WEBVTT 00:04.005 --> 00:06.086 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm a gay up name for a gay up podcast. 00:07.187 --> 00:11.530 [SPEAKER_02]: Colin McGee is on that's a gay ass podcast, and are the rumors true, Colin? 00:11.550 --> 00:13.491 [SPEAKER_02]: This is your first ever podcast? 00:14.151 --> 00:19.234 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, yes, I am popping my cherry live, so you know what? 00:19.514 --> 00:25.498 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm so grateful that you use the phrase popping your cherry this early on, but my thought we'd be pushing this. 00:26.445 --> 00:31.289 [SPEAKER_02]: How does it feel to be on a gas podcast or your nervous or you excited or you anxious what's happening? 00:32.230 --> 00:32.971 [SPEAKER_00]: Very excited. 00:32.991 --> 00:34.212 [SPEAKER_00]: It feels incredibly gay. 00:34.232 --> 00:36.214 [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, I'm really excited. 00:36.314 --> 00:44.341 [SPEAKER_00]: I do kind of feel like I like podcasting is my dream job to just like sit and talk and that I know that's all you do. 00:44.881 --> 00:47.924 [SPEAKER_00]: That's all that that's all that it's all that that's basically it. 00:47.944 --> 00:49.846 [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, I'm very excited. 00:50.665 --> 00:56.271 [SPEAKER_02]: way, this is a dream country for me because I love to talk to a gay guy with a mustache who likes to converse. 00:56.671 --> 01:00.936 [SPEAKER_02]: Now because you're okay with sitting and chatting, I'm going to already get a little combative. 01:01.296 --> 01:02.137 [SPEAKER_02]: Call a McGee. 01:02.297 --> 01:05.401 [SPEAKER_02]: You're a gay guy who lives in Las Vegas. 01:05.421 --> 01:07.343 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't like it there. 01:07.703 --> 01:10.406 [SPEAKER_02]: What do you say to people who say they don't like Vegas? 01:10.446 --> 01:11.327 [SPEAKER_02]: What's your response? 01:12.758 --> 01:30.252 [SPEAKER_00]: I get it as a person who was in Vegas, like you would think I'm on the ship every night in the clubs all that absolutely not not to get so earnest like right off the bat but Vegas is actually like a really cool place cool community there's a lot of like really cool outdoor places nearby and like in the city. 01:30.952 --> 01:32.753 [SPEAKER_00]: There's some downsides, for sure. 01:32.773 --> 01:33.854 [SPEAKER_00]: It is hot. 01:34.134 --> 01:35.896 [SPEAKER_00]: If you haven't heard, incredibly hot. 01:36.796 --> 01:37.637 [SPEAKER_00]: So that's not the best. 01:37.657 --> 01:38.958 [SPEAKER_00]: But like, yeah, really cool people. 01:39.098 --> 01:39.738 [SPEAKER_00]: I grew up here. 01:39.758 --> 01:41.540 [SPEAKER_00]: I have the best family friends out here. 01:41.940 --> 01:42.720 [SPEAKER_00]: Lovely community. 01:42.740 --> 01:43.921 [SPEAKER_02]: So yeah, I see. 01:43.961 --> 01:48.745 [SPEAKER_02]: So you're, so you're very much roots in Vegas, the house down boots. 01:49.125 --> 01:53.448 [SPEAKER_02]: You're also a gay guy in Vegas who, I mean, we'll talk about the dating stitch because if anybody 01:53.568 --> 01:55.269 [SPEAKER_02]: doesn't follow you yet. 01:55.349 --> 01:58.972 [SPEAKER_02]: Colomegy is a delicious follow on TikTok and on Instagram. 01:59.312 --> 02:05.036 [SPEAKER_02]: You've got videos about being a gay guy there, about outdoorsiness, about being a gay uncle. 02:05.356 --> 02:07.657 [SPEAKER_02]: You've got a clothing brand called Lucky Foot. 02:07.938 --> 02:11.160 [SPEAKER_02]: You've got a lot of lore and we're going to talk about a lot of that. 02:11.180 --> 02:15.583 [SPEAKER_02]: But before I do so, I think these listeners should get to know Colomegy a little better. 02:16.063 --> 02:19.705 [SPEAKER_02]: By him answering the gay ass podcast question, which is, 02:20.666 --> 02:21.246 [SPEAKER_02]: Who's fault? 02:21.386 --> 02:23.167 [SPEAKER_02]: Is it that your gay, Colin McGee? 02:23.227 --> 02:24.768 [SPEAKER_00]: Who do we blame, babe? 02:24.788 --> 02:32.851 [SPEAKER_00]: Moon, the list can go on and on, but I tried to go back to the earliest, like, earliest, earliest point. 02:32.891 --> 02:38.073 [SPEAKER_00]: And I think it's if you're familiar, Mark Burnett, and Jeff Probst, of Survivor. 02:38.093 --> 02:45.197 [SPEAKER_00]: I was born in 1992, so I was eight years old and Survivor came out, and I watched 02:46.888 --> 02:56.340 [SPEAKER_00]: And I always selected like one favorite character as you do and shocker it was always the hottest man Colby Ethan's on 02:58.294 --> 02:59.134 [SPEAKER_00]: you can see the trend. 02:59.494 --> 03:04.115 [SPEAKER_02]: So I'm I started the, oh, yes, Ethan's on, of course. 03:04.776 --> 03:05.636 [SPEAKER_02]: I just curls. 03:06.156 --> 03:07.656 [SPEAKER_02]: Yes, gore just gore just curls. 03:08.357 --> 03:21.740 [SPEAKER_02]: I only got into Survivor solely in the game, partly because my husband got into it recently, also coasts, of course, the traders gave me an entrain to poverty shallow, who is now, I think, my number one diva. 03:22.480 --> 03:32.767 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, very lucky that she has done this pod twice everybody go back to listen to that, but but yeah, survivor and gay guys seem to have such a kid dreadness and you also aren't outdoorsy gay. 03:32.787 --> 03:35.188 [SPEAKER_02]: Do you think it came from the survivor of it all? 03:36.589 --> 03:37.950 [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe. 03:38.850 --> 03:44.073 [SPEAKER_00]: Seeing season one like it was truly surviving survivor now is like a lot different. 03:44.374 --> 03:45.674 [SPEAKER_00]: They were like really rough in it. 03:47.173 --> 03:51.598 [SPEAKER_00]: and you had a man walking around naked, the entire season, like, it was crazy back then. 03:51.978 --> 03:53.039 [SPEAKER_02]: That was Richard Hathich. 03:53.259 --> 03:53.820 [SPEAKER_00]: Richard Hathich. 03:53.840 --> 03:54.120 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. 03:55.301 --> 03:56.723 [SPEAKER_00]: And so yeah, I think it inspired it. 03:56.863 --> 04:00.907 [SPEAKER_00]: Also, I was just forced to fish pretty much every weekend of my life or dirt bike. 04:01.487 --> 04:03.009 [SPEAKER_00]: By my family, that was like our thing. 04:04.110 --> 04:05.632 [SPEAKER_00]: So I was very outdoorsy as a kid. 04:06.312 --> 04:11.538 [SPEAKER_02]: I see, so that's, okay, so you sort of are born into the life of a man who can fish born it. 04:11.618 --> 04:19.566 [SPEAKER_02]: And you've got, um, remind me, I know you started that business with your straight brother, but you've got two siblings, two, two, three siblings. 04:20.506 --> 04:38.698 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, older brother Clayton, he's married with two boys and I had a little sister Cassidy who she's married with one boy, just the plugged my siblings, they're literally the best humans on the planet, we're best friends, we like, grew up together, do everything together, so I'm really lucky to have them. 04:38.938 --> 04:39.678 [SPEAKER_02]: I love the future. 04:39.819 --> 04:41.980 [SPEAKER_02]: Can you guess what my next question is about your siblings? 04:43.571 --> 04:44.132 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know. 04:44.172 --> 04:49.457 [SPEAKER_02]: I can't sense this is a gay ass podcast and we don't spend too much time talking about coming out. 04:49.677 --> 04:53.281 [SPEAKER_02]: I do want to know, though, you grow up in a fishing straight fam. 04:53.622 --> 05:06.415 [SPEAKER_02]: You come out to two straight siblings in Nevada of all states, where they condition by the climate of Nevada to initially shone you or did the love go so deep that they said, 05:06.555 --> 05:07.095 [SPEAKER_02]: Fuck that. 05:07.175 --> 05:09.177 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm going to love my gay ass brother no matter the food. 05:09.317 --> 05:10.578 [SPEAKER_00]: What oh my god. 05:10.638 --> 05:11.239 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, okay. 05:11.279 --> 05:12.339 [SPEAKER_00]: I have I'm so bad. 05:12.359 --> 05:14.381 [SPEAKER_00]: You ask because I do have very good stories about this. 05:14.761 --> 05:22.247 [SPEAKER_00]: So first of all I the only person who like was going to be like heart of myself coming out was me like my family was literally angels. 05:29.669 --> 05:30.049 [SPEAKER_00]: whatever. 05:30.229 --> 05:33.710 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, but I had it really easy because I should have it was no brainer there and be great. 05:34.190 --> 05:38.371 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, the first person I intentionally came out to with my, was my little sister. 05:38.411 --> 05:39.611 [SPEAKER_00]: She was living with me at the time. 05:39.631 --> 05:40.772 [SPEAKER_00]: We were really close. 05:41.312 --> 05:43.212 [SPEAKER_00]: And I had come home from a trip from Palm Springs. 05:43.232 --> 05:43.912 [SPEAKER_00]: It was a work trip. 05:44.393 --> 05:49.034 [SPEAKER_00]: I had made out with my first man ever, first, first ever contact 05:54.895 --> 06:10.103 [SPEAKER_00]: I, my first contact with a game end was also just like initial like I never hooked up with anything made out of a game end instantly was like yep, this is it and then the process started and we're we're going 23 is not early not late. 06:10.163 --> 06:22.750 [SPEAKER_02]: It's right on time, but for a 23 year old man who's clearly having pings of homosexuality to go on a work trip to Palm Springs was any part of you before the trip hoping to have the lips of a man on yours. 06:23.190 --> 06:24.031 [SPEAKER_00]: This isn't bears. 06:24.051 --> 06:25.332 [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't know much about the culture. 06:25.793 --> 06:29.937 [SPEAKER_00]: So I didn't know Palm Springs was a gay like one of the gay capitals in the world. 06:29.977 --> 06:33.140 [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm go about to go and my my boss who I love. 06:33.160 --> 06:34.802 [SPEAKER_00]: She was like, oh, they're going to love you out there. 06:34.822 --> 06:36.364 [SPEAKER_00]: And I was like, what are you talking? 06:36.424 --> 06:37.385 [SPEAKER_00]: I have no idea what you're talking about. 06:37.725 --> 06:40.468 [SPEAKER_00]: It was just a normal like parks and recreation conference. 06:40.608 --> 06:43.551 [SPEAKER_00]: It was actually a water park conference because I work in like Quadix and Parks and Rec. 06:44.011 --> 06:44.252 [SPEAKER_00]: So. 06:45.217 --> 06:46.177 [SPEAKER_00]: was not prepared. 06:46.758 --> 06:50.239 [SPEAKER_00]: He happened to be from the conference who was British, so it was wonderful. 06:51.839 --> 06:55.901 [SPEAKER_00]: But all my co-workers saw, so they were like, and they knew me really well. 06:55.981 --> 06:57.641 [SPEAKER_00]: So it was like very, very shocking. 06:57.661 --> 06:59.422 [SPEAKER_00]: It was like, out of nowhere. 06:59.722 --> 07:01.963 [SPEAKER_02]: So of course, a bankout happened at a work event. 07:03.184 --> 07:07.765 [SPEAKER_00]: It was like the after party of the work event in credible and policy. 07:07.825 --> 07:11.106 [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm of course like we drive in a van too together. 07:11.146 --> 07:16.587 [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm like the most hungover I've ever been in my life truly like what have I done. 07:17.287 --> 07:27.050 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm, you know, going to die and I get home and my sister's sitting on the couch and I walk in the door and I fall to my knees and I'm like, oh, and I just start bawling and she's like, what is wrong? 07:27.070 --> 07:28.870 [SPEAKER_00]: And I was like, I think I'm gay. 07:29.962 --> 07:30.302 [SPEAKER_00]: I think. 07:30.523 --> 07:36.027 [SPEAKER_00]: I might have said by which is so problematic, but she runs and jumps on me on the ground. 07:36.187 --> 07:37.448 [SPEAKER_00]: And she says, I'm good. 07:37.849 --> 07:39.150 [SPEAKER_00]: I love you. 07:39.410 --> 07:40.731 [SPEAKER_00]: She's just like panicking for what to say. 07:40.751 --> 07:42.353 [SPEAKER_00]: She was, I'll have your kids if you want. 07:44.635 --> 07:44.835 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't. 07:45.175 --> 07:46.716 [SPEAKER_00]: I've asked her before why she said that. 07:46.777 --> 07:48.098 [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, I don't really know. 07:48.118 --> 07:50.700 [SPEAKER_00]: I just wanted to say something comforting to you. 07:50.720 --> 07:52.942 [SPEAKER_00]: But how old was she at this point? 07:54.683 --> 07:56.204 [SPEAKER_00]: He was like 19 or 20. 07:56.224 --> 07:57.784 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god. 07:58.284 --> 08:15.370 [SPEAKER_02]: It's, I maybe because it's like 10 a.m. and my emotions are a little more raw in the morning, but that makes me a little teary to think about you stopping walking in the door and just like your teenage sister wanting to do anything to make you feel protected and seen and loved. 08:15.630 --> 08:22.712 [SPEAKER_02]: Because let's call a spade, when I came out, I was weakening in Chicago, O'Hare's airport with my mother. 08:23.092 --> 08:40.405 [SPEAKER_02]: And I also said the words, I think I'm even though I knew a new I've course that I absolutely was, but the decision I'm trying to make right now for you, though, is if I want to hear about this British guy make out on the main feeder on the sub stack side, you know what, we're going to do it here, but just for a tease for the sub stack side, we'll talk more about. 08:40.785 --> 08:46.069 [SPEAKER_02]: your first, you did a video about your first bone, or you got watching bread and a freezer in the mummy. 08:46.129 --> 08:47.150 [SPEAKER_02]: So we'll go into that. 08:48.351 --> 08:51.574 [SPEAKER_02]: There's also a TikTok gay that you've flirted with a little bit in the comments. 08:51.594 --> 08:56.658 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm going to ask about, but tell me just because I love to set stages here. 08:57.078 --> 09:00.281 [SPEAKER_02]: When your at this work conference, the British man that 09:01.101 --> 09:06.588 [SPEAKER_02]: Clearly did some sort of correct move to get a column McGee to press his face against his. 09:07.108 --> 09:10.011 [SPEAKER_02]: Did you clock him earlier in the conference? 09:10.432 --> 09:13.415 [SPEAKER_02]: Were you hurting for a squirting upon first viewing? 09:14.036 --> 09:19.963 [SPEAKER_02]: What was the journey from getting to Palm Springs to suck in his tongue? 09:21.631 --> 09:30.259 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, first grading is so, so eloquent, but, um, so I was actually speaking at the conference, I was very good at convince myself I wasn't gay. 09:30.319 --> 09:37.726 [SPEAKER_00]: So like the gain is was like very far back and like I would do things like the perfect example like be washing gay porn, but it was like, well, I'm doing it. 09:38.606 --> 09:40.569 [SPEAKER_00]: because like their bodies are really great. 09:41.069 --> 09:43.893 [SPEAKER_00]: And like, I'm Jim Sporish and like Jim Sporish. 09:43.913 --> 09:47.237 [SPEAKER_00]: Like truly I was able to just pull the wool. 09:47.277 --> 09:55.387 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, you need to people listening have their own version of this my version of this is I was watching guys jack offs what could learn how to masturbate. 09:56.723 --> 09:57.243 [SPEAKER_00]: education. 09:57.904 --> 10:01.585 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it was, it was all of a science class for me. 10:01.605 --> 10:01.905 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. 10:02.005 --> 10:14.911 [SPEAKER_00]: Also, so that probably shouldn't say this publicly like Greek mythology was the biggest Greek mythology fan like in like when I was 10, I knew everything about every like for the bots for sure. 10:15.835 --> 10:19.436 [SPEAKER_02]: So it's Agamemmon part of that or is that a wrong reference. 10:19.936 --> 10:20.836 [SPEAKER_00]: No, you're correct. 10:20.896 --> 10:21.376 [SPEAKER_00]: Agamemmon. 10:21.396 --> 10:21.616 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 10:22.197 --> 10:26.858 [SPEAKER_02]: So I should have come up with a name that I actually could have done a pun with first. 10:27.058 --> 10:30.859 [SPEAKER_02]: Agamemmon on my face. 10:31.199 --> 10:31.759 [SPEAKER_02]: There you go. 10:31.799 --> 10:32.259 [SPEAKER_02]: There we go. 10:32.339 --> 10:32.619 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 10:32.839 --> 10:33.279 [SPEAKER_02]: We got there. 10:33.759 --> 10:35.160 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm interested you that go on. 10:35.400 --> 10:35.880 [SPEAKER_00]: No, no. 10:35.960 --> 10:41.841 [SPEAKER_00]: So at the conference, I was speaking afterwards, like one of the attendees comes up to me. 10:41.881 --> 10:42.362 [SPEAKER_00]: He's British. 10:42.402 --> 10:43.422 [SPEAKER_00]: He's like, oh my gosh, I love 10:44.544 --> 10:49.447 [SPEAKER_00]: your speech, like it was so good, blah, blah, which is much of my first clue because it was not good at all. 10:49.547 --> 10:50.908 [SPEAKER_00]: So really was just flirting. 10:50.928 --> 10:51.929 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 10:52.289 --> 10:56.612 [SPEAKER_00]: And so he was kind of flirting and I had never actually flirted with a man that I don't think. 10:58.948 --> 11:17.140 [SPEAKER_00]: So it was just really interesting and then later at the after party like the drinks were flowing he just was like talking to me and I was just like I just I think the British of it all really really helped me like there was something about it that just I was like this is okay because he's British which makes no sense, but 11:17.800 --> 11:18.320 [SPEAKER_00]: In my game. 11:18.340 --> 11:20.121 [SPEAKER_00]: No things are different in your outside brain. 11:20.141 --> 11:20.962 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 11:21.542 --> 11:35.969 [SPEAKER_02]: And you, I mean, if we want to get to like the true underneath of it all, I think part of it is that you were conditioned to have such a heteronormative brain that you couldn't consider a life in your home town as being a gay one. 11:36.069 --> 11:39.631 [SPEAKER_02]: And so you probably did some subconscious mental gymnastics to say, 11:40.111 --> 11:41.012 [SPEAKER_02]: This man is British. 11:41.332 --> 11:42.894 [SPEAKER_02]: The rules are different in England. 11:42.914 --> 11:47.798 [SPEAKER_02]: The rules of straightness don't apply in this scenario. 11:48.238 --> 11:50.520 [SPEAKER_02]: And so then maybe a part of you let your guard down. 11:50.800 --> 11:53.222 [SPEAKER_02]: Because then he continues to talk and then what happens? 11:54.823 --> 11:58.647 [SPEAKER_00]: And then we are sitting on a bench and then we're making out. 11:59.527 --> 12:00.588 [SPEAKER_02]: And he made the first move. 12:00.608 --> 12:01.429 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm going to be too assume. 12:03.429 --> 12:12.913 [SPEAKER_02]: It's fuzzy counter virtual question on the main feed, but did you get immediately motion in your Pope and your potion and your post for sure. 12:12.933 --> 12:13.153 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 12:13.393 --> 12:13.553 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 12:13.573 --> 12:13.833 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 12:13.973 --> 12:17.234 [SPEAKER_00]: But I kind of was like I feel like if the wind blew, I would get bonus. 12:17.274 --> 12:21.216 [SPEAKER_00]: So that that was like not unusual, you know, or central. 12:21.516 --> 12:21.856 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 12:21.996 --> 12:27.898 [SPEAKER_02]: No, I want to thank this British man for welcoming and and seemingly like a really kind 12:33.120 --> 12:34.482 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, he was really sweet. 12:35.523 --> 12:37.226 [SPEAKER_00]: That's like the full extent of it. 12:38.607 --> 12:44.215 [SPEAKER_00]: He did offer me tickets to his water park, which was like very romantic, Lego Land, hello. 12:45.302 --> 12:48.123 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, not to dox him, but this was like 15 years ago. 12:48.764 --> 12:51.785 [SPEAKER_02]: So I mean, is there only is there only one Lego land in the world? 12:52.765 --> 12:53.646 [SPEAKER_00]: No, I don't know. 12:53.686 --> 12:56.827 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't keep up on it too much, but I do know there's one inside of California. 12:57.567 --> 12:57.847 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 12:57.867 --> 13:02.729 [SPEAKER_02]: Well, if it's British place is listening and he currently works at the Southern California Lego land. 13:02.769 --> 13:06.051 [SPEAKER_02]: We're so sorry for the, we're sorry for the dox, but I have to say 13:06.931 --> 13:16.203 [SPEAKER_02]: I have a feeling that you're not only okay, but I don't think he would mind hearing about delicious your first delicious makeup with a guy in him. 13:17.404 --> 13:18.105 [SPEAKER_02]: I love that story. 13:18.125 --> 13:25.674 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm going to talk on the paywall side to respect your privacy about maybe your first and other arenas in your gay life. 13:25.754 --> 13:25.894 [SPEAKER_02]: But 13:26.615 --> 13:30.798 [SPEAKER_02]: I think pop culturely, you've got a really delicious finger on the polls. 13:31.259 --> 13:40.966 [SPEAKER_02]: In fact, your best friend got you a custom guess who game with all of your favorite people on it, and I would love to know out of these people. 13:41.586 --> 13:43.227 [SPEAKER_02]: What is your dream, blunt rotation? 13:43.347 --> 13:48.291 [SPEAKER_02]: Or if you don't smoke weed, what is your dream sangria at the bar with? 13:48.592 --> 13:50.974 [SPEAKER_02]: Before we go into the names, what do you prefer? 13:51.334 --> 13:52.175 [SPEAKER_02]: Are you a weed girl? 13:52.275 --> 13:53.536 [SPEAKER_02]: Alcohol girl neither? 13:53.556 --> 13:55.477 [SPEAKER_02]: Do you just get high on anger? 13:55.617 --> 13:56.098 [SPEAKER_00]: What's happened? 13:56.138 --> 13:57.079 [SPEAKER_00]: Not a weed girl. 13:57.099 --> 13:58.139 [SPEAKER_00]: I get too weird. 13:59.080 --> 14:00.401 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like a dabble or an alcohol. 14:00.681 --> 14:02.243 [SPEAKER_02]: Now, dabble or an alcohol? 14:02.683 --> 14:03.924 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, we'll just do all that works. 14:04.004 --> 14:06.985 [SPEAKER_00]: Or just a dream rotation of just conversation is great too. 14:07.245 --> 14:09.026 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, so you're having a delicious conversation. 14:09.046 --> 14:14.608 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm going to read off a name and you're going to tell me if they are a part of this dream convo group. 14:14.628 --> 14:14.808 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 14:15.008 --> 14:24.372 [SPEAKER_02]: Let's say you're only allowed to get three and I'm about to name 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 I'm about to name 11 people. 14:24.512 --> 14:26.653 [SPEAKER_02]: You're only allowed to have three in your dream convo. 14:27.353 --> 14:27.573 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 14:27.973 --> 14:28.254 [SPEAKER_02]: All right. 14:28.274 --> 14:31.936 [SPEAKER_02]: Number one on this guest who board that allegedly is all your favorite people. 14:32.696 --> 14:35.618 [SPEAKER_02]: Um, first one I'm going to do is lead pace. 14:35.918 --> 14:36.478 [SPEAKER_02]: Yes or no. 14:38.460 --> 14:39.620 [SPEAKER_00]: Just because I know who's coming. 14:39.660 --> 14:39.880 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 14:41.441 --> 14:42.062 [SPEAKER_02]: Interesting. 14:42.142 --> 14:42.442 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 14:42.462 --> 14:45.143 [SPEAKER_02]: So that if you know who's coming, let's do number two. 14:45.584 --> 14:46.224 [SPEAKER_02]: Are you going to have a 14:50.557 --> 14:59.324 [SPEAKER_00]: No, no, unfortunately, let me just say so that was more, that was like the one that was actually my like besties. 14:59.524 --> 15:02.826 [SPEAKER_00]: She's just, he's very, oh, he's very enamored by him. 15:02.847 --> 15:05.729 [SPEAKER_02]: So you both love curly, haired, brown men. 15:06.329 --> 15:07.370 [SPEAKER_02]: Brown, really, yeah. 15:07.970 --> 15:08.511 [SPEAKER_02]: Absolutely. 15:10.132 --> 15:12.374 [SPEAKER_02]: What about, um, Meg Saltor? 15:14.042 --> 15:18.325 [SPEAKER_02]: Number one, Shastity, you're on the back train. 15:18.965 --> 15:23.648 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my gosh, and I hate to be like this, but I haven't following her since she was still in her hometown. 15:24.809 --> 15:30.773 [SPEAKER_00]: She's just, she really, truly is like, one of the funniest people in planet, if not the funniest person. 15:31.138 --> 15:40.868 [SPEAKER_02]: No, I'm actually glad you're bragging about that because I too followed her when she had like brick wall in her apartment before she like blew up and it is very cool to see I don't know. 15:40.948 --> 15:46.274 [SPEAKER_02]: I think that's a fun part about getting older is seeing people who like you feel like you discovered. 15:46.874 --> 15:48.076 [SPEAKER_02]: So Meg is a part of the dream. 15:48.176 --> 15:50.198 [SPEAKER_02]: What about Pope Francis? 15:50.358 --> 15:51.139 [SPEAKER_02]: He was on that board. 15:51.783 --> 15:52.304 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, it's funny. 15:52.324 --> 15:55.929 [SPEAKER_00]: I just heard that the term the other day on a podcast, they were referencing it. 15:56.450 --> 15:58.232 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, we always did Fagotini. 15:58.293 --> 15:59.534 [SPEAKER_00]: That's what we thought he was saying. 16:00.175 --> 16:02.639 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, so we have to term that we like to use with one another. 16:02.659 --> 16:06.985 [SPEAKER_02]: Um, you know what's funny is that there is gay ass merch that I'm not currently selling. 16:07.285 --> 16:35.299 [SPEAKER_02]: But I used to say fact a trainee that was like my own made up work and love and so when I heard the Pope Francis Fagotini of it all it was kind of actually I was just on a trip with a few friends and my husband brought his Fagotini shirt so it's kind of beautiful to see that in the world, but we're shouting out Pope Francis We're we're gonna hop we're gonna we're gonna pass on pap prop Pope Francis on this one Looking up pass on the bread just gonna pass up in a pass in a pass in a pass in France What about the God warrior? 16:36.192 --> 16:37.173 [SPEAKER_02]: The God Warrior. 16:37.193 --> 16:39.454 [SPEAKER_02]: We're going to pass, we're going to pass. 16:40.015 --> 16:42.396 [SPEAKER_02]: She is not a Christian. 16:42.476 --> 16:46.719 [SPEAKER_02]: What about, um, what about, um, portions of Williams? 16:49.321 --> 16:51.742 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, Porsche, how many are we at? 16:51.762 --> 16:52.343 [SPEAKER_00]: We at five? 16:53.577 --> 16:54.998 [SPEAKER_00]: something like that five of that. 16:55.658 --> 16:57.420 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, let's do a portion there. 16:57.560 --> 16:58.040 [SPEAKER_00]: Let's do it. 16:58.160 --> 16:58.360 [SPEAKER_02]: All right. 16:58.380 --> 17:02.523 [SPEAKER_02]: We've got Meg's all turned for show Williams, which is already a gay dream. 17:03.264 --> 17:06.486 [SPEAKER_02]: Let's add a bit of a twist so since we have about, I don't know, four or five left. 17:06.806 --> 17:08.868 [SPEAKER_02]: Rosie O'Donnell, you know what? 17:09.888 --> 17:10.669 [SPEAKER_00]: I think so. 17:12.365 --> 17:12.925 [SPEAKER_00]: I think so. 17:13.085 --> 17:18.229 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm really I love I watch Rosie a lot as a kid because my grandma love Rosie a Donald. 17:18.729 --> 17:21.191 [SPEAKER_00]: I watch a lot of like daytime TV as a kid. 17:22.091 --> 17:23.152 [SPEAKER_00]: And I love Rosie. 17:23.612 --> 17:25.373 [SPEAKER_00]: And I just love her current era. 17:25.854 --> 17:26.714 [SPEAKER_02]: Me too. 17:27.074 --> 17:31.917 [SPEAKER_02]: I think that the Jimmy Kimmel return was really sort of cathartic for a lot of us who have loved her. 17:32.778 --> 17:41.329 [SPEAKER_02]: she's always been on the right set of history obviously she was sort of, you know, kicked out of this country, but I'm glad that she is thriving. 17:41.770 --> 17:48.539 [SPEAKER_02]: So mixed all to her portion of Williams and Rosio Donald, the gayess gab sash I've ever heard of, but because, um, 17:49.360 --> 17:55.049 [SPEAKER_02]: I love to yes and certain topics, Rosie O'Donnell is a show, her talk show is something you would watch. 17:55.409 --> 17:57.472 [SPEAKER_02]: She would platform a lot of Broadway girlies. 17:57.813 --> 17:59.515 [SPEAKER_02]: What is your relationship with the theater? 17:59.836 --> 18:03.902 [SPEAKER_02]: And follow up, did you do any plays in high school or were you too straight to do so? 18:05.123 --> 18:08.604 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I do enjoy theater. 18:08.664 --> 18:09.684 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't go as much as I want. 18:09.704 --> 18:13.745 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm actually going to see Omerian Vegas in a week or two, which I'm so with Alaska. 18:13.765 --> 18:14.966 [SPEAKER_00]: It's a Thunderfuck Alaska. 18:15.166 --> 18:16.006 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, incredible. 18:16.306 --> 18:19.447 [SPEAKER_00]: But as when it comes to acting, you hit it on the nose. 18:19.487 --> 18:22.828 [SPEAKER_00]: I was too scared, but in fourth grade, I was the male lead. 18:23.048 --> 18:25.108 [SPEAKER_00]: I was the woodsman in red riding hood. 18:25.128 --> 18:27.289 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's so funny. 18:28.525 --> 18:41.872 [SPEAKER_00]: like again, earnestly, like I loved it so much and I had so much fun, but I was just like desperately shy in middle school and high school and I didn't do theater because I would have, I would have been worried about people thinking I was gay. 18:43.095 --> 19:09.244 [SPEAKER_02]: So I don't do just to go back and do that to go full circle with my Vegas hate I think part of it is that I can feel in its bones that it wants to be a hundred percent straight and I know that you say it's got a beautiful community and I believe that and I know that there are gay people right now in Vegas listening to this and I listen to you so much love, but I think that you know it's my own projection of like where I grew up felt very straight and when I go to a very straight place. 19:10.084 --> 19:15.028 [SPEAKER_02]: I just, I did go see the Wizard of Oz at this sphere, which was in it, which was very gay. 19:15.228 --> 19:15.889 [SPEAKER_02]: Have you seen that yet? 19:16.890 --> 19:17.590 [SPEAKER_00]: No, I haven't. 19:17.630 --> 19:19.712 [SPEAKER_00]: I actually haven't been to this sphere, but I do really want to. 19:19.732 --> 19:23.976 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I think it's interesting that that's a perception. 19:24.196 --> 19:26.498 [SPEAKER_00]: I obviously have a very skewed perception of what Vegas is. 19:28.079 --> 19:31.722 [SPEAKER_00]: I also think that, like, throughout my whole life, I've been 19:35.751 --> 19:47.839 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think, and I think that I present like very, and I've always presented really straight, and so I think that I just probably am a bit privileged and like what I've experienced, you know, like I probably have a little bit of a blind spot. 19:48.199 --> 19:48.459 [SPEAKER_00]: So, 19:49.478 --> 20:05.853 [SPEAKER_02]: No, but that's interesting for you to say, but no, I think that's actually really evolved for you to kind of have a perspective on the privilege of it all because I don't think I had that privilege, I think I was always like tall gay and direct comparison to my straight twin brother, like, 20:06.253 --> 20:12.316 [SPEAKER_02]: I think that it is true that you move through the world differently based upon how people are perceiving you. 20:12.676 --> 20:21.781 [SPEAKER_02]: But speaking of that perception, you are telling me that your dream is to be a gay guy podcaster who sits in gaps, you love playing the woodsmen. 20:22.261 --> 20:24.623 [SPEAKER_02]: However, you're working in like a aquatic 20:26.292 --> 20:26.793 [SPEAKER_02]: stuff. 20:27.214 --> 20:29.877 [SPEAKER_02]: You've got this big old TikTok audience. 20:30.337 --> 20:34.222 [SPEAKER_02]: What is your manifestation like on a professional level? 20:34.282 --> 20:40.529 [SPEAKER_02]: Like I'm assuming you have a corporate job, but you also clearly are resonating with a ton of people online. 20:40.850 --> 20:45.996 [SPEAKER_02]: Do you have any like manifestations of what you are going to grow into doing? 20:47.052 --> 20:50.614 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I mean, first off, like, my career is in Parks and Rec. 20:50.634 --> 20:52.654 [SPEAKER_00]: And I, like, I literally, I do. 20:52.755 --> 20:55.096 [SPEAKER_00]: It's cheesy, but I really see myself as like a public servant. 20:55.176 --> 20:57.817 [SPEAKER_00]: That is like what I really find a lot of joy in. 20:59.137 --> 21:01.498 [SPEAKER_00]: And I, you know, I try to like be a part of the community. 21:01.518 --> 21:05.160 [SPEAKER_00]: I really believe in Parks and like what it does for like kids. 21:05.340 --> 21:07.541 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's an unsung here of the community. 21:07.561 --> 21:09.842 [SPEAKER_00]: So I really do love my job and the people I work with. 21:10.262 --> 21:11.623 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like really lucky on that side. 21:12.143 --> 21:16.705 [SPEAKER_00]: TikTok really just started because I love to just make people laugh. 21:17.417 --> 21:19.578 [SPEAKER_00]: That is like the TikToks that I really enjoy. 21:19.598 --> 21:30.162 [SPEAKER_00]: I do know there's like an element of people just like thinking I'm hot, which does worry me sometimes because I'm just like, wait, do you actually think I'm like, am I funny or do you just think I'm hot? 21:30.743 --> 21:35.905 [SPEAKER_00]: So that's like a little worrisome, but I really do love making people laugh and and I take TikTok like, 21:36.921 --> 21:55.353 [SPEAKER_00]: I try to say very grounded of like I want to do things that make me laugh and make me happy and I just have like a lot of fun making TikToks like I have so much fun doing it and I try to avoid like thinking about the algorithm or things like that and so unfortunately most of the TikToks that like I think are the funniest I've ever made have like 200 views. 21:56.618 --> 21:57.739 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, like, there's this one. 21:57.759 --> 21:59.661 [SPEAKER_00]: I have to plug my favorite TikTok I made. 22:00.341 --> 22:08.609 [SPEAKER_00]: I've been driving past this, uh, this shopping center my whole life and they have, like, three cars that are high heels choose, like, it's like a shoe repair company. 22:08.629 --> 22:09.329 [SPEAKER_02]: Uh-huh. 22:09.569 --> 22:10.911 [SPEAKER_00]: Um, and I've just always driven by them. 22:10.931 --> 22:12.292 [SPEAKER_00]: What one's a boot to our high heels? 22:12.332 --> 22:13.473 [SPEAKER_00]: And I've just always driven by them. 22:13.493 --> 22:15.775 [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm just like, this is the funnier shit I've ever seen my life. 22:15.815 --> 22:16.175 [SPEAKER_00]: I love it. 22:16.575 --> 22:18.097 [SPEAKER_00]: And one day I was walking by and I was like, 22:19.190 --> 22:34.820 [SPEAKER_00]: This is a guy with like a foot fetish and a car fetish is green like this is his like he's as you said hurt in the square every time he passes by this port of subs and so I made that tick talk it did not resonate well right unfortunately with the community. 22:35.477 --> 22:35.777 [SPEAKER_02]: You know what? 22:36.697 --> 22:41.299 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm going to hazard a guess as to why didn't resonate, which is I think that it was inherently incredibly funny. 22:41.319 --> 23:00.426 [SPEAKER_02]: I think the story to me was probably spot on, but I think I have similar storytelling moments where something I find to be so funny is maybe so specific that it's not as relatable of an experience like people drive by crazy shit all the time, but how many car high heels have we driven by? 23:01.126 --> 23:03.952 [SPEAKER_02]: not as many, but your take on it is genius and funny. 23:04.092 --> 23:09.422 [SPEAKER_02]: It's just, you know, the algorithm didn't see it for what it was and that's the algorithm's fault and not yours. 23:09.462 --> 23:10.705 [SPEAKER_00]: I think it just didn't know where to put it. 23:11.538 --> 23:11.878 [SPEAKER_02]: Sure. 23:11.938 --> 23:14.180 [SPEAKER_00]: Do we need you fetish or car fetish? 23:14.420 --> 23:19.543 [SPEAKER_02]: Well, you must get so many crazy DMs based on your stash and I'm speaking of feet. 23:19.703 --> 23:21.964 [SPEAKER_02]: I want, well, well, again, we'll do that on the other side. 23:22.544 --> 23:23.305 [SPEAKER_02]: Speaking of yeah. 23:23.645 --> 23:25.906 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, since we all have a few more minutes on the main side. 23:26.346 --> 23:32.230 [SPEAKER_02]: Another video that you have that I love is talking about how men are quote animals and pigs. 23:33.190 --> 23:44.936 [SPEAKER_02]: Uh, you're referencing your own, uh, usage of a toilet paper, empty toilet paper rule, you then took a full toilet paper rule and just sort of placed it on top of the empty one, which is a classic man quality. 23:45.556 --> 23:50.779 [SPEAKER_02]: Um, I want to ask you your, your nastiest man quality and your feminiest quality. 23:51.159 --> 23:55.941 [SPEAKER_02]: First, for nastie man, what is like the most manly nasty quality of yours? 23:55.981 --> 23:57.782 [SPEAKER_02]: Do you shut down emotionally? 23:57.862 --> 23:58.663 [SPEAKER_02]: Does your underwear? 23:59.243 --> 24:00.283 [SPEAKER_02]: have skin marks. 24:00.323 --> 24:02.164 [SPEAKER_02]: Are you violent when you're angry? 24:02.624 --> 24:03.604 [SPEAKER_02]: What's happening, Colin? 24:03.824 --> 24:05.725 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, definitely super violent. 24:05.765 --> 24:06.445 [SPEAKER_00]: Don't cut that. 24:06.925 --> 24:07.825 [SPEAKER_00]: No, I'm just kidding. 24:08.005 --> 24:12.226 [SPEAKER_00]: No, I actually am glad I have a nice balance of feminine and masculine qualities. 24:12.286 --> 24:13.947 [SPEAKER_00]: I've like really falling into that. 24:13.987 --> 24:16.287 [SPEAKER_00]: That's a whole nother like I could talk for hours on that. 24:16.807 --> 24:18.768 [SPEAKER_00]: But my nasty is quality. 24:19.708 --> 24:21.248 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yes, perfect. 24:21.288 --> 24:22.609 [SPEAKER_00]: My best friend will die this. 24:22.689 --> 24:32.411 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so I have we have this thing called the sock graveyard, which is I, for some reason, take my socks off in the living room every night. 24:32.431 --> 24:36.612 [SPEAKER_00]: And every time she comes over, she's just like disgusted because they're like stuffed in the couch. 24:37.232 --> 24:40.813 [SPEAKER_00]: They're like, I'm like, oh, there's that sock and so we call it the sock graveyard. 24:40.833 --> 24:43.274 [SPEAKER_00]: I think better. 24:44.404 --> 24:46.265 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I have a roommate that I didn't know was me. 24:46.285 --> 24:47.405 [SPEAKER_00]: We're like very opposite schedule. 24:47.425 --> 24:50.786 [SPEAKER_00]: So we don't see each other time, but I try to do better about the stock graveyard. 24:50.806 --> 24:55.788 [SPEAKER_02]: I clean up a little bit more, but my husband also loves to take his socks off in the living room. 24:55.848 --> 24:59.130 [SPEAKER_02]: So that is his net one of his nasty man qualities. 25:06.349 --> 25:08.351 [SPEAKER_00]: You guys are going to I hate to do this. 25:08.411 --> 25:09.312 [SPEAKER_00]: It's going to feel performative. 25:09.332 --> 25:11.393 [SPEAKER_00]: But I'm like the most like maternal person. 25:11.413 --> 25:16.598 [SPEAKER_00]: I like I'm very very like nurturing like I'm at work. 25:16.638 --> 25:26.406 [SPEAKER_00]: I managed like over a hundred 16 to 25 year olds like I have like a ton of lifeguards that I oversee and like I'm very like I'm like very different person. 25:26.466 --> 25:30.569 [SPEAKER_00]: I work on like very professional and I take it very seriously and I really try to like mentor them. 25:30.589 --> 25:31.570 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like their first job. 25:31.590 --> 25:33.232 [SPEAKER_00]: So like I really take a lot of like. 25:33.972 --> 25:37.674 [SPEAKER_00]: Care in that, but I also am like so like nurturing. 25:37.734 --> 25:51.340 [SPEAKER_00]: It can be hard sometimes because I'm like I know I have to sometimes make like really hard decisions But I also like want to like you know like nurture them and make sure they're they're cared for and things like that So yeah, that means that you well, that's probably probably why you're such a good uncle. 25:51.460 --> 25:57.543 [SPEAKER_02]: I love all your videos about yeah, you're Enough use and you said yeah one is or all nephews. 25:58.043 --> 25:59.264 [SPEAKER_00]: I have three nephews and then like 25:59.984 --> 26:19.709 [SPEAKER_02]: peripheral nieces from like the other friends so yes yes we'll get into the personal life on the other side but quick question is you're currently singly us who yeah are you because of this maternal quality are you somebody who envisions yourself having the husband and kids or are you sure 26:20.349 --> 26:26.074 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah, I like do this is going to sound lame, but like I really do think like my purpose is to be a dad. 26:26.114 --> 26:41.707 [SPEAKER_00]: I like really want that to be I've come to I've kind of come to a little bit of a Change lately where I'm like okay with not being a dad just because like I if it doesn't happen like I want it to feel natural and I I have noticed myself like sometimes being in dating situations where I'm like 26:42.820 --> 26:57.791 [SPEAKER_00]: I have I like could potentially see myself forcing a dating situation because I have these goals and that's a tendency I like really have worked on like not doing and dating which is why I've been single for like I've been single for like over four years now after my like last long term relationship and I try to 26:59.102 --> 27:00.242 [SPEAKER_00]: really date intentionally. 27:01.643 --> 27:21.807 [SPEAKER_02]: But yeah, being a dad is like number one goal if it's like a healthy scenario that's gonna like be good for my life and things like hey man, because you know what we're not gonna continue some people's straight tradition of having kids to fix something or because we feel like we have to we're gonna do it because it's organic and 27:22.207 --> 27:41.484 [SPEAKER_02]: which I think is a little ironic as gay guys like we're not having kids naturally organically, but it still can be an organic decision that comes from a place like empowerment abundance and not because we're trying to fit the food in exactly final question before the final question. 27:43.005 --> 27:47.149 [SPEAKER_02]: I'll get a more in-depth and specifics, but generally speaking, how is dating 27:48.910 --> 27:50.931 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I have a little rant about this. 27:50.951 --> 27:54.693 [SPEAKER_00]: Please, I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna talk shit on Vegas. 27:55.294 --> 28:00.537 [SPEAKER_00]: I think every gay guy thinks his hometown is like the worst place to date. 28:01.037 --> 28:01.237 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 28:01.637 --> 28:02.758 [SPEAKER_00]: I think dating is just hard. 28:02.938 --> 28:04.799 [SPEAKER_00]: Like that's just, like how it is. 28:05.299 --> 28:09.942 [SPEAKER_00]: And so I think that the hardest thing is like a numbers game, like just in general, like being a person, 28:11.077 --> 28:13.898 [SPEAKER_00]: In the community like who's dating, you're just going to have like lower numbers. 28:13.918 --> 28:17.899 [SPEAKER_00]: So like that's definitely harder the parting element like can sometimes be hard. 28:18.920 --> 28:21.841 [SPEAKER_00]: Just because that's not really where I'm at my life now. 28:22.121 --> 28:24.982 [SPEAKER_00]: So finding someone who has like similar like interest and values. 28:25.542 --> 28:27.543 [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, it's definitely not like perfect. 28:28.463 --> 28:30.444 [SPEAKER_00]: I think any like larger city has like. 28:31.253 --> 28:36.258 [SPEAKER_00]: more numbers, but obviously it comes with its own challenges of like, are they actually looking to date, right? 28:36.298 --> 28:42.264 [SPEAKER_02]: Like, no, people like that are off in New York, LA, it's like, managed so hard to date here. 28:42.365 --> 28:48.050 [SPEAKER_02]: And it obviously is, but to your point, it's kind of hard everywhere. 28:48.867 --> 28:51.848 [SPEAKER_00]: I think people just really want to feel like it's specifically hard for them. 28:52.248 --> 28:57.210 [SPEAKER_02]: Unfortunately, that's like a cough out so that it gives them excuse us for why it's they're not succeeding. 28:57.430 --> 29:05.373 [SPEAKER_00]: I think it's just like a main character energy thing I think some of us have and I think we just need to like maybe realize like it's just dating is just really hard you're trying to like 29:06.161 --> 29:09.902 [SPEAKER_00]: combine two lives and a joining interest. 29:09.942 --> 29:10.703 [SPEAKER_00]: It's just difficult. 29:11.063 --> 29:12.743 [SPEAKER_02]: It's incredibly well said. 29:13.083 --> 29:17.625 [SPEAKER_02]: Also I think that, you know, I'm not going to sit here and say because I'm married. 29:17.645 --> 29:18.365 [SPEAKER_02]: I figured it out. 29:18.425 --> 29:19.706 [SPEAKER_02]: I absolutely have it. 29:19.726 --> 29:20.906 [SPEAKER_02]: Relationships are impossible. 29:20.926 --> 29:21.646 [SPEAKER_02]: They're so hard. 29:21.666 --> 29:23.327 [SPEAKER_02]: We're a couple of therapy and God bless. 29:23.907 --> 29:45.365 [SPEAKER_02]: But I do think that the two things that you're landing on for dating that's hard is that number one It's about compatibility with two people, which is incredibly difficult already and then number two It's have you done the work within yourself to be in a place where you can even welcome that in because it's incredibly vulnerable It's incredibly scary and if you haven't done the work whether it's in therapy or on mushrooms or over the fuck 29:45.925 --> 29:51.908 [SPEAKER_02]: to unpack certain behaviors that are stopping you from being your like authentic self. 29:51.968 --> 30:02.014 [SPEAKER_02]: And I just think that's what I think holds some people back is the unwillingness to work on their own shit, which I'm, it's incredibly hard. 30:02.134 --> 30:09.097 [SPEAKER_02]: The call is coming from inside the house first, before you can do an outbound long distance call, right? 30:09.357 --> 30:09.818 [SPEAKER_02]: Everyone? 30:10.578 --> 30:10.998 [SPEAKER_02]: Amen. 30:11.899 --> 30:12.239 [SPEAKER_02]: Reach. 30:13.739 --> 30:15.740 [SPEAKER_02]: Thanks for letting me say that, Connor, really neat. 30:15.760 --> 30:16.501 [SPEAKER_02]: That was gorgeous. 30:16.541 --> 30:17.461 [SPEAKER_02]: Thank you so much. 30:17.881 --> 30:18.321 [SPEAKER_02]: But you know what? 30:18.341 --> 30:19.482 [SPEAKER_02]: I want to also get off my chest. 30:19.522 --> 30:21.203 [SPEAKER_02]: It's the final podcast question. 30:21.223 --> 30:30.187 [SPEAKER_02]: Before we go over to the sub-sex side where the delicious paid subscribers get to hear some real dirty deeds to close friends edition of this pod. 30:35.861 --> 30:40.224 [SPEAKER_02]: If the world was ending, and you could only save one character act. 30:40.264 --> 30:42.405 [SPEAKER_02]: Chad, who were you? 30:42.425 --> 30:47.048 [SPEAKER_00]: This has been torturing me so much. 30:47.228 --> 30:48.929 [SPEAKER_00]: I genuinely don't think you understood. 30:48.949 --> 30:50.010 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I think you do understand. 30:50.770 --> 30:53.992 [SPEAKER_00]: OK, I mean, you did say I could kind of break the rules. 30:55.253 --> 30:56.313 [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm going to break them a little bit. 30:56.834 --> 30:58.915 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, my head to I have three, but I'm just going to do. 30:58.975 --> 30:59.555 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to start. 30:59.876 --> 31:03.518 [SPEAKER_00]: She's not over 40, and she's not really a character actor, 31:06.433 --> 31:33.477 [SPEAKER_02]: I truly like think I would say for over almost anyone you know it's funny is that when she's I mean her acting is obviously impeccable and her performing is impeccable but when she is just her self on her show or in any interview that's giving character actress to me she can embody a voice or like what's the um she She's referencing in a recent interview like a song girl 31:34.257 --> 31:37.901 [SPEAKER_02]: Um, I think it's, uh, is it love her? 31:38.121 --> 31:41.424 [SPEAKER_00]: Whoever it is, girl, um, anyway, sorry. 31:41.544 --> 31:42.925 [SPEAKER_02]: I could talk to a Kiki Palmer Forever. 31:42.966 --> 31:43.346 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 31:43.386 --> 31:43.706 [SPEAKER_02]: Amazing. 31:43.766 --> 31:45.308 [SPEAKER_00]: And I did see her in person. 31:45.328 --> 31:45.988 [SPEAKER_00]: I have to brag. 31:46.148 --> 31:51.994 [SPEAKER_00]: I was at a Starbucks and I think like, silver lake area and I was waiting for like going a little date. 31:52.983 --> 31:55.964 [SPEAKER_00]: And she like pulled up in a limo like hopped out. 31:56.004 --> 31:56.845 [SPEAKER_00]: She was in her. 31:57.065 --> 31:58.465 [SPEAKER_00]: I think she was going to the BET Awards. 31:58.966 --> 32:00.166 [SPEAKER_00]: And this was just green dress. 32:00.186 --> 32:05.208 [SPEAKER_00]: She was almost so stunning as she walked in, went to the bathroom and then like jumped out the back and like was gone. 32:05.568 --> 32:07.469 [SPEAKER_00]: And I didn't say anything because I want to respect her privacy. 32:07.669 --> 32:09.010 [SPEAKER_02]: But no, that's huge. 32:09.130 --> 32:11.190 [SPEAKER_02]: I have never seen GD Palmer in person. 32:11.210 --> 32:13.491 [SPEAKER_02]: And I'm so happy for you and devastated for me. 32:13.531 --> 32:14.952 [SPEAKER_02]: But who's your second character? 32:16.365 --> 32:19.866 [SPEAKER_00]: kind of not character actors because she's more of a leading lady, but Susan Srandon. 32:20.627 --> 32:26.149 [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, it was perfect because if you haven't heard, yes, she got arrested for protesting in New York. 32:26.489 --> 32:26.749 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. 32:26.769 --> 32:27.869 [SPEAKER_00]: And front of the UN. 32:28.490 --> 32:28.810 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. 32:28.890 --> 32:29.770 [SPEAKER_00]: Which we love for that. 32:30.230 --> 32:38.533 [SPEAKER_00]: Susan Srandon came on my radar when I was like, probably seven in my mom, because this is what we did like this was the kind of little gay boy I was. 32:39.314 --> 32:43.235 [SPEAKER_00]: We watched that mom together, which I don't have ever seen that movie, of course. 32:43.916 --> 32:49.761 [SPEAKER_00]: It's truly, it's the most tragic horrific movie to watch with your child, but my mom just was like, let's do it. 32:50.122 --> 32:55.447 [SPEAKER_00]: But I loved her in that movie, and my dream was to dance with my mom with her brushes singing. 32:57.510 --> 33:17.699 [SPEAKER_02]: no mountain high enough and she's just amazing and she's a good advocate like true outside of acting she's a huge lot of it is a lot of tears right now and the tears from the coming because of mom hair brush sort of takes me back to like sometimes you just wanted to be the little girl to play with the Barbies and have a sister sister sister with your mom and 33:19.060 --> 33:28.548 [SPEAKER_02]: I guess people get mad at me in the comments about saying that anybody's a character actress, but I actually am going to go on a limb and say Susan's a random, I'm actually happy to say she's not one. 33:28.689 --> 33:36.215 [SPEAKER_02]: I am happy to say that she's like a strong lady that has incredible dynamic colors that she can show. 33:36.235 --> 33:40.319 [SPEAKER_02]: But yeah, I actually my gut for some reason is not saying 33:43.882 --> 33:47.486 [SPEAKER_02]: Drop it in the comments if you disagree or if you do agree would love to hear. 33:48.127 --> 33:49.369 [SPEAKER_02]: But okay, these are great. 33:49.689 --> 33:52.372 [SPEAKER_02]: Kiki Palmer, Susan Sarandon, who's lucky number three. 33:53.013 --> 33:53.674 [SPEAKER_00]: Alison Janney. 33:53.694 --> 33:55.876 [SPEAKER_00]: Incredible. 33:55.896 --> 34:02.404 [SPEAKER_02]: I was just talking about her the other day because why don't we she's in a show right now that I'm not watching are you watching. 34:03.273 --> 34:17.676 [SPEAKER_00]: uh... which one uh... it's called the the dip or not i did i loved her uh... and then i think she's so good enough if you haven't seen this is like a less than a movie it's like one of my top three favorite movies it's called the way way back 34:18.708 --> 34:21.189 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, I love that music. 34:21.209 --> 34:30.152 [SPEAKER_02]: I love that movie because it's very, it's very, um, whenever it came out, I remember seeing it in theaters and um, it's very what ups. 34:30.172 --> 34:31.633 [SPEAKER_02]: It's a very common page story. 34:31.653 --> 34:35.154 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like gay code and two with very experience and 34:36.310 --> 34:52.444 [SPEAKER_02]: I feel like she's like the chain smoking like window neighbor and she's just perfect in it which is you know similar to her role and dropped it gorgeous which made us all gay I just want to reference for a second because you have such good taste to give us the way way back it's a 2013 film. 34:54.005 --> 35:03.287 [SPEAKER_02]: I genuinely remember loving this movie I've been seeing it in years, but it's with Steve Correll, Sam Rockwell, Tony Colette, there's a gay Jim Rash, who we love. 35:03.347 --> 35:07.087 [SPEAKER_02]: Of course, I'm my Rudolph and Allison Janney, I mean, the cast is stacked. 35:07.107 --> 35:13.088 [SPEAKER_02]: The story is very queer coded and I think I'm due for a rewatch and I want to thank you for bringing back up Colin. 35:13.108 --> 35:14.029 [SPEAKER_02]: That's a really good job. 35:14.069 --> 35:14.529 [SPEAKER_02]: Of course. 35:15.149 --> 35:19.930 [SPEAKER_00]: I actually have it on DVD because I rented it on red box and never returned it. 35:20.430 --> 35:21.330 [SPEAKER_00]: So I need a copy. 35:22.227 --> 35:31.112 [SPEAKER_02]: Honestly, next time I'm in Vegas, we're going to have a movie night where we're going to take our socks off in the living room and we're going to weep to the way way back. 35:31.272 --> 35:32.152 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, Colin. 35:32.472 --> 35:36.714 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm so glad we have more time to talk on the subject side because you're very candid. 35:36.734 --> 35:37.695 [SPEAKER_02]: You're very vulnerable. 35:37.715 --> 35:38.896 [SPEAKER_02]: You're deliciously open. 35:39.296 --> 35:44.899 [SPEAKER_02]: So before we put that paywell up, will you tell these stunning listeners where to follow you? 35:44.919 --> 35:46.720 [SPEAKER_02]: There's anything you would like for them to know. 35:51.822 --> 35:52.763 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, lucky foot. 35:52.923 --> 35:54.745 [SPEAKER_00]: My brand of my brother if you want to fall along. 35:54.785 --> 35:58.067 [SPEAKER_00]: We've got to show its hats more coming. 35:58.127 --> 36:04.432 [SPEAKER_02]: So yeah, thank you shout out to Colin Peemaggy shout out to lucky foot I've linked it in the description. 36:04.473 --> 36:15.501 [SPEAKER_02]: You should go follow Colin enjoy the delicious stories and moustacheo and That's a great segue into my real hard hitting questions. 36:15.942 --> 36:16.983 [SPEAKER_02]: Colin Peemaggy 36:17.603 --> 36:22.165 [SPEAKER_02]: We're going to start with a general vibe and then go more specific. 36:22.485 --> 36:27.288 [SPEAKER_02]: Generally speaking, do you have any hookup or dating stories that feel super formative? 36:27.368 --> 36:32.970 [SPEAKER_02]: Whether it was delicious, exciting, scary, embarrassing, hot as hell. 36:33.290 --> 36:34.391 [SPEAKER_02]: Any stories come to mind? 36:35.571 --> 36:38.313 [SPEAKER_00]: I do think sex can be like really funny. 36:39.848 --> 36:47.670 [SPEAKER_00]: And I just try, I personally have like very low inhibition and it's like section just be fun and like obviously there's consent and all the great things there. 36:48.991 --> 37:01.894 [SPEAKER_00]: One time recent, not recent, but in the last five years, okay, I finished a hookup and my dog at a chew toy that I did not, that was not a chew toy. 37:03.720 --> 37:17.126 [SPEAKER_02]: For the rest of the interview, head to sub-stack linked below where you will also find chats with Colin Braun, Rich Burns, Christopher Patterson, Rosso, Tyler Varval, Sebastian Dino, Cody Silver, Johnny Sibly, Sam Altizer, and more. 37:17.586 --> 37:24.749 [SPEAKER_02]: It's at sub-stack.com slash at Eric Wills, and I will see you there for a gorgeous Harry horny time. 37:24.769 --> 37:25.750 [SPEAKER_02]: I love you, bye!