you are so much more available, to higher level thinking to 05:52.550 --> 06:21.544 [SPEAKER_00]: the availability of thought, the availability of resources, taking action differently, there's a completely different well resource space, and I see it again and again in my clients, they're like, oh my God, I can't even believe I spent years operating from that, and now look at how much better I feel, look how much more efficient I am, look at how much more well rested I am, look at my healthy I am, and it's just one of the most incredible things to recognize that you don't have to operate 06:21.845 --> 06:23.147 [SPEAKER_00]: that space anymore. 06:23.627 --> 06:32.420 [SPEAKER_00]: So when you feel the urgency, that is the stress response, that is the body remembering the old way that it used to operate. 06:32.520 --> 06:38.848 [SPEAKER_00]: And also, I just would love to have you inquire if it was easy, what am I making that mean about myself? 06:39.329 --> 06:41.712 [SPEAKER_00]: What story am I associating with? 06:42.253 --> 06:42.934 [SPEAKER_00]: Did I deserve it? 06:42.954 --> 06:45.177 [SPEAKER_00]: Is there someone else's voice coming up? 06:45.718 --> 06:46.359 [SPEAKER_00]: Who's story? 06:46.399 --> 06:47.821 [SPEAKER_00]: Was it that it has to be hard? 06:48.141 --> 06:51.666 [SPEAKER_00]: Because I could probably tell you that you did not come out of the room thinking 06:51.933 --> 06:55.218 [SPEAKER_00]: You don't come out of the room thinking that you had a hustle and grind and do and do and do and do. 06:55.238 --> 07:03.332 [SPEAKER_00]: It is your birthright to have ease, to have trust in yourself, to be able to enjoy what you have built. 07:03.772 --> 07:06.717 [SPEAKER_00]: And like I said, it doesn't mean that you're never going to work in your business again. 07:07.298 --> 07:09.983 [SPEAKER_00]: But an automated sale is a success. 07:10.483 --> 07:11.605 [SPEAKER_00]: It deserves a celebration. 07:11.625 --> 07:17.535 [SPEAKER_00]: It deserves a pad on the back for you building the thing that's working. 07:17.752 --> 07:19.434 [SPEAKER_00]: Like how fucking cool is that? 07:19.994 --> 07:20.575 [SPEAKER_00]: You did that. 07:21.076 --> 07:21.656 [SPEAKER_00]: You built that. 07:22.357 --> 07:22.557 [SPEAKER_00]: You. 07:23.138 --> 07:24.499 [SPEAKER_00]: And I think that that's really amazing. 07:24.800 --> 07:35.071 [SPEAKER_00]: So just to recap, anytime you're feeling that urgency, instead of going and doing the thing and instead of immediately wanting to acknowledge it, pause, find safety in the body. 07:36.032 --> 07:38.795 [SPEAKER_00]: And then I just want you to acknowledge what you've built. 07:39.896 --> 07:41.157 [SPEAKER_00]: I really want you to sit with that. 07:41.998 --> 07:45.142 [SPEAKER_00]: I really want you to recognize because not a lot of people will do that. 07:45.302 --> 07:47.404 [SPEAKER_00]: Not a lot of people will sit 07:47.654 --> 07:52.685 [SPEAKER_00]: and have it work through the way it's working. 07:53.206 --> 07:53.707 [SPEAKER_00]: Let it work. 07:54.308 --> 07:57.435 [SPEAKER_00]: Let yourself be provided for, let yourself be held. 07:57.455 --> 08:02.305 [SPEAKER_00]: It's exactly what having a freedom-based business is all about and you just hurt that. 08:02.605 --> 08:03.426 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I want to hear from you. 08:03.947 --> 08:05.330 [SPEAKER_00]: I love reading your comments. 08:05.350 --> 08:09.416 [SPEAKER_00]: I love understanding and knowing what you took from these episodes. 08:09.456 --> 08:14.765 [SPEAKER_00]: It's really important for me to know that it's positively affecting you in some way. 08:15.226 --> 08:17.950 [SPEAKER_00]: So what I would love for you to do is be able to comment below. 08:17.970 --> 08:22.538 [SPEAKER_00]: I believe that you are ready to let go of when it comes to working hard. 08:22.518 --> 08:34.519 [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe you're ready to let go of that you deserve it because you worked hard or maybe you're ready to let go of the belief that everything in your business has to feel hard or that it has to kind of be painful the entire way through. 08:34.752 --> 08:37.236 [SPEAKER_00]: Let me know what you're ready to let go of, celebrate that. 08:38.158 --> 08:49.497 [SPEAKER_00]: And if you have a question on business, mindset, wealth, subconscious nervous system, any birding questions, you can go into the show in us below and you could submit your question there. 08:50.219 --> 08:56.550 [SPEAKER_00]: And hopefully your question will be the next one that I answer on next week's to your genius. 08:57.651 --> 08:57.992 [SPEAKER_00]: Love ya.