WEBVTT 00:00.031 --> 00:01.552 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god, the funniest thing happened. 00:01.572 --> 00:04.996 [SPEAKER_00]: But this is why I know I have the right partner in this life. 00:05.596 --> 00:07.498 [SPEAKER_00]: Kids, these days, we'll legitimately never know. 00:07.518 --> 00:09.920 [SPEAKER_00]: If you ever want to stop going on dates with someone. 00:09.940 --> 00:11.301 [SPEAKER_00]: Stop going on dates with someone. 00:11.401 --> 00:14.544 [SPEAKER_00]: When life gives you lemons, you got to somehow make a penis a lot out of it. 00:14.584 --> 00:15.125 [SPEAKER_00]: Of course. 00:15.725 --> 00:17.227 [SPEAKER_00]: A penis a lot of with the lemon. 00:28.477 --> 00:29.498 [SPEAKER_00]: Ha ha. 00:29.782 --> 00:30.265 [SPEAKER_01]: I do. 00:30.285 --> 00:32.498 [SPEAKER_01]: I heard them this morning when I was waking up. 00:32.559 --> 00:33.987 [SPEAKER_01]: It was kind of soothing. 00:34.169 --> 00:35.530 [SPEAKER_01]: No, it's like honestly beautiful. 00:35.590 --> 00:43.237 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I literally though, in my head, was thinking, our birth still flying south for the winter. 00:43.257 --> 00:51.004 [SPEAKER_01]: I think some birds are, I was like, all winter, there were pigeons flying so close to my head. 00:51.044 --> 00:53.947 [SPEAKER_01]: They don't get a winter escape. 00:54.667 --> 00:58.030 [SPEAKER_01]: But these birds that are chirping away are new. 00:58.871 --> 01:00.312 [SPEAKER_01]: Are they back for the vacation? 01:00.672 --> 01:03.535 [SPEAKER_00]: I think so. 01:03.515 --> 01:10.969 [SPEAKER_00]: Snowbird go south for the winter quite literally have second homes in Florida and others Just have to hunkered down. 01:11.409 --> 01:25.515 [SPEAKER_00]: I've done quite a bit of hunkering this winter I stayed put all January I was home same and I like didn't leave my room too much same I'd like just started to emerge. 01:26.296 --> 01:26.637 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah 01:27.325 --> 01:28.346 [SPEAKER_01]: which I think is fine. 01:28.787 --> 01:32.151 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, you've like traveled, you've Coachella. 01:32.191 --> 01:34.875 [SPEAKER_01]: Coachella is on the horizon. 01:34.895 --> 01:35.916 [SPEAKER_01]: Do you have your skills? 01:36.457 --> 01:38.600 [SPEAKER_01]: Don't have outfits, don't have flights. 01:38.620 --> 01:39.521 [SPEAKER_01]: Don't have flights? 01:39.641 --> 01:42.885 [SPEAKER_01]: No, I need to book my flight. 01:43.286 --> 01:49.554 [SPEAKER_01]: They actually have gone down significantly over the past couple of days than when I looked last week. 01:50.455 --> 01:55.982 [SPEAKER_01]: And then after Coachella and back and then I have my Bahamas wedding. 01:55.962 --> 02:00.067 [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm, Memorial Day, but you haven't thought of that quite literally it. 02:00.187 --> 02:01.168 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but I haven't ordered it. 02:01.388 --> 02:03.010 [SPEAKER_01]: I need to order my cool. 02:03.030 --> 02:08.336 [SPEAKER_01]: I need to order things Do you I don't know why I've just been like I'll do it tomorrow to tomorrow. 02:08.937 --> 02:13.042 [SPEAKER_01]: I need to do my taxes as well this week I'd say that's most pressing. 02:13.222 --> 02:24.034 [SPEAKER_01]: No, I know I was supposed to do it Monday if my workday was super busy And I didn't have time that I was like, okay, I'm just gonna take photos of all these documents like for turbo taxes. 02:24.054 --> 02:24.855 [SPEAKER_01]: That way you're like doing 02:24.835 --> 02:43.114 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm said I have to send everything to my account and oh yes, but I see I called and said that my information was coming so I'm like on their books putting me to actually send it okay like immediately things to do yeah flights to book 02:43.094 --> 02:44.676 [SPEAKER_00]: Taxes to file. 02:44.956 --> 02:46.157 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, we are busy. 02:46.197 --> 02:47.799 [SPEAKER_00]: It's busy see this. 02:49.020 --> 02:50.222 [SPEAKER_00]: It really is. 02:50.562 --> 02:57.730 [SPEAKER_00]: Dear listeners, as you might have gathered by now We are missing Adam he is in Australia. 02:57.770 --> 03:01.574 [SPEAKER_00]: He is quite literally on a different day, right? 03:01.874 --> 03:03.756 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, which is he ahead of us? 03:04.437 --> 03:07.060 [SPEAKER_00]: He is like a full day ahead basically 03:07.040 --> 03:08.282 [SPEAKER_00]: Which is nuts. 03:08.722 --> 03:29.069 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah yesterday he sent me like a photo and it was or it might have been on his Instagram story something We were texting simultaneously, but was his Instagram story and I saw what I thought was a sunset and he was texting me how jet lag He was and how he hasn't been sleeping at all and I was like well, why don't you just go to sleep People's like it's 7 a.m. 03:29.469 --> 03:30.030 [SPEAKER_01]: It's morning. 03:30.130 --> 03:31.912 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that was a sunrise. 03:31.932 --> 03:33.334 [SPEAKER_01]: It's like oh my god 03:33.314 --> 03:38.441 [SPEAKER_01]: So used to thinking of people being in Europe and when I'm at work, it's bedtime for them. 03:38.641 --> 03:38.921 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 03:39.342 --> 03:41.564 [SPEAKER_01]: But yeah, he was starting a brand new day. 03:42.365 --> 03:47.532 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, well, Godspeed to Adam on his work journey after going to Miami. 03:47.792 --> 03:49.695 [SPEAKER_00]: And I know, living it up over the weekend. 03:49.735 --> 03:52.238 [SPEAKER_01]: So hopefully, oh my god, the funniest thing happened. 03:52.558 --> 03:53.860 [SPEAKER_01]: He was texting me. 03:54.721 --> 03:56.243 [SPEAKER_01]: What, that was Sunday morning. 03:56.263 --> 04:00.468 [SPEAKER_01]: I swear when we went through his flights. 04:00.488 --> 04:01.410 [SPEAKER_01]: His travel plans? 04:01.610 --> 04:02.511 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 04:02.727 --> 04:14.626 [SPEAKER_01]: I thought he got home mid-morning on Sunday and then had to go to the airport in the evening. 04:14.666 --> 04:22.197 [SPEAKER_01]: And he was only going to be able to be home for like one hour based off of my calculations. 04:22.398 --> 04:28.988 [SPEAKER_00]: I remember him saying that it was like a quick, like, throw things into a suitcase and go from Miami to then Australia. 04:28.968 --> 04:33.073 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so I woke up around nine. 04:33.093 --> 04:34.014 [SPEAKER_01]: I would say a slept in. 04:34.034 --> 04:36.537 [SPEAKER_01]: And I was in my bed. 04:36.557 --> 04:39.820 [SPEAKER_01]: I got up, cleaned a little bit, made a coffee. 04:39.920 --> 04:42.063 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, got back on my bed and was sitting there on my phone. 04:42.443 --> 04:45.987 [SPEAKER_01]: And I was reading a novel of texts from Adam. 04:46.828 --> 04:47.209 [SPEAKER_01]: God. 04:47.249 --> 04:52.194 [SPEAKER_01]: And then all of the sudden, here is someone called Colby. 04:52.214 --> 04:53.676 [SPEAKER_01]: And I was like, 04:55.580 --> 05:01.835 [SPEAKER_01]: I literally had just gone back in my bed to read these texts and I was like, what? 05:03.358 --> 05:05.543 [SPEAKER_01]: I had dead bolts in the door with the chain law. 05:05.844 --> 05:06.265 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh! 05:07.038 --> 05:10.183 [SPEAKER_01]: And so he was like, trying to get in and I was like, what are you doing? 05:10.203 --> 05:13.629 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I was like, thank god I'm awake. 05:14.371 --> 05:15.172 [SPEAKER_01]: What time was it? 05:15.432 --> 05:20.641 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, granted it was like, probably 10 a.m. at that point or like close to. 05:20.701 --> 05:25.950 [SPEAKER_01]: But still, I didn't realize he was on like a crack of dawn flight coming home. 05:26.311 --> 05:28.675 [SPEAKER_01]: But still, he wasn't home for that long. 05:28.655 --> 05:58.662 [SPEAKER_01]: right and then but turned around and went yeah on his merry way yeah after being locked out of his own home i literally was like what is going on because i i'm not kidding i sat down and had just started reading these texts and all the sudden heard his voice deemed that i go over there and or i responded to him and i forgot that the thing was locked and he was like can you let me can you let me into my apartment 05:58.642 --> 06:01.285 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, fair enough fair enough. 06:02.025 --> 06:09.292 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't I don't think to do it I've done it a couple times when jacks out of town Granted when I do it. 06:09.332 --> 06:27.450 [SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't make me feel any safer like I feel like I'm seeing videos of them like on screwing the thing Yeah, like somebody wants to get in they'll find a way or like using Cutters or whatever that like yeah wire cutters or whatever the fuck Yeah, I just I try not to think about it 06:27.430 --> 06:27.991 [SPEAKER_01]: same. 06:28.031 --> 06:36.887 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I am very jealous about Adam being in Australia and of you just being in the Tarzan cake goes sunshine. 06:36.908 --> 06:47.447 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, although I will say I know my trip looked beautiful in sunshiney but it was rainy and windy for the first three days. 06:47.427 --> 06:58.904 [SPEAKER_00]: So the extension was necessary the extension was necessary and this is why is it hurricane season there or was it just a weird trouble or it was a fluke It was like a weird thing and like there were locals there. 06:58.924 --> 07:07.057 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I mean locals There were people there that like have own property where we were staying who like stay there for half a year Snowbirds back to that. 07:07.297 --> 07:11.123 [SPEAKER_00]: I was part of snowbird and turkey cake rice then Florida 07:11.103 --> 07:17.554 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, not a bad situation, but we were trying with these people who like come down for like the winter, essentially. 07:17.995 --> 07:22.683 [SPEAKER_00]: And they were like, we've never seen a week this bad, like, in terms of weather. 07:22.783 --> 07:24.967 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, the winds were like 25 miles per hour. 07:25.027 --> 07:25.407 [SPEAKER_00]: Wow. 07:25.508 --> 07:25.808 [SPEAKER_00]: Raining. 07:26.549 --> 07:32.740 [SPEAKER_00]: But this is why I know I have the right partner in this life because I look a check. 07:32.720 --> 07:41.582 [SPEAKER_00]: I am like half of my face is like soaked with rain because it was like a random it would come and go Our tropical storms do but it was like 07:41.731 --> 08:08.329 [SPEAKER_00]: majority of the day we were like running for cover we'd be like on the beach and running for cover but it wasn't like it was just back and forth for like three days yeah when you're in that situation where you've taken off all these days you like plan these outfits you get to the vacation you're just like looking forward to the vacation for weeks and weeks and weeks where you get there and it isn't what you expected in terms of weather there are two types of people in this world people who are like you know 08:08.309 --> 08:09.590 [SPEAKER_00]: Negative Nancy about it. 08:09.811 --> 08:11.212 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, like this would happen to me. 08:11.352 --> 08:17.800 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, and like taking it so personally like taking a note on everyone around you And then there's like a second kind of person who's like, you know what? 08:17.840 --> 08:24.507 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I'm still not I'm off work at least still on vacation I can drink I can eat I can dance in the rain. 08:24.527 --> 08:30.334 [SPEAKER_00]: I can have a granald time And I'm happy to say that like I am with a partner 08:30.314 --> 08:31.955 [SPEAKER_00]: Jack is the latter. 08:32.256 --> 08:32.796 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 08:32.816 --> 08:35.619 [SPEAKER_00]: And that was what because I was not going to lie the former. 08:35.799 --> 08:43.025 [SPEAKER_01]: I was a little negative Nancy at first because I'm like Well, it's hard not to be when you have one thing in your head and you spent all this money. 08:43.446 --> 08:45.568 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, you allocated the time. 08:45.648 --> 08:47.910 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, and I have like a spray tan. 08:47.950 --> 08:49.551 [SPEAKER_00]: I had done so much prep work. 08:49.631 --> 08:51.593 [SPEAKER_00]: I got my hair nails done. 08:51.633 --> 08:53.675 [SPEAKER_00]: Like now my hair my nails and all this stuff. 08:53.695 --> 09:00.321 [SPEAKER_00]: And I had all these outfits and I had like a fond canva dock of like all of my outfits that I was going to wear and I was so excited and then like 09:00.301 --> 09:27.979 [SPEAKER_00]: Half the outfits I couldn't even wear, but then for Jack was like He was like lighten up have a pinnacle a lot of and you know what I did and then life was good life is good I mean granted we did extend by a day, but yeah, I mean he would never know But we had truly the best time just like being together good And I was like honestly, I think this is very telling like if I was with someone who I wasn't meant to be with like someone who's just not the right 09:27.959 --> 09:30.923 [SPEAKER_00]: energy for me, it would have been a really miserable trip. 09:31.544 --> 09:31.864 [SPEAKER_00]: I think. 09:31.884 --> 09:32.265 [SPEAKER_00]: 100%. 09:33.206 --> 09:42.900 [SPEAKER_01]: If you were both negative, just bringing each other down, or if one of you didn't have the ability to just snap out of it and make the most of it. 09:43.140 --> 09:43.601 [SPEAKER_00]: Exactly. 09:43.661 --> 09:46.845 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I let myself have a little 09:46.825 --> 10:00.278 [SPEAKER_00]: Not like a, a pout, I should say, but like a little like what the fuck did I do because I'm the one who chose these dates right I was like this is going to be perfect It's called like it's March we booked it a month out like I booked it in February. 10:00.358 --> 10:09.266 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, and I was like this is like this time of March is perfect because like it's around all the plans that we have like we have a lot of like random plans like, you know, people are getting married all this stuff. 10:10.207 --> 10:16.613 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah And then lo and behold the one week that I took like the one week of the month that I chose it's beautiful there now. 10:16.593 --> 10:17.315 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 10:17.335 --> 10:18.739 [SPEAKER_00]: But you know what, whatever. 10:18.800 --> 10:23.413 [SPEAKER_00]: Life, when life gives you lemons, you got to somehow make a penis a lot out of it. 10:23.855 --> 10:24.316 [SPEAKER_00]: Of course. 10:25.179 --> 10:27.345 [SPEAKER_00]: A penis a lot of with lemon. 10:27.967 --> 10:56.640 [SPEAKER_00]: but it was crazy because we went back to the hotel that we stayed at on our girl's trip years ago and it was so crazy because they changed a lot of things about the hotel but like the core of the hotel was the same yeah obviously and it was just bringing back all of these fields of just I feel like I was in such a different phase of life three years ago yeah it's crazy that was three years ago yeah it feels like it was not that long ago at all 10:56.620 --> 10:59.567 [SPEAKER_00]: I know, but I had, I, well, I know it was because I had a bob. 10:59.908 --> 11:00.489 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 11:00.510 --> 11:02.154 [SPEAKER_00]: The bob, the bob years? 11:02.254 --> 11:02.535 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 11:02.775 --> 11:05.382 [SPEAKER_01]: That, that, that was a, a time stamp. 11:06.645 --> 11:08.048 [SPEAKER_01]: The bob is the time stamp. 11:09.057 --> 11:13.263 [SPEAKER_01]: I, you can look at a photo and say, oh, I know exactly what you're at that is from. 11:13.563 --> 11:24.339 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, because of the Bob, because of the Bob and because of the strange way that I was doing my eyebrows at the time, the eyebrows really define where we were in life. 11:24.679 --> 11:25.460 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, no, it's true. 11:26.001 --> 11:32.791 [SPEAKER_00]: How little or how much I was doing them really defined each era of my life, I'd say. 11:32.971 --> 11:37.157 [SPEAKER_01]: I get that eyebrow era's, yeah, eyebrow and haircut. 11:37.137 --> 11:41.041 [SPEAKER_01]: and hair color, and hair color, true, both of them. 11:41.061 --> 11:41.782 [SPEAKER_01]: But it's a baliage. 11:42.263 --> 11:46.787 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh yeah, I actually can't remember the last time I got a baliage. 11:47.488 --> 11:48.469 [SPEAKER_01]: You do glosses now. 11:48.770 --> 11:54.776 [SPEAKER_01]: I do, but I haven't gotten one in, since the last time I got my hair, which I can't even remember when that was. 11:55.177 --> 12:01.103 [SPEAKER_01]: And I honestly think I'm just going to rock with this color brown that I have right now. 12:01.083 --> 12:04.570 [SPEAKER_01]: He's been asking me recently if he's a natural colored my hair. 12:04.590 --> 12:20.121 [SPEAKER_01]: I think the last glass that I got, they had come out with a new formula and I had been really trying to cool down the brassiness in my hair and I think it finally... 12:20.101 --> 12:24.085 [SPEAKER_01]: did that like whatever that gloss was. 12:24.345 --> 12:26.927 [SPEAKER_01]: And so it was very cool tone. 12:26.967 --> 12:35.014 [SPEAKER_01]: And then I think when I was in the sun and as it's washed out, it's gotten some of like my warmer coloring back. 12:35.615 --> 12:37.416 [SPEAKER_01]: So it's like a good mix. 12:37.436 --> 12:37.817 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. 12:37.837 --> 12:41.480 [SPEAKER_01]: That's nice, but I feel like I'm just going to keep it. 12:41.840 --> 12:47.085 [SPEAKER_00]: As your hair's grown, you're like slowly getting rid of like any past bleach, right? 12:47.405 --> 12:49.467 [SPEAKER_00]: Which is crazy to think that 12:49.447 --> 12:51.369 [SPEAKER_00]: What is the end of your hair now? 12:51.389 --> 13:11.174 [SPEAKER_00]: Was like 6 years ago was like at the top right I don't know how many notes So why there's like this thing like people say like okay you grow like one finger's length each month or something Oh, that's interesting like on average obviously everyone's hair grows my hair grows really fast I do think if this isn't my natural color. 13:11.234 --> 13:12.636 [SPEAKER_01]: It's very close to 13:13.274 --> 13:13.634 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 13:14.095 --> 13:16.998 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, you look at your eyebrows and it matches your eyebrows, yes. 13:17.018 --> 13:18.079 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, I see. 13:18.099 --> 13:19.781 [SPEAKER_00]: So, I'm rocking with that. 13:20.302 --> 13:22.064 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, anyway, guys, welcome back. 13:23.165 --> 13:25.448 [SPEAKER_00]: To match me in Manhattan with Katie Colby and Adam. 13:26.449 --> 13:27.650 [SPEAKER_00]: Just Katie and Colby for now. 13:28.631 --> 13:29.612 [SPEAKER_00]: Girls are what we're doing. 13:29.632 --> 13:33.597 [SPEAKER_00]: Adam is like rolling in his sleep right now. 13:34.217 --> 13:35.839 [SPEAKER_01]: Girls, I'm happy to. 13:35.859 --> 13:37.261 [SPEAKER_01]: I was gonna say, I hope so. 13:37.361 --> 13:38.402 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, is it nighttime there? 13:38.462 --> 13:39.283 [SPEAKER_01]: I have no idea. 13:39.303 --> 13:42.927 [SPEAKER_01]: I have no concept of what time it would be. 13:42.907 --> 13:44.532 [SPEAKER_01]: 17 hours. 13:44.752 --> 13:45.976 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm pretty sure. 13:46.417 --> 13:48.744 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if that's the travel time or the time. 13:48.924 --> 13:58.030 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm actually dating someone 17 hours away that far away in terms of time zone living in the future 13:58.010 --> 14:01.816 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, Colby and I were just discussing before we got on the mic. 14:02.157 --> 14:02.357 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 14:02.377 --> 14:05.862 [SPEAKER_00]: The Hannah Montana 20-year special. 14:06.704 --> 14:09.408 [SPEAKER_00]: I have not watched, but I will be watching. 14:09.789 --> 14:13.294 [SPEAKER_00]: I said to Colby, I was like, I don't know if I'm being a hater. 14:13.554 --> 14:15.578 [SPEAKER_00]: Of course, I'm a huge Hannah Montana fan. 14:15.698 --> 14:16.299 [SPEAKER_00]: I was there. 14:16.519 --> 14:17.841 [SPEAKER_00]: I remember it all too well. 14:17.861 --> 14:19.123 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, like I was there. 14:19.704 --> 14:22.128 [SPEAKER_00]: Hannah Montana movie was my birthday party one year. 14:22.368 --> 14:24.692 [SPEAKER_00]: Like all the girls, my mom. 14:24.672 --> 14:25.654 [SPEAKER_00]: went to the theater. 14:25.855 --> 14:27.258 [SPEAKER_00]: Lucas Till is up to. 14:27.298 --> 14:27.939 [SPEAKER_00]: No, seriously. 14:27.979 --> 14:30.304 [SPEAKER_00]: But, you know, no, so here's okay. 14:30.906 --> 14:33.872 [SPEAKER_00]: I know that like scheduling conflicts are a thing. 14:33.932 --> 14:34.373 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 14:34.393 --> 14:39.344 [SPEAKER_00]: I know that they like want us to do it their way, Hannah, Hannah, that's why. 14:39.705 --> 14:40.386 [SPEAKER_00]: Hannah's like. 14:40.366 --> 14:45.531 [SPEAKER_00]: Miley and Tish, it was like executive produced by Miley and Tish, her mom. 14:45.552 --> 14:47.213 [SPEAKER_00]: Like obviously they wanted it their way. 14:47.233 --> 14:48.354 [SPEAKER_00]: They wanted Alex Cooper in there. 14:48.374 --> 14:49.696 [SPEAKER_00]: They wanted chabble around in there. 14:49.736 --> 14:51.698 [SPEAKER_00]: Like it was how they wanted to do it. 14:51.758 --> 14:53.460 [SPEAKER_00]: And ultimately it is her thing. 14:53.480 --> 14:55.142 [SPEAKER_00]: Like we would have right there. 14:55.162 --> 14:55.842 [SPEAKER_01]: Really right was in it. 14:55.963 --> 14:56.243 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 14:56.263 --> 14:57.764 [SPEAKER_01]: Because I know that they've had there. 14:58.125 --> 14:58.926 [SPEAKER_01]: They reconciled. 14:58.966 --> 15:01.749 [SPEAKER_00]: They, I read, like I, of course, had to go down around the hole. 15:01.769 --> 15:07.795 [SPEAKER_00]: And like they apparently had a falling out like the family wise because of the marriage ending. 15:07.895 --> 15:09.597 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 15:09.577 --> 15:16.003 [SPEAKER_00]: weirdness involved in what happened in the fallout, but then they came back together in 2025, like, oh, okay, they're all good. 15:16.664 --> 15:21.569 [SPEAKER_00]: But I just, I was underwhelmed by the special. 15:22.389 --> 15:26.854 [SPEAKER_00]: I know it's like hard to jam back, like, a whole re, like, but I want to hear it. 15:26.874 --> 15:31.638 [SPEAKER_00]: I watched things like the friends special, you know, like all came back together and re-lived friends. 15:32.299 --> 15:34.681 [SPEAKER_00]: And I thought that was extremely well done. 15:34.841 --> 15:38.605 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I cannot wait for the Laguna Beach. 15:39.260 --> 15:40.161 [SPEAKER_00]: Is are they doing that? 15:40.201 --> 15:41.563 [SPEAKER_00]: Is that yeah, they're having a reunion. 15:41.623 --> 15:45.448 [SPEAKER_00]: How many years has it been since that 20 more than 20 years and 20? 15:46.649 --> 15:49.633 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I thought it was cool that they like spoilers ahead. 15:49.913 --> 15:51.495 [SPEAKER_00]: They brought out Selena Gomez. 15:52.016 --> 16:01.667 [SPEAKER_01]: Somebody brought up that I think Hannah Montana the first episode premiered after cowbells After the movie. 16:01.828 --> 16:03.970 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, like when after the movie came out. 16:03.990 --> 16:07.815 [SPEAKER_01]: So it was like cowbells came out and then Hannah Montana came out 16:07.998 --> 16:18.036 [SPEAKER_01]: I've read out to you guys. 16:18.096 --> 16:31.440 [SPEAKER_00]: You remember when we talked about the pod we saw we were right next to 16:31.420 --> 16:32.201 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't even know. 16:32.562 --> 16:32.782 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 16:32.802 --> 16:33.903 [SPEAKER_00]: We were there too. 16:34.003 --> 16:34.444 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. 16:35.105 --> 16:35.546 [SPEAKER_00]: We were there. 16:35.586 --> 16:38.469 [SPEAKER_00]: And they didn't even have any bodyguards or anything. 16:38.490 --> 16:39.571 [SPEAKER_00]: And they were just there. 16:39.631 --> 16:45.439 [SPEAKER_00]: Was this like around the time that they did that, they released the potential break-up song? 16:45.479 --> 16:46.941 [SPEAKER_00]: Excessive version? 16:47.181 --> 16:47.562 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 16:48.523 --> 16:49.164 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god. 16:49.204 --> 16:51.948 [SPEAKER_01]: That movie is so good I've watched it. 16:52.669 --> 16:53.670 [SPEAKER_01]: Not that long ago. 16:53.970 --> 16:55.993 [SPEAKER_00]: How do you watch it on Disney+, yeah. 16:56.429 --> 16:56.890 [SPEAKER_01]: How Bells? 16:57.070 --> 16:57.390 [SPEAKER_00]: You know what? 16:57.430 --> 17:00.654 [SPEAKER_01]: This is on Disney Plus now, it's life size. 17:01.275 --> 17:01.736 [SPEAKER_00]: Shut up. 17:01.796 --> 17:03.718 [SPEAKER_00]: I remember it was like impossible to watch that movie for years. 17:03.738 --> 17:04.779 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it's like a mystery. 17:06.101 --> 17:23.803 [SPEAKER_01]: But Cowbells is about these two girls that are really rich because their dad owns a dairy farm and then he goes away on a business trip and I'm pretty sure they lost all their money or burnt their house down or something. 17:23.783 --> 17:35.641 [SPEAKER_01]: There was like a kitchen fire for sure and there was a kitchen fire for sure I know that happened and then they started clogging in at the dairy farm They had to take their honey. 17:36.002 --> 17:41.370 [SPEAKER_01]: I see oh, and it was very light material girls vibes obsessed 17:41.890 --> 17:45.714 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that's another family beef that I need to go down a rabbit hole. 17:45.734 --> 17:47.016 [SPEAKER_00]: Did they kill her in Haley? 17:47.036 --> 17:52.001 [SPEAKER_00]: Were there songs that came out in cowbells that they like create music for the show? 17:52.142 --> 17:59.930 [SPEAKER_00]: Or there may be, I'm like, trying to remember if there's any songs that I like know a lot of the alien age, a discography rush is one of the best songs that I made. 17:59.951 --> 18:03.014 [SPEAKER_01]: I used to love their cover of walking on sunshine. 18:03.054 --> 18:07.459 [SPEAKER_01]: Yep, but song used to like get me going. 18:07.861 --> 18:11.566 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I would really like to talk to our friend Hillary Duff. 18:12.227 --> 18:16.474 [SPEAKER_00]: She's not our friend, but like, I do feel like we would be friends about what happened with her sister. 18:16.494 --> 18:18.096 [SPEAKER_00]: She looks so incredible. 18:18.136 --> 18:22.422 [SPEAKER_00]: Did they do a Lizzie McGuire reunion? 18:22.483 --> 18:23.364 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 18:23.444 --> 18:24.225 [SPEAKER_00]: Is that 20 years? 18:24.285 --> 18:26.028 [SPEAKER_01]: It's no more than a dad died. 18:26.068 --> 18:28.091 [SPEAKER_01]: Shut up, you're right. 18:28.131 --> 18:29.633 [SPEAKER_01]: The dad and the show. 18:30.305 --> 18:39.525 [SPEAKER_01]: And one of my, like, most mind-blowing facts, ever that I've seen is that Lizzy McGuire was only two seasons. 18:41.028 --> 18:44.194 [SPEAKER_01]: Shut up, but there was, like, somehow my entire childhood. 18:44.335 --> 18:47.301 [SPEAKER_01]: Why was it only two seasons to be like, not? 18:47.922 --> 18:48.663 [SPEAKER_01]: It's crazy. 18:49.564 --> 18:56.970 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I somehow watched that my entire childhood, but I guess it was only two seasons. 18:56.990 --> 18:59.313 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, it was only two seasons. 18:59.393 --> 19:00.494 [SPEAKER_00]: We, I'm looking to sap me. 19:00.514 --> 19:02.916 [SPEAKER_00]: I bet there was a lot of episodes in the two seasons. 19:02.956 --> 19:03.436 [SPEAKER_00]: You know how something? 19:03.456 --> 19:03.977 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. 19:03.997 --> 19:05.038 [SPEAKER_00]: Why? 19:05.138 --> 19:07.800 [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe it just felt like it was on TV forever. 19:07.941 --> 19:12.625 [SPEAKER_01]: Did Lizzy, or that was like when my memory is started. 19:12.665 --> 19:14.807 [SPEAKER_01]: Was when I was watching that. 19:16.542 --> 19:17.805 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm typing with one hand. 19:17.846 --> 19:19.009 [SPEAKER_00]: I got my coffee in the other hand. 19:19.791 --> 19:21.756 [SPEAKER_00]: Why did Lizzie me where I only last two seasons? 19:22.638 --> 19:32.104 [SPEAKER_00]: Because primarily because Disney Channel historically capped original series at 65 episodes, a policy that ended the show. 19:32.573 --> 19:34.435 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, 65 episodes, though? 19:35.196 --> 19:35.876 [SPEAKER_00]: That's a lot. 19:36.177 --> 19:45.686 [SPEAKER_00]: Following the show, negotiations for a high school spin-off and a second movie failed due to salary disputes and Hillary Dapp was ready to move on from the role. 19:46.167 --> 19:47.968 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, fair enough. 19:48.589 --> 19:48.989 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 19:49.170 --> 19:54.635 [SPEAKER_01]: Six weeks after that episode with Aaron Carter, I would have been ready to move on as well. 19:55.116 --> 19:58.299 [SPEAKER_00]: Wait, you're so right that like 65 episodes for two seasons. 19:58.339 --> 20:02.563 [SPEAKER_00]: So what there was like roughly 30, that's a lot. 20:04.535 --> 20:05.236 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm shook. 20:05.356 --> 20:07.378 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I remember they were going to reboot it. 20:08.719 --> 20:09.219 [SPEAKER_00]: Remember? 20:09.420 --> 20:10.040 [SPEAKER_00]: And they were filmed. 20:10.080 --> 20:12.403 [SPEAKER_00]: They filmed like the whole thing practically. 20:12.423 --> 20:16.026 [SPEAKER_00]: I remember seeing them filming in Washington Square Park. 20:16.066 --> 20:16.967 [SPEAKER_00]: When I lived over there. 20:16.987 --> 20:18.108 [SPEAKER_00]: I was like a few years ago. 20:18.128 --> 20:20.410 [SPEAKER_00]: That was like a couple of times almost like yeah. 20:20.831 --> 20:22.552 [SPEAKER_00]: And then it just like got scrapped. 20:22.572 --> 20:24.094 [SPEAKER_00]: I wonder why it got scrapped. 20:24.234 --> 20:25.935 [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe no one ever picked it up. 20:27.917 --> 20:33.883 [SPEAKER_00]: I think it was because there was like, well, before I googled it, I believe it was like Hillary, 20:34.184 --> 20:37.650 [SPEAKER_00]: I think it was a lot from Hilary's side being like, I'm not happy with this. 20:37.830 --> 20:39.954 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, maybe it was like midway through. 20:39.974 --> 20:43.239 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I think they wanted to be, because now, like of course, let's say it would be like all grown up. 20:43.259 --> 20:46.886 [SPEAKER_00]: They wanted to be a bit more like explicit and Disney was like, no. 20:46.906 --> 20:49.250 [SPEAKER_00]: Let me, let me go Google that out to that. 20:49.310 --> 20:54.218 [SPEAKER_00]: Kind of, oh yes, girl meets world's creative differences. 20:54.198 --> 20:56.462 [SPEAKER_00]: between Hillary Duff and Disney regarding the show's direction. 20:56.943 --> 21:05.638 [SPEAKER_00]: Duff wanted a more mature, relatable storyline for a 30-year-old character, while Disney insisted on a family-friendly tone, suitable for the Disney-plus platform. 21:05.959 --> 21:15.295 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, what's crazy is like, I feel like someone else maybe like Disney would like bar or other people from picking it up, but I feel like another streamer should have just been like, 21:15.275 --> 21:16.216 [SPEAKER_00]: What it should have picked it up. 21:16.236 --> 21:18.559 [SPEAKER_00]: Although I will say people, and I'm people. 21:19.080 --> 21:20.322 [SPEAKER_00]: Archive critics of reboots. 21:20.542 --> 21:20.782 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 21:21.343 --> 21:22.525 [SPEAKER_00]: I am, I am people. 21:22.765 --> 21:26.009 [SPEAKER_00]: I am a tough critic of a reboot because sometimes it's just not necessary, I feel. 21:26.310 --> 21:26.530 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 21:26.850 --> 21:30.575 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, let me have my memory. 21:30.615 --> 21:32.578 [SPEAKER_01]: It's exactly character and your show. 21:33.078 --> 21:36.022 [SPEAKER_01]: We don't need to try and revive it like sex in the city. 21:37.865 --> 21:38.165 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 21:38.245 --> 21:40.248 [SPEAKER_01]: Because now we think of them that way. 21:40.408 --> 21:43.392 [SPEAKER_00]: It's the sex in a city reboot. 21:44.688 --> 21:47.512 [SPEAKER_01]: Is that some of the city reboot did not do good things for reboots? 21:48.092 --> 21:50.695 [SPEAKER_00]: No, and it did go on for a long time. 21:51.156 --> 21:56.543 [SPEAKER_00]: I do realize that there was maybe an audience that really did like it, and I honestly feel like parts of it worked. 21:57.484 --> 22:00.888 [SPEAKER_00]: Certain storylines of certain characters did work in my mind. 22:00.988 --> 22:02.811 [SPEAKER_00]: Like I do feel like three total episodes. 22:02.831 --> 22:04.172 [SPEAKER_00]: I do feel like like Charlotte York. 22:04.272 --> 22:10.780 [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like her storyline, like the way that her story picked up was very like interesting and very true to her character. 22:11.001 --> 22:11.281 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 22:11.301 --> 22:14.425 [SPEAKER_00]: But other characters, I feel like it kind of like ruined. 22:14.405 --> 22:28.085 [SPEAKER_00]: what was so sacred about who they were, and then the fact that the fact that they couldn't get Samantha, they couldn't get Kim Kutral report, should have been just like the end of the conversation. 22:28.185 --> 22:32.671 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, oh, sex in the city without Samantha is not sex in the city. 22:32.871 --> 22:33.893 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 22:33.913 --> 22:34.494 [SPEAKER_00]: It's just not. 22:35.936 --> 22:41.003 [SPEAKER_00]: I wonder if if I'm Sarah Jessica is truly happy with and just like that. 22:41.742 --> 22:45.225 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, maybe I'll watch the last episode. 22:45.405 --> 22:49.829 [SPEAKER_00]: Did you see Sarah Jessica Parker is active on TikTok, like commenting on things? 22:49.849 --> 22:50.249 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 22:50.810 --> 22:51.991 [SPEAKER_00]: This might have been notice that. 22:52.151 --> 22:54.993 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I'm actually getting confused if it was on TikTok or reels. 22:55.574 --> 22:57.856 [SPEAKER_00]: But there was this girl, okay, TLDR. 22:57.876 --> 22:59.577 [SPEAKER_00]: There was this video that this girl made. 22:59.637 --> 23:03.180 [SPEAKER_00]: She is kind of known for filming videos from her fire escape. 23:03.721 --> 23:09.005 [SPEAKER_00]: So she lives somewhere in Manhattan and she's somehow rigged her phone to be on her fire escape. 23:09.025 --> 23:11.327 [SPEAKER_00]: And she'll open her window. 23:11.307 --> 23:14.334 [SPEAKER_01]: Like Julia Mervis also kind of does something. 23:14.354 --> 23:20.367 [SPEAKER_01]: It's not a fire escape, but she has like a little window that she upsets things and upsets. 23:20.567 --> 23:27.542 [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, similar to that, but she, this girl, does videos where she like, the beginning of the video is her opening her window on her fire escape. 23:27.983 --> 23:29.687 [SPEAKER_00]: Very creative, very cool. 23:29.667 --> 23:32.470 [SPEAKER_00]: And she was like decorating her room in New York. 23:32.510 --> 23:33.792 [SPEAKER_00]: Like just moved into this apartment. 23:33.892 --> 23:38.136 [SPEAKER_00]: She was like excited because she had the Carrie Bradshaw window. 23:38.156 --> 23:41.700 [SPEAKER_00]: AKA a window where she could put a desk in front of. 23:42.261 --> 23:42.581 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 23:42.601 --> 23:44.063 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, and it overlooks the street. 23:44.123 --> 23:49.229 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, very similar to how Carrie used to write her column, like, in the window of her apartment. 23:50.230 --> 23:52.713 [SPEAKER_00]: And she was like, guys, should I put my desk here? 23:52.773 --> 23:54.875 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, under the window, or should I put it against the wall? 23:54.895 --> 23:58.459 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, she was just asking like, day-core question. 23:58.726 --> 24:08.545 [SPEAKER_00]: And none other than Miss Sarah Jessica Parker is in her comments and is like gives her and it's not even like a one word like put it in the window. 24:08.906 --> 24:09.768 [SPEAKER_00]: It was a novel. 24:09.888 --> 24:12.533 [SPEAKER_00]: She writes this full like 24:12.985 --> 24:14.007 [SPEAKER_00]: I do. 24:14.047 --> 24:19.136 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, long wins it about like artwork ideas, like a whole thing about how she likes to digest it. 24:19.156 --> 24:36.867 [SPEAKER_00]: She's like, I don't think you should put it under the window because then it blocks your entrance to your firescape, like, which is, but she then puts in parentheses, please be careful, by the way, such a mom, such a mom and I'm also like, she's probably worried that she's going to somehow be liable for the girl. 24:36.847 --> 24:55.851 [SPEAKER_00]: you know hurts herself somehow like yeah but then then the girl does a follow-up video being okay my desk like on the wall like Sarah Jessica said right then she's like let's go shopping for art like so she goes to the places that Sarah Jessica recommended which was one of them was housing works 24:55.831 --> 24:56.913 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, interesting. 24:56.933 --> 24:57.434 [SPEAKER_00]: Housing works. 24:57.835 --> 24:57.975 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 24:57.995 --> 25:00.099 [SPEAKER_00]: I would like to go and check out their collection. 25:00.139 --> 25:03.165 [SPEAKER_00]: I haven't been there in a minute, um, but there is one like coaster. 25:03.245 --> 25:03.425 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 25:03.686 --> 25:04.086 [SPEAKER_00]: And Chelsea. 25:04.968 --> 25:08.214 [SPEAKER_00]: Anyway, so she goes to Housing Works and she's like in between two pieces of artwork. 25:08.234 --> 25:09.216 [SPEAKER_00]: She like brings them both home. 25:09.236 --> 25:12.402 [SPEAKER_00]: And then of course Sarah Jessica is back again weighing in on the artwork. 25:12.422 --> 25:13.043 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god. 25:13.103 --> 25:14.025 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, it. 25:14.005 --> 25:16.371 [SPEAKER_00]: It really warmed my heart. 25:16.551 --> 25:17.413 [SPEAKER_00]: Wow, I love that. 25:17.513 --> 25:22.184 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if it was maybe like someone who had her assistance saw it and was like, okay, go comment on this. 25:22.405 --> 25:29.762 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but I liked to think that Sarah Jessica Parker was like randomly on Instagram and just decided to share her knowledge. 25:30.564 --> 25:31.947 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, and a pin-in. 25:31.927 --> 25:37.815 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, I'm, I'm very confident that I've walked past Sarah just to park her on the street and didn't recognize. 25:38.016 --> 25:39.398 [SPEAKER_00]: Or just didn't know it was her. 25:39.498 --> 25:39.678 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 25:39.878 --> 25:40.820 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, didn't clock it. 25:41.761 --> 25:51.354 [SPEAKER_00]: Because it's very much like a thing where if she wants to be seen and like recognize, she would be easy for her to do so because she's a recognizable look. 25:51.415 --> 25:54.399 [SPEAKER_00]: But I do feel like half the time I see her like in paparazzi pictures. 25:54.459 --> 25:58.845 [SPEAKER_00]: She's like covering her face as a hat on like very incognito. 25:58.825 --> 26:05.956 [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like Harry Styles has been making eye contact with the paparazzi and all of the photos that I've seen of him since he's been here. 26:07.298 --> 26:07.939 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I'm curious. 26:07.959 --> 26:12.105 [SPEAKER_01]: I think he called, no, I feel like they always know where he is. 26:13.027 --> 26:14.268 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, he might be his team. 26:14.349 --> 26:19.516 [SPEAKER_00]: But he also, like, unless I'm wrong, I feel like he's never out with bodyguards. 26:19.877 --> 26:23.162 [SPEAKER_01]: But he had gone undetected for so long. 26:23.868 --> 26:32.838 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, it's like he wants to be, and then now whenever he is in a relationship, he's like always in the paparazzi. 26:34.520 --> 26:36.702 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, and about armenar. 26:37.323 --> 26:40.026 [SPEAKER_00]: I guess at this point, he's kind of just like whatever. 26:40.747 --> 26:41.488 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, totally. 26:42.128 --> 26:45.552 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I can't imagine about like, I also really like his new album. 26:45.893 --> 26:46.373 [SPEAKER_00]: Me too. 26:47.234 --> 26:47.675 [SPEAKER_00]: Me too. 26:47.735 --> 26:50.618 [SPEAKER_01]: It did need to grow on me, but I love it. 26:51.138 --> 26:54.423 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I, I absolutely love it. 26:54.503 --> 26:58.890 [SPEAKER_00]: I do feel like some songs like sound similar to each other than like it confused in my head. 26:58.990 --> 27:04.658 [SPEAKER_00]: I need to like, but truthfully, I felt that way about torture, post department, Taylor Swift when that first came out. 27:05.159 --> 27:11.068 [SPEAKER_00]: And now I've listened to it like enough times where I'm like, it truly each song feels very distinct to me now. 27:11.789 --> 27:13.011 [SPEAKER_00]: So I think it's just, 27:14.257 --> 27:31.489 [SPEAKER_00]: the nature of like an album being released all at once apart from like the one single that came out first like it takes a minute for you to like properly like listen to each song yeah but i'm excited to go see him live so jealous that you have tickets that and know what 27:31.469 --> 27:32.631 [SPEAKER_01]: have you gotten tickets for that? 27:33.091 --> 27:33.632 [SPEAKER_01]: I tried. 27:34.173 --> 27:34.453 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 27:34.614 --> 27:37.978 [SPEAKER_01]: For days, not even like one try. 27:37.998 --> 27:40.602 [SPEAKER_01]: I tried every single days pre-sale. 27:40.642 --> 27:42.665 [SPEAKER_01]: I tried the general on sale. 27:43.346 --> 27:51.237 [SPEAKER_01]: Every single time I would get in and the tickets either were $700 which I was not paying or sold out. 27:52.099 --> 27:58.708 [SPEAKER_01]: I got in one time and there were $700 tickets 27:59.768 --> 28:11.027 [SPEAKER_00]: How did like literally just know I feel like whenever I hear my parents talking about how concerts used to be and like I just feel like it was never this stressful and it's expensive in previous areas. 28:11.047 --> 28:11.628 [SPEAKER_01]: No 100%. 28:11.689 --> 28:12.770 [SPEAKER_00]: But why is that? 28:12.871 --> 28:16.056 [SPEAKER_00]: Why are concerts so expensive and hard to get tickets for these days? 28:16.036 --> 28:24.487 [SPEAKER_01]: And they also say that you cannot resell the tickets for no economy, at least it said no resale, whatever. 28:24.547 --> 28:38.945 [SPEAKER_01]: But meanwhile, you would go on stop-up immediately following your session on ticket master and there would be tickets up for resell for $1,400 on stop-up. 28:38.965 --> 28:41.648 [SPEAKER_01]: So somehow you are able to resell them. 28:42.369 --> 28:43.731 [SPEAKER_01]: Doesn't make any sense. 28:43.711 --> 28:46.374 [SPEAKER_01]: I think it's because the dynamic price said. 28:47.035 --> 28:53.483 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, Colby, you are, you are Google, because that is literally what it said. 28:53.503 --> 29:09.482 [SPEAKER_00]: It's that concert tickets are exceptionally high due to a combination of ticket master and live nations, market dominance, widespread use of dynamic pricing, which raises prices based on demand, and artists relying on touring for income due to low streaming revenue. 29:09.462 --> 29:21.525 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, back before the end of that make sense back before there was streaming you had to buy each song or album on iTunes I used to get so much trouble for doing that. 29:21.545 --> 29:28.078 [SPEAKER_00]: Do you remember when every song on iTunes was 99 cents and then they like randomly increase Yeah, it's like 129 29:28.058 --> 29:28.899 [SPEAKER_00]: I'll never forget. 29:28.960 --> 29:34.409 [SPEAKER_00]: We were 29, such a random price, and it was like only certain songs, though. 29:34.669 --> 29:34.990 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yeah. 29:35.230 --> 29:37.494 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, but then some songs were still 99 cents. 29:37.514 --> 29:43.163 [SPEAKER_01]: And then also, when you had to buy a ringtone on your phone, what was your ringtone? 29:43.764 --> 29:45.427 [SPEAKER_01]: I would like cycle through them. 29:45.467 --> 29:47.210 [SPEAKER_01]: That was another thing that I would get in trouble for. 29:47.270 --> 29:51.197 [SPEAKER_01]: They, the phone bill would come and I had bought a ringback. 29:51.177 --> 29:51.838 [SPEAKER_01]: in a ring tone. 29:52.399 --> 29:56.584 [SPEAKER_01]: Who was a ringback like when you would call someone? 29:57.105 --> 29:59.287 [SPEAKER_01]: It would play song before they answered. 29:59.367 --> 30:03.833 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, instead of the regular just like dial tone, it would play song. 30:04.474 --> 30:04.995 [SPEAKER_00]: Shut up. 30:05.135 --> 30:05.355 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 30:05.796 --> 30:06.677 [SPEAKER_00]: I did not have that. 30:07.418 --> 30:08.239 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, I had a ringback. 30:08.259 --> 30:09.100 [SPEAKER_00]: What was your ringback? 30:09.480 --> 30:10.241 [SPEAKER_00]: What was your ringback? 30:10.261 --> 30:11.002 [SPEAKER_00]: What was your ringtone? 30:11.843 --> 30:16.890 [SPEAKER_01]: I literally like think I had different Justin Bieber songs or Jonas Brothers songs. 30:17.411 --> 30:18.552 [SPEAKER_01]: About all times. 30:19.477 --> 30:23.402 [SPEAKER_01]: maybe like a miley Cyrus tune here and there. 30:24.724 --> 30:33.236 [SPEAKER_01]: But very, I actually do remember one time I bought coming clean as a ringback obsessed. 30:34.618 --> 30:39.004 [SPEAKER_01]: But then there was a feature that you could record your own. 30:39.355 --> 30:43.762 [SPEAKER_01]: So me and my sister would, when you could like turn your car on idle. 30:44.142 --> 31:00.126 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, we would like do that and we would have a CD that we would burn, put it in my mom's car, and then go over chord songs, over and over again until it sounded like it was initially like embedded in our phone. 31:00.246 --> 31:01.088 [SPEAKER_01]: Women in STEM. 31:01.108 --> 31:01.288 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 31:01.689 --> 31:02.350 [SPEAKER_01]: No, seriously. 31:02.390 --> 31:07.978 [SPEAKER_01]: That's like three of us 31:07.958 --> 31:10.481 [SPEAKER_01]: Kids, these days, we'll legitimately never know. 31:10.661 --> 31:11.702 [SPEAKER_01]: No, never, never, never, never, never. 31:11.742 --> 31:13.544 [SPEAKER_01]: Really, also all happening on a flip phone. 31:14.204 --> 31:17.728 [SPEAKER_00]: Do you remember that there was a time before you could react to someone's text? 31:18.349 --> 31:21.512 [SPEAKER_00]: And you had to just respond to every single message. 31:21.532 --> 31:22.833 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, cool. 31:23.134 --> 31:24.715 [SPEAKER_00]: But now you can just like, heart it. 31:25.496 --> 31:27.638 [SPEAKER_00]: And the three answers have become so sassy, too. 31:27.678 --> 31:29.520 [SPEAKER_00]: You can put a sticker. 31:29.580 --> 31:32.644 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, there's like, or you could just thumbs it up. 31:32.804 --> 31:33.044 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 31:33.685 --> 31:35.046 [SPEAKER_00]: Or thumbs down. 31:35.026 --> 31:46.131 [SPEAKER_00]: Like I remember when I was still going on dates and I would like occasionally have to send the anti-ghosting text and you go to the thumbs up and I would just get a thumbs up to the message no response. 31:46.211 --> 31:47.414 [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like honestly, cool. 31:47.715 --> 31:48.757 [SPEAKER_00]: Herge allowed in clear. 31:48.817 --> 31:51.443 [SPEAKER_00]: Honestly, nothing more to say. 31:51.463 --> 31:53.929 [SPEAKER_00]: No, can be left at that. 31:54.972 --> 32:00.664 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, oh my god, I actually just sent my sister my anti-ghosting text through my god, really. 32:00.824 --> 32:01.465 [SPEAKER_00]: I still have it. 32:02.047 --> 32:05.374 [SPEAKER_00]: Guys, if you ever need to go, or not go someone, that's the anti-ghosting. 32:05.774 --> 32:05.855 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. 32:05.875 --> 32:11.867 [SPEAKER_00]: If you ever want to stop going on dates with someone, stop going on dates with someone, and you feel like it's been... 32:13.062 --> 32:20.251 [SPEAKER_00]: Because I do feel like there's certain times where a person or a phone call is better, like, in terms of manners. 32:21.052 --> 32:23.635 [SPEAKER_00]: But if you've gone on like two, three dates with someone, yeah. 32:23.836 --> 32:33.328 [SPEAKER_00]: You don't really, like you haven't gotten too far with them and you just want it to be done, but you don't want to go to some, I have the perfect text. 32:33.588 --> 32:34.389 [SPEAKER_00]: You do, I do. 32:35.070 --> 32:35.370 [SPEAKER_00]: I do. 32:35.390 --> 32:39.255 [SPEAKER_00]: And I actually think I can pull it up and read it and you tell me what you think. 32:40.923 --> 32:42.725 [SPEAKER_00]: I sent it to my sister, not too long, let me see. 32:43.346 --> 32:45.889 [SPEAKER_00]: We do text a lot, oh my god. 32:46.110 --> 32:49.794 [SPEAKER_00]: We were reviewing our passport photos recently, and my not gonna lie looks really good. 32:51.176 --> 32:53.799 [SPEAKER_00]: And thank God for that, because you're stuck with it for 10 years. 32:53.819 --> 32:55.001 [SPEAKER_00]: 20, 36. 32:56.002 --> 32:58.245 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, all right, this is my anti-ghosting text. 32:58.265 --> 33:02.290 [SPEAKER_00]: And if you ever need access to this, I actually have it saved in a highlight on my Instagram. 33:02.320 --> 33:03.101 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, good. 33:03.121 --> 33:03.422 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes. 33:03.842 --> 33:09.791 [SPEAKER_01]: It's under the highly, you know, we used to get messages all the time for people asking you to send it to them. 33:09.931 --> 33:11.153 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, guys, have some work. 33:11.193 --> 33:12.415 [SPEAKER_00]: We're getting it back. 33:12.435 --> 33:12.956 [SPEAKER_00]: Have no fear. 33:13.056 --> 33:14.178 [SPEAKER_00]: So let me know if this is like good. 33:14.258 --> 33:18.484 [SPEAKER_00]: Also, there's like, okay, a time in place for this text. 33:18.504 --> 33:18.765 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 33:20.207 --> 33:23.792 [SPEAKER_00]: Hi, insert reply to last text or light remark here. 33:25.655 --> 33:27.518 [SPEAKER_00]: So I'd be like, hi, like, 33:27.785 --> 33:47.650 [SPEAKER_00]: had such a great time the other night or something like something like hope you it'll be a good night hope you had a good day at work or something like it'll usually be a response like whatever their text was prior like if they were like oh how to really crazy day at work how about you they're like hi hope hope today works what a way to top off a crazy work day 33:47.630 --> 33:51.058 [SPEAKER_00]: Anyway, hi, insert reply to last text or light remark here. 33:51.739 --> 33:58.314 [SPEAKER_00]: Also, just wanted to be upfront with you and say that it's been great getting to know you the past few weeks, but after some reflection on my end, I don't think I feel a connection. 33:59.336 --> 34:02.183 [SPEAKER_00]: You are such a great person and I don't want to waste your time or your energy. 34:02.263 --> 34:03.265 [SPEAKER_00]: I really wish you the best. 34:04.007 --> 34:04.708 [SPEAKER_00]: Perfect, not fit. 34:05.590 --> 34:07.174 [SPEAKER_00]: Nothing more needs to be said. 34:07.610 --> 34:12.058 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, well, yeah, this is like if you hardly know the guy. 34:12.159 --> 34:12.680 [SPEAKER_00]: You know what I mean? 34:12.700 --> 34:20.073 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but I do feel like at the end of the day sending the anti-ghosting text is better than leading someone on. 34:20.134 --> 34:21.957 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, even though 34:23.405 --> 34:38.240 [SPEAKER_00]: Like ultimately I don't even like people sent me texts like this and I don't even remember their names now I don't remember like their stories now No, but at least I didn't waste my time longer than I needed to you know So anyway antigo's syntax. 34:38.260 --> 34:40.165 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my how that came up, but 34:40.381 --> 34:45.828 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, well, while you're, yeah, while you're there, should we do our question? 34:46.088 --> 34:46.549 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. 34:47.750 --> 34:49.452 [SPEAKER_00]: Guys, we have an urgent question. 34:49.492 --> 34:57.182 [SPEAKER_00]: Cole, we got a DM about it on the Instagram and I was checking email this morning and I, it says urgent with like seven exclamation points. 34:57.202 --> 34:59.645 [SPEAKER_00]: So I feel as though we must get to it. 35:00.766 --> 35:03.029 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 35:03.049 --> 35:06.473 [SPEAKER_00]: The subject's line is urgent, ghosted by a friend. 35:07.212 --> 35:08.414 [SPEAKER_00]: Hi, Katie Colby and Adam. 35:08.914 --> 35:10.937 [SPEAKER_00]: I recently connected with two high school friends. 35:12.219 --> 35:15.443 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm 27 in May, and we see each other a few times a year. 35:16.024 --> 35:20.751 [SPEAKER_00]: They're both engaged, and we've triple-dated often with my now ex-boyfriend before. 35:21.852 --> 35:28.782 [SPEAKER_00]: One of them is having a destination wedding that would cost me around $2,000 with complicated travel and no-easy, no-included stay. 35:28.762 --> 35:31.005 [SPEAKER_00]: now that I'm newly single, it feels even more stressful. 35:31.646 --> 35:39.638 [SPEAKER_00]: I reached out to let her know that I can't make it work financially or with time off and mentioned my breakup, but it's been over a week and she hasn't responded. 35:41.341 --> 35:47.049 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going on her Bachelor at in July, but I feel weird and hurt especially since she hasn't even checked on me. 35:47.530 --> 35:48.171 [SPEAKER_00]: Check you know on me. 35:49.636 --> 35:55.504 [SPEAKER_00]: Like she understank, yeah, yeah, we're not that close anymore in parts of me wants to back out entirely. 35:56.145 --> 36:00.470 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm trying not to be selfish and can understand if she's upset, but it feels intentionally hurtful. 36:01.492 --> 36:02.994 [SPEAKER_00]: Our other friend is getting married. 36:03.614 --> 36:07.379 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm attending her events and her wedding is local, but I haven't said anything to her. 36:07.620 --> 36:11.745 [SPEAKER_00]: There are each others made of honours, and I'm the one who just recently reconnected with them. 36:11.725 --> 36:16.765 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm emotionally drained from my break up, tried to handle this respectfully, and now I feel confused and ghosted. 36:17.106 --> 36:17.688 [SPEAKER_00]: What should I do? 36:17.708 --> 36:20.078 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to crash out or downplay. 36:20.098 --> 36:22.748 [SPEAKER_00]: I get she might be upset, but this feels elementary. 36:24.483 --> 36:28.751 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, and she said a few notes she then sent us like the text that she sent. 36:28.952 --> 36:38.410 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, and like verbatim but she said don't read it because she didn't want to just in case the person's listening to an outer um, but it's like essentially the same text like what she said. 36:38.630 --> 36:46.305 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, paraphrased and then she said also I was invited on the back to the right only after our other friend invited me on hers and there are 20 girls going on this one. 36:47.804 --> 36:49.167 [SPEAKER_01]: I wouldn't go on the patch for it. 36:49.207 --> 36:50.170 [SPEAKER_00]: No, no. 36:50.190 --> 36:51.172 [SPEAKER_01]: You're not going to the wedding. 36:51.212 --> 36:52.235 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 36:52.315 --> 36:55.562 [SPEAKER_01]: You do not need to go to the patch for it in my opinion. 36:56.124 --> 36:58.389 [SPEAKER_00]: I think you could send her a really nice gift. 36:58.910 --> 36:59.131 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 36:59.652 --> 37:00.494 [SPEAKER_00]: Which I think you should. 37:00.554 --> 37:02.539 [SPEAKER_00]: Regardless. 37:02.772 --> 37:11.786 [SPEAKER_00]: But I'm wondering, do you feel like there's a world in which she's just busy and didn't get to the text or am I just being like, yeah, I'm here. 37:11.826 --> 37:17.215 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, somewhat giving her the benefit of the doubt for that. 37:17.535 --> 37:22.924 [SPEAKER_01]: But it's also not like you backed out a week before the wedding. 37:22.904 --> 37:24.687 [SPEAKER_01]: Or when is the wedding for? 37:24.747 --> 37:27.292 [SPEAKER_01]: It sounds like you've given her ample notice. 37:27.452 --> 37:29.295 [SPEAKER_01]: Considering the Bachelorette hasn't even happened. 37:29.315 --> 37:30.337 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, Bachelorette's in July. 37:30.357 --> 37:33.423 [SPEAKER_00]: So the wedding must at least be in July or August. 37:33.463 --> 37:39.293 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, yes, she's not out on like your seat. 37:39.762 --> 37:40.643 [SPEAKER_01]: in terms of money. 37:40.984 --> 37:46.651 [SPEAKER_01]: Like there are so many people who cancel last minute for weddings or no show to weddings. 37:46.771 --> 37:49.034 [SPEAKER_01]: Like you're letting her know up front. 37:50.376 --> 37:50.556 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 37:51.177 --> 38:07.137 [SPEAKER_01]: To be honest, if you're having about or a destination wedding, you kind of need to set your expectations that not everybody is going to be able to take the time off or spend the money to travel for your wedding. 38:08.197 --> 38:12.458 [SPEAKER_01]: And that's just something that comes with the territory of having a destination wedding. 38:14.730 --> 38:15.574 [SPEAKER_00]: I think... 38:18.102 --> 38:38.760 [SPEAKER_00]: this is so like shitty like I'm like mad at this other girl for not like because like a breakup is like maybe you're like she's in her like bubble of wedding excitement and planning and like happiness about being engaged and whatnot but that is like so I hate when I see this situation where like someone is so blinded by their own happiness. 38:38.740 --> 38:45.830 [SPEAKER_00]: That they can't take a second to like check on their friend who just got dumped like Like even if you guys are just reconnected, it's like high school friends. 38:45.870 --> 38:56.104 [SPEAKER_00]: You guys haven't been super close to now You're like reconnecting, but you've been on triple dates together like with you and your ex and then I'm like shook that they haven't checked on you. 38:56.645 --> 38:58.487 [SPEAKER_00]: I that is a really shitty 38:59.024 --> 39:16.999 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, no, I agree, but I also think she said she hasn't reached out to the other friend and she definitely deserves an explanation for why she's not getting response and I do think it's fair to be like, hey, 39:16.979 --> 39:18.622 [SPEAKER_01]: I text it so and so. 39:18.642 --> 39:18.782 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 39:18.802 --> 39:36.135 [SPEAKER_01]: I texted it so and so and so has she mentioned anything to you like I was trying to just be honest and let her know like where I was at Mentally and financially like unfortunately can't make it work to travel to her wedding alone. 39:36.115 --> 39:39.461 [SPEAKER_01]: Like not even that in her text. 39:39.481 --> 39:44.410 [SPEAKER_01]: Just be like, hey, has she like mentioned that I reached out to her about the wedding. 39:46.153 --> 39:49.259 [SPEAKER_01]: I sent her text and I forgot her back. 39:49.600 --> 39:54.208 [SPEAKER_01]: I see what I would do here is either that, depending on I don't know how like... 39:54.357 --> 40:14.740 [SPEAKER_00]: It's something she might be closer with other one because she is going, I mean, it's her wings local, yeah, but I feel like I would double text the bride like what do you have to lose and just be like, hey, just making sure you saw my text, I know like I, in the most kind way possible. 40:14.900 --> 40:17.243 [SPEAKER_00]: I wouldn't assume. 40:17.223 --> 40:22.572 [SPEAKER_00]: foul play if perhaps in a weird world she missed the text. 40:22.592 --> 40:41.003 [SPEAKER_00]: But yeah, I guess like I don't know how busy this person is Maybe she's like deep in like throws a wedding planning and maybe her thoughts in long distance friends like it doesn't She asks one of at least one of them to like yeah, I'm not fear both of them Yeah, unclear, but I do feel like 40:42.164 --> 41:05.224 [SPEAKER_00]: I do subscribe to the idea that no response is a response, like, but also there is a chance like you have to give her the benefit of the doubt because if you have, you've been friends since high school, like I do feel like there's a world in which she didn't see it, but also, or like saw it and what's like, I'll get to that time passed and it's now just one of those things where she's like, oh my god, I can't believe I'd do anything. 41:05.284 --> 41:07.868 [SPEAKER_00]: If you text her again and like, be like, hey, 41:07.848 --> 41:13.534 [SPEAKER_00]: Just confirming you saw my text want to make sure you like for the sake of numbers for your wedding. 41:13.554 --> 41:30.810 [SPEAKER_00]: Like just Right in like a way where it's like I just want to make sure that you're being courteous because like I don't want you to Factor me into the wedding planning if like I'm not gonna be there That does leave the complicated situation of like the Bachelor app that I do feel like Once you one step at a time. 41:31.071 --> 41:35.475 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, step one is text her again and be like hey just confirming you saw my text 41:35.692 --> 41:42.181 [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like start with that and then if she doesn't respond to that, if you really still feel like you want answers go to the friend. 41:42.421 --> 41:42.622 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 41:42.902 --> 41:49.712 [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like it'd be best to avoid going to the friend for now just so it doesn't seem like you're like being drama talking behind someone's picture. 41:49.732 --> 41:50.072 [SPEAKER_00]: No, that's true. 41:50.192 --> 41:50.994 [SPEAKER_00]: Like anything like that. 41:51.514 --> 41:57.202 [SPEAKER_00]: But unless, like, you're in most of that person, that she was close to her. 41:57.222 --> 41:59.826 [SPEAKER_00]: If it's like an us situation where it's like, 41:59.806 --> 42:02.032 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm thinking like our other friends Shea is getting married. 42:02.753 --> 42:05.300 [SPEAKER_00]: If it was that like I would obviously go to you and be like, got check. 42:05.380 --> 42:13.360 [SPEAKER_00]: What's she thinking why she's spying to me, but it just depends on how it doesn't seem like they're super close to each other through a few times a year, but 42:14.015 --> 42:20.202 [SPEAKER_00]: weird that they haven't reached out to you about at least the one hasn't reached out to you about your breakup, like that's really fucked. 42:20.702 --> 42:26.209 [SPEAKER_00]: And honestly, if she's like sassy in her response to you, I would be like, I'm sorry. 42:26.229 --> 42:29.132 [SPEAKER_00]: I also can't come to your about to the rep, but she are gift. 42:29.332 --> 42:36.580 [SPEAKER_01]: She also might have just read the top part of your text and not even gotten to the part where you reference your breakup. 42:36.560 --> 42:55.463 [SPEAKER_01]: If it is at the bottom it is it it is towards the bottom like maybe she just like skim the top part of it and then filed it away and again like didn't respond Which yeah, it's not nice regardless, but maybe she didn't see that portion or like get to that yet but 42:55.443 --> 43:13.962 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, double text and also with the Bachelorette, if you haven't had to like pay for anything, or if things weren't confirmed based off of numbers in terms of like therapy and be that you're getting and if you haven't booked anything, I think it's also still time. 43:14.743 --> 43:15.966 [SPEAKER_01]: Like, 43:15.946 --> 43:36.098 [SPEAKER_00]: that you can back out right in the grace period of backing out and there are 20 girls going on it right not like you're yeah you know you need the same house for 20 girls that you need for 19 precisely called precisely but this is like a weird I'm sorry that like this is sucky yeah it's a more a thing to navigate 43:36.213 --> 43:40.166 [SPEAKER_00]: But you have very valid reasons for not being able to go 100%. 43:41.190 --> 43:47.651 [SPEAKER_00]: Like $2,000 price tag, destination wedding, complicated travel. 43:48.414 --> 43:49.176 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 43:49.375 --> 44:19.264 [SPEAKER_00]: break up aside like that's I don't know but also like if she's salty about this that says way more about her than it does about like you like protecting your piece like really I it's very like childish behavior it's not responding purpose but I do feel like there is always a world in which like I had a situation with a friend not recently like a few months ago where like they consistently kind of left me on red yeah and I am like such an extreme 44:19.244 --> 44:20.485 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, yeah, you know me. 44:20.525 --> 44:22.568 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I literally was like getting no response. 44:22.608 --> 44:23.829 [SPEAKER_00]: You were like, I need to get to the bottom of it. 44:23.849 --> 44:27.513 [SPEAKER_00]: And it wasn't anything like, we haven't seen each other in a minute. 44:27.573 --> 44:32.819 [SPEAKER_00]: It was like a long distance type of friend situation where it's like the only way we really can catch up is via text. 44:33.259 --> 44:34.681 [SPEAKER_00]: And I was starting to feel annoying. 44:34.961 --> 44:35.161 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 44:35.181 --> 44:36.643 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I was being annoying. 44:36.723 --> 44:41.067 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, why do I feel like the like naggy girlfriend to this friend of mine? 44:41.588 --> 44:44.391 [SPEAKER_00]: So then I ultimately like swallowed my, 44:44.371 --> 44:54.171 [SPEAKER_00]: sense of wanting to just like give her the benefit of the doubt and I sent her a text and I was like hi um and this could be in my head but like I feel like you're not responding. 44:54.272 --> 44:59.242 [SPEAKER_00]: I forget exactly what I said but something along the lines of just confirming that like you're not mad at me. 44:59.522 --> 45:01.266 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, something like 45:01.246 --> 45:03.450 [SPEAKER_00]: And she was like, oh my god, I'm so sorry. 45:03.490 --> 45:07.216 [SPEAKER_00]: She was like, you know, of course, because I was busy with this or whatever. 45:08.037 --> 45:12.164 [SPEAKER_00]: But she's like, thank you for not, like, what did she say? 45:12.224 --> 45:16.331 [SPEAKER_00]: She was like, thank you for not, like, suppressing up on me, giving up on me. 45:16.551 --> 45:18.274 [SPEAKER_00]: I think I get missing attacks. 45:18.334 --> 45:18.895 [SPEAKER_00]: It happens. 45:18.955 --> 45:19.215 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 45:19.977 --> 45:20.858 [SPEAKER_00]: But like, 45:21.327 --> 45:34.126 [SPEAKER_00]: It starts to send a message, like if you're consistently, or if you're the one always reaching out, it's sometimes you can't chalk it up to bad texting, they just have to adjust their way. 45:34.246 --> 45:37.451 [SPEAKER_00]: The communication is such an important skill, 100%. 45:38.613 --> 45:39.975 [SPEAKER_00]: But I wish you luck with this. 45:40.376 --> 45:42.559 [SPEAKER_00]: I, yeah. 45:44.243 --> 45:44.984 [SPEAKER_00]: What should I do? 45:45.004 --> 45:47.809 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to ask her right. 45:47.869 --> 45:49.051 [SPEAKER_00]: Go straight to the source. 45:49.973 --> 45:51.195 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, send it double text. 45:51.475 --> 45:51.836 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 45:51.856 --> 45:55.623 [SPEAKER_00]: Because ultimately, like, you're not being naggy, you're annoying, you're weird. 45:55.643 --> 45:58.087 [SPEAKER_00]: You're just trying to get clarity that she saw your text. 45:58.287 --> 45:58.528 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 45:58.888 --> 46:03.897 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I'm surprised that she didn't even like give you a thumbs up right? 46:03.917 --> 46:05.239 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 46:05.219 --> 46:07.705 [SPEAKER_00]: in a world where you could just like get text. 46:08.246 --> 46:08.587 [SPEAKER_00]: Nothing. 46:08.888 --> 46:15.323 [SPEAKER_00]: I have, you know, of course, as people in my life, it's normal to like, maybe you get text during the day, you respond everything right before bed. 46:15.463 --> 46:18.591 [SPEAKER_00]: Like you're like, okay, I'm finally getting told these, yeah, we're like the next day. 46:18.852 --> 46:21.979 [SPEAKER_00]: Or if you see like a long message, you're like, 46:21.959 --> 46:25.224 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm in the middle of something right now. 46:25.244 --> 46:26.045 [SPEAKER_01]: I can't deal with that. 46:26.065 --> 46:29.930 [SPEAKER_00]: If I see a long message come in, no matter if it's positive or negative. 46:29.990 --> 46:30.271 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 46:30.291 --> 46:31.793 [SPEAKER_00]: It could be on my fucking birthday. 46:31.933 --> 46:35.878 [SPEAKER_00]: Where a long message comes in, my stomach is going to drop my butt. 46:35.898 --> 46:39.323 [SPEAKER_01]: I just wanted to like, oh, I don't want to be your friend anymore. 46:39.363 --> 46:41.827 [SPEAKER_01]: But I wish you all the fuck you. 46:41.847 --> 46:42.327 [SPEAKER_01]: Fuck you. 46:43.749 --> 46:46.233 [SPEAKER_01]: Like imagine so crazy. 46:46.293 --> 46:49.958 [SPEAKER_01]: Is that what you imagine? 46:49.938 --> 46:58.398 [SPEAKER_00]: I will say I have like a no but on that like topic I have a confession I am like I'm the person that like on someone's birthday will unfollow them. 46:58.939 --> 47:01.886 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh yeah because they don't come out of hiding sometimes. 47:01.906 --> 47:05.254 [SPEAKER_00]: I follow and not no one like I know person like I know. 47:05.274 --> 47:06.276 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but 47:06.695 --> 47:12.068 [SPEAKER_00]: or like enjoy following the fans, but like to get it like from middle school that I randomly follow that I don't know. 47:12.148 --> 47:17.701 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't keep in touch with, like, for whatever reason out they're at the top on their birthday. 47:17.721 --> 47:22.412 [SPEAKER_00]: On their birthday, like, they'll post something and they'll get a lot of buzz or like if they just got engaged, yeah. 47:22.552 --> 47:25.058 [SPEAKER_00]: And all like out of respect, honestly, I'm like, 47:25.038 --> 47:25.920 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't really know you. 47:25.940 --> 47:31.956 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't need to have incite incite and I don't really you don't need to have incite into mine Like I'm not gonna defend it. 47:32.698 --> 47:33.941 [SPEAKER_00]: I'll not follow them. 47:34.221 --> 47:38.031 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, now I thought happens to me Sometimes I always follow you. 47:38.172 --> 47:40.337 [SPEAKER_01]: I always feel like a terrible person. 47:40.638 --> 47:40.718 [UNKNOWN]: Yeah 47:40.698 --> 47:50.897 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, what I've also started doing is unfollowing people that I, when I'm watching their stories or something or see their user name, I'm like, who is that? 47:50.917 --> 47:53.081 [SPEAKER_01]: And I have to click on their profile. 47:53.101 --> 47:56.547 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, if I don't even know who you are, why am I following you? 47:56.898 --> 47:57.639 [SPEAKER_00]: know exactly. 47:57.659 --> 48:00.362 [SPEAKER_00]: If I can't like pick you out in a police line up. 48:00.702 --> 48:00.983 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 48:01.403 --> 48:05.268 [SPEAKER_00]: I shouldn't, unless it's like a random like French girl that I follow for example. 48:05.448 --> 48:05.548 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 48:05.568 --> 48:07.690 [SPEAKER_00]: There's like random people in follow that I don't know. 48:08.091 --> 48:15.299 [SPEAKER_00]: But the people that have, you know, that are like, I should know who you are or like I probably followed you after meeting you in the bathroom line once at a bar. 48:15.339 --> 48:16.280 [SPEAKER_00]: It's time. 48:16.340 --> 48:18.142 [SPEAKER_00]: It's time to sever our ties. 48:18.182 --> 48:18.703 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 48:18.683 --> 48:24.414 [SPEAKER_00]: It's time for us to part with and it's the kind of thing where if I saw them in the street afterwards and they like can't What's mean that they're like you unfollowed me. 48:24.454 --> 48:27.940 [SPEAKER_00]: I'd be like girl Yeah, don't know each other. 48:27.960 --> 48:31.066 [SPEAKER_01]: I happen to be recently a girl from college. 48:31.206 --> 48:37.097 [SPEAKER_01]: I unfollowed on Instagram like a long time ago In a similar situation 48:37.077 --> 48:56.615 [SPEAKER_01]: Actually, on New Year's Day, New Year's Day, couldn't tell literally we were at a house in Maine and we literally all laid in bed and we were like, let's go through all of the people that we've all done Instagram and like, we were gut checking whether we thought that we could unfollow people or we called it like the purge. 48:56.695 --> 49:02.821 [SPEAKER_01]: We were like whatever, we're just like unfollowing people right now because it was raining and cold and we were all just like like, we're not doing anything. 49:02.841 --> 49:06.544 [SPEAKER_01]: Why not? 49:06.524 --> 49:17.138 [SPEAKER_01]: She, I unfollowed her because I was like, I didn't talk to her in college and unfollowed her and I was at Pilates a few weeks ago and she was in my class and I was like, Hi, how are you? 49:17.158 --> 49:17.879 [SPEAKER_00]: Good to see you. 49:18.500 --> 49:19.701 [SPEAKER_00]: I wonder if she like knew. 49:20.883 --> 49:21.884 [SPEAKER_01]: She does, I don't care. 49:22.305 --> 49:28.613 [SPEAKER_01]: Because I won't see her outside of Pilates, so I don't need to know what she's doing on the weekend, you know? 49:29.875 --> 49:33.740 [SPEAKER_00]: No true, but it is like, it does seem like so hurtful somehow. 49:33.760 --> 49:35.502 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like unfollowed, but really it's like, 49:36.595 --> 49:41.321 [SPEAKER_00]: But, you know, it's not that deep, really, but it is in a way. 49:41.722 --> 49:44.565 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, and it's not because I care about how many people I'm following. 49:44.625 --> 49:47.589 [SPEAKER_01]: I just am like, I don't really, same thing as you said. 49:47.609 --> 49:49.852 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't need to keep up with you. 49:50.533 --> 49:51.013 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 49:51.033 --> 49:52.575 [SPEAKER_01]: And you don't need to keep up with me either. 49:52.956 --> 49:55.339 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I'm not offended if you would follow me also. 49:55.800 --> 49:57.021 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, totally fine. 49:57.041 --> 49:57.862 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, totally fair. 49:57.902 --> 50:02.468 [SPEAKER_01]: We're not friends, and I don't need to follow you. 50:02.650 --> 50:06.615 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, well, there was, I remember there was a time when, like, I first got access to Facebook. 50:07.316 --> 50:07.457 [SPEAKER_00]: Mm-hmm. 50:07.477 --> 50:09.940 [SPEAKER_00]: Where I wanted as many friends as possible, obviously. 50:10.200 --> 50:10.541 [SPEAKER_00]: Of course. 50:10.681 --> 50:13.104 [SPEAKER_00]: So I was spending, like, friends of friends. 50:13.124 --> 50:13.405 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, friends. 50:13.425 --> 50:14.546 [SPEAKER_01]: I have to get to a thousand friends. 50:14.646 --> 50:16.269 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, no, seriously, there was like a race. 50:16.329 --> 50:23.719 [SPEAKER_00]: And I was like, I need more, like, it was a high to, like, give, or, like, put out a friend request. 50:23.879 --> 50:25.041 [SPEAKER_00]: And they accept you. 50:25.101 --> 50:26.623 [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, you don't even know me. 50:26.643 --> 50:27.264 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 50:27.284 --> 50:28.565 [SPEAKER_01]: Ooh, you think I'm cute. 50:28.585 --> 50:28.826 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 50:29.046 --> 50:30.548 [SPEAKER_01]: And they think I'm cool. 50:31.422 --> 50:31.923 [SPEAKER_00]: Then why? 50:32.083 --> 50:32.784 [SPEAKER_00]: They would poke you. 50:32.824 --> 50:34.807 [SPEAKER_00]: They would, yes, how weird. 50:35.768 --> 50:36.789 [SPEAKER_01]: That was like the string. 50:36.989 --> 50:37.570 [SPEAKER_01]: How was that? 50:37.590 --> 50:40.094 [SPEAKER_00]: Help us are kind of like I feel like. 50:40.114 --> 50:41.375 [SPEAKER_01]: A G snap streak. 50:41.495 --> 50:42.497 [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like a poke war. 50:42.677 --> 50:43.999 [SPEAKER_00]: People would like abuse that. 50:44.019 --> 50:45.140 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, they did abuse it at the time. 50:45.180 --> 50:46.903 [SPEAKER_00]: But I feel like that like wouldn't be a thing. 50:46.923 --> 50:48.665 [SPEAKER_00]: Like no one would suggest that today. 50:48.765 --> 50:51.789 [SPEAKER_00]: Somehow they would find it like sexual. 50:51.889 --> 50:52.050 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 50:52.070 --> 50:53.612 [SPEAKER_00]: It would just people ruin things. 50:53.992 --> 50:55.354 [SPEAKER_00]: People ruin a good thing today. 50:56.532 --> 51:10.322 [SPEAKER_00]: Anyway, so that was our advice, but honestly it sounds like you'd be better off without people who don't check in on you after your breakup, I'm sorry, like what no 100% human decency, like 51:10.488 --> 51:17.715 [SPEAKER_01]: God, and it's like now another thing that you have to worry about on top of now having gone through a breakup. 51:17.855 --> 51:23.621 [SPEAKER_00]: If a friendship seems stressful, like you have to ask yourself, is the juice worth the squeeze really? 51:23.861 --> 51:25.443 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, it's the same as a relationship. 51:25.523 --> 51:28.266 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, like your friends shouldn't stress you out. 51:28.546 --> 51:30.388 [SPEAKER_01]: You should send the anti-ghosting text. 51:30.568 --> 51:31.168 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 51:31.188 --> 51:34.031 [SPEAKER_01]: I wish you the best. 51:34.051 --> 51:35.753 [SPEAKER_01]: But see you later. 51:36.593 --> 51:38.320 [SPEAKER_01]: or number. 51:38.340 --> 51:41.793 [SPEAKER_00]: Anyway, um, that's a wrap for our solo episode. 51:42.737 --> 51:44.263 [SPEAKER_00]: Adam will be back next week. 51:44.765 --> 51:45.608 [SPEAKER_00]: Are you here next week? 51:46.162 --> 51:48.145 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, I'm here next week. 51:48.466 --> 51:52.333 [SPEAKER_01]: We always have turbulence to figure out when I'm going to LA. 51:52.353 --> 51:54.176 [SPEAKER_00]: All right, you haven't even booked a crack. 51:54.657 --> 51:55.799 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, you might be walking there. 51:56.140 --> 51:56.640 [SPEAKER_01]: I might be. 51:57.221 --> 51:59.345 [SPEAKER_00]: You could care of Anne, like they used to do in the 70s. 51:59.666 --> 51:59.886 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 52:00.808 --> 52:04.614 [SPEAKER_00]: Or even further, you could get a horse drawn carriage, the covered wagon. 52:04.855 --> 52:05.476 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, you didn't? 52:05.736 --> 52:06.898 [SPEAKER_00]: Head and west back in the day. 52:07.059 --> 52:08.401 [SPEAKER_00]: That would be so terrible. 52:08.501 --> 52:09.503 [SPEAKER_00]: It would take you like, 52:09.483 --> 52:10.284 [SPEAKER_00]: several months. 52:10.485 --> 52:15.973 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I will definitely be on a plane, but there are no direct flights. 52:16.313 --> 52:23.544 [SPEAKER_01]: It has also been my issue to India and the return situation, the times are awful. 52:24.346 --> 52:27.490 [SPEAKER_01]: It's either, like, is it because the flight just pulled out already? 52:27.711 --> 52:28.091 [SPEAKER_01]: Is that why? 52:28.332 --> 52:34.120 [SPEAKER_01]: No, like, there's just very early flights on Monday or red eye. 52:34.180 --> 52:37.245 [SPEAKER_01]: There's no, like, late afternoon flight. 52:38.390 --> 52:40.495 [SPEAKER_00]: Hmm, you should text Danielle and see what flight she's on. 52:40.836 --> 52:49.956 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that's true, but like It's the ones that I saw that were direct or out of my budget That's what I got. 52:50.097 --> 52:50.798 [SPEAKER_00]: What are you gonna do? 52:50.818 --> 52:52.382 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, oh, you're gonna connect 52:52.632 --> 52:53.453 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I see. 52:53.473 --> 52:59.842 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, like the connecting plates are fine, but the direct plates are legitimately out of control on Monday. 52:59.862 --> 53:01.043 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like freaking contouring. 53:01.063 --> 53:01.524 [SPEAKER_00]: It's all okay. 53:01.544 --> 53:01.824 [SPEAKER_00]: It's all okay. 53:02.705 --> 53:09.294 [SPEAKER_01]: Until Tuesday, but then I would fly out like first thing in the morning on Tuesday, so, and I think I'm just going to want to get home. 53:10.015 --> 53:10.476 [SPEAKER_00]: Fair enough. 53:10.736 --> 53:12.238 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I wish you luck with that. 53:12.538 --> 53:12.919 [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you. 53:13.359 --> 53:13.660 [SPEAKER_00]: Bye. 53:13.720 --> 53:15.502 [SPEAKER_01]: You got to find that in the next episode. 53:15.702 --> 53:19.888 [SPEAKER_01]: I will have sort of light for sure. 53:19.868 --> 53:20.228 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 53:20.989 --> 53:24.113 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, oh, we got the police coming. 53:24.253 --> 53:24.734 [SPEAKER_00]: That's right. 53:24.754 --> 53:25.695 [SPEAKER_00]: That's our cue. 53:26.356 --> 53:27.697 [SPEAKER_00]: Thanks for listening everyone. 53:27.837 --> 53:30.340 [SPEAKER_00]: Hope you guys have a great weekend. 53:31.281 --> 53:35.506 [SPEAKER_00]: And we will be back with the original trio original recipe. 53:35.526 --> 53:36.668 [SPEAKER_00]: The original recipe. 53:36.688 --> 53:39.111 [SPEAKER_00]: That's sweet. 53:39.131 --> 53:39.611 [SPEAKER_00]: That's it. 53:39.791 --> 53:40.332 [SPEAKER_00]: What do we say? 53:40.532 --> 53:47.901 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, Adam always does it. 53:59.103 --> 54:01.173 [SPEAKER_01]: It's actually going to be nice this weekend. 54:01.193 --> 54:02.338 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, that's great. 54:02.379 --> 54:02.720 [SPEAKER_01]: Sunny. 54:03.002 --> 54:03.604 [SPEAKER_01]: That's great news. 54:05.594 --> 54:08.387 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, it's going to be 81 degrees next.