WEBVTT 00:00.031 --> 00:07.900 [SPEAKER_00]: Welcome to the Jamie See Show, a soft place to land for visionaries, the feelers, the heart led leaders, rewriting the rules of business. 00:08.220 --> 00:17.170 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Jamie See author, educator, and eight figure founder whose work blends nervous system science subconscious rewiring and story driven strategy. 00:17.410 --> 00:26.680 [SPEAKER_00]: If you know that your work is meant to reach more people, if you crave a business that feels as good in your body as it looks on paper, you are in the right place. 00:26.660 --> 00:30.656 [SPEAKER_00]: Here we go way beyond formulas and we go into the felt. 00:30.997 --> 00:31.780 [SPEAKER_00]: This is business. 00:32.222 --> 00:35.655 [SPEAKER_00]: Reimagined through softness, strategy, and soul. 00:36.057 --> 00:36.619 [SPEAKER_00]: Let's begin. 00:37.342 --> 00:39.946 [SPEAKER_00]: I love welcome back to the show. 00:40.026 --> 00:41.849 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm so grateful that you are here. 00:41.910 --> 00:43.753 [SPEAKER_00]: This is your host, Jamie. 00:43.793 --> 01:03.906 [SPEAKER_00]: See, and we're going to be diving into, I actually really love this topic, because it is one of the most, I don't think it's talked about enough, but it is the the money self sabotage and it is a topic that I think once you have some of these pieces of awareness, you recognize like, 01:04.139 --> 01:04.640 [SPEAKER_00]: Interesting. 01:05.381 --> 01:06.001 [SPEAKER_00]: That does happen. 01:06.522 --> 01:07.503 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, interesting. 01:08.024 --> 01:09.806 [SPEAKER_00]: That I identify with that. 01:10.607 --> 01:26.107 [SPEAKER_00]: And this, you know, the whole point of this episode is really to bring more awareness to your lived experience as a business owner who has a relationship with everything and all things and where you are in relationship to one thing, you're generally in relation to a lot of things. 01:26.648 --> 01:33.977 [SPEAKER_00]: And we're going to be talking 01:33.957 --> 01:59.695 [SPEAKER_00]: that when money actually comes in, there's a very interesting piece of the puzzle that happens because if you've been listening to any of my previous episodes or anything like that or not familiar to my world, you know that I talk about how when we are making money in our business, when we are creating goals, when we're doing these things, we can have this very, very strong desire. 01:59.675 --> 02:01.137 [SPEAKER_00]: to make the money. 02:01.477 --> 02:03.479 [SPEAKER_00]: And then a lot of times we're like, amazing, great. 02:03.540 --> 02:04.781 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, I'm going to have this kind of launch. 02:04.801 --> 02:08.165 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to do this in this and then it comes in and our bodies are like, woo, woo. 02:08.185 --> 02:09.827 [SPEAKER_00]: Like it's almost destabilizing. 02:10.327 --> 02:18.998 [SPEAKER_00]: And so many people are not even aware of how uncomfortable they actually feel and how sneaky the body in the mind can get when this happens. 02:19.038 --> 02:24.484 [SPEAKER_00]: Because this is the the purest and most 02:24.464 --> 02:38.164 [SPEAKER_00]: of this topic that I could dive into because we can want something so much, but then when it gets here, our bodies are like, well, hold the phone and there is this kind of aspect of the body that's responding to it. 02:38.184 --> 02:38.865 [SPEAKER_00]: So let's dive into it. 02:38.885 --> 02:45.595 [SPEAKER_00]: So the first thing we're going to go through five specific things, but the first thing that happens is that the money comes in. 02:46.098 --> 02:52.828 [SPEAKER_00]: And all of a sudden, like you hit the goal and instead of you being like, oh, yeah, I'm going to celebrate this. 02:52.888 --> 02:54.070 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to feel so good around this. 02:54.110 --> 02:55.332 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm so happy. 02:55.352 --> 02:57.696 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, wow, this is amazing. 02:57.716 --> 03:03.184 [SPEAKER_00]: And you're like, celebrate it and hold it and you're like acknowledging it and you're actually spending time with it. 03:03.244 --> 03:10.495 [SPEAKER_00]: Instead, it is this moment of like you immediately move the goal post of like, okay, now I need to set a new bowl. 03:10.696 --> 03:14.822 [SPEAKER_00]: Now I need to say, it's like you just kind of like bypass your like, I've got it because. 03:15.224 --> 03:16.807 [SPEAKER_00]: Sitting in the, I did it. 03:16.827 --> 03:17.628 [SPEAKER_00]: I did it. 03:17.648 --> 03:18.630 [SPEAKER_00]: I did it. 03:18.870 --> 03:19.471 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my gosh. 03:19.632 --> 03:20.353 [SPEAKER_00]: Yay. 03:20.914 --> 03:24.700 [SPEAKER_00]: It can feel very, very destabilizing to the body. 03:24.740 --> 03:36.901 [SPEAKER_00]: And when we don't actually acknowledge the growth acknowledge feeling satisfied around this, we don't encode a new experience around it. 03:37.422 --> 03:40.287 [SPEAKER_00]: We just tell our body and our nervous system that like, 03:41.178 --> 03:42.419 [SPEAKER_00]: This is still not safe. 03:43.100 --> 03:44.862 [SPEAKER_00]: And we're not safe here, we're not safe here. 03:45.242 --> 03:53.031 [SPEAKER_00]: And then you keep running and going and going and going, trying to find the new next level of stability and feeling of, oh, this feels good. 03:53.051 --> 03:59.658 [SPEAKER_00]: I see myself, I'm witnessing myself, I'm proud of myself, this feels amazing, this feels so good, I'm like celebrating it. 03:59.998 --> 04:02.881 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a semi-date, like, oh, keep going, keep going, keep going. 04:03.362 --> 04:10.830 [SPEAKER_00]: And that's a really important thing because that's a number one sign that the body still is not 04:10.810 --> 04:11.451 [SPEAKER_00]: with your goal. 04:12.212 --> 04:31.738 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, the next thing is that it's very interesting because when money can come in, all of a sudden you might find yourself being like, okay, the money came in and all of a sudden you're like opening spreadsheets and like forecasting for the next month and like planning the next launch and starting to calculate retention and like it's this almost like um, 04:32.427 --> 04:51.448 [SPEAKER_00]: It's this condensing energy that turns into restriction and it's really a sense of control of like I don't want to lose this I don't want to lose it and it's like the control aspect of like gripping is replacing this receiving energy so where the first the difference between the first and the second one is 04:51.428 --> 05:07.480 [SPEAKER_00]: acknowledging that the goal feels safe in the body, acknowledging that it's like, I did this and you're associating the emotional signature and experience in your body to your identity that you did it. 05:07.848 --> 05:25.840 [SPEAKER_00]: that you can be proud and the second one is the immediate hyper control that comes into like not just like moving and like launching another goal, but it's like the it's the moving and it's it's the gripping energy of like okay now I got to keep it I keep it got to keep it and that. 05:25.820 --> 05:35.953 [SPEAKER_00]: is a, you know, there's generally always a story that we're attaching to why we feel the need to grip, but that is, it is this hyper control that tends to happen. 05:36.694 --> 05:42.662 [SPEAKER_00]: And like I said, anytime that I'm talking about out of these things, this is really, I just want you to know that there's nothing ever wrong with you. 05:42.682 --> 05:43.503 [SPEAKER_00]: There's nothing wrong with you. 05:43.524 --> 05:44.805 [SPEAKER_00]: There's nothing broken about you. 05:44.825 --> 05:55.219 [SPEAKER_00]: This is literally just the most natural and normal aspect of when people are unaware of how their body is responding 05:55.199 --> 06:16.323 [SPEAKER_00]: When we become aware, we become so much more powerful in our businesses because we get to not just make it mean something about us or attach a story to something or like I'm a hyper controlling, I'm a control freak or like I'm not worthy of anything like it's it's just it's like, oh, it's so interesting that I'm noticing this about myself right and then you have the tools to be able to then move through it. 06:17.644 --> 06:20.768 [SPEAKER_00]: This one number three, oh my goodness, this one happens. 06:22.182 --> 06:28.952 [SPEAKER_00]: more than I can say for so many people, it's this like clench or spend pattern that happens. 06:29.854 --> 06:37.886 [SPEAKER_00]: And so this is, this is probably one of the most under-talked about one is when money comes in. 06:38.187 --> 06:39.048 [SPEAKER_00]: The overflow comes in. 06:39.188 --> 06:45.017 [SPEAKER_00]: The launch a larger amount or like more like consistent revenues flowing. 06:45.419 --> 07:05.352 [SPEAKER_00]: There's two things that can generally happen, and I've seen it on both sides of the spectrum is number one, it's this, I need to get rid of the money, I need to spend it, I need to go spend money to go to target, I need to donate, I need to go to I literally need to like it's like getting the money gone like moving the money and. 07:05.635 --> 07:08.020 [SPEAKER_00]: It's this discharge of expansion. 07:08.060 --> 07:09.302 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like, wow, get it out. 07:09.383 --> 07:25.956 [SPEAKER_00]: And this is really the, I see this a lot when people are in their business and all of a sudden they're like making money but then they're like spending more and more and more and they're like, how come I'm like making more money but like all of a sudden I'm just like I'm always, I always have the same amount back in my bank account. 07:25.936 --> 07:30.784 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's because there's a lack of availability and awareness what's actually happening. 07:31.025 --> 07:36.394 [SPEAKER_00]: Again, there's no judgment around this, but you would find that there's a lot of outgoing things. 07:36.434 --> 07:37.556 [SPEAKER_00]: There's a lot of urgency. 07:37.736 --> 07:42.945 [SPEAKER_00]: And sometimes it's not even around the money, but it's like all of a sudden you want to go do this really, really big vacation or else. 07:42.965 --> 07:43.646 [SPEAKER_00]: And you want to do these things. 07:44.207 --> 07:47.493 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's not, okay, I have to be very clear on this one. 07:49.356 --> 07:50.458 [SPEAKER_00]: A lot of times, 07:52.497 --> 08:02.737 [SPEAKER_00]: when there is a distinguishing factor of the body trying to remove the money versus you being in flow and being like, I desire to go on this vacation. 08:02.757 --> 08:10.692 [SPEAKER_00]: I desire to go and go shopping or donate or do these things, right? 08:10.672 --> 08:34.266 [SPEAKER_00]: It's auditing the energy underneath it because one is an urgency energy and one is in grounded regulated energy, one feels calm, one feels fine, so it's like neutral like oh yeah this guy's blue cool right the other one's like oh my god it's like this I have to do it now I have to do it now it's this it's this rush just this it's this the the pace is faster. 08:34.246 --> 08:35.589 [SPEAKER_00]: It's it's urgency energy. 08:35.629 --> 08:38.474 [SPEAKER_00]: It's stress hormones underneath that decision. 08:38.514 --> 08:39.396 [SPEAKER_00]: So just auditing that. 08:39.977 --> 08:45.968 [SPEAKER_00]: And the second thing that happens is it's now either I need to get this gone, right? 08:46.008 --> 08:51.299 [SPEAKER_00]: We're bringing ourselves back down to what our body feels comfortable with in terms of holding a certain amount of money. 08:51.339 --> 08:54.685 [SPEAKER_00]: And then the second one is becoming really 08:54.665 --> 09:01.131 [SPEAKER_00]: really afraid to spend anything after making the money because it's almost like I don't trust that it'll ever come back again. 09:01.532 --> 09:05.156 [SPEAKER_00]: There's this kind of scarcity aspect of like that was a fluke or that I don't know. 09:05.596 --> 09:24.655 [SPEAKER_00]: One is it going to come back again and there's kind of a lack of trust in divine energy and source energy providing for you and then also your own trust within yourself that you are always being provided for and that you are the wealth channel 09:26.710 --> 09:32.039 [SPEAKER_00]: And when the gear energy in your aura is more clear, like the energy field around you is more clear. 09:32.079 --> 09:39.090 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not clogged up with these limiting aspects of yourself or the nervous system dysregulation, right? 09:39.110 --> 09:40.492 [SPEAKER_00]: Like everything's getting clogged. 09:40.512 --> 09:41.915 [SPEAKER_00]: You think about your aura field, right? 09:41.935 --> 09:43.958 [SPEAKER_00]: Like all of this energy field around you gets clogged. 09:44.018 --> 09:47.824 [SPEAKER_00]: And like everything that's trying to make its way to you is just like cannot make its way to you. 09:47.804 --> 10:03.068 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's very confusing to the energy field because obviously, whenever you are operating a certain way in your body, you're asking for something, you're behaving a certain way, the 3D world cannot help but reorganize itself around that. 10:04.129 --> 10:09.778 [SPEAKER_00]: It just can't help but it's literally, it's the nature, it's the laws, the rule, 10:09.910 --> 10:16.460 [SPEAKER_00]: You cannot not be acting and behaving and believing a certain way and then the external world is never changes. 10:16.500 --> 10:19.525 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, it's not the somehow it works, okay? 10:19.545 --> 10:26.776 [SPEAKER_00]: So the clearer this energy field is, the more flow is always available. 10:27.296 --> 10:28.058 [SPEAKER_00]: It's always available. 10:28.899 --> 10:34.247 [SPEAKER_00]: New York Pure Consciousness, there's always there's literally limitless abundance everywhere, always. 10:35.543 --> 10:43.853 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, now, these are both the nervous system response, either the spending it quickly or needing to hold on to it, that energy, both are urgent. 10:45.495 --> 10:47.998 [SPEAKER_00]: The body just really doesn't feel safe holding it. 10:49.540 --> 10:55.106 [SPEAKER_00]: Or it feels like needs to release it or grip it. 10:56.608 --> 11:05.078 [SPEAKER_00]: And I will say that these are not regulated receding patterns, but the cleaner the energy field is, 11:05.902 --> 11:16.597 [SPEAKER_00]: There's this like, oh, yeah, it came in the money, like all this overflow came in like, ah, cool, like I just, you know, maybe your highest paying client ever, your biggest launch ever and it just is like, ah, cool. 11:17.959 --> 11:19.421 [SPEAKER_00]: Just feels chill. 11:20.943 --> 11:22.205 [SPEAKER_00]: We're like, oh, yeah, cool. 11:22.485 --> 11:24.988 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm actually, I got this the money's being consistent. 11:25.009 --> 11:25.469 [SPEAKER_00]: It's coming in. 11:25.489 --> 11:28.794 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, and now I'm going to invest in a team member. 11:30.056 --> 11:31.858 [SPEAKER_00]: It feels really, it feels good. 11:32.125 --> 11:58.926 [SPEAKER_00]: amazing I can invest in that or I can finally invest in a coach or I can invest in a vacation or I can donate more frequently or I you know in whatever way you want to do things right that's entirely up to you the fourth one that comes in so maybe this is after a big month or a big launch or yeah just money coming in more consistently instead of relaxing 11:58.906 --> 12:03.190 [SPEAKER_00]: Instead of the body feeling neutral around it, feeling like, yes, this is what I expect. 12:03.250 --> 12:03.891 [SPEAKER_00]: This feels good. 12:03.911 --> 12:04.591 [SPEAKER_00]: This feels safe. 12:04.611 --> 12:05.292 [SPEAKER_00]: It feels easy. 12:05.312 --> 12:06.173 [SPEAKER_00]: All the good. 12:06.573 --> 12:08.395 [SPEAKER_00]: You add more work to yourself. 12:08.475 --> 12:09.276 [SPEAKER_00]: You add more. 12:09.296 --> 12:10.978 [SPEAKER_00]: You say, yes, too fast or overworking. 12:10.998 --> 12:12.199 [SPEAKER_00]: You're extending access. 12:12.219 --> 12:13.460 [SPEAKER_00]: You're adding more bonuses. 12:13.540 --> 12:17.584 [SPEAKER_00]: And like, because a part of you unconsciously, remember on Consciousness. 12:17.604 --> 12:21.368 [SPEAKER_00]: You don't know this about yourself yet, but you it shows up behaviorally. 12:21.428 --> 12:27.073 [SPEAKER_00]: This is a behavior because a part of you believes like, if I'm getting paid this much, I need to justify it. 12:27.053 --> 12:30.859 [SPEAKER_00]: I need to prove to everyone else and to myself that I am deserving and worthy of this. 12:31.840 --> 12:40.813 [SPEAKER_00]: So you retie all of your income, all of this overflow into doing more, proving more, being more available. 12:43.677 --> 12:53.331 [SPEAKER_00]: And that's it's this process of really reversing any energy of ease and relaxation in the body. 12:55.066 --> 13:10.476 [SPEAKER_00]: It's just creating more of this chaotic flow energy, but you get to just, this is all, this all has to do with a lot with receiving, right, because This is directly tied to 13:12.278 --> 13:26.156 [SPEAKER_00]: are comfort with having a certain amount, with having a certain kind of life, with having a good life, with having an easy life, with not having to suffer, not having to bleed ourselves dry to be worthy and deserving of something. 13:26.456 --> 13:36.929 [SPEAKER_00]: Because a lot of us have been ingrained this belief of you are only worthy and deserving if you've worked yourself to the fucking bone to get this. 13:37.610 --> 13:40.834 [SPEAKER_00]: And like if you didn't work hard and it just came easy, like did you deserve it? 13:42.080 --> 13:44.103 [SPEAKER_00]: The answer is yes, you did. 13:44.163 --> 13:48.851 [SPEAKER_00]: You are a worthy and deserving human just because your heart is beating just because you exist. 13:51.555 --> 13:57.324 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, and the last one is, it's very subtle, so a little sneaky, little subtle. 13:57.925 --> 14:09.403 [SPEAKER_00]: But this is the moment you start making more money and you'll start to find yourself downplaying things. 14:09.637 --> 14:11.020 [SPEAKER_00]: You'll avoid talking about it. 14:11.060 --> 14:14.707 [SPEAKER_00]: You'll feel really strange, like sharing any wins. 14:16.170 --> 14:17.974 [SPEAKER_00]: And there's this like hiding energy. 14:17.994 --> 14:18.976 [SPEAKER_00]: Like I don't want anyone to know. 14:20.699 --> 14:23.204 [SPEAKER_00]: And there's this like energy of wanting to disappear. 14:23.224 --> 14:28.675 [SPEAKER_00]: I often find this too. 14:31.642 --> 14:36.187 [SPEAKER_00]: around when you might feel like all of a sudden you'll feel tired energy. 14:36.207 --> 14:43.955 [SPEAKER_00]: I see this a lot when your body is receiving more than you can consciously desire it, but then you receive it and the body is like woeholy hell. 14:44.536 --> 14:45.237 [SPEAKER_00]: What are we doing? 14:45.277 --> 14:48.120 [SPEAKER_00]: Feel like you're on a roller coaster all of a sudden you're like no! 14:48.420 --> 14:54.466 [SPEAKER_00]: And then you get really tired and you find yourself having lack of clarity and all of a sudden you're like I just don't want to talk anybody. 14:54.486 --> 14:55.928 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to talk to anybody. 14:55.908 --> 15:12.066 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what to say and then there's this pressure because you feel like you should be showing up and you should be doing the things and then then there's all this like guilt and like, you know, inner monologue of like your lazy and do it and you should be doing this all this pressure and judgment, all this and then it just creates more nervous. 15:12.086 --> 15:18.232 [SPEAKER_00]: This is dysregulation and they creates a spiral and then it's creating a story attached to that and then a lot of times. 15:18.252 --> 15:19.253 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, like I just don't want to launch again. 15:19.273 --> 15:20.375 [SPEAKER_00]: I just don't like I'm not ready. 15:20.395 --> 15:21.696 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not ready because 15:23.988 --> 15:30.782 [SPEAKER_00]: If you realize that this was happening, that you were retracting, like, why do I feel like, ah, I'm a biggest month ever. 15:31.343 --> 15:32.846 [SPEAKER_00]: Ah, I had this, right? 15:33.647 --> 15:36.453 [SPEAKER_00]: You realize, my body is trying to ground itself. 15:36.854 --> 15:38.537 [SPEAKER_00]: It's trying, it's trying to regulate. 15:38.557 --> 15:39.860 [SPEAKER_00]: It does not feel comfortable and safe here. 15:39.880 --> 15:43.026 [SPEAKER_00]: And then that would be a key to be like, now I know. 15:43.006 --> 16:10.380 [SPEAKER_00]: To use my tools is what we do in currency academy and also inside of my high level mastermind legacy, then you would be able to use your tools to understand what's happening and then the pressure and the judgment and all the things that are kind of spiraling aren't necessary at that point because then you also know that what's happening you also know how to navigate that aspect you understand what's happening and then you understand how to use your tools because you have them and then you can imagine when that happens. 16:11.710 --> 16:21.443 [SPEAKER_00]: when this kind of expansion rapid expansion possibly happens because like I said, when that energy field is clear, when it is clean, right? 16:21.824 --> 16:30.816 [SPEAKER_00]: You are an unlimited human with unlimited capabilities and so much overflow can come into your body, and so much can come into your field, and then all of a sudden you're like, 16:31.606 --> 16:39.061 [SPEAKER_00]: because the body doesn't know how to feel safe with it, because there's so much stories attached to all the layers of your wealth container that would be activated. 16:39.081 --> 16:49.783 [SPEAKER_00]: Now, with that being said, this is a normal experience, but if you don't know how your body operates, if you don't know what's happening underneath the surface, you don't know these things. 16:50.219 --> 17:11.113 [SPEAKER_00]: Then, if their kind of chronic urgency issues with, you know, launching in the future or doing these things and going back down to what feels familiar and then feeling like you are the problem when you're not the problem, you're not at all, you're a human and every single human. 17:11.819 --> 17:34.249 [SPEAKER_00]: especially in entrepreneur needs to do this work because if you don't, you can clearly understand what's going to happen and what's happening and why so many entrepreneurs are struggling with this tug and pull of their big dreams and their big hearts and their big desires and the programming that is keeping them as they are. 17:36.828 --> 17:59.612 [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm going to tell you this that programming is running 95% and it's going to whip you back in if you do it so doesn't really matter that and that's why that's why this knowledge is so important because you'll understand what's happening to be able to understand like how to get in with that 95% right you'll be able to neutralize that and it cannot have the power over you. 18:02.512 --> 18:05.056 [SPEAKER_00]: You'll be able to take action in the way you need to take action. 18:05.157 --> 18:07.100 [SPEAKER_00]: You'll understand the wealth containers. 18:07.120 --> 18:09.163 [SPEAKER_00]: You'll be able to understand what's going on. 18:09.183 --> 18:11.568 [SPEAKER_00]: You'll be able to understand exactly the protocols. 18:11.608 --> 18:12.950 [SPEAKER_00]: The exact things that you need. 18:15.815 --> 18:20.623 [SPEAKER_00]: So that's what I wanted to say today. 18:22.226 --> 18:25.171 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's just really, really common. 18:25.391 --> 18:27.034 [SPEAKER_00]: And you see this a lot in like, 18:28.516 --> 18:42.534 [SPEAKER_00]: Hmm, you see this a lot with lottery winners right when there there's this like rapid expansion because you got to think about it when your external worlds your bank account changes so rapidly. 18:42.554 --> 18:50.524 [SPEAKER_00]: It is filtering through every single layer of your identity. 18:50.588 --> 19:11.618 [SPEAKER_00]: It is catapulting you out of what is known, what is familiar, your relationship with being seen, your relationship with having an easy relationship with the people around you, your relationship with, you know, community and the people, you don't want to outgrow anybody, don't want to feel like on a biological level, you don't want to outgrow anyone, you don't want to look different. 19:11.598 --> 19:17.067 [SPEAKER_00]: your relationship with responsibility or, I mean, just a catapult to you. 19:17.748 --> 19:23.898 [SPEAKER_00]: So when you have this desire for all this money and then it comes in and you're like, oh my god, why do I break and feel so uncomfortable? 19:23.918 --> 19:25.420 [SPEAKER_00]: A lot of times you're like, what's wrong with me? 19:26.763 --> 19:27.604 [SPEAKER_00]: What's wrong with me? 19:27.804 --> 19:29.707 [SPEAKER_00]: Like why don't I feel grateful? 19:30.108 --> 19:33.313 [SPEAKER_00]: Am I like, am I this person who just can't be satisfied? 19:34.295 --> 19:36.358 [SPEAKER_00]: Like this is everything I've ever wanted and I have it now. 19:36.398 --> 19:38.061 [SPEAKER_00]: What do I want to crawl back into a hole? 19:39.863 --> 20:03.947 [SPEAKER_00]: all of it is normal, this is just your external world, it's always, it's always replicating and mirroring back what you believe you're worthy in deserving of, it's always, it's always mirroring back your relationship to being seen, to your goodness, to your to the willingness 20:04.720 --> 20:17.661 [SPEAKER_00]: when everything is an inside job and your external world rapidly changes and it's not aligned with the way that your internal world operates, there's a huge energetic mismatch. 20:18.342 --> 20:20.786 [SPEAKER_00]: And that's why it feels uncomfortable. 20:20.806 --> 20:25.734 [SPEAKER_00]: That's why the body responds, if like, oh my God, it almost feels like it's dangerous in some capacity. 20:25.754 --> 20:29.901 [SPEAKER_00]: Like if you feel like relief at first and then it's like, oh my gosh. 20:30.674 --> 20:31.695 [SPEAKER_00]: need to hold on to it. 20:32.796 --> 20:34.057 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to I want to back away. 20:34.118 --> 20:48.532 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want anyone to know about it or I want to spend all of it or I need to downplay or I need to like create another goal or I need to keep going and yeah it's this it's this urgency energy traction energy feels very different than like if you were to receive them just going to give you an example because you can tell the clear difference of this. 20:49.113 --> 20:58.943 [SPEAKER_00]: I want you to think about if someone was to hand you money right now. 21:01.775 --> 21:03.077 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, let's just say $1. 21:03.117 --> 21:04.941 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I'm like, oh, here's the dollar. 21:05.001 --> 21:05.922 [SPEAKER_00]: Here's a penny, here's something. 21:06.303 --> 21:06.804 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's really good. 21:06.824 --> 21:08.006 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, cool, thank you so much, cool. 21:08.126 --> 21:09.088 [SPEAKER_00]: Love it, thanks, awesome. 21:09.388 --> 21:12.113 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, you might honestly even feel like, I don't want that, right? 21:12.193 --> 21:14.157 [SPEAKER_00]: You might even feel like, oh, no, you keep it. 21:14.237 --> 21:15.459 [SPEAKER_00]: No, you keep it, oh, you keep it. 21:15.960 --> 21:18.324 [SPEAKER_00]: Instead of pushing it away from yourself, right? 21:19.085 --> 21:22.171 [SPEAKER_00]: That is a clear indication of where we feel comfortable receiving. 21:25.477 --> 21:25.757 [SPEAKER_00]: And, 21:26.530 --> 21:36.259 [SPEAKER_00]: it is a very important aspect of running a business, because we are asking all the time, like we're giving and giving and giving and we're giving this free concept, we're giving all these things, we're giving and giving and giving and giving. 21:36.500 --> 21:49.112 [SPEAKER_00]: And then we got the sales part, which is the asking, and then we have to like fold it, which is like I asked, and now I got it, and now I don't want it, like now it feels uncomfortable in my body, or now I'm afraid that I'm never going to be able to do it again or replicate it again. 21:50.553 --> 21:55.238 [SPEAKER_00]: So that's all I want to share for today, 21:57.074 --> 22:02.120 [SPEAKER_00]: There's going to be an essence of someone handing you a certain amount of money, and it feeling neutral. 22:03.381 --> 22:07.966 [SPEAKER_00]: And then eventually, that's how your body will feel every time you incrementally increase your revenue. 22:08.327 --> 22:13.312 [SPEAKER_00]: Even when a larger amount comes in, you might have a completely different response to it because you understand your body so much more. 22:13.632 --> 22:25.866 [SPEAKER_00]: You understand what's happening in your body, in your mind, in your human energy to experience in your business, that it may not eventually feel so challenging. 22:27.179 --> 22:44.327 [SPEAKER_00]: This is exactly the work that we do in my world so you are so worthy and so deserving and honestly I feel like it should be a legal requirement for every single business owner to navigate this education and I I'm not even slightly being sarcastic about that. 22:44.307 --> 22:54.143 [SPEAKER_00]: I think just as it is important, like when you're getting, you're getting a car, getting your driver's license, like you have to take a test that you have to, you have to learn how to drive your car. 22:54.203 --> 23:01.294 [SPEAKER_00]: If you're going to get a license, it's like you have to learn how to understand your body and your wealth container to be able to have a successful business. 23:01.755 --> 23:09.167 [SPEAKER_00]: Because most people are running completely unaware of anything that's happening and then they're struggling and they're just focused on 23:10.784 --> 23:13.168 [SPEAKER_00]: strategy and doing and hustling and grinding. 23:13.188 --> 23:14.169 [SPEAKER_00]: And then they feel like shit. 23:14.229 --> 23:19.097 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's like, everyone just, please. 23:19.157 --> 23:26.388 [SPEAKER_00]: And you might be wondering, just slightly, why I'm so adamant about this. 23:26.688 --> 23:27.549 [SPEAKER_00]: And that's because I lived it. 23:28.251 --> 23:29.953 [SPEAKER_00]: I lived every single part of this. 23:30.474 --> 23:31.315 [SPEAKER_00]: I ran my business. 23:31.816 --> 23:32.637 [SPEAKER_00]: My first two businesses. 23:32.677 --> 23:39.087 [SPEAKER_00]: This is why I do this for a living is because I refuse to live the rest of my life, not helping people with this. 23:40.990 --> 23:43.032 [SPEAKER_00]: because it almost took out my life. 23:46.115 --> 23:50.800 [SPEAKER_00]: Cause I had everything on paper and I was miserable and I was depressed and I was anxious. 23:52.762 --> 23:54.463 [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't want to be on this planet anymore. 23:55.244 --> 23:56.305 [SPEAKER_00]: I felt a terrible person. 23:56.365 --> 23:57.346 [SPEAKER_00]: I felt a terrible mother. 23:57.366 --> 23:58.808 [SPEAKER_00]: I hated that I couldn't be patient. 23:58.908 --> 24:00.149 [SPEAKER_00]: I hated that I couldn't be present. 24:00.229 --> 24:01.550 [SPEAKER_00]: I hated that I wasn't even fun anymore. 24:01.931 --> 24:05.534 [SPEAKER_00]: I hated that I couldn't recognize myself in the mirror. 24:07.336 --> 24:08.297 [SPEAKER_00]: And I made the decision. 24:10.775 --> 24:18.894 [SPEAKER_00]: but after learning this and after implementing it, after it had been changing my life to say goodbye to those businesses. 24:18.914 --> 24:23.805 [SPEAKER_00]: So I could have the life that I want so that I could help people in the way that I want. 24:26.215 --> 24:54.653 [SPEAKER_00]: And I said goodbye to two businesses that not a single person really ever understood except for my husband because he saw me coming home crying every single day he saw me losing myself every single day he saw how stressed I was he saw all of it he witnessed all of it and he is the most supportive loving human being on this planet for me we are he's and I feel like he was a very large part of me saving my own life. 24:56.050 --> 25:07.060 [SPEAKER_00]: because I gave myself the ability to be a mother again, I gave myself the ability to like really be alive in my life again. 25:07.100 --> 25:13.065 [SPEAKER_00]: And I just like don't say lightly because like it starts very low grade for a lot of people. 25:13.145 --> 25:14.947 [SPEAKER_00]: And then it gets there and then I see people. 25:14.987 --> 25:22.434 [SPEAKER_00]: And it is like they are struggling and they have convinced themselves because I convinced myself. 25:22.474 --> 25:23.695 [SPEAKER_00]: Like this is just. 25:25.379 --> 25:30.861 [SPEAKER_00]: what it costs and what it's supposed to feel like to have everything I've ever wanted. 25:33.191 --> 25:36.283 [SPEAKER_00]: And I convinced myself until it almost took me out. 25:37.208 --> 25:41.252 [SPEAKER_00]: And you just realize there's just an easier way. 25:41.753 --> 25:44.756 [SPEAKER_00]: And now I have a multi-eight figure business. 25:45.917 --> 25:48.159 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm the most happy, regulated version. 25:48.179 --> 25:50.182 [SPEAKER_00]: I get to help people all the time. 25:50.242 --> 25:54.686 [SPEAKER_00]: This is the work I do with all of my clients and they're changing their lives. 25:55.847 --> 25:58.570 [SPEAKER_00]: And it is just the biggest gift on the planet. 25:58.670 --> 26:06.979 [SPEAKER_00]: So when I say, I want this to be a legal requirement for a single business owner. 26:08.039 --> 26:14.491 [SPEAKER_00]: what I experienced and what so many other people are experiencing and they're not talking about it. 26:17.517 --> 26:26.554 [SPEAKER_00]: And they're chalking it up to like, oh, there's just something wrong with me or like I can't ever reach my goals or I feel more anxious, if you had looked at the actual 26:29.048 --> 26:53.807 [SPEAKER_00]: If you had actually looked at some of the stats of mental health and physical health of entrepreneurships, entrepreneurs and especially female entrepreneurs, it is a 26:54.192 --> 26:55.774 [SPEAKER_00]: their mental health is shot. 26:55.954 --> 26:59.539 [SPEAKER_00]: They're getting to the point where they can't operate. 26:59.760 --> 27:01.362 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's like, don't do that. 27:01.682 --> 27:03.825 [SPEAKER_00]: Don't get to the place where you can't fucking operate. 27:04.206 --> 27:16.302 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, do yourself a favor and work on this as you grow because you're gonna grow because who you are at the first five cameons is now who you're gonna be at 10 cameons and 20 cameons and whatever amount of revenue. 27:16.282 --> 27:19.786 [SPEAKER_00]: you're making, you're not the same person, you're going to change every single time. 27:19.946 --> 27:24.452 [SPEAKER_00]: You're going to peel back layers and you're going to have the tools to understand it. 27:24.872 --> 27:26.975 [SPEAKER_00]: And that's the biggest gift you could give yourself. 27:27.055 --> 27:29.838 [SPEAKER_00]: And that is something you cannot find in a marketing strategy. 27:29.878 --> 27:41.052 [SPEAKER_00]: And that is not something you can find by just thinking positive or EFT tapping, like I love EFT tapping, but that is not going to rewire your entire experience. 27:41.813 --> 27:44.556 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not going to work on every layer of your wealth container. 27:44.776 --> 27:46.238 [SPEAKER_00]: It's not going to do that. 27:47.888 --> 27:55.158 [SPEAKER_00]: But there's a reason why so many of my clients are feeling so much better is because there's an actual entire process in system. 27:55.578 --> 28:08.035 [SPEAKER_00]: And I teach this inside of currency academy, and then obviously for my higher-level clients who are making $50,000 a month and above, I have my high-level and close contact of astronaut legacy. 28:08.335 --> 28:11.820 [SPEAKER_00]: Any who's this is all I went on a rant, but hopefully he's did. 28:12.000 --> 28:15.685 [SPEAKER_00]: Hopefully he enjoyed something landed, something set inside your body and it felt real good. 28:15.665 --> 28:16.632 [SPEAKER_00]: I love you. 28:16.652 --> 28:17.922 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm so proud of you. 28:17.942 --> 28:19.393 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, thank you. 28:19.413 --> 28:20.038 [SPEAKER_00]: Love you.