WEBVTT 00:00.453 --> 00:02.796 [SPEAKER_01]: I think you're gonna have a soft Renaissance one day. 00:02.896 --> 00:04.798 [SPEAKER_03]: Colby came on my date on Thursday. 00:04.818 --> 00:05.178 [SPEAKER_02]: I did. 00:05.358 --> 00:07.120 [SPEAKER_02]: Adam was on Slack at prom. 00:07.140 --> 00:08.842 [SPEAKER_02]: He was on Slack at prom. 00:09.042 --> 00:10.824 [SPEAKER_03]: I was getting Slack at prom. 00:10.884 --> 00:11.545 [SPEAKER_03]: I didn't have a choice. 00:11.565 --> 00:16.671 [SPEAKER_03]: At that point, Colby was entertaining my date and I was just like, off to the races, doing a bunch of shit. 00:21.376 --> 00:28.924 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 00:29.427 --> 00:31.531 [SPEAKER_03]: Katie situated, Colby situated. 00:31.571 --> 00:32.573 [SPEAKER_01]: It's situated. 00:32.593 --> 00:33.895 [SPEAKER_03]: The girls are situated. 00:33.915 --> 00:35.017 [SPEAKER_01]: Adam situated. 00:35.057 --> 00:35.999 [SPEAKER_03]: Adam situated. 00:36.099 --> 00:37.522 [SPEAKER_03]: I like the hunchback of Notre Dame right now. 00:38.263 --> 00:39.505 [SPEAKER_03]: I keep seeing all these ads. 00:40.026 --> 00:42.230 [SPEAKER_03]: I think it's really like clicking on one of them because I'm obsessed with it now. 00:42.411 --> 00:43.613 [SPEAKER_02]: Tell it your microphone on her thing. 00:44.014 --> 00:45.216 [SPEAKER_02]: Yes, it's a toss of shard. 00:45.376 --> 00:45.516 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 00:45.556 --> 00:46.178 [SPEAKER_02]: Tell it your microphone. 00:46.298 --> 00:46.979 [SPEAKER_02]: I want one too. 00:47.460 --> 00:48.502 [SPEAKER_02]: I feel like I need one. 00:48.782 --> 00:50.305 [SPEAKER_03]: I really want a toss of shardness. 00:50.757 --> 00:53.662 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, I've seen that there's some that literally buzz you if you. 00:53.883 --> 00:55.726 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, is that what you're talking about? 00:56.087 --> 00:57.369 [SPEAKER_03]: This is the one that I'm thinking of. 00:57.409 --> 01:01.095 [SPEAKER_03]: It's like this strap that you put over your both of your shoulders. 01:01.156 --> 01:02.458 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, you wear it, physically wear it. 01:02.839 --> 01:08.108 [SPEAKER_03]: And it is so tight around your shoulders that I guess forces you to be pulled back. 01:08.189 --> 01:10.858 [SPEAKER_01]: Have you seen the show company retreat? 01:11.460 --> 01:11.660 [SPEAKER_01]: No. 01:12.403 --> 01:13.185 [SPEAKER_01]: But do you know what it is? 01:13.366 --> 01:13.687 [SPEAKER_03]: I don't. 01:13.988 --> 01:21.051 [SPEAKER_02]: It's a separate show then the second series or second season of jury duty, which is like a company retreat. 01:21.335 --> 01:25.541 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a spin-off from the makers of jury duty. 01:25.581 --> 01:35.496 [SPEAKER_01]: The show where the guy, there's like one actual guy on the show and everyone else is an actor, but it's unbeknownst to him because he thinks that everyone is like a real person. 01:35.516 --> 01:39.782 [SPEAKER_01]: And so they, the same show, spin-off, but it's a company retreat. 01:40.483 --> 01:43.408 [SPEAKER_02]: So I've had a really hard time and I need to watch it. 01:43.448 --> 01:49.637 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm bringing it just understanding why how this person doesn't now. 01:49.752 --> 01:52.578 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, like why are they filming? 01:53.139 --> 02:01.136 [SPEAKER_01]: So the reason why I even bring it up is because there's a character on the show who, of course, the guy Anthony, the guy that, is his name Anthony? 02:01.317 --> 02:02.159 [SPEAKER_01]: Or is that from the first season? 02:02.199 --> 02:02.459 [SPEAKER_01]: Whatever. 02:02.499 --> 02:05.145 [SPEAKER_01]: The guy that doesn't know that everyone's an actor, 02:05.125 --> 02:08.911 [SPEAKER_01]: thinks that this girl is wearing one of those things. 02:09.011 --> 02:13.959 [SPEAKER_01]: That like the posture character, but it's a like it sends like a shock. 02:14.580 --> 02:23.775 [SPEAKER_01]: Like it's she's wearing it on her shirt and if it like senses that she's slouching it shocks her and so then she said straight and that's like part of her character description. 02:23.755 --> 02:30.647 [SPEAKER_01]: But the reason why he, in this series, didn't, or I guess like I believe he didn't know. 02:30.768 --> 02:37.460 [SPEAKER_01]: Like I genuinely feel like this guy had absolutely no idea and he was genuinely kind of devastated when he found out that everyone was an actor. 02:37.740 --> 02:41.106 [SPEAKER_01]: But the reason why they were filming was because 02:41.086 --> 02:51.848 [SPEAKER_01]: They reached out to him as a temp to temporarily assist at the company for their annual company retreat that they were going to be doing a documentary. 02:51.888 --> 03:01.187 [SPEAKER_01]: This company reached out to this hot sauce brand and was like, we want to do a documentary about small businesses on company retreats. 03:01.167 --> 03:10.324 [SPEAKER_02]: And so it's a documentary because I was thinking also about like the paperwork and everything that he would have to sign off on They're like releases to be able to get in the air for us. 03:10.925 --> 03:18.079 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, yeah, but I was like there is no way that this man Just like walked into this and didn't know 03:18.059 --> 03:19.722 [SPEAKER_02]: No, he was being recorded. 03:20.403 --> 03:27.295 [SPEAKER_01]: Obviously, he knew it was being recorded, but like on a TV show, the job description Included the fact that there was going to be a documentary film. 03:27.355 --> 03:29.979 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, and so he knew he was going into the sense. 03:29.999 --> 03:37.532 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, oh, I'm going on this company retreat with his hot sauce brand called rock and grandma's and They're doing a documentary about this brand and the retreat. 03:37.692 --> 03:39.375 [SPEAKER_03]: I literally not even heard about this 03:39.423 --> 03:41.149 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, it's unbelievable. 03:41.169 --> 03:42.012 [SPEAKER_01]: Did you like a jewelry duty? 03:42.032 --> 03:42.574 [SPEAKER_03]: No. 03:42.795 --> 03:45.123 [SPEAKER_01]: You should watch it on a spoilet, but like you need to watch it. 03:45.143 --> 03:49.618 [SPEAKER_02]: Is there a random celebrity in this one as well? 03:50.071 --> 03:50.712 [SPEAKER_01]: What is it? 03:51.293 --> 03:55.419 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not telling you why it's not like, oh really? 03:55.439 --> 03:56.821 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, okay, I guess not. 03:56.841 --> 03:58.003 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, it's been on social media. 03:58.123 --> 04:00.887 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, it's like, isn't the cast available? 04:01.028 --> 04:04.833 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, okay, if you don't want to be spoiled who the celebrity guest is skip like 15 seconds. 04:05.094 --> 04:06.075 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, I'll give you a second. 04:06.095 --> 04:06.816 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, it's sea. 04:07.678 --> 04:08.319 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, okay. 04:08.459 --> 04:08.699 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 04:09.080 --> 04:10.923 [SPEAKER_01]: And so she performs like chandelier. 04:11.283 --> 04:11.704 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, she isn't. 04:11.764 --> 04:12.585 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes. 04:12.565 --> 04:23.480 [SPEAKER_01]: She's going to swing in on her chandelier and see what are you doing here and see as like I just went through this really expensive divorce and so She's working at the company now. 04:24.201 --> 04:34.675 [SPEAKER_01]: No, she performed and This company that was trying that there's this whole storyline about the I'm not going to spoil it like fully because you do need to like watch it okay 04:34.655 --> 04:43.207 [SPEAKER_01]: but she got hired by someone with money to perform at the company retreat and she accepted the offer because she's going through an expensive divorce. 04:43.347 --> 04:46.532 [SPEAKER_01]: But I actually was doing some reading and she actually is going through an expensive divorce. 04:47.012 --> 04:50.337 [SPEAKER_01]: So she did need, yeah. 04:50.778 --> 04:53.862 [SPEAKER_01]: No, it's honestly so good and it like restores your faith in humanity. 04:54.062 --> 05:02.214 [SPEAKER_01]: Like you need to show that makes you feel good about the world, especially given the current situations of like social media feeling unsufferable right now. 05:02.234 --> 05:02.814 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, I feel like. 05:02.995 --> 05:03.936 [SPEAKER_03]: Is it going to make me cry? 05:04.253 --> 05:05.615 [SPEAKER_01]: I tear it up at the end. 05:05.735 --> 05:09.702 [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, then I'll be literally flabbering, which is flabbering. 05:09.722 --> 05:10.984 [SPEAKER_01]: I like fully tear it up. 05:11.084 --> 05:12.386 [SPEAKER_01]: Anyway, how you be recommend to me? 05:12.406 --> 05:14.089 [SPEAKER_03]: We do one episode or some of those love sets. 05:14.109 --> 05:15.371 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like six episodes or something. 05:15.391 --> 05:16.553 [SPEAKER_02]: It's like a mini-serious. 05:16.913 --> 05:17.254 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 05:17.274 --> 05:19.077 [SPEAKER_03]: And you didn't start to read that started. 05:19.217 --> 05:19.698 [SPEAKER_02]: No, I haven't. 05:19.958 --> 05:21.480 [SPEAKER_02]: I watched jury duty. 05:21.500 --> 05:22.402 [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, okay, okay. 05:22.422 --> 05:23.824 [SPEAKER_02]: But I didn't watch this one. 05:24.525 --> 05:27.510 [SPEAKER_02]: I loved jury duty, and I loved James Marston. 05:27.862 --> 05:31.286 [SPEAKER_01]: Me too, so I think I believe James Marston helped on this one as well. 05:31.607 --> 05:38.675 [SPEAKER_01]: I'd like helped with the production or something, I don't, I think I saw his name in the credits. 05:38.955 --> 05:39.196 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 05:39.456 --> 05:46.104 [SPEAKER_02]: I know it makes sense, because I think he was like a part of the making of the first one. 05:46.144 --> 05:48.107 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, he probably funded it on his way. 05:48.807 --> 05:49.608 [SPEAKER_03]: Okay, we can watch this night. 05:50.149 --> 05:50.930 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, thank you guys. 05:50.990 --> 05:52.332 [SPEAKER_02]: You guys should watch that. 05:52.492 --> 05:54.274 [SPEAKER_02]: I also want to watch the Noah Con. 05:54.592 --> 05:56.534 [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, my mom texted my group chat last night. 05:56.554 --> 05:58.136 [SPEAKER_03]: It's like you won't need 12 to stock your memory. 05:59.437 --> 06:00.758 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I've been wanting to watch that. 06:01.439 --> 06:06.404 [SPEAKER_02]: And I'm waiting patiently for the rumored Justin Bieber documentary. 06:07.024 --> 06:08.406 [SPEAKER_01]: Did you see cameras when you were there? 06:09.487 --> 06:11.128 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, like, I'm sure you saw cameras. 06:11.188 --> 06:14.392 [SPEAKER_01]: But then he, like, obvious documentary film cameras. 06:14.412 --> 06:16.193 [SPEAKER_02]: Like documentary film cameras. 06:16.233 --> 06:19.857 [SPEAKER_02]: But there were, I mean, he was on camera the entire time. 06:19.837 --> 06:35.770 [SPEAKER_02]: true and like it's streamed so I think a lot of the dock you footage is probably like from backstage and like the leading up to it and I think those two pop-up shows they didn't let people bring their phones in. 06:36.644 --> 06:41.212 [SPEAKER_01]: So they have a lot of content to work with. 06:41.252 --> 06:46.461 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, there was a lot of the lead-up and then of the actual set in being there. 06:46.702 --> 06:50.288 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm sure it was mostly backstage and then they'll use the stream. 06:50.368 --> 06:55.277 [SPEAKER_03]: I feel like I did see some random content from the one where they didn't let people bring their phones in. 06:55.257 --> 06:56.781 [SPEAKER_03]: Didn't you see content on TikTok? 06:56.801 --> 07:03.115 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I saw, like some people did somehow get videos, were they wearing metaglasses? 07:03.175 --> 07:08.808 [SPEAKER_03]: They must have been doing something because it was like very clear and as if somebody was hired to record it. 07:10.071 --> 07:11.815 [SPEAKER_02]: Well Justin posted stuff. 07:12.385 --> 07:13.066 [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, okay. 07:13.086 --> 07:13.868 [SPEAKER_03]: Maybe that's what I thought. 07:13.888 --> 07:17.354 [SPEAKER_02]: But I know people who just didn't have clearance. 07:17.374 --> 07:24.466 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, we're not people who like were there and I saw footage from them and I don't know how they got their videos. 07:24.726 --> 07:29.755 [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe like one person was allowed to film from the team and then they air dropped it to everybody. 07:29.996 --> 07:35.946 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, okay, you you get the approved video that you can post air dropped. 07:37.040 --> 07:46.150 [SPEAKER_02]: social media I know somebody else who was there and she sent me a video because she posted from the outside and she was like obviously can't post and don't send this around. 07:46.590 --> 07:48.872 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh my god, some people did have their phones. 07:48.992 --> 07:49.253 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 07:50.074 --> 07:50.774 [SPEAKER_01]: Wow. 07:51.635 --> 07:52.216 [SPEAKER_01]: Journalists. 07:52.596 --> 07:52.937 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 07:53.657 --> 07:53.938 [SPEAKER_01]: So. 07:54.919 --> 07:55.699 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, jealous. 07:56.320 --> 07:59.043 [SPEAKER_01]: I remember last week we forgot to do the intro. 07:59.243 --> 08:01.005 [SPEAKER_03]: We did. 08:01.323 --> 08:02.065 [SPEAKER_01]: Or was it the week before? 08:02.406 --> 08:03.288 [SPEAKER_01]: No, it's the last week. 08:03.308 --> 08:03.990 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, you texted. 08:04.070 --> 08:04.632 [SPEAKER_01]: You said that. 08:04.732 --> 08:05.454 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 08:05.574 --> 08:08.242 [SPEAKER_01]: Because when I was editing it, I was like waiting for it. 08:08.282 --> 08:09.345 [SPEAKER_01]: And it just never. 08:09.405 --> 08:10.788 [SPEAKER_03]: That's crazy. 08:10.809 --> 08:12.834 [SPEAKER_03]: I thought we were even front to the intro on a really long time. 08:12.854 --> 08:14.418 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but no one called us out to my knowledge. 08:14.498 --> 08:15.822 [SPEAKER_01]: So maybe no one's paying attention. 08:15.852 --> 08:21.158 [SPEAKER_03]: Well, welcome back to another episode and match me to meet me with Katie Colby and Adam, girls, how are we doing? 08:21.178 --> 08:21.859 [SPEAKER_03]: Pretty darn good. 08:21.879 --> 08:22.880 [SPEAKER_01]: Pretty darn good. 08:22.960 --> 08:23.821 [SPEAKER_03]: Pretty darn good. 08:23.841 --> 08:27.505 [SPEAKER_01]: Pretty darn good, um, prom, I feel like we need to recap. 08:27.525 --> 08:31.109 [SPEAKER_03]: Guys, I was in the office today, everybody came up with me and they were like, you're weekend-fluked so fun. 08:31.370 --> 08:32.411 [SPEAKER_01]: They were like, so fun. 08:32.431 --> 08:33.993 [SPEAKER_03]: They were like, first of all, were you in a diner? 08:34.273 --> 08:36.115 [SPEAKER_03]: Second of all, can we come next time? 08:36.135 --> 08:39.219 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't think that there can be a next time. 08:39.659 --> 08:40.580 [SPEAKER_02]: Like, that's the thing. 08:40.620 --> 08:42.923 [SPEAKER_02]: I said this going into it. 08:43.240 --> 08:56.659 [SPEAKER_02]: to my old roommate, who we were planning together, I said to her, I was like, everybody who doesn't come is going to be like, oh my god, that looked so fine. 08:56.699 --> 08:59.503 [SPEAKER_02]: Can't, like, you have to do it again. 08:59.523 --> 09:04.229 [SPEAKER_02]: And it just isn't event that cannot be replicated in my opinion. 09:04.289 --> 09:06.112 [SPEAKER_01]: Like I just knew as you lose sort of thing. 09:06.172 --> 09:08.415 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, like it happened. 09:09.396 --> 09:10.258 [SPEAKER_01]: It was beautiful. 09:10.278 --> 09:11.239 [SPEAKER_02]: You were there. 09:11.219 --> 09:19.874 [SPEAKER_03]: See, I think you should do it as an annual event, but like you only ever get a couple of prompts of your day. 09:19.914 --> 09:22.899 [SPEAKER_00]: You only ever get a couple of different themes. 09:23.861 --> 09:26.466 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, we'll go back to Christmas. 09:28.008 --> 09:28.770 [SPEAKER_01]: Here's an idea. 09:28.810 --> 09:31.354 [SPEAKER_01]: What if we do a graduation? 09:32.330 --> 09:33.952 [SPEAKER_01]: And we all work haps and gowns. 09:35.154 --> 09:36.696 [SPEAKER_01]: You would all look so ugly. 09:36.716 --> 09:37.397 [SPEAKER_01]: That's true. 09:37.457 --> 09:39.079 [SPEAKER_01]: Those hats look good. 09:39.279 --> 09:40.341 [SPEAKER_01]: Problem is so ugly. 09:40.681 --> 09:42.243 [SPEAKER_01]: No one, let's be freaking real. 09:42.363 --> 09:43.665 [SPEAKER_01]: No one looks good in those hats. 09:43.785 --> 09:44.266 [SPEAKER_01]: No. 09:44.326 --> 09:45.808 [SPEAKER_01]: They're so hideous. 09:45.948 --> 09:46.769 [SPEAKER_03]: I think I looked amazing. 09:46.809 --> 09:47.370 [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not gonna lie. 09:48.231 --> 09:49.633 [SPEAKER_03]: I was decked to the nines. 09:50.194 --> 09:53.318 [SPEAKER_03]: I looked awful on every photo from any graduation. 09:53.378 --> 09:54.580 [SPEAKER_02]: I forgot graduation. 09:54.880 --> 09:55.761 [SPEAKER_03]: I looked like a Pharaoh. 09:55.982 --> 09:59.106 [SPEAKER_03]: I had like 16 medals on all the little cords. 09:59.366 --> 10:00.868 [SPEAKER_02]: But we're talking about the cap. 10:01.304 --> 10:03.089 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, no, the whole thing looked amazing on me. 10:03.430 --> 10:03.691 [SPEAKER_01]: All right. 10:03.711 --> 10:04.774 [SPEAKER_03]: Like, I just like looked. 10:05.295 --> 10:06.920 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, you're just built different than I was. 10:06.940 --> 10:07.862 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, no. 10:07.963 --> 10:12.074 [SPEAKER_01]: Our color of our gowns at our high school was mustard yellow. 10:12.114 --> 10:13.879 [SPEAKER_03]: Thought it was navy and gold. 10:14.872 --> 10:15.933 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, you know what? 10:16.314 --> 10:17.255 [SPEAKER_01]: Let's discuss this. 10:17.676 --> 10:19.057 [SPEAKER_03]: The girls were in her room. 10:19.077 --> 10:20.079 [SPEAKER_01]: The girls were in her room. 10:20.099 --> 10:21.901 [SPEAKER_01]: We wore mustard yellow. 10:21.941 --> 10:24.484 [SPEAKER_01]: The boys got to wear navy. 10:24.845 --> 10:25.466 [SPEAKER_03]: I wasn't navy. 10:25.646 --> 10:26.166 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sorry. 10:26.207 --> 10:27.368 [SPEAKER_01]: That's fruit. 10:27.388 --> 10:27.989 [SPEAKER_01]: That's sexist. 10:28.249 --> 10:31.253 [SPEAKER_02]: Honestly, it was her white and the boys were blue. 10:32.294 --> 10:34.778 [SPEAKER_02]: But it was like royal blue, not navy. 10:34.918 --> 10:36.059 [SPEAKER_02]: Which might do navy now. 10:36.099 --> 10:36.700 [SPEAKER_02]: You wore white? 10:37.080 --> 10:37.361 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 10:37.381 --> 10:39.203 [SPEAKER_02]: Wait, that's beautiful. 10:39.984 --> 10:42.988 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, we looked not good though. 10:42.968 --> 10:45.052 [SPEAKER_02]: I bet you could look good though with a tan. 10:45.994 --> 10:52.907 [SPEAKER_02]: I did not look good, but we wore white dresses under them too, which was cute. 10:52.987 --> 10:53.628 [SPEAKER_02]: That's cute. 10:53.748 --> 10:55.331 [SPEAKER_03]: We don't be so sad if you don't have another problem. 10:55.351 --> 10:56.353 [SPEAKER_03]: I feel like you need to. 10:57.127 --> 11:00.492 [SPEAKER_01]: No, but it was so fun. 11:00.512 --> 11:02.775 [SPEAKER_01]: But a lot went into it from Colby's point of view. 11:02.795 --> 11:03.917 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, you did a lot of work. 11:04.498 --> 11:06.801 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, like, do you feel like your work paid off? 11:07.202 --> 11:08.504 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, so it was so fun. 11:08.564 --> 11:15.214 [SPEAKER_02]: And there was just so much build-up to it because we had been wanting to do that for literally three plus years. 11:16.075 --> 11:18.499 [SPEAKER_02]: And then we finally did it, and it was amazing. 11:18.519 --> 11:19.661 [SPEAKER_01]: How did you find the venue? 11:20.181 --> 11:20.962 [SPEAKER_01]: Empire diner. 11:21.283 --> 11:22.124 [SPEAKER_01]: No, square diner. 11:22.264 --> 11:22.945 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, square diner. 11:22.965 --> 11:24.968 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, Empire diner is the other diner over here. 11:25.028 --> 11:26.070 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 11:26.050 --> 11:27.633 [SPEAKER_02]: the square diner. 11:27.653 --> 11:30.078 [SPEAKER_02]: We use to live around the corner. 11:30.158 --> 11:31.460 [SPEAKER_02]: We used to go there all the time. 11:31.500 --> 11:34.967 [SPEAKER_02]: And one night we walked by and saw that somebody was having a birthday party there. 11:35.027 --> 11:39.916 [SPEAKER_02]: And we were just like, if we ever actually do the prom, we have to do it there. 11:40.598 --> 11:42.321 [SPEAKER_02]: And then we were kind of... 11:42.352 --> 11:59.938 [SPEAKER_02]: noodling on different venues and thinking about places to outreach to and did kind of look into some other places but we just were like we gotta we gotta do it and honestly the deal that they give you is kind of insane like 11:59.918 --> 12:10.432 [SPEAKER_02]: We got the menu of food items that we could choose from, and we could choose up to 10 for them to serve all night, and it wasn't like a buffet. 12:10.472 --> 12:22.247 [SPEAKER_02]: You could order your own orders of whatever you wanted from that menu of 10 things, and it's $125 a person for four hours of unlimited food and a full open bar. 12:23.003 --> 12:32.288 [SPEAKER_01]: unreal and they they had good alcohol like it wasn't like it thought I'm shocked like it was good like the drinks were like I was fucked up but I wasn't hung over 12:32.639 --> 12:35.243 [SPEAKER_03]: Okay, I'm seeing right when we got six months of mozzarella sticks. 12:35.544 --> 12:36.185 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, that's fine. 12:36.205 --> 12:37.768 [SPEAKER_03]: Okay, it's 78 chicken nuggets. 12:37.788 --> 12:42.296 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, I'm upset because I kept ordering mozzarella sticks and then I would walk away. 12:42.316 --> 12:46.964 [SPEAKER_02]: I never had mozzarella stick and I think I had half of a chicken bingers the whole time. 12:47.104 --> 12:50.169 [SPEAKER_01]: I was the one eating all the water. 12:50.189 --> 12:52.333 [SPEAKER_01]: I just wanted them on using those cigars. 12:52.353 --> 12:54.276 [SPEAKER_01]: They were so good. 12:54.677 --> 12:55.899 [SPEAKER_01]: I love marinara. 12:55.999 --> 12:58.343 [SPEAKER_01]: Like marinara might be my favorite sauce. 12:59.150 --> 13:01.335 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, we're so late for getting to eat. 13:01.676 --> 13:02.578 [SPEAKER_01]: What's your favorite sauce? 13:02.879 --> 13:03.981 [SPEAKER_03]: Ah, sauce, chulula. 13:04.503 --> 13:05.004 [SPEAKER_01]: Chulula. 13:05.204 --> 13:06.046 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, it's my favorite sauce. 13:06.247 --> 13:09.154 [SPEAKER_01]: Kobe doesn't like sauce, but you know, my favorite sauce is like olive oil. 13:09.855 --> 13:10.497 [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, my God. 13:10.537 --> 13:11.199 [SPEAKER_03]: You're insane. 13:12.401 --> 13:13.484 [SPEAKER_01]: I wouldn't advertise that. 13:13.805 --> 13:14.366 [SPEAKER_03]: Alright, love. 13:14.526 --> 13:15.288 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, I love sauce. 13:15.950 --> 13:16.872 [SPEAKER_02]: Fresh lemon. 13:17.493 --> 13:18.274 [SPEAKER_03]: That's not a sauce for that. 13:18.294 --> 13:20.699 [SPEAKER_02]: See, those are dressings, or oils. 13:21.500 --> 13:21.681 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 13:22.101 --> 13:22.562 [SPEAKER_02]: That's right. 13:22.723 --> 13:23.544 [SPEAKER_02]: A sauce to me. 13:23.584 --> 13:24.346 [SPEAKER_02]: One day. 13:24.366 --> 13:24.666 [SPEAKER_01]: One day. 13:24.686 --> 13:26.930 [SPEAKER_01]: The only thing that I use sauce for. 13:26.950 --> 13:33.182 [SPEAKER_01]: I think you're going to have a sauce Renaissance one day and one day you will discover the beauty of sauce. 13:34.083 --> 13:35.045 [SPEAKER_01]: It will happen. 13:35.145 --> 13:36.267 [SPEAKER_03]: It will happen. 13:36.287 --> 13:36.768 [SPEAKER_03]: It will happen. 13:37.029 --> 13:37.510 [SPEAKER_03]: It will happen. 13:38.491 --> 13:38.792 [SPEAKER_01]: It will happen. 13:39.262 --> 13:43.966 [SPEAKER_03]: Like, oh my god, like, Dijon mustard that's like the little, like, mustard seeds exclusively. 13:43.986 --> 13:44.887 [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm talking about? 13:45.067 --> 13:46.689 [SPEAKER_01]: See, I'm not a Dijon girl. 13:46.709 --> 13:47.529 [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, you're not a Dijon girl. 13:47.549 --> 13:48.230 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not a Dijon girl. 13:48.250 --> 13:51.273 [SPEAKER_01]: Speaking of Dijon, did you listen to his discography? 13:51.493 --> 13:52.314 [SPEAKER_01]: But I shared it. 13:52.434 --> 13:57.779 [SPEAKER_01]: Colby sent some required listening of Dijon, the musician that I do know. 13:57.819 --> 13:58.860 [SPEAKER_01]: That song Dress. 13:59.020 --> 13:59.841 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, it's so good. 14:00.301 --> 14:01.622 [SPEAKER_01]: That song came out a few years ago. 14:01.662 --> 14:02.683 [SPEAKER_01]: I've had that on my playlist. 14:02.703 --> 14:05.345 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, yeah, it's a good, so, yeah, I'm kind of a head of the curve. 14:06.406 --> 14:06.507 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 14:06.527 --> 14:08.188 [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, I can tell you who Dijon is. 14:09.485 --> 14:11.608 [SPEAKER_02]: We had a full conversation about him last week. 14:12.009 --> 14:12.429 [SPEAKER_03]: You and I did. 14:12.970 --> 14:13.851 [SPEAKER_00]: On the podcast. 14:15.353 --> 14:18.999 [SPEAKER_00]: Adam's one brain cell, like trying to remember what we talk about. 14:19.059 --> 14:20.841 [SPEAKER_01]: That's quite all right. 14:20.861 --> 14:22.524 [SPEAKER_02]: That's quite all right. 14:22.584 --> 14:23.706 [SPEAKER_01]: What was your speaking of songs? 14:23.746 --> 14:25.789 [SPEAKER_01]: What was your favorite song that played at prom? 14:26.850 --> 14:28.152 [SPEAKER_01]: The playlist was fire, by the way. 14:28.300 --> 14:28.781 [SPEAKER_02]: Thank you. 14:28.801 --> 14:31.746 [SPEAKER_02]: I can distribute it if I didn't already. 14:31.806 --> 14:34.371 [SPEAKER_03]: I've been listening to it non-stop. 14:34.551 --> 14:35.052 [SPEAKER_02]: It's so good. 14:35.653 --> 14:50.680 [SPEAKER_02]: I mean, honestly just because of like the moment when E85 by Dante Oliver came on and I figured out how to turn up the volume was like amazing and 14:50.862 --> 15:12.820 [SPEAKER_02]: thought I feel like it's when people like really started dancing um but then also the climb that was going to take a climb that moment I had like full body chills I swear somebody was taking a video during it because I think I looked up and like saw a phone we I saw that yeah but there was a flash I've never seen it I think it was a boy 15:12.800 --> 15:14.462 [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, it wasn't me. 15:14.623 --> 15:17.787 [SPEAKER_01]: I looked around and I saw, like, for a very brief moment. 15:17.847 --> 15:19.269 [SPEAKER_01]: I thought, well, first of all, I was like, is that me? 15:19.710 --> 15:21.312 [SPEAKER_01]: I was like, is that my flashlight on? 15:21.352 --> 15:21.833 [SPEAKER_01]: I can't. 15:21.853 --> 15:26.620 [SPEAKER_01]: Cause it's usually me with my flashlight on, um, no, but that was, like, such a moment. 15:26.640 --> 15:33.229 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, every single person in the diner was singing in the climb and the climb, as we get older, it means so much more. 15:33.289 --> 15:33.910 [SPEAKER_01]: It hits. 15:34.030 --> 15:35.011 [SPEAKER_01]: It, like, really hits. 15:35.031 --> 15:37.575 [SPEAKER_01]: It's, like, the mildly documentary, or, um, 15:37.555 --> 15:44.446 [SPEAKER_01]: the Hannah Montana, whatever, when she's saying it, like it's just such a powerful ballad. 15:44.927 --> 15:49.414 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, or the gap Christmas commercial when they sang time. 15:49.534 --> 15:51.578 [SPEAKER_01]: Like there is always going to be another mountain. 15:52.399 --> 15:54.082 [SPEAKER_01]: And you're always going to want to make a move. 15:54.903 --> 15:56.686 [SPEAKER_01]: It's always an uphill battles. 15:57.187 --> 15:59.090 [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes you're going to have to lose. 15:59.310 --> 16:01.173 [SPEAKER_01]: It's so true. 16:01.514 --> 16:01.794 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 16:02.235 --> 16:04.879 [SPEAKER_01]: It ain't about how fast I get there. 16:04.859 --> 16:08.486 [SPEAKER_01]: in about what's a way in the only other stuff. 16:08.907 --> 16:11.713 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, such a powerful song and everyone knew the words. 16:11.953 --> 16:15.020 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, and then there was some high school musical tracks as well. 16:15.080 --> 16:17.485 [SPEAKER_01]: Those were epic, yeah. 16:17.926 --> 16:18.587 [SPEAKER_03]: I was good. 16:19.729 --> 16:22.134 [SPEAKER_03]: I just keep listening to replay now by what's his face. 16:22.435 --> 16:24.900 [SPEAKER_01]: Feeling like a star, you can't stop the shine. 16:25.020 --> 16:25.922 [SPEAKER_01]: That's not real. 16:26.459 --> 16:28.503 [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, that's right, so low. 16:28.523 --> 16:29.645 [SPEAKER_03]: Okay, so like that. 16:29.665 --> 16:29.925 [SPEAKER_03]: Damn it. 16:30.185 --> 16:31.007 [SPEAKER_01]: Wait, that's um. 16:31.287 --> 16:33.772 [SPEAKER_01]: Shorty's like a mighty idiot. 16:33.792 --> 16:33.952 [SPEAKER_01]: I guess. 16:34.092 --> 16:35.394 [SPEAKER_01]: Wait, what happened to him? 16:35.414 --> 16:36.256 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 16:36.356 --> 16:37.438 [SPEAKER_01]: Where is Kay? 16:37.478 --> 16:38.941 [SPEAKER_03]: He has so many bangers. 16:38.961 --> 16:41.164 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, did you know Sean Kingston is in prison? 16:41.204 --> 16:42.186 [SPEAKER_03]: For why? 16:42.727 --> 16:44.210 [SPEAKER_01]: He's in jail for tax evasion. 16:44.230 --> 16:44.290 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh. 16:45.532 --> 16:46.694 [SPEAKER_01]: Let me double check that out. 16:46.714 --> 16:47.335 [SPEAKER_03]: I hate to see that. 16:47.956 --> 16:49.058 [SPEAKER_01]: I know him and his mom. 16:49.882 --> 16:52.385 [SPEAKER_03]: his mom's for tax exchange in 2025. 16:52.445 --> 16:59.554 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, August 15, 2025 singer Sean Kingston was sentenced to three and a half years in federal prison for a $1 million fraud scheme. 16:59.715 --> 17:00.095 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, that's it. 17:00.556 --> 17:06.884 [SPEAKER_01]: Involving stolen luxury items including cars and jewelry, he's currently serving his sentence in Miami federal detention center. 17:06.904 --> 17:11.049 [SPEAKER_01]: Hey, alongside his mother who received five years sentence for her role. 17:11.390 --> 17:12.691 [SPEAKER_01]: So she did something you've been worse. 17:12.711 --> 17:14.033 [SPEAKER_02]: She got one. 17:15.160 --> 17:16.846 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, this is a family. 17:16.886 --> 17:26.638 [SPEAKER_01]: Him and his mother, his mother, Janice, used his celebrity status to obtain high end products by providing fake wire transfer receipts. 17:27.243 --> 17:28.244 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, shit. 17:28.905 --> 17:30.867 [SPEAKER_01]: Anyway, so Sean Kingston, but where's Ayaz? 17:31.828 --> 17:33.651 [SPEAKER_01]: Where is Ayaz? 17:33.671 --> 17:33.791 [SPEAKER_03]: Ayaz? 17:33.951 --> 17:35.052 [SPEAKER_03]: I have something to say. 17:35.493 --> 17:36.033 [SPEAKER_01]: What else is saying? 17:36.053 --> 17:36.774 [SPEAKER_03]: He does replay. 17:36.794 --> 17:39.918 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, he says Ayaz is in Orlando, Florida. 17:40.999 --> 17:42.721 [SPEAKER_01]: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. 17:42.921 --> 17:44.443 [SPEAKER_01]: He's performing in producer music. 17:44.824 --> 17:51.011 [SPEAKER_01]: He remains active in the music industry, frequently touring, performing his head like replay and engaging with fans. 17:51.111 --> 17:53.013 [SPEAKER_02]: He's on a song with Hannah Montana. 17:53.934 --> 17:54.415 [SPEAKER_03]: Which one? 17:54.513 --> 17:55.375 [SPEAKER_02]: gonna get this. 17:56.196 --> 17:58.440 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm gonna get this. 17:58.600 --> 17:59.241 [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, okay. 17:59.622 --> 18:00.724 [SPEAKER_03]: He has another banger though. 18:00.744 --> 18:01.525 [SPEAKER_03]: It's not just replayed. 18:01.545 --> 18:02.166 [SPEAKER_02]: So, hello. 18:02.206 --> 18:03.048 [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, solo. 18:03.589 --> 18:04.551 [SPEAKER_03]: No, is it solo? 18:04.571 --> 18:05.332 [SPEAKER_02]: No, it's not solo. 18:05.472 --> 18:05.933 [SPEAKER_02]: Is that the song? 18:05.993 --> 18:07.516 [SPEAKER_02]: No, it's not solo. 18:08.037 --> 18:12.024 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, the music was very nostalgic and amazing. 18:12.605 --> 18:16.251 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, him and this guy 18:16.670 --> 18:18.933 [SPEAKER_01]: Is that cord over streets sibling? 18:19.454 --> 18:21.757 [SPEAKER_01]: Anyway, Nash over street of hot shell ray. 18:21.877 --> 18:22.899 [SPEAKER_01]: Do you remember hot shell ray? 18:23.540 --> 18:24.401 [SPEAKER_02]: No, what is that? 18:25.763 --> 18:28.266 [SPEAKER_01]: I believe tonight, tonight. 18:29.068 --> 18:31.431 [SPEAKER_02]: This party on the rooftop top of the world. 18:31.992 --> 18:33.654 [SPEAKER_02]: That's not naked brothers, band. 18:35.256 --> 18:35.417 [SPEAKER_04]: No! 18:35.437 --> 18:35.497 [SPEAKER_04]: No! 18:35.977 --> 18:37.159 [SPEAKER_02]: Hot shell ray! 18:37.527 --> 19:01.780 [SPEAKER_01]: to night to night and then the other song is into or no one direction no no the other song is I like it like that yeah to that one I know the songs but I don't think I ever knew their name but I suppose so one of the guys from that band collaborated with Ias as recently as 2015 and that was there last his last hit that I am seeing on his Wikipedia page. 19:01.760 --> 19:06.085 [SPEAKER_03]: Replay has almost one and a half billion streams my Spotify. 19:06.145 --> 19:13.012 [SPEAKER_01]: I hope he gets a lot of like royalties from that I'm sure he does Anyway, so that's what I asked is up to if you're curious. 19:13.372 --> 19:14.193 [SPEAKER_03]: That was my favorite song. 19:14.213 --> 19:29.910 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm proud Well, that's your favorite melody the climb for sure hands down like the playlist was fire There was no role like everyone and the vibes everyone understood the assignment the vibes were maculate 19:30.515 --> 19:31.657 [SPEAKER_01]: It wasn't overcrowded. 19:31.717 --> 19:32.859 [SPEAKER_01]: I think that was important. 19:33.099 --> 19:33.380 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 19:33.560 --> 19:35.223 [SPEAKER_03]: Four hours, like, flew by. 19:35.243 --> 19:36.084 [SPEAKER_03]: I know. 19:36.225 --> 19:37.847 [SPEAKER_03]: I was like, no, can we get another hour? 19:37.907 --> 19:40.492 [SPEAKER_02]: Like, I really thought that they weren't going to kick us out. 19:40.512 --> 19:42.475 [SPEAKER_02]: And they were like packing up the plate. 19:42.535 --> 19:44.739 [SPEAKER_03]: No, no, lights were full on the full plate. 19:44.819 --> 19:46.161 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, they were like getting out of here. 19:46.141 --> 19:51.567 [SPEAKER_02]: And then it was impossible to find a bar to take everybody from the prom to after. 19:51.628 --> 19:54.851 [SPEAKER_02]: So we ended up at Walker's which was fine. 19:54.871 --> 19:57.855 [SPEAKER_02]: Which was great, but Puffy was so crowded. 19:57.875 --> 20:01.579 [SPEAKER_02]: I mean, I think we would have taken up the whole bar anyway. 20:01.679 --> 20:04.943 [SPEAKER_02]: Like we needed to get there and have it be empty if we were going to go there. 20:05.043 --> 20:07.366 [SPEAKER_03]: We would have to be inside the second bar that we went to. 20:07.827 --> 20:09.268 [SPEAKER_03]: You were like negotiating with somebody or something. 20:09.288 --> 20:10.630 [SPEAKER_02]: I was like, come on, just... 20:10.610 --> 20:11.251 [SPEAKER_02]: What is it? 20:11.311 --> 20:15.817 [SPEAKER_02]: The balancer was fine to let us in and then the bartender was like we already shut the computers down. 20:15.837 --> 20:27.352 [SPEAKER_01]: We did last call Colby was in there and her hot pink set like trying to negotiate and I thought that he was going to laugh You looked amazing and the thing is that you will wear that again and again and again. 20:27.372 --> 20:29.935 [SPEAKER_01]: I think to other things to wear 20:31.433 --> 20:32.434 [SPEAKER_03]: The next prom. 20:33.376 --> 20:34.237 [SPEAKER_01]: The next prom. 20:34.277 --> 20:34.618 [SPEAKER_01]: No. 20:35.259 --> 20:35.459 [SPEAKER_01]: No. 20:35.479 --> 20:36.460 [SPEAKER_01]: I would need to get a new one. 20:36.661 --> 20:37.602 [SPEAKER_01]: But like the top. 20:37.722 --> 20:39.605 [SPEAKER_01]: Because like your off it was a two piece set. 20:39.625 --> 20:41.307 [SPEAKER_01]: Like you could wear the top with your hands. 20:41.408 --> 20:41.828 [SPEAKER_01]: I couldn't. 20:42.229 --> 20:43.230 [SPEAKER_01]: And that would look incredible. 20:43.270 --> 20:43.571 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 20:44.472 --> 20:45.033 [SPEAKER_03]: It was a good fit. 20:45.353 --> 20:45.734 [SPEAKER_03]: It was. 20:46.235 --> 20:46.755 [SPEAKER_03]: It was great. 20:47.076 --> 20:47.957 [SPEAKER_03]: We got good picks. 20:49.600 --> 20:49.840 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 20:50.401 --> 20:52.103 [SPEAKER_01]: And many mozzarella sticks were consumed. 20:52.684 --> 20:52.904 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 20:52.944 --> 20:54.066 [SPEAKER_03]: I'm jealous. 20:54.805 --> 20:56.308 [SPEAKER_03]: I'll make some of the sliders. 20:56.789 --> 20:58.071 [SPEAKER_03]: People's left on the sliders. 20:58.091 --> 21:02.179 [SPEAKER_03]: But then people saw my sliders come out, but I ordered sliders like all the sliders got this. 21:02.459 --> 21:07.489 [SPEAKER_02]: I got them 11, 30 p.m. You could order food like up until the second they close to. 21:07.549 --> 21:11.015 [SPEAKER_03]: People were like, oh my god, can I have some of your sliders? 21:11.075 --> 21:11.977 [SPEAKER_03]: And I was like, of course. 21:11.997 --> 21:14.181 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, you had a platter all to yourself. 21:14.431 --> 21:15.652 [SPEAKER_03]: I ate so much with them. 21:15.672 --> 21:18.596 [SPEAKER_01]: You were hovering by the place where the food came out, like eating. 21:18.616 --> 21:21.659 [SPEAKER_03]: I became really good buddies with the staff. 21:21.759 --> 21:22.460 [SPEAKER_03]: They were helping me out. 21:22.480 --> 21:24.242 [SPEAKER_01]: They were, they thought we were hilarious. 21:24.402 --> 21:29.448 [SPEAKER_02]: No, I was like, what going up to the big, this is the best part that you've ever had. 21:29.488 --> 21:33.412 [SPEAKER_02]: You're in the guy was just smiling, taking videos on his phone. 21:33.472 --> 21:34.554 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, he was taking content. 21:34.574 --> 21:39.439 [SPEAKER_02]: I was like, they asked us to tag them in our content. 21:39.519 --> 21:40.941 [SPEAKER_02]: No, I'll, I'll, I'll, I'll. 21:41.041 --> 21:42.042 [SPEAKER_01]: I'll add mention. 21:42.022 --> 22:05.430 [SPEAKER_03]: the next morning after we had posted a bunch of stuff one of my friends texted me and he was like wait was that at the square diner and i was like yeah why he's like we literally live across the street and we're just laying in bed you know deliberating going and having pancakes there this morning and i opened my phone once and i clicked on the menu too and no one ordered gluten free pancakes no somebody did it i saw really yeah someone didn't smell them i smelled the syrup 22:05.410 --> 22:07.374 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, I smell the syrup and these smell amazing. 22:07.434 --> 22:12.685 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, um, but now I think I consumed at least four baskets of chicken tenders just to myself. 22:13.547 --> 22:15.551 [SPEAKER_02]: I beg it's for us, not eating the food. 22:16.573 --> 22:17.355 [SPEAKER_03]: Well, don't worry. 22:17.375 --> 22:18.217 [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know for all of us. 22:18.237 --> 22:20.020 [SPEAKER_02]: It was too busy eating jang. 22:20.060 --> 22:21.343 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, you had a job, so. 22:21.627 --> 22:22.388 [SPEAKER_02]: But you did great. 22:22.729 --> 22:24.932 [SPEAKER_03]: You were a single mom who worked every problem in the sales event. 22:25.192 --> 22:30.460 [SPEAKER_01]: Your first prom event that hopefully will spawn more events, like graduation. 22:30.681 --> 22:31.021 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 22:31.342 --> 22:32.924 [SPEAKER_01]: I'll think of another theme. 22:32.984 --> 22:36.029 [SPEAKER_01]: What's another event from our youth? 22:36.389 --> 22:36.830 [SPEAKER_03]: Homecoming. 22:38.052 --> 22:38.893 [SPEAKER_01]: Pepper Alley. 22:39.312 --> 22:40.013 [SPEAKER_03]: Sure, pepperoni. 22:40.033 --> 22:40.695 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god. 22:41.055 --> 22:43.981 [SPEAKER_01]: We should perform a number, a dance number. 22:44.041 --> 22:52.237 [SPEAKER_01]: Like the dance team would come out and like getting the middle of the field, we should rent out a stadium and do a pep rally. 22:52.738 --> 22:53.680 [SPEAKER_03]: I love that. 22:53.700 --> 22:59.812 [SPEAKER_01]: And you can get a bunch of guys and I'll paint your stomachs with some, we can make up a fake high school name. 22:59.872 --> 23:00.493 [SPEAKER_03]: Perfect. 23:00.473 --> 23:01.174 [SPEAKER_03]: I love it. 23:01.755 --> 23:01.856 [SPEAKER_03]: Okay. 23:01.876 --> 23:02.717 [SPEAKER_03]: You can be a mascot. 23:02.737 --> 23:03.379 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:03.399 --> 23:03.819 [SPEAKER_03]: You can be a mascot. 23:03.839 --> 23:04.280 [SPEAKER_03]: You can be a mascot. 23:04.300 --> 23:04.721 [SPEAKER_03]: You can be a mascot. 23:05.202 --> 23:06.124 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:06.144 --> 23:06.545 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:06.565 --> 23:06.965 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:06.985 --> 23:07.486 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:07.506 --> 23:08.007 [SPEAKER_03]: You can be a mascot. 23:08.027 --> 23:08.528 [SPEAKER_03]: You can be a mascot. 23:08.548 --> 23:08.989 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:09.009 --> 23:09.410 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:09.430 --> 23:09.871 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:09.891 --> 23:10.292 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:10.332 --> 23:10.753 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:10.773 --> 23:11.174 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:11.214 --> 23:13.197 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:13.217 --> 23:13.618 [SPEAKER_03]: You can be a mascot. 23:13.638 --> 23:14.099 [SPEAKER_03]: You can be a mascot. 23:14.139 --> 23:14.861 [SPEAKER_03]: You can be a mascot. 23:14.881 --> 23:15.362 [SPEAKER_03]: You can be a mascot. 23:15.382 --> 23:16.023 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:16.043 --> 23:16.464 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:16.484 --> 23:16.884 [SPEAKER_01]: You can be a mascot. 23:16.905 --> 23:17.305 [SPEAKER_02]: You can be a mascot. 23:17.325 --> 23:17.706 [SPEAKER_02]: You can be a mascot 23:18.040 --> 23:18.380 [SPEAKER_03]: I did. 23:18.401 --> 23:19.342 [SPEAKER_02]: Did you do Togadei? 23:20.363 --> 23:22.466 [SPEAKER_02]: We did not have Togadei. 23:22.547 --> 23:26.012 [SPEAKER_02]: It was just like a day where everyone wore Togas. 23:26.693 --> 23:27.133 [SPEAKER_02]: Yes. 23:27.534 --> 23:28.896 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't think that's allowed anymore. 23:28.916 --> 23:30.198 [SPEAKER_03]: I think that's definitely not. 23:30.218 --> 23:32.481 [SPEAKER_02]: Cultural appropriation for sure, right? 23:32.761 --> 23:33.182 [SPEAKER_03]: For sure. 23:33.442 --> 23:35.205 [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think I wore a shirt under my Togadei. 23:36.232 --> 23:39.240 [SPEAKER_01]: Girls were required to wear full, like, enough clothing. 23:40.022 --> 23:40.964 [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think boys are better. 23:40.984 --> 23:42.127 [SPEAKER_02]: We should wear a shirt under ours. 23:42.789 --> 23:45.095 [SPEAKER_02]: Are you thinking of Katie's birthday when you did that? 23:46.057 --> 23:47.280 [SPEAKER_02]: Not the ice cool thing. 23:47.320 --> 23:48.483 [SPEAKER_03]: No, I'm thinking of the ice cool version. 23:48.985 --> 23:51.912 [SPEAKER_03]: I had a sheet wrap around me and I wasn't wearing a shirt under it, and I think. 23:52.786 --> 23:53.627 [SPEAKER_03]: for Sky. 23:53.828 --> 23:54.829 [SPEAKER_03]: Or maybe a toilet paper. 23:55.030 --> 23:55.911 [SPEAKER_00]: Yep. 23:55.931 --> 23:57.233 [SPEAKER_00]: To raise a toilet paper? 23:57.293 --> 23:58.355 [SPEAKER_03]: I don't. 23:58.616 --> 24:01.160 [SPEAKER_03]: I forget my dad created a toga around me for sure. 24:01.220 --> 24:04.425 [SPEAKER_03]: And it was, it was a slutty, is it slutty? 24:07.210 --> 24:15.744 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm reading a record for him about what the arts and crafts bring for him about whether or not togas are a form of cultural appropriation or harmless fun. 24:16.245 --> 24:18.709 [SPEAKER_01]: Someone said, Zeus does not care. 24:19.921 --> 24:25.650 [SPEAKER_01]: Here's the thing, I don't know if they do that anymore, but they back 12, 13 years ago. 24:25.670 --> 24:27.013 [SPEAKER_03]: I'm dying of my dad's. 24:27.073 --> 24:27.573 [SPEAKER_01]: They did that. 24:27.594 --> 24:29.797 [SPEAKER_03]: They got this school on the slutty town. 24:29.817 --> 24:31.480 [SPEAKER_02]: It's like, you look great. 24:32.682 --> 24:33.784 [SPEAKER_02]: Have an awesome day. 24:33.824 --> 24:37.229 [SPEAKER_02]: Don't rip your toilet paper so good. 24:37.249 --> 24:38.171 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my God. 24:38.191 --> 24:41.997 [SPEAKER_03]: Don't worry, it was, it was, Charming extra strong. 24:42.803 --> 25:06.904 [SPEAKER_02]: who's triple-decker we did the week leading up to our powder puff game every day there was a different theme and I don't know if there allowed to do that anymore either like we they definitely can't do the Cowboys and Indian stay though you just sure not and then no no we also how did they that was like camo 25:06.884 --> 25:17.954 [SPEAKER_02]: another day that was super hero themed and then the last day was shred the red because that was the town next to us. 25:18.675 --> 25:20.296 [SPEAKER_02]: They were the red. 25:20.637 --> 25:21.738 [SPEAKER_02]: What would you wear for that? 25:22.398 --> 25:26.162 [SPEAKER_02]: Like we wore marble head t-shirts and they were like all cut up. 25:27.843 --> 25:29.745 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god, I'm black. 25:30.025 --> 25:31.287 [SPEAKER_00]: That's sassy. 25:31.547 --> 25:34.950 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, 25:35.437 --> 25:50.056 [SPEAKER_02]: the R town and the guys in our town would like all where baggy jeans and timberlands it was a moment in time but like so many people wore those outfits like pretending to be boys from our town. 25:50.877 --> 25:52.339 [SPEAKER_03]: What was the stable of our high school? 25:52.499 --> 25:55.183 [SPEAKER_03]: I feel like it was like lacrosse shorts. 25:55.433 --> 25:57.015 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, and lacks T-shirts. 25:57.175 --> 26:04.726 [SPEAKER_01]: Any sort of memorabilia that would make it clear than it already was that you were on a team. 26:05.327 --> 26:05.607 [SPEAKER_03]: Yes. 26:05.687 --> 26:07.610 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, yeah. 26:08.531 --> 26:13.158 [SPEAKER_03]: I used to show up to school in full sweatsuits from swim practice, and I wreaked a chlorine. 26:13.198 --> 26:14.960 [SPEAKER_01]: Just to remind everyone that you're on the swim. 26:15.000 --> 26:18.966 [SPEAKER_03]: And my hair was bleached blonde, and I used to get bullied, and people that thought I was dying my hair. 26:19.026 --> 26:21.289 [SPEAKER_03]: I was like, no, it's just getting freaking destroyed by the poll. 26:21.522 --> 26:22.163 [SPEAKER_01]: The chlorine. 26:22.503 --> 26:22.784 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 26:22.804 --> 26:23.465 [SPEAKER_01]: Who's wrecking you? 26:23.585 --> 26:25.127 [SPEAKER_03]: No, the chlorine literally was making me blonde. 26:25.327 --> 26:31.635 [SPEAKER_03]: But like that was, I was blonde when I was a kid and then I transitioned and then into a brunette. 26:31.755 --> 26:32.536 [SPEAKER_03]: Into a brunette. 26:32.716 --> 26:36.722 [SPEAKER_03]: But then the pole didn't want me to transition so I kept making me blonde. 26:36.742 --> 26:40.166 [SPEAKER_02]: No, at least I didn't make your hair green that happens to a lot of people with blonde hair. 26:40.186 --> 26:42.189 [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, I may have been green honestly. 26:42.970 --> 26:43.510 [SPEAKER_03]: I can't remember. 26:43.530 --> 26:46.434 [SPEAKER_02]: I can't remember if your hair was green. 26:47.095 --> 26:47.556 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, that's right. 26:47.576 --> 26:48.977 [SPEAKER_02]: That seems like something that would. 26:49.017 --> 26:51.040 [SPEAKER_03]: It just like looked like I had blonde highlights. 26:51.087 --> 26:53.385 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, like you were using Sunan. 26:54.057 --> 26:59.042 [SPEAKER_03]: Like I was using something for show like people literally were like, why are you getting highlights in your hair? 26:59.883 --> 27:04.808 [SPEAKER_01]: You a little gay boy and I was like, but honestly back in that time you were saying that. 27:05.028 --> 27:09.813 [SPEAKER_01]: Like there was like Disney and Nickelonion characters that had like streets of blonde in their hair that were boys. 27:09.933 --> 27:10.353 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh yeah. 27:10.473 --> 27:12.615 [SPEAKER_01]: Like I'm thinking of Logan from Zoey 101. 27:13.016 --> 27:14.057 [SPEAKER_01]: Chad Michael Murray. 27:14.257 --> 27:16.119 [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like that was like the frosted tips. 27:16.179 --> 27:18.141 [SPEAKER_01]: Like it was actually like the vibe. 27:18.461 --> 27:19.242 [SPEAKER_01]: Aaron Carter. 27:19.442 --> 27:19.722 [SPEAKER_03]: I was bullied. 27:19.742 --> 27:20.303 [SPEAKER_03]: So not the vibe. 27:20.323 --> 27:21.304 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm really sorry to hear that. 27:21.344 --> 27:23.406 [SPEAKER_01]: I was also bullied. 27:23.386 --> 27:24.307 [SPEAKER_01]: by people you know. 27:25.709 --> 27:28.053 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, by your friends, by your friends. 27:28.934 --> 27:31.518 [SPEAKER_03]: I've never bullied Katie, but you're friends. 27:32.018 --> 27:33.541 [SPEAKER_03]: I was also a Kimberly Dory. 27:33.961 --> 27:34.963 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, same people. 27:36.545 --> 27:37.246 [SPEAKER_03]: Um, no. 27:37.807 --> 27:38.968 [SPEAKER_03]: The guys in that group. 27:39.008 --> 27:40.070 [SPEAKER_01]: You just try to survive. 27:40.110 --> 27:42.033 [SPEAKER_01]: High school is all about survival. 27:42.313 --> 27:45.698 [SPEAKER_01]: And then you get on to who you are actually supposed to be. 27:45.678 --> 27:48.321 [SPEAKER_01]: in my opinion, in college, and after college. 27:48.742 --> 27:51.945 [SPEAKER_01]: And if you don't go to college, just after high school. 27:52.406 --> 27:52.646 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes. 27:52.726 --> 27:58.733 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, there is during high school survival mode, then after high school, in my opinion, this is all my opinion. 27:59.634 --> 28:01.416 [SPEAKER_01]: Colby had a great high school experience in New York. 28:02.257 --> 28:05.762 [SPEAKER_00]: But I don't, I turn a five with who I was in high school, either. 28:07.263 --> 28:09.466 [SPEAKER_03]: Like, Colby's like, I would've been bling about the beginning. 28:10.007 --> 28:11.188 [SPEAKER_00]: I would've been bling about the beginning. 28:11.208 --> 28:11.789 [SPEAKER_02]: I could all have. 28:12.029 --> 28:13.030 [SPEAKER_02]: I was so nice. 28:13.150 --> 28:14.672 [SPEAKER_02]: I was so nice. 28:15.158 --> 28:20.104 [SPEAKER_02]: But I don't like relish on high school and think those for the good old days. 28:20.404 --> 28:20.725 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 28:20.865 --> 28:21.566 [SPEAKER_02]: That's for sure. 28:23.268 --> 28:25.731 [SPEAKER_00]: But I wasn't bullied, luckily. 28:26.271 --> 28:28.434 [SPEAKER_00]: So, no, I'm happy you're sorry for you. 28:28.554 --> 28:30.096 [SPEAKER_00]: No, that's, I'm really happy. 28:30.116 --> 28:31.457 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm glad to hear that. 28:33.800 --> 28:34.321 [SPEAKER_00]: That's all. 28:34.781 --> 28:38.986 [SPEAKER_01]: Could be like, you're really, That's all that on that. 28:40.188 --> 28:43.832 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, well, I'm still trying to think of like what other event we can do for not going to do prom. 28:43.930 --> 28:48.717 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I think the problem thing, it's like done. 28:48.737 --> 28:49.478 [SPEAKER_03]: We put it to bad. 28:49.519 --> 28:51.181 [SPEAKER_03]: Done copies is with problem. 28:51.201 --> 28:55.007 [SPEAKER_03]: Like I feel like it's such a good thing that you can keep, and you could like make a thing out of it. 28:55.027 --> 28:58.031 [SPEAKER_03]: Like you can nominate a problem can and queen every year, and there can be prizes. 28:58.672 --> 28:58.973 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 28:59.474 --> 29:00.776 [SPEAKER_03]: And there can be promposals. 29:00.836 --> 29:05.343 [SPEAKER_03]: Like it can really be built into an event that's recurring. 29:05.843 --> 29:06.144 [SPEAKER_03]: I feel. 29:07.005 --> 29:12.874 [SPEAKER_02]: They couldn't, but it also could be like a magical night that happened one time. 29:15.250 --> 29:16.880 [SPEAKER_03]: You won't problem to be over so bad. 29:17.323 --> 29:21.025 [SPEAKER_02]: And it is like I had the best time ever. 29:22.152 --> 29:24.656 [SPEAKER_02]: And now, onto the next thing. 29:25.036 --> 29:29.122 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, we're going to continue to try to persuade Colby to have another prom. 29:29.282 --> 29:30.945 [SPEAKER_03]: But I think it's not working out so far. 29:31.105 --> 29:32.167 [SPEAKER_03]: Until it gets fresh. 29:32.868 --> 29:33.188 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 29:33.549 --> 29:34.130 [SPEAKER_01]: No, I know. 29:34.150 --> 29:37.254 [SPEAKER_01]: That's how I feel after, like, that's big about me, but the Halloween party. 29:37.875 --> 29:39.417 [SPEAKER_01]: Every year, I'm like, OK, that's the last one. 29:39.718 --> 29:40.218 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm done. 29:40.499 --> 29:41.741 [SPEAKER_01]: That's the last one. 29:41.781 --> 29:45.426 [SPEAKER_01]: But Halloween is something that happens every year. 29:46.334 --> 29:48.297 [SPEAKER_03]: Prom can happen every year. 29:48.317 --> 29:55.528 [SPEAKER_02]: Colby, you know what prom is something that also happens every year, but not for everyone Not everyone celebrates Halloween every year. 29:55.568 --> 29:58.333 [SPEAKER_02]: That's true, but like it's on the calendar. 29:58.913 --> 29:59.815 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, fair enough. 30:00.035 --> 30:01.898 [SPEAKER_02]: So holiday fair enough. 30:01.958 --> 30:03.380 [SPEAKER_03]: Well, maybe prom becomes a holiday. 30:03.440 --> 30:12.915 [SPEAKER_01]: It could Hope he's like, but it won't be me Okay, um, well, does anyone have any dating updates? 30:13.452 --> 30:15.094 [SPEAKER_03]: Kobe came on my date on Thursday. 30:15.374 --> 30:15.755 [SPEAKER_01]: I did. 30:16.255 --> 30:18.778 [SPEAKER_01]: Can you elaborate for the people? 30:19.219 --> 30:23.945 [SPEAKER_03]: Yes, I want a date on the same with I'm proud. 30:23.965 --> 30:25.266 [SPEAKER_03]: I think I talked about it previously. 30:25.687 --> 30:26.347 [SPEAKER_03]: It's no date eight. 30:28.190 --> 30:28.790 [SPEAKER_03]: It's no date eight. 30:29.371 --> 30:34.397 [SPEAKER_03]: From two months ago, we went to Barbina, 30:34.647 --> 30:45.819 [SPEAKER_03]: and that's not good spot, we're booze in, and then actually so we didn't hang out for like three hours at this point, and I hadn't looked at my phone, and then we moved to the bar from the table that we were at. 30:45.839 --> 30:47.965 [SPEAKER_01]: And you hadn't looked at your phone. 30:48.451 --> 30:49.472 [SPEAKER_03]: No slack. 30:49.492 --> 30:50.373 [SPEAKER_02]: No slack. 30:50.393 --> 30:50.914 [SPEAKER_02]: No slack. 30:50.934 --> 30:52.676 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, that is monumental. 30:52.696 --> 30:54.398 [SPEAKER_02]: That's at the sign of a very good date. 30:54.578 --> 30:54.979 [SPEAKER_03]: Crazy. 30:55.299 --> 30:56.460 [SPEAKER_03]: Maybe it was two and a half hours actually. 30:57.321 --> 30:57.501 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 30:57.521 --> 30:58.663 [SPEAKER_02]: That's not the sign. 30:58.683 --> 30:59.724 [SPEAKER_02]: It's not even a good date. 30:59.824 --> 31:03.068 [SPEAKER_02]: Just like a good any atom was on slack at prom. 31:03.228 --> 31:04.970 [SPEAKER_02]: He was on slack at prom. 31:05.150 --> 31:06.932 [SPEAKER_03]: I was getting slack at prom. 31:06.992 --> 31:07.673 [SPEAKER_03]: I did number twice. 31:08.034 --> 31:08.614 [SPEAKER_02]: Correct. 31:08.634 --> 31:10.557 [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, I was also getting slacked on the date. 31:10.717 --> 31:11.097 [SPEAKER_02]: Right. 31:11.257 --> 31:14.141 [SPEAKER_03]: But you were, I turned this slack in control. 31:14.161 --> 31:15.302 [SPEAKER_03]: Yes. 31:15.282 --> 31:26.287 [SPEAKER_03]: Um, we were also at like one of those small cocktail tables sitting across from each other, so it was like, if I was just checking slack, I can't even imagine how rude that would be. 31:26.307 --> 31:28.712 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, you would just walk out, perhaps. 31:28.732 --> 31:29.434 [SPEAKER_02]: That's what I would do. 31:29.454 --> 31:29.835 [SPEAKER_03]: Perhaps. 31:30.696 --> 31:34.084 [SPEAKER_02]: It would be like, is there something that you need to tend to? 31:34.503 --> 31:35.845 [SPEAKER_03]: I'd be like, yeah. 31:35.945 --> 31:43.317 [SPEAKER_03]: I'll actually watch the 1950s and it's like, Drew's Vaunto, but anyways, we moved from the cocktail table to the bar. 31:43.798 --> 31:48.867 [SPEAKER_03]: I looked down and checked my phone and Colby attacks to me, like two and a half hours of poor, like it must've been right night. 31:48.967 --> 32:00.105 [SPEAKER_02]: Well, because Adam had said before, I was going to get drinks with my friend and Adam was like, you guys should just come to Barbinobo and spy on my date. 32:00.085 --> 32:04.758 [SPEAKER_02]: And I said to my friend, it's like, I don't know what's going on to do it, like we could just go there. 32:05.741 --> 32:08.569 [SPEAKER_03]: But... Or Colby was, no, you were like, would you care? 32:08.729 --> 32:09.210 [SPEAKER_03]: Like, do you care? 32:09.230 --> 32:11.517 [SPEAKER_03]: And I was like, no, I'm pretty sure the place is big. 32:11.537 --> 32:12.660 [SPEAKER_03]: Like, I don't care, just go. 32:13.180 --> 32:15.083 [SPEAKER_00]: you were the one that said that I should go. 32:15.103 --> 32:17.667 [SPEAKER_03]: I said, I needed jokes saying you should go to Barbinoa. 32:17.688 --> 32:20.312 [SPEAKER_03]: And then you were like, oh, actually I was going to go to Barbinoa. 32:20.372 --> 32:22.255 [SPEAKER_03]: And then knew you had a date there, so then I changed my mind. 32:22.275 --> 32:24.619 [SPEAKER_03]: And then I was like, I don't think anybody did a care of you came to Barbinoa. 32:24.639 --> 32:26.502 [SPEAKER_03]: But I was like, you should go. 32:26.522 --> 32:27.784 [SPEAKER_03]: That's how it happened to be Claire. 32:27.925 --> 32:28.546 [SPEAKER_02]: Are you guys fighting? 32:28.566 --> 32:35.998 [SPEAKER_02]: No, but I, I, I weren't going to go there anyway after the fact because then I was going to the east side. 32:36.333 --> 32:45.424 [SPEAKER_03]: We, you may have because then when I got there and then put my phone down and then three hours later I checked my phone and Colby texted me asking how the bar was or if it was crowded. 32:45.485 --> 32:46.105 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, yeah, I know. 32:46.125 --> 32:48.288 [SPEAKER_03]: Presumably to see if you could come in the bar, but no, but. 32:48.789 --> 32:51.372 [SPEAKER_02]: We, yes, because we were walking around. 32:51.392 --> 32:52.974 [SPEAKER_03]: It just said, it's very sweet. 32:52.994 --> 32:54.636 [SPEAKER_02]: But you just didn't respond. 32:54.656 --> 32:55.337 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 32:55.357 --> 32:58.060 [SPEAKER_02]: No, but everywhere was so crowded because it was so nice. 32:58.841 --> 33:00.664 [SPEAKER_02]: And we wanted to sit outside somewhere. 33:00.724 --> 33:01.445 [SPEAKER_03]: Yes. 33:01.665 --> 33:02.927 [SPEAKER_03]: So anyway, it's long story short. 33:02.947 --> 33:04.028 [SPEAKER_02]: How was the date? 33:04.531 --> 33:13.864 [SPEAKER_03]: Amazing with so much fun, but then that's one kind of colby enters enters the chat I mean the date was obviously great like this is also somebody that I had met in person like six months ago And yeah, he's great. 33:13.904 --> 33:27.322 [SPEAKER_03]: We've a lot of mutual friends and so there's a good date and then three hours into it Which is why and we moved to the bar seeding because I don't really like sitting across some people at like a cocktail table Or even like a dinner table really especially on like a second date. 33:27.502 --> 33:28.483 [SPEAKER_01]: You want to sit next to them? 33:28.503 --> 33:29.224 [SPEAKER_03]: I want to be next to them. 33:29.525 --> 33:31.247 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, I disagree Really? 33:32.122 --> 33:34.426 [SPEAKER_01]: On a first date, are we talking only like second third? 33:35.067 --> 33:35.969 [SPEAKER_03]: The second first date. 33:36.570 --> 33:40.677 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't like what's your what is your opinion on sitting across from someone on a first date? 33:40.958 --> 33:43.803 [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like that's like sometimes it's like two interviews style. 33:43.943 --> 33:46.568 [SPEAKER_02]: I prefer to sit at a bar to sit in a bar. 33:46.588 --> 33:55.564 [SPEAKER_02]: But with only one other person in general, I feel like like even if I'm like with friends, like with like, off to the shirt sitting at the bar to talk. 33:55.544 --> 33:58.428 [SPEAKER_01]: With people you know for sure, I love a bar sitting. 33:58.488 --> 34:04.136 [SPEAKER_03]: I think my thing on a date is that as Colby kind of mentioned, if you're sitting across in the person, it is very in every style. 34:04.176 --> 34:05.858 [SPEAKER_03]: And I feel like that's very like first date vibes. 34:05.878 --> 34:09.643 [SPEAKER_03]: Like let's sit across from each other and get to know each other and ask, like the normal questions that you need to ask in a first date. 34:09.663 --> 34:10.464 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, agreed first date. 34:10.484 --> 34:12.026 [SPEAKER_03]: Tell me about your siblings, your job. 34:12.046 --> 34:14.129 [SPEAKER_03]: Like, boom, you know, like all the kind of boring stuff. 34:14.630 --> 34:18.034 [SPEAKER_03]: But then on a second date and third, fourth, fifth, whatever. 34:18.335 --> 34:20.217 [SPEAKER_03]: Like I want to be touch feeling. 34:20.498 --> 34:23.121 [SPEAKER_01]: Like I'm feel like you're just going to hop right into it. 34:23.337 --> 34:28.729 [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, nothing crazy, but I like, you know, the guy feel like it feels a little bit more intimate when you're giving a little like shoulder top. 34:28.749 --> 34:30.994 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, I can get like body language. 34:31.014 --> 34:32.999 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, there's more of a body language, more so. 34:33.019 --> 34:37.388 [SPEAKER_03]: Whereas like if you're sitting at a table, I'm just like, it's not the vibe for me personally. 34:37.408 --> 34:39.253 [SPEAKER_03]: And I think I'm like more of a touch of feeling a person. 34:40.074 --> 34:40.596 [SPEAKER_01]: I got it. 34:40.876 --> 34:42.139 [SPEAKER_01]: Love language. 34:42.507 --> 34:54.996 [SPEAKER_03]: love language and so anyways we finally moved to the bar because after a couple of drinks I was like okay, I don't like to say when I'm more like we need to move to the bar He was like okay, like what's find the way to a bit of a lot and then we moved to the bar And then we start making some buddies. 34:55.237 --> 34:58.204 [SPEAKER_01]: I think we're just gonna say we started making a 34:58.184 --> 34:59.526 [SPEAKER_03]: If he started making it out. 34:59.586 --> 35:00.186 [SPEAKER_03]: No, definitely not. 35:00.267 --> 35:01.488 [SPEAKER_01]: How does touch you feeling? 35:01.508 --> 35:01.909 [SPEAKER_01]: You just said it. 35:02.069 --> 35:03.090 [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not that kind of touch you feel though. 35:03.190 --> 35:05.813 [SPEAKER_03]: I literally was draped over this man like blanket though. 35:05.833 --> 35:09.217 [SPEAKER_03]: We had to, no, I like, I had to do much strength. 35:09.237 --> 35:13.743 [SPEAKER_03]: Honestly, I was being crazy because we made these three girlfriends that were to the right of him. 35:14.023 --> 35:16.306 [SPEAKER_03]: So it's basically like the bar is like oval shaped. 35:16.546 --> 35:17.147 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, yeah. 35:17.507 --> 35:18.088 [SPEAKER_03]: Like half circle. 35:18.889 --> 35:20.531 [SPEAKER_03]: And it's me and then it's him. 35:21.212 --> 35:23.935 [SPEAKER_03]: And then there's three girls on his side, okay? 35:23.955 --> 35:25.016 [SPEAKER_03]: And it's a crowded bar. 35:25.036 --> 35:26.318 [SPEAKER_03]: It's like a ton of people around us. 35:26.298 --> 35:27.600 [SPEAKER_03]: Obviously, he and I are both seated. 35:27.620 --> 35:28.821 [SPEAKER_03]: The three girls are standing. 35:29.041 --> 35:33.227 [SPEAKER_03]: And so it's like almost like he's holding court with these three girls, but I'm like behind him. 35:33.747 --> 35:37.412 [SPEAKER_03]: But I'm like, I'm Chad and Kathy, like I want to be in the conversation. 35:37.732 --> 35:38.073 [SPEAKER_04]: Right. 35:38.093 --> 35:39.535 [SPEAKER_03]: So at one point, he's sitting down. 35:39.635 --> 35:45.041 [SPEAKER_03]: I literally am standing on top of my stool and on top over his shoulders to be talking to these girls. 35:45.322 --> 35:47.044 [SPEAKER_03]: To get involved, I wanted to get involved. 35:47.384 --> 35:51.850 [SPEAKER_03]: And that was my only method of attack was basically like laying on 35:52.150 --> 35:59.566 [SPEAKER_01]: Well that's kind of a green flag energy that you guys are like that he's so shawl, you're so shawl, chatting with Paul. 36:00.067 --> 36:00.969 [SPEAKER_03]: Two social butterflies. 36:01.130 --> 36:05.319 [SPEAKER_01]: Like I think that's green flag and like the vibes are sounding to be great from that. 36:05.499 --> 36:05.980 [SPEAKER_03]: Fipes are great. 36:06.161 --> 36:10.951 [SPEAKER_03]: I literally want the climbing him like a freaking tray in the middle of the spar. 36:11.011 --> 36:11.813 [SPEAKER_03]: Okay. 36:11.793 --> 36:20.325 [SPEAKER_03]: And so anyways, then I think I checked my phone at that point and I had seen the Colby attacks in nearly three hours before asking me if it was crowded or not. 36:20.345 --> 36:27.935 [SPEAKER_03]: And then I told him and he was like, oh, tell her to come or the girls that we were said tell her to come and then I turned to him and I'm like, should I tell Colby to come? 36:28.416 --> 36:28.536 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 36:29.037 --> 36:30.679 [SPEAKER_03]: And he was like, sure. 36:31.098 --> 36:33.122 [SPEAKER_03]: He was like, hey, no idea what he said. 36:33.182 --> 36:38.995 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm pretty sure that he said, yes, and then if you were girls to our date, I'm like, sure, why not? 36:39.697 --> 36:48.395 [SPEAKER_03]: And then in my head, I'm like, in my head, I'm like, okay, he just said, yes, but like, maybe I should like double tap on that and just make sure that it's like, I should actually say, like, what was the tone? 36:48.516 --> 36:51.081 [SPEAKER_01]: Was it a guess, like, sure? 36:52.445 --> 36:53.667 [SPEAKER_02]: Like sure, okay. 36:53.687 --> 37:02.462 [SPEAKER_02]: I wish I could easily pull these text up because I also had gotten home before Adam text in Kobe had just gotten home basically. 37:02.622 --> 37:04.285 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I'd like had just walked in the door. 37:04.665 --> 37:06.809 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, because I think I texted her and I was like, oh my god I'm so sorry. 37:06.829 --> 37:10.235 [SPEAKER_03]: I could just saw this and I was like, I think I said like it's great. 37:10.255 --> 37:13.740 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't even know I didn't text it like 10 40 10 texted you also. 37:13.901 --> 37:14.962 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I was asleep. 37:15.283 --> 37:16.305 [SPEAKER_01]: I woke up the next morning. 37:16.385 --> 37:17.386 [SPEAKER_01]: It was late. 37:17.447 --> 37:17.727 [SPEAKER_01]: What? 37:17.707 --> 37:23.377 [SPEAKER_01]: 10, 50, 7 or something like, on a week night, I was like, I was in REM. 37:23.757 --> 37:26.662 [SPEAKER_03]: Okay, so it must have been like four and a half hours in at the point where I texted Kobe to go. 37:27.063 --> 37:28.946 [SPEAKER_03]: But I did get multiple permissions from this guy. 37:28.966 --> 37:31.230 [SPEAKER_03]: I was like, are you sure I should tell Kobe to come? 37:31.431 --> 37:32.573 [SPEAKER_03]: Like, it's like a second date. 37:32.873 --> 37:34.736 [SPEAKER_03]: But I was like the first day we'd spent like eight hours together. 37:34.756 --> 37:35.738 [SPEAKER_03]: We met through mutual friends. 37:35.778 --> 37:37.701 [SPEAKER_03]: The first time I even met him, like I spent a lot of time with him. 37:37.802 --> 37:40.947 [SPEAKER_03]: So I think it was like, at this point, no, no, no, no, it was like six months. 37:40.927 --> 37:47.373 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, and you'd already had a few hours solo with just him and then you expanded to being social. 37:47.393 --> 37:50.535 [SPEAKER_01]: And then you were introducing new characters into the mix. 37:50.595 --> 37:51.937 [SPEAKER_01]: You had a second. 37:52.017 --> 37:52.497 [SPEAKER_01]: Second date. 37:52.517 --> 37:59.863 [SPEAKER_01]: This was honestly like a two and a half date, two and a half was like when the other characters were introduced. 37:59.883 --> 38:00.104 [SPEAKER_03]: Right. 38:00.124 --> 38:02.846 [SPEAKER_03]: So then we told COVID-19, COVID-19, and they're coming. 38:03.647 --> 38:09.752 [SPEAKER_03]: She was actually hanging out with him at that point more than I was because then I had 38:09.732 --> 38:14.418 [SPEAKER_03]: And then I was like the frickin' Tasmanian devil tornadoing around the bar and just collecting people. 38:14.979 --> 38:27.416 [SPEAKER_03]: I was basically like introducing myself to these two guys, trying to hook them up with Colby, and then I went up to these other two guys, tried to hook them up with the three girls that we were with, and then I found these two girls, and I was trying to hook them up with the two guys that I initially met. 38:27.716 --> 38:29.338 [SPEAKER_01]: You're playing matchmaker at the bar? 38:29.839 --> 38:32.222 [SPEAKER_03]: No, I was literally- Yeah, well you were on a date. 38:32.242 --> 38:32.803 [SPEAKER_03]: Well, I was on a date. 38:33.880 --> 38:39.049 [SPEAKER_03]: At that point, Colby was entertaining my day and I was just like, off to the races, doing a bunch of shit. 38:39.771 --> 38:45.501 [SPEAKER_03]: And then I think at one point I clocked in and I was like, oh, I actually like haven't hung out with my day and like quite some time. 38:45.541 --> 38:49.848 [SPEAKER_03]: And so then I literally pick one of the people up that I had brought over to our little circle. 38:49.889 --> 38:50.850 [SPEAKER_01]: I picked them up. 38:50.930 --> 38:51.351 [SPEAKER_01]: Not actually. 38:51.371 --> 38:52.633 [SPEAKER_03]: Not physically picked them up. 38:52.834 --> 38:54.657 [SPEAKER_01]: I was picturing physically being picked up. 38:54.637 --> 39:06.016 [SPEAKER_03]: It was my best see my new best see who I'd originally tried to talk up with Colby and then we realized that he was 25 and so it became very apparent that then maybe that wasn't And he also was like five eight and a half he was short. 39:06.057 --> 39:06.537 [SPEAKER_03]: He was cute. 39:06.798 --> 39:07.840 [SPEAKER_02]: He was cute from afar. 39:07.900 --> 39:08.661 [SPEAKER_03]: He's cute. 39:09.302 --> 39:10.123 [SPEAKER_03]: No, he's come on Colby. 39:10.144 --> 39:11.185 [SPEAKER_02]: No, no, he's cute. 39:11.305 --> 39:12.207 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, he's cute 39:12.187 --> 39:13.209 [SPEAKER_01]: It just wasn't meant to be. 39:13.409 --> 39:14.030 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 39:14.050 --> 39:14.691 [SPEAKER_03]: It just wasn't meant to be. 39:14.711 --> 39:16.273 [SPEAKER_03]: And so anyways, I picked him up. 39:16.794 --> 39:19.678 [SPEAKER_03]: Yes, because he was standing next to my date and the Irish standing on the other side of the hand. 39:19.698 --> 39:20.900 [SPEAKER_03]: And then Colby was next to my date. 39:20.920 --> 39:24.645 [SPEAKER_03]: And so I basically was like, oh, I need to get back in my date to Grace. 39:24.746 --> 39:25.587 [SPEAKER_03]: Musical chance. 39:25.607 --> 39:27.850 [SPEAKER_03]: He's been like, now I've just been neglecting him. 39:27.870 --> 39:33.338 [SPEAKER_03]: And so then I pick up the guide that I brought for Colby and then swapped his spot with me, essentially. 39:33.438 --> 39:35.361 [SPEAKER_01]: See, match made at Barbinobo. 39:35.702 --> 39:36.503 [SPEAKER_03]: Match made at Barbinobo. 39:36.563 --> 39:38.205 [SPEAKER_03]: And so, and the rest is history. 39:38.466 --> 39:39.167 [SPEAKER_03]: Honestly, great date. 39:39.627 --> 39:41.350 [SPEAKER_03]: We drank a lot. 39:41.397 --> 39:43.521 [SPEAKER_01]: Where did you, so how did it end, did you smooch? 39:45.424 --> 39:45.705 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 39:45.865 --> 39:49.030 [SPEAKER_01]: I know you wanted to smooch, probably, after all those drinks. 39:49.171 --> 39:49.772 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, we smooch. 39:49.972 --> 39:50.533 [SPEAKER_01]: We smooch. 39:50.934 --> 39:51.114 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 39:51.334 --> 39:53.198 [SPEAKER_01]: And will there be a date three? 39:53.939 --> 39:54.740 [SPEAKER_03]: I think so. 39:55.141 --> 39:55.882 [SPEAKER_01]: Have you been chatting? 39:56.263 --> 39:56.884 [SPEAKER_03]: We have been chatting. 39:57.044 --> 39:57.906 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, that's positive. 39:58.086 --> 39:58.307 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 39:59.108 --> 39:59.889 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 39:59.990 --> 40:00.430 [SPEAKER_03]: Positive. 40:00.551 --> 40:02.494 [SPEAKER_02]: And it's really like, so rolling in. 40:02.812 --> 40:05.302 [SPEAKER_02]: Did you approve of him called would you? 40:05.322 --> 40:06.547 [SPEAKER_02]: Yes, no, he was great. 40:06.929 --> 40:07.933 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, this is good. 40:07.953 --> 40:08.053 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 40:09.057 --> 40:10.383 [SPEAKER_01]: Match made of marbinobo. 40:10.563 --> 40:11.708 [SPEAKER_03]: Match made of marbinobo. 40:12.481 --> 40:17.510 [SPEAKER_01]: Good, I'll barber now, so that's why I'm kicking myself for not, um, awaking from the dead and coming. 40:17.730 --> 40:18.271 [SPEAKER_03]: I texted you. 40:18.532 --> 40:19.333 [SPEAKER_01]: I was asleep. 40:19.654 --> 40:32.937 [SPEAKER_02]: I mean, honestly, like, good thing, like, this guy would have lived in, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like 40:34.098 --> 40:42.471 [SPEAKER_03]: I think he made a comment to me that was like, like, really not how I was expecting the state to go. 40:42.672 --> 40:47.800 [SPEAKER_03]: And I was like, you mean you didn't expect that I was going to go collect 18 people to come hang out with us on our date? 40:48.120 --> 40:50.123 [SPEAKER_01]: That is typically not what happens on a date. 40:50.424 --> 40:50.584 [SPEAKER_03]: No. 40:50.925 --> 40:52.347 [SPEAKER_01]: I'd say I'm just speaking broadly. 40:53.088 --> 40:54.831 [SPEAKER_01]: But that sounds so like so much fun. 40:54.971 --> 40:59.498 [SPEAKER_01]: Honestly, a big green flag that he was like, cool with it. 40:59.478 --> 41:02.148 [SPEAKER_01]: And it was like encouraging of it. 41:02.509 --> 41:03.734 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, he was like, here we go. 41:03.995 --> 41:04.978 [SPEAKER_03]: Encouraging on the surface. 41:05.019 --> 41:07.829 [SPEAKER_03]: He was like, yeah, let me lock in and let Mr. Adam over here. 41:07.909 --> 41:08.391 [SPEAKER_03]: Just. 41:08.708 --> 41:15.158 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, seeing how someone is in a social setting is a very crucial part of identifying whether or not this person is for you. 41:16.040 --> 41:16.260 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 41:16.280 --> 41:24.653 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, sometimes you can really like a guy on his own and then seeing him in a social setting or with your friends and you're like, okay, never mind, like, that's not a vibe. 41:24.893 --> 41:25.755 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't like him anymore. 41:26.356 --> 41:30.362 [SPEAKER_01]: See, like it really knocked, it brought things up to the second day. 41:30.545 --> 41:35.571 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I see like the process of like seeing him and him seeing you in a social situation. 41:35.692 --> 41:40.678 [SPEAKER_03]: Well then I think like I was kind of thinking about this after because then I was paranoid that I was like too drunk and just like being annoying. 41:40.778 --> 41:42.340 [SPEAKER_03]: Like, not curalling all these heads. 41:42.661 --> 41:51.112 [SPEAKER_03]: And then I was like, actually, you know what, if I was on a date and some guy was like, like, you're having fun making a lot of friends for us or like ask me if he could bring his friend like meet up with us or something like that. 41:51.132 --> 41:52.093 [SPEAKER_03]: Like I would think that was fun. 41:52.273 --> 41:54.276 [SPEAKER_03]: So like I was like, okay, you know what, not that bad. 41:54.296 --> 41:55.337 [SPEAKER_03]: Like it was probably actually fine. 41:55.469 --> 41:59.874 [SPEAKER_01]: That's a good strategy putting yourself in the other person's shoes. 41:59.894 --> 42:00.675 [SPEAKER_03]: God, I forgot about that. 42:00.695 --> 42:01.476 [SPEAKER_01]: The whole trick in the book. 42:02.017 --> 42:03.279 [SPEAKER_03]: I'm pretty sure I did that. 42:04.020 --> 42:07.904 [SPEAKER_03]: When I asked him for a fourth time, if I shouldn't have my Colby, he was like, really shut the fuck up. 42:07.924 --> 42:10.347 [SPEAKER_03]: Just a little Colby? 42:10.367 --> 42:10.948 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 42:10.968 --> 42:18.237 [SPEAKER_02]: It was real reason Adam wanted me to come, was because he wanted to hang out in my friend's who I was with, where I would play. 42:19.212 --> 42:20.638 [SPEAKER_03]: I do love COVID-19. 42:20.658 --> 42:21.662 [SPEAKER_00]: Confirmed or denied? 42:21.903 --> 42:22.625 [SPEAKER_00]: Confirmed or denied? 42:22.726 --> 42:23.750 [SPEAKER_00]: But you've denied that. 42:23.770 --> 42:24.553 [SPEAKER_00]: That's already out. 42:24.573 --> 42:25.497 [SPEAKER_00]: I knew you were looking at it. 42:25.597 --> 42:27.685 [SPEAKER_03]: Although I do love COVID-19. 42:27.705 --> 42:27.906 [SPEAKER_03]: Confirmed. 42:30.029 --> 42:33.335 [SPEAKER_00]: That was why he wanted us to go there with our students. 42:33.355 --> 42:34.296 [SPEAKER_03]: It's all coming back to me. 42:34.396 --> 42:43.272 [SPEAKER_03]: I remember you came and then I was telling the guy I was going to do with that was like God, I really wish you could have met Colby's friend. 42:43.292 --> 42:44.734 [SPEAKER_03]: So that was a good deal with it. 42:44.754 --> 42:45.516 [SPEAKER_01]: It's Chop's Lipper. 42:45.676 --> 42:46.036 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 42:46.097 --> 42:46.718 [SPEAKER_03]: No, don't have it. 42:46.738 --> 42:48.120 [SPEAKER_01]: You're bummed through me. 42:48.200 --> 42:51.025 [SPEAKER_03]: I was like, I'm really sorry that Colby's the one who ended up coming. 42:51.005 --> 42:55.292 [SPEAKER_03]: I really thought she was gonna bring her friend. 42:55.332 --> 43:06.549 [SPEAKER_03]: Do I love yeah But yeah fun times and then we tried to commit some to come to prom obviously didn't happen He should have he's probably having major regrets. 43:07.110 --> 43:07.711 [SPEAKER_03]: No, he missed out. 43:07.751 --> 43:11.858 [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, I think my most recent pickle blind to him was Why didn't he come to prom? 43:11.878 --> 43:13.701 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't get it did it dinner party. 43:13.721 --> 43:14.582 [SPEAKER_01]: He had other plans 43:14.984 --> 43:17.468 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, I mean also like we invited him two days in advance. 43:17.649 --> 43:17.929 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, okay. 43:17.949 --> 43:32.035 [SPEAKER_03]: That's not enough notice But also to be honest like if I was on second day with a guy and they invited me to come to this party with all their friends like two days later Like what I come I do not blame it all I wouldn't go solo. 43:32.115 --> 43:32.696 [SPEAKER_01]: That's for sure. 43:32.996 --> 43:36.182 [SPEAKER_01]: I would feel like I need to bring yeah a buddy because like 43:37.597 --> 43:41.084 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know, I feel like I probably, I've never done something like that before. 43:41.124 --> 43:45.071 [SPEAKER_01]: Like it be like on a date date number three, like before date number three I'm saying. 43:45.152 --> 43:50.342 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, like you have to, like even though he and I have spent obviously a lot of time together, like we've literally been on time. 43:50.362 --> 43:52.686 [SPEAKER_01]: Once again, let's put ourselves in his shoes. 43:53.577 --> 43:56.365 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, you put them put, yeah, I put myself in issues and I, you're right. 43:56.405 --> 43:57.448 [SPEAKER_01]: I probably wouldn't have come either. 43:57.729 --> 43:57.990 [SPEAKER_01]: 100%. 43:58.151 --> 44:00.738 [SPEAKER_01]: But unless I was told I could bring a friend, maybe then I would. 44:00.778 --> 44:04.028 [SPEAKER_01]: But also, I think it would be also totally fine to like, you know what? 44:04.048 --> 44:07.077 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sorry, I have other plans, but like, let's get another date on the books. 44:07.257 --> 44:07.558 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 44:07.578 --> 44:08.481 [SPEAKER_03]: And then. 44:08.782 --> 44:09.583 [SPEAKER_03]: I forgot what I said to him. 44:09.603 --> 44:11.805 [SPEAKER_03]: I think maybe it was yesterday. 44:11.845 --> 44:14.407 [SPEAKER_03]: I was like, so are we gonna wait another two months to hang out again? 44:14.647 --> 44:19.772 [SPEAKER_03]: Or do we need to upgrade our schedule now that you need to make up to Colby that you skipped a problem? 44:20.052 --> 44:20.632 [SPEAKER_01]: Which I think like that. 44:20.692 --> 44:21.473 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, that's a good text. 44:21.533 --> 44:22.234 [SPEAKER_03]: I forgot it. 44:22.494 --> 44:26.177 [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, my banter level is just level 1,000, like a match, 100%. 44:26.357 --> 44:26.878 [SPEAKER_01]: What did he say? 44:27.719 --> 44:29.620 [SPEAKER_03]: He was like, no, of course, we're upgrading. 44:30.301 --> 44:31.322 [SPEAKER_03]: We're upgrading our plan. 44:31.782 --> 44:34.945 [SPEAKER_03]: Although we probably are the two busys people that exist on the planet. 44:35.025 --> 44:37.287 [SPEAKER_03]: So like the planning of it all. 44:37.267 --> 44:38.008 [SPEAKER_03]: It's quite funny. 44:38.068 --> 44:38.989 [SPEAKER_03]: He was like, oh, do you want it? 44:39.009 --> 44:43.753 [SPEAKER_02]: The goal is just to see him before you have your travels in May. 44:43.993 --> 44:48.377 [SPEAKER_02]: I would say this point because that's going to be here before you know it. 44:48.877 --> 44:49.378 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 44:49.398 --> 44:51.279 [SPEAKER_03]: But luckily, my travels like all the very seem horrible. 44:51.460 --> 44:57.845 [SPEAKER_03]: They're kind of like, like for example, I'm gone like the 14th of May of the 26th of May, but I'm actually back in the city for like two days in between then. 44:58.226 --> 44:58.446 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 44:58.606 --> 45:00.688 [SPEAKER_03]: But it's, yeah, my travels in my mind. 45:00.708 --> 45:02.509 [SPEAKER_02]: And then you're gone this week. 45:02.529 --> 45:03.190 [SPEAKER_03]: Gone this week. 45:03.370 --> 45:04.751 [SPEAKER_02]: And that's what I'm actually in my mind. 45:04.771 --> 45:06.733 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, so I can hang out Thursday, but I was like, 45:07.051 --> 45:16.561 [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna be in San Francisco tomorrow and then I come back Thursday, but I think I land at like 11 p.m. Thursday night So yeah, so I need a long trip short damn. 45:16.601 --> 45:19.343 [SPEAKER_01]: Where in the world is Adam Harrison every every week? 45:20.124 --> 45:20.845 [SPEAKER_01]: Where in the world? 45:21.766 --> 45:22.727 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, that's exciting though. 45:22.747 --> 45:29.554 [SPEAKER_01]: I think that and date number two went well and then you're gonna have there I mean he's so great date in the books and you have a crush. 45:30.655 --> 45:31.776 [SPEAKER_01]: Do you have a crush? 45:32.870 --> 45:33.672 [SPEAKER_01]: You don't have crush? 45:34.294 --> 45:35.417 [SPEAKER_03]: I do have a crush, cheese. 45:36.039 --> 45:36.982 [SPEAKER_01]: You've hesitated. 45:37.002 --> 45:38.667 [SPEAKER_03]: No, I didn't want to tell you. 45:38.707 --> 45:39.409 [SPEAKER_03]: It's a secret. 45:39.469 --> 45:40.091 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, okay, sorry. 45:40.111 --> 45:42.498 [SPEAKER_01]: No, I know that's very personal information on our dating podcasts. 45:43.060 --> 45:44.905 [SPEAKER_01]: If you have a crush or not. 45:45.256 --> 45:46.137 [SPEAKER_03]: Well, obviously, I do. 45:46.217 --> 45:50.621 [SPEAKER_03]: Otherwise, what I'd be, you know, wouldn't be participating a third, fourth, fifth. 45:50.641 --> 45:54.345 [SPEAKER_03]: Like, I feel like I am somebody who's very, I use my time. 45:54.805 --> 45:55.305 [SPEAKER_01]: Wiesely. 45:55.325 --> 45:55.746 [SPEAKER_01]: Wiesely. 45:55.806 --> 45:55.946 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 45:56.747 --> 46:01.011 [SPEAKER_03]: Like, I would not spend time on somebody that I was not interested in seeing it again. 46:01.031 --> 46:02.853 [SPEAKER_01]: That is true, because you have limited time. 46:02.873 --> 46:06.496 [SPEAKER_03]: What would I have, like, been insisting that cold become true? 46:06.516 --> 46:09.919 [SPEAKER_03]: Well, I mean, obviously, and it says the cold become so that her friend would go up there. 46:09.939 --> 46:11.601 [SPEAKER_01]: It wasn't even a bad cold, it was real. 46:11.621 --> 46:13.002 [SPEAKER_03]: It wasn't about cold, you know? 46:13.589 --> 46:15.692 [SPEAKER_01]: No, we'll thank you for that update. 46:16.232 --> 46:17.133 [SPEAKER_03]: Guys, I've fed the people. 46:17.994 --> 46:18.335 [SPEAKER_03]: You're welcome. 46:19.196 --> 46:21.018 [SPEAKER_01]: Do you guys want to do advice segment? 46:21.038 --> 46:21.479 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, we should. 46:21.519 --> 46:22.100 [SPEAKER_01]: Are we good on time? 46:22.120 --> 46:22.961 [SPEAKER_03]: Do you need to like for the people? 46:23.461 --> 46:23.942 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, we have time. 46:24.302 --> 46:25.924 [SPEAKER_01]: Time, time, police over there. 46:26.225 --> 46:26.665 [SPEAKER_01]: Are we doing? 46:28.227 --> 46:28.507 [SPEAKER_03]: We're good. 46:28.628 --> 46:30.109 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, we have so many emails. 46:30.250 --> 46:34.935 [SPEAKER_01]: I need to pick one, but then I need to like read through the rest of them. 46:35.776 --> 46:38.460 [SPEAKER_01]: OK, this one is a complicated one. 46:39.000 --> 46:40.322 [SPEAKER_03]: OK, let's hear it. 46:41.078 --> 46:46.166 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, the subject to line is, my uneasy feelings on the happiest day of my sister's life. 46:46.987 --> 46:48.589 [SPEAKER_01]: Hey girls, how you doing? 46:48.990 --> 46:53.837 [SPEAKER_01]: Long time, listen to the pod, but first time writer from South Shore Massachusetts, shout out Colby. 46:53.897 --> 46:55.359 [SPEAKER_01]: Shout out Massachusetts. 46:55.740 --> 47:05.955 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm looking for your input and advice on a current situation that I'm dealing with, and I always love hearing your realistic and honest takes during the advice segment each week, or every three weeks. 47:06.104 --> 47:09.528 [SPEAKER_01]: My little sister is much younger than me and my other siblings. 47:10.089 --> 47:12.591 [SPEAKER_01]: She went out west for school and stayed there after graduation. 47:12.892 --> 47:16.876 [SPEAKER_01]: She met her boyfriend very early, her freshman year, and they've been together ever since. 47:17.277 --> 47:21.562 [SPEAKER_01]: This relationship has been fast and serious with them living together since they were juniors in college. 47:22.302 --> 47:35.217 [SPEAKER_01]: My siblings and I aren't the biggest fan of her boyfriend, and we feel like he's a lot of maturing to do, which isn't surprising considering he's 22, he's a 22-year-old boy. 47:35.197 --> 47:40.461 [SPEAKER_01]: While I'm excited to see her so happy with him, there are uneasy feelings in my stomach surrounding the whole thing. 47:41.162 --> 47:51.071 [SPEAKER_01]: I personally had a very fulfilling decade in my 20s, lots of fun travel growing into who I am and a part of me is sad to think that she's going to miss out on all of that by settling down so soon. 47:51.691 --> 47:53.953 [SPEAKER_01]: Like you said in last week's episode, What's the Rush? 47:54.654 --> 47:58.877 [SPEAKER_01]: Knowing the engagement is happening no matter what, how would you approach shifting this mindset? 47:59.097 --> 48:02.420 [SPEAKER_01]: I want to be happy for my sister without these other uneasy feelings creeping in. 48:02.760 --> 48:03.161 [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you. 48:03.721 --> 48:04.562 [SPEAKER_01]: Love you, see you, bye. 48:06.348 --> 48:11.656 [SPEAKER_01]: Hmm, isn't that that is a tough really tough? 48:11.676 --> 48:14.500 [SPEAKER_01]: Like I'm trying to think is my sister No, I think about my something. 48:14.540 --> 48:23.272 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, I think of your sister But like if I didn't like their significant other like they wouldn't give a shit What do you mean like they wouldn't care that you don't like they would knock her for sure? 48:24.194 --> 48:25.696 [SPEAKER_03]: Okay, be like well, you're not dating them. 48:25.776 --> 48:26.517 [SPEAKER_03]: I am so 48:27.475 --> 48:30.139 [SPEAKER_01]: which at the end of the day is the true matter. 48:30.680 --> 48:35.387 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, you don't have to like someone's boyfriend like because you're not the one dating them. 48:35.788 --> 48:38.933 [SPEAKER_01]: But you have to look at it's how the person who is dating them acts. 48:38.993 --> 48:41.156 [SPEAKER_01]: Like does your sister seem really happy? 48:41.176 --> 48:43.941 [SPEAKER_01]: Does your sister seem fulfilled with this situation? 48:44.021 --> 48:51.252 [SPEAKER_01]: Like does she, and then if you see her happy, then that's all you can really focus on is her happy. 48:51.292 --> 48:53.736 [SPEAKER_01]: And she will pay for her own way. 48:56.686 --> 48:58.790 [SPEAKER_02]: But I guess it depends on the relationship you have also. 48:58.810 --> 49:05.483 [SPEAKER_02]: And also like how close your family is and how much time you have to spend with the person is another thing too. 49:05.503 --> 49:14.622 [SPEAKER_02]: Like if you're only seeing them on holidays too, it's like crazy to think that you're not obsessed with the person that you're sibling is marrying. 49:15.102 --> 49:18.930 [SPEAKER_02]: But again, like you just have to love them for your sibling. 49:19.653 --> 49:26.084 [SPEAKER_01]: Right and you always I feel like build up in your head how you anticipate your life to go like growing up with my younger sister Like I've gone through life. 49:26.745 --> 49:44.175 [SPEAKER_01]: I still am at she's not dating anyone currently So I still have this idea in my head of like all like me and Jack and in her and her boyfriend has been like become like being besties like that's like what I picture and I know like I'm gonna be happy for her no matter no matter who she finds one day but like 49:44.155 --> 50:00.612 [SPEAKER_01]: you have this picture in your head and if that doesn't pan out you will feel kind of sad like there's like a missing piece there like oh like but I think the biggest thing is you need to focus on your sister and her happiness and like truly just 50:00.592 --> 50:16.390 [SPEAKER_01]: The thing is, if it's meant not meant to be, and they don't go through the wedding or whatever, or if she comes to you looking for honest feedback or she's nervous about something or she doesn't want to go through with it, that is the time when you can like disclose your feelings. 50:16.370 --> 50:16.991 [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you. 50:17.031 --> 50:36.808 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, or if there's ever a time where I feel like she expresses any type of like question or hesitation or lack of excitement for like wedding planning or anything just to sit down and be like, you don't have to do this if you like, or having second thoughts. 50:36.788 --> 50:40.316 [SPEAKER_01]: And I would make it about like the getting married of it. 50:40.617 --> 50:41.699 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, not the boy. 50:41.739 --> 50:45.248 [SPEAKER_01]: The man, like, oh, you know, maybe so and so isn't right for you. 50:45.308 --> 50:47.733 [SPEAKER_01]: Like you're like, you don't have to get married right now. 50:47.794 --> 50:48.435 [SPEAKER_01]: Like it's, yeah. 50:49.563 --> 50:53.209 [SPEAKER_01]: you have time, like you can even just stay with this guy, obviously. 50:53.290 --> 50:54.552 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like, keep dating. 50:54.592 --> 50:57.357 [SPEAKER_01]: And like, 22, it is quite very good. 50:57.457 --> 51:01.324 [SPEAKER_01]: Also, some people get married at 22 and are happy forever. 51:01.504 --> 51:01.744 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 51:01.824 --> 51:03.628 [SPEAKER_01]: And so it's very situational. 51:04.349 --> 51:04.489 [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm. 51:04.509 --> 51:07.154 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't think I was personally ready at 22 to be married. 51:08.356 --> 51:08.757 [SPEAKER_03]: Girl. 51:09.197 --> 51:14.727 [SPEAKER_01]: And I had a lot that happened to be in my 20s that like I'm so glad happened and it wouldn't have happened if I was married. 51:14.926 --> 51:16.528 [SPEAKER_03]: I can't imagine getting married at 22. 51:16.928 --> 51:24.515 [SPEAKER_02]: Well, that would also mean that we would have been married for seven years now, which is so scary to think about as well. 51:25.737 --> 51:26.437 [SPEAKER_03]: That didn't mean. 51:26.457 --> 51:39.390 [SPEAKER_01]: Just like, yeah, with our personal journeys, because again, some people get married at 22 and have, or like, happy and right, have them married for seven years in, are like, thriving and growing, and all that, but I just know personally that would not have been me. 51:39.650 --> 51:40.111 [SPEAKER_02]: No, no. 51:40.451 --> 51:42.233 [SPEAKER_01]: I literally didn't even know. 51:43.057 --> 51:43.761 [SPEAKER_03]: what it was. 51:44.746 --> 51:49.894 [SPEAKER_02]: No, not that, but more like trying to think personally like. 51:51.123 --> 52:01.274 [SPEAKER_02]: what I even thought that I wanted out of like any aspect of my life at age 22, looking back on every now and what I was doing. 52:01.414 --> 52:14.869 [SPEAKER_02]: Like where you even wanted to live that but like in terms of career path and jobs like I didn't even know what jobs existed then all that I cared about was the fact that I had one and like had moved to New York. 52:14.849 --> 52:19.698 [SPEAKER_02]: And just like life experiences and things at that point in time. 52:19.758 --> 52:21.561 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 52:22.462 --> 52:24.346 [SPEAKER_02]: I wouldn't be for me. 52:24.366 --> 52:26.870 [SPEAKER_02]: How would you approach shifting this mindset? 52:27.852 --> 52:32.219 [SPEAKER_02]: I think you just got to put it in the back of your mind and move forward. 52:32.660 --> 52:33.602 [SPEAKER_03]: Like that's part of their journey. 52:33.762 --> 52:34.804 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 52:34.944 --> 52:35.245 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 52:35.445 --> 52:36.227 [SPEAKER_03]: It doesn't work out. 52:36.828 --> 52:39.372 [SPEAKER_03]: That's like part of the journey and the learning experience. 52:39.487 --> 52:48.140 [SPEAKER_02]: I also have three older sisters, and if I wanted to get married when I was 22, and they tried to tell me not to, I would be so angry. 52:48.180 --> 52:49.983 [SPEAKER_01]: And you'd shut them out kind of, right? 52:50.003 --> 52:50.123 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 52:50.143 --> 52:52.166 [SPEAKER_01]: You'd be like, I, okay, fuck you. 52:52.186 --> 52:53.007 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want to hear you. 52:53.027 --> 52:53.288 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 52:53.308 --> 52:54.630 [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm not going to involve you in the wedding. 52:54.650 --> 52:55.852 [SPEAKER_01]: You don't have to calm. 52:55.872 --> 53:00.819 [SPEAKER_01]: Like the reaction would not be, not understanding it would be like anger at that age. 53:00.839 --> 53:00.939 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 53:01.100 --> 53:01.240 [SPEAKER_03]: Sure. 53:01.340 --> 53:01.540 [SPEAKER_03]: Sure. 53:01.560 --> 53:01.721 [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah. 53:01.901 --> 53:02.001 [UNKNOWN]: Sure. 53:02.437 --> 53:06.265 [SPEAKER_01]: Especially when it's like an older sibling trying to tell you something, to tell you what to do. 53:07.107 --> 53:07.308 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 53:08.190 --> 53:14.303 [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like you just, you need to keep it, like your nervousness to yourself. 53:14.722 --> 53:18.150 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but like it's hard to do that because of what you want to protect her. 53:18.330 --> 53:24.304 [SPEAKER_02]: It's like we're all at this point in life where you just have to like let people make mistakes and learn from them. 53:25.045 --> 53:27.912 [SPEAKER_02]: Let them theory, let them let them let them. 53:27.992 --> 53:28.493 [SPEAKER_04]: Is that a thing? 53:28.674 --> 53:29.255 [SPEAKER_04]: Let them do it. 53:29.275 --> 53:31.019 [SPEAKER_01]: Now Robbins, you come on. 53:31.039 --> 53:32.683 [SPEAKER_01]: You don't know Robbins? 53:32.903 --> 53:33.304 [SPEAKER_04]: No. 53:34.752 --> 53:35.753 [SPEAKER_01]: the let them theory. 53:35.953 --> 53:37.955 [SPEAKER_01]: Mellarabans was on gasoline go podcast. 53:38.415 --> 53:39.616 [SPEAKER_01]: They did a really good episode with her. 53:40.557 --> 53:42.979 [SPEAKER_02]: Um, yeah, but it's true. 53:43.400 --> 53:47.863 [SPEAKER_02]: Like, let go of it something that is so not in your control at all. 53:48.044 --> 53:49.145 [SPEAKER_01]: I was literally just going to say that. 53:49.165 --> 53:51.767 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, you have to let go of things that aren't in your control. 53:52.207 --> 54:01.015 [SPEAKER_01]: And I can't encourage you that as a self-proclaimed control freak myself, it's hard to do that, but you do, because it'll, you'll feel a lot lighter. 54:01.335 --> 54:04.658 [SPEAKER_01]: If you let go of things, you can't control and just, 54:04.638 --> 54:12.578 [SPEAKER_01]: I saw this thing on, what did I put, I put on my Instagram story today, it was like the idea of a mystery or something. 54:14.803 --> 54:19.896 [SPEAKER_01]: My favorite mental health hack is to remember that I'm not in control and to surrender to the mystery. 54:20.483 --> 54:23.388 [SPEAKER_01]: Who up the I saw that today I'm like surrender to the mystery. 54:23.449 --> 54:24.250 [SPEAKER_04]: That's today. 54:24.270 --> 54:29.179 [SPEAKER_01]: What an interesting concept like the because our whole life truly is a mystery. 54:29.360 --> 54:31.544 [SPEAKER_01]: No one knows where we're gonna go. 54:31.564 --> 54:39.859 [SPEAKER_01]: We're gonna do But it is understandable that you are concerned by your sister like I would be feeling it the same but 54:40.379 --> 54:41.540 [SPEAKER_03]: you just get a lot of play out. 54:41.560 --> 55:05.307 [SPEAKER_01]: You just have to let her until she like we said comes to you with like maybe a potential stress about something and then I think that is your time to unburden yourself but not making it so much about the boy, you know, about like the situation that she's that maybe not even the age because that might even make her feel less than I would just be like, you know, like if you're not at the point in your life right now or you want to get married, that's okay. 55:05.287 --> 55:06.969 [SPEAKER_02]: We're like, you're still so young. 55:07.169 --> 55:13.035 [SPEAKER_02]: Like, don't feel like you have to rush into anything that you are questioning. 55:13.756 --> 55:14.076 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 55:15.638 --> 55:16.759 [SPEAKER_01]: Anyway, best of luck to you. 55:17.200 --> 55:17.840 [SPEAKER_03]: Good luck, girl. 55:18.301 --> 55:19.162 [SPEAKER_01]: Thanks for writing in. 55:19.983 --> 55:21.184 [SPEAKER_03]: That's all we have time for, kids. 55:21.244 --> 55:24.247 [SPEAKER_01]: Everyone else, in the DMs, in the messages, don't worry. 55:24.287 --> 55:24.968 [SPEAKER_01]: We will get to you. 55:26.369 --> 55:27.010 [SPEAKER_01]: It's a play. 55:27.691 --> 55:28.872 [SPEAKER_01]: We love you. 55:28.892 --> 55:31.615 [SPEAKER_03]: We love you, see you, bye. 55:43.981 --> 55:45.644 [SPEAKER_03]: But we almost missed it, so I help the note. 55:46.345 --> 55:50.173 [SPEAKER_02]: Sometimes it's like, Maybe a tedious look, Roy, thinking that it looks really good. 55:50.193 --> 55:52.377 [SPEAKER_03]: We see, my lips are so... Yeah. 55:52.437 --> 55:53.359 [SPEAKER_02]: We, I'll give you one. 55:53.379 --> 55:54.140 [SPEAKER_03]: I would love one. 55:54.220 --> 55:54.501 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 55:55.122 --> 55:55.843 [SPEAKER_03]: Bye, guys. 55:56.244 --> 55:56.344 [SPEAKER_02]: Bye. 55:56.525 --> 55:58.288 [SPEAKER_02]: And I know it's pronounced La Quah. 55:58.468 --> 56:00.372 [SPEAKER_02]: But I can't bring myself to say that. 56:00.412 --> 56:00.993 [SPEAKER_02]: La Quah! 56:01.274 --> 56:01.534 [SPEAKER_02]: La Quah!