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[SPEAKER_00]: wherever you go nowadays, especially living in the West.

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[SPEAKER_00]: A simple journey from here to your work, or from here to your house, there is that all the ever you go.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You turn the radio on, it's calling you to something.

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[SPEAKER_00]: As you're driving every bus stop you drive past, or there's a billboard, there's a poster of something.

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[SPEAKER_00]: It's calling you towards something.

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[SPEAKER_00]: That was happening 24 hours of the day.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You sit with your friends, there's the hour, they're calling you to something.

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[SPEAKER_00]: And in most cases, they calling us to dunya and not Allah.

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[SPEAKER_00]: And when was the last time you were driving and you looked at a view mode or you looked at a bus stop and he told you, hey, remember Allah?

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[SPEAKER_00]: It's either calling you to a farer, calling you to a car, calling you to a humblown, calling you to something, something to keep you busy, something to keep you occupied.

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[SPEAKER_00]: So, very naturally, living in this world that human being gets caught up.

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[SPEAKER_00]: And when you do not remember death, what happens?

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[SPEAKER_00]: We start to live the life that Allah's grandfather doesn't want us to live.

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[SPEAKER_00]: But when you remember death and the Prophet Allah says, Increase in the remembrance of death, it keeps the person in check.

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[SPEAKER_00]: It keeps the person in life.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Sometimes, and this happens to everyone, myself included.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, you start thinking, you know, I want to buy a car, I want to be furnished by home, you know, you know, you know, I would like to do some renovations on the house, you know, I want to do this, I want to do that.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I want to do that.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You hide, it's carried away very natural.

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[SPEAKER_00]: But when you remember that here, you take a step back and you think you're gone.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Are these things that I want to do?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Are they really important to me?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Do I really need this in my life right now?

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[SPEAKER_00]: So the remembrance of death is very important for a believer.

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[SPEAKER_00]: And you know, my brothers, it's very important for the last fathers to have this conversation on a regular basis with your children.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Many of us are thinking that this little key is doing up for this.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You'll be surprised what it does.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You'll be surprised what the conversation of death will bring to the mind of a child.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You'll be surprised what a good visit into the cemetery does.

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[SPEAKER_00]: to the one that a child just told him and letting him ask you questions.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You don't need to say anything.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You let him ask questions and he answered in the best of your ability whatever he asks and you've been amazed with what they come up with.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I took my dollar sheets and my son who was four at the time, right?

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[SPEAKER_00]: And I took my under dollar sheets, maybe I should throw you two and a half.

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[SPEAKER_00]: And the questions I started asking were just mind-boggling.

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[SPEAKER_00]: So the remembrance of death is important, my brothers and sisters, while long you have no idea, no idea how small and how short you'll time in this world is.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, I came back from hatchling, starting to feel like a broken record.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I came back from hatch on Saturday night.

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[SPEAKER_00]: From Saturday night until today, there has been a death every single day.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Every single day.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, there's a view that now there's brother, he was attached with me, Ahmed, the bus in some died, six years old.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Six years old in Lebanon.

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[SPEAKER_00]: He was in Haji, he finished his Haji when he's left.

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[SPEAKER_00]: They were going back to Lebanon to grab their kids and they found an income back to Australia.

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[SPEAKER_00]: He went there a few days later, six years of child old dying.

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[SPEAKER_00]: My uncle there the day of 60 years old had cancer, he died.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Yankbada, back at 33 years old in Ulovo, died two days ago.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Yankbada died yesterday, Jamil, those of you that died, now you may need to see Yankbada.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Dile of Geese is the land, back there is all.

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[SPEAKER_00]: It's so hard, it's so real, it's around us, but still the sickness in the heart, why?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Because we very, very little, do we talk about death?

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[SPEAKER_00]: The sickness, yeah, you know what's amazing?

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[SPEAKER_00]: You ask any Muslim, any Muslim, practice any Muslim, far Muslim, doesn't matter, ask any Muslim around the world, brother, sister, can you die at any moment?

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[SPEAKER_00]: What is the natural thing on the tongue?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Of course, what are you saying, brother?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Of course, we can die at any minute, but I want to ask you sincerely.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Are you leaving the life of someone that can die at any moment?

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[SPEAKER_00]: What are you just trying to do?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Can anyone remember what the Imam said?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Did you like the Khushur at a new field?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Is required to have an accepted Salah?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Since seeing this, let's be real.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Because these are my problems too.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not telling you different.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not any different, sicknesses are in my own heart, did you honestly, did you pray this morning, but it was going to be your last?

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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, one of the scholars made a very interesting statement.

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[SPEAKER_00]: He said, imagine you woke up today, imagine this morning when you woke up.

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[SPEAKER_00]: He said, imagine you woke up this morning and the only thing you had is whatever you thanked a lot for yesterday.

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[SPEAKER_00]: What did you think of Allah for yesterday?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Who he effected Allah for the name of Imam?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Who thanked him for the name of the Imam?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Who thanked him for the name of his health, his role being, his family, his children.

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[SPEAKER_00]: The money that Allah has given you, the home that Allah has given you.

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[SPEAKER_00]: My brothers, we are living a life of so, we are the so negligent.

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[SPEAKER_00]: and many of us have this disease that's called Tulli Annel.

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[SPEAKER_00]: That's true.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm really talking about him.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Here I know some brothers die of cancer.

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[SPEAKER_00]: This is accident room.

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[SPEAKER_00]: But me?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Look at me again.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm 31.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm feet.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm healthy.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I can walk.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I can draw.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I can...

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[SPEAKER_00]: I feel like something.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Death isn't coming to me.

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[SPEAKER_00]: So, what makes you so sure?

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[SPEAKER_00]: What guarantee does anyone of us have?

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[SPEAKER_00]: What guarantee do we have?

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[SPEAKER_00]: And you know what's funny, my brother is he?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Yesterday, I was sitting with some friends and we started mentioning the people that we know that have cancer.

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[SPEAKER_00]: It's an amazing figure.

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[SPEAKER_00]: People around us, people that live in the area with cancer, young and amounting to the old, young people.

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[SPEAKER_00]: And it doesn't make sense anymore, you know, like before if I don't do it, you know, this person has cancer.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Naturally in your mind you would expect maybe he's all who she's old, who maybe they had a smoking habit, or maybe they were living a very unhealthy.

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[SPEAKER_00]: But today it's proving otherwise.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, feet healthy at the gym doesn't smoke, doesn't have any medical problems.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Stage 4 cancer, stage 3 cancers, anything what's happening?

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[SPEAKER_00]: But still in your heart that in my heart there, I still have a long time man, not me, not me, why?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Los fantasies and every song shall taste dead.

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[SPEAKER_00]: My breath is whatever life you're leaving, known that this only few moments left.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Los fantasies, even in the Quran,

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[SPEAKER_00]: When the people who stand before Allah the Day of Resurrection, Allah SWT asked them and how long did you live in this earth?

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[SPEAKER_00]: How long did you live in Syria?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Allah, Yawman, Al-Bahata, Yawman, Al-Bahata, Yawman, a day or maybe half a day.

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[SPEAKER_00]: This is 56, these 70 years, let's say you live all out.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Let's say you live 100 years.

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[SPEAKER_00]: What's 100 years?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Some people have been buried into the earth, longer than the years of the earth, get a room of cemetery here, buried in 1816, 1850, 1819.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Look at his life, by that 67 years old.

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[SPEAKER_00]: He's been in the ground, longer than he was on the ground.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Imagine your 50, 60 years now can pray that to whatever.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Let's say,

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[SPEAKER_00]: What about who knows?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Let's say there's a lot of 500 deeds before the lay of Resurrection.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Let's just say, what's your 60 years in comparison to this 500?

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[SPEAKER_00]: What's this 500 compared to the 50,000 years, the day of Resurrection, the normal clear, my 150,000 years long was your 560, 100 years now?

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[SPEAKER_00]: My brothers don't be fooled, your life in this world is so short, far shorter than what you think.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Ali bin Abi Talib, he says, he says, what, he says, people are asleep and with their diet they wake up.

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[SPEAKER_00]: This world that you and I are living, it's a dream, it's a illusion, it's not real.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I think this is life, honestly, I think this is happiness, you can't go for three four hours if you get tired or you get hungry or you gotta go to the toilet or you can't have three hours, three hours but you'll depend on doing something.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Most parents are living here growing up raising their children fee, what's going to happen to myself, what's going to happen to my daughter?

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[SPEAKER_00]: You live in fear, up and to that get married, and then what they get married, you have all new fears, is the marriage going to work, are they going to get divorced, are they going to have kids, are they going to be punished people, not happiness in this world, there's not happiness, they only have happiness in the year after, and if we're not working towards the year after, then the time that we're spending years lost, it's wasted,

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[SPEAKER_00]: Where am I going with my life?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Where am I going?

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[SPEAKER_00]: How old are you?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Everyone ask him so, how old are you?

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[SPEAKER_00]: And be honest, Whatever you establish in your lifetime.

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[SPEAKER_00]: What have you put forward for your efforts?

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[SPEAKER_00]: What I had eager and keen, but you know, I can't wait.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I can't wait to leave this dunya because I'm so excited.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I have so much to show you.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm so proud of the life I have.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Ask anyone, oh my God, the biggest island though, but they really don't feel like I'm feeling like that.

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[SPEAKER_00]: But I didn't know what they were going to give me some time.

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[SPEAKER_00]: So what are you doing?

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[SPEAKER_00]: What are we doing?

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[SPEAKER_00]: So far, so far, if I was to ask anyone of you now, sincerely, you are still the same as 10 years ago, the way you are with it.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Allah SWT says, Allah SWT says, successful others believe is not the Muslims, successful others believe is who mean they swear they possess for sure concentration, devotion,

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[SPEAKER_00]: I'll speak about myself, so now I'm getting upset, and as soon as I say a lot, I start quoting jobs, I'm crunching numbers, where is my mom and where is my wife and what did she cook and what, I think about anything and everything, except a lot, but please you be honest, way brothers and we're having a genuine discussion, be honest with you,

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[SPEAKER_00]: If I die with this heart and this, and this quality of sub-album, do you think I'm deserving of gender?

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[SPEAKER_00]: You agree with me?

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[SPEAKER_00]: If I die with this quality of sub-album, do you think I deserve gender?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Ask anyone, yet you have to use your quality of color and

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[SPEAKER_00]: Everyone gets shy with the knee and it's like a turtle, he goes back and he's shill, you're alive.

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[SPEAKER_00]: That point the finger at, should we have for an animal?

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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, I was with my family.

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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, between my father and my uncle, isn't it?

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[SPEAKER_00]: They're all over 50, all of them are over 50.

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[SPEAKER_00]: and still still till today, these are the Arabs that came from living on the land.

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[SPEAKER_00]: And still till today, they're leading someone, leading someone.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Sirata Lazina and Amtali.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Tabiahin towards the train that you're going to sit down with someone.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Fix your touch with, fix your career.

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[SPEAKER_00]: People tell you, Allah, You know, I'm shy.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Surah, I'm there, I'm 40 years old.

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[SPEAKER_00]: People are not shy to promote and parade that they are homosexual, people are not shy to promote and to parade.

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[SPEAKER_00]: The way I've seen men, the things they do to their faces, it's so embarrassing.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Yet he walks the street and he's so proud and he's so happy.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah?

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[SPEAKER_00]: The way people dress, the way the colours, men, grown men, wearing pink.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't understand.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I've been told it's special, Mahalab.

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[SPEAKER_00]: But God, man, is happy to wait a week and you're permanent.

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[SPEAKER_00]: But you're shy to stand or to sit in front of someone and tell him, hey, teach me the book of Allah.

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[SPEAKER_00]: People are doing courses and starting trades at the age of 40.

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[SPEAKER_00]: What's embarrassing about her?

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[SPEAKER_00]: If the book of Allah, what's embarrassing about that?

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[SPEAKER_00]: To people will never learn, you know who they are?

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[SPEAKER_00]: The one that's too sharp to ask a question, this person will never learn in his life.

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[SPEAKER_00]: And no one that has arrogance.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I already know.

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[SPEAKER_00]: I already know.

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[SPEAKER_00]: These people will never learn.

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[SPEAKER_00]: We ask Allah to not make us a believer of them.

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[SPEAKER_00]: No, we want to learn.

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[SPEAKER_00]: We want to move forward.

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[SPEAKER_00]: So I want to drag you some of my brothers, but you know, our wife is very short.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Ask yourself, what are my doing?

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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, have you ever set in an exam?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Has anyone here ever set in an exam?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Anyone?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Have you ever set in an exam?

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[SPEAKER_00]: Have you noticed that they have this in most countries, but usually when they are

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[SPEAKER_00]: exam halfway, that usually you ring the bell, ding ding, all that making an announcement, 40 minutes left.

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[SPEAKER_00]: What's that, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, you feel the sense of urgency, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you,

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[SPEAKER_00]: We're not working fast enough, how we have moved, whatever is, you know, where we have problems with, leave it, go to the things that you know, go to the things you can do, come on, there's only, you know, if cross halfway, the prophet of Allah He says, Allah has said and He says, He says, the life spent of my woman is 50 to 60 years, or Allah has had him 60 to 70 years which I've only told you.

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[SPEAKER_00]: 60 years, most of us with

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[SPEAKER_00]: So the better I am, a long time for us but still no sense of urges, we want to change this issue.

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[SPEAKER_00]: We need to start speaking about death.

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[SPEAKER_00]: This is the last point.

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[SPEAKER_00]: We don't speak about death to become miserable people.

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[SPEAKER_00]: This is not what Rasuna lost on the lower

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[SPEAKER_00]: We don't speak about death, so we can give our families and children and the people around us the impression and lose hope in everything, love.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Rather, we speak about death to inspire the person to stay on track and don't get caught up with unnecessary things.

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[SPEAKER_00]: We speak about death to move us in a positive way, to move forward, to get more active.

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[SPEAKER_00]: This is why we speak about death.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Not to make you depressed and give up on life.

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[SPEAKER_00]: And while at what's the point where we're all going to die, let's just also sit back and wait for death, notice not the way our little believer.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Rather, we speak about it in a positive way, so we can move in a positive direction.

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[SPEAKER_00]: We ask Allah's Martala to make us a those.

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[SPEAKER_00]: We can continue to remember to not make us a those who will be grateful.

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[SPEAKER_00]: We ask Allah's Martala to have those, who are all those that have died and have thus.

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[SPEAKER_00]: Thank you for watching, I hope you enjoyed the video, see you in the next video.

