[SPEAKER_00]: I'd like to start with you with a man who literally just walked into the Prophet ﷺ, while the Prophet ﷺ, who had people over.
[SPEAKER_00]: Once he walked in, he said, they are also Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: O Prophet of Allah, I want you to imagine the scene.
[SPEAKER_00]: People are surrounding the greatest man ever walked in the earth Muhammad ﷺ and someone just walks in and says, O Prophet of Allah, give me permission to commit a sinna.
[SPEAKER_00]: The man is clearly frustrated.
[SPEAKER_00]: The man clearly has desires.
[SPEAKER_00]: He's struggling.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, also, please give me that, you know, permission.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allow me.
[SPEAKER_00]: Make it hell out for me to be able to go to some other woman to whatever woman that I like or anyone just give me that permission that I'm able to fulfill my desires outside of marriage.
[SPEAKER_00]: Fuck, but they'll come and lay here in the people, the Prophet doesn't say anything yet.
[SPEAKER_00]: You want to imagine the scene, the people around the Prophet, they approach this man, Fazajaruhu, Wakalu Mahmah, and they say, whoa, whoa, what are you talking about?
[SPEAKER_00]: And don't you have any shame, cause your mouth, what are you doing?
[SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet ﷺ told this young man come, come, have a seat right here.
[SPEAKER_00]: Who do you know?
[SPEAKER_00]: Come close to me.
[SPEAKER_00]: Have a seat.
[SPEAKER_00]: So this man comes and he sits right next to the Prophet ﷺ. There's a lot that we can speak about the Prophet ﷺ and how we approach them.
[SPEAKER_00]: So on and so forth.
[SPEAKER_00]: So then the Prophet ﷺ is about to say something that is not easy, it's not easy for someone to say.
[SPEAKER_00]: But he wants to mention it to him, maybe because he saw a good in him, Allah ta'ala knows best.
[SPEAKER_00]: So he says to words to him, to him, to Hebbu Huliyomik, would you want to this permission, would you want to this Zina to be given and happen to your own mother?
[SPEAKER_00]: very tough and you don't even imagine that would you be okay if a guy you know what he starts to flirt with your mom okay and all what he wants out of her is just fulfilling his sexual pleasure would you be okay with that for someone to do that to your own mom
[SPEAKER_00]: And usually, if you guys met them when I talked to someone else, you say, do you think someone's mom would appreciate that?
[SPEAKER_00]: That's where you would kind of push it away from the guy you're talking to, but the product says your own mom.
[SPEAKER_00]: And then what everyone to hear this, including myself, would we want that to happen to our own moms?
[SPEAKER_00]: No.
[SPEAKER_00]: So that man says, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La La, La La, La La, La La, La La, La La, La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La La
[SPEAKER_00]: So then he asks him another four sets about groups of people.
[SPEAKER_00]: Then number two, he says, after to him, who will hypnotic?
[SPEAKER_00]: Would you be okay for this to happen to your own daughter?
[SPEAKER_00]: Would you be okay to a guy to approach your own daughter and then commit Zina with her?
[SPEAKER_00]: Would you be okay for her to be undressed and stripped out of her own clothes and this happened?
[SPEAKER_00]: Would you be okay with that?
[SPEAKER_00]: So then man, that's what you're going to imagine.
[SPEAKER_00]: He says, La wa la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la
[SPEAKER_00]: So then he tells him the plaza said, and they know that other people do not love this to happen.
[SPEAKER_00]: They do not like this to happen to their own daughters.
[SPEAKER_00]: So you may be doing this, meaning to other people's daughters.
[SPEAKER_00]: Then he says number three, if I do him, would you be okay for your sister to do that?
[SPEAKER_00]: Would you be okay for your sister to, for example, I'm getting adding this.
[SPEAKER_00]: This addition is from me.
[SPEAKER_00]: Would you be okay for your sister to go through this?
[SPEAKER_00]: To be with someone in the car away from people's eyes and the dark night and do what she would possibly do of committing a vizina?
[SPEAKER_00]: Would you be okay with that?
[SPEAKER_00]: He says, La, La, La, La, La.
[SPEAKER_00]: He says, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La, La
[SPEAKER_00]: Then the Prophet ﷺ continues for and five.
[SPEAKER_00]: And he says, to hit Buhli, I'm metric, would you be okay for this to happen to your paternal aunt, your mom's, your dad's sister would you be okay with that?
[SPEAKER_00]: He says, La, La, j'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all'all
[SPEAKER_00]: Would you be okay for your Khalah to do this?
[SPEAKER_00]: Then he says, Yara, so Allah, of course, Allah, Jallini Allah, O Fidakh, Fidakh.
[SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ at the end, he says, know that people don't want this also for the Khalah.
[SPEAKER_00]: And anyone commits a sin, remembers this Hadith, or approaches that sin, or passes that sin, remember this.
[SPEAKER_00]: You don't want what goes around comes around.
[SPEAKER_00]: You want this to happen to your own family.
[SPEAKER_00]: Then why do you accept on yourself to do it to other people's families?
[SPEAKER_00]: And that's a barrier to protect you from the right of the bat.
[SPEAKER_00]: Is to realize, would you want this to happen to your own family?
[SPEAKER_00]: So why do you do it to other people's families?
[SPEAKER_00]: Well, she's okay with it.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't care if she's okay with it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, her father doesn't care.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't care if her father doesn't care about it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Do you care about this having to your own family?
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm talking to believers.
[SPEAKER_00]: Am I audience right now?
[SPEAKER_00]: Is people of La ilaha illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa illa
[SPEAKER_00]: Then the Prophet ﷺ does a beautiful move, brothers and sisters.
[SPEAKER_00]: Look what he says.
[SPEAKER_00]: He does.
[SPEAKER_00]: He puts his hand onto this young man, okay?
[SPEAKER_00]: Aliyyus, salatu wa salami Allah Allah, the Prophet ﷺ, to hug us in jannah, to be around us in jannah, to hold our hands and walk us together into jannah, yamin, yar of amin.
[SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ, what do you do?
[SPEAKER_00]: He puts his hand over this young man and he says three things.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah Muhammad for them.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah forgive his sins.
[SPEAKER_00]: Wata her kalba and purify his heart, Wahasin Farjah, and protect and save God his private part into not falling into Haram.
[SPEAKER_00]: The Hadith narrator says, Falam Yekun Banedalika al-Fatha, Yeltafi to ilashay after this du'a.
[SPEAKER_00]: And after this Nasiha, that man received, he never fell into the Zinnah move, may Allah protect us in the Arab Al-Alamin.
[SPEAKER_00]: There's something to truly appreciate.
[SPEAKER_00]: Brothers and sisters, you know, when it comes to the action of Zina and then some people may be watching, let's define Zina a bit.
[SPEAKER_00]: What does actual Zina that's being referred to here and the punishments and so on?
[SPEAKER_00]: It is when a man approaches a woman or a woman approaches a man.
[SPEAKER_00]: And part of that meaning is when a man does to a woman, what is necessary to have children in such a way as the Prophet ﷺ says in one other Hadith, is when the man's private heart is inside the private part of a woman that is no longer visible as explicit as it sounds as the Prophet ﷺ described in one other Hadith of what is in the constitutes.
[SPEAKER_00]: But this doesn't mean that we be little, the steps prior to Zina.
[SPEAKER_00]: We do not be little, you know, holding out of
[SPEAKER_00]: This respect or out of sexual lust and so on with other gender.
[SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't mean that we are belittling looking at the actual Zina.
[SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't mean that we belittle listening to Zina.
[SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't mean that we belittle talking about Zina in a way of flirting and so on.
[SPEAKER_00]: But when we talk about the Zina and the perspenteus, it's about the peak.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's about that part, me Allah protect us, me Rabbil Al-Alamin, and what do you know about that peak?
[SPEAKER_00]: And what do you know about the Zinnah, me Allah protect us, me Rabbil Al-Alamin?
[SPEAKER_00]: Rasool Allah is the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah, the Son of Allah,
[SPEAKER_00]: is stripped off that person.
[SPEAKER_00]: Eman is leaves the body of that person, Subhan Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Me Allah Protects us.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's like, can you have to appreciate this Hadith?
[SPEAKER_00]: The moment someone gets undressed or takes off a cloth here and there to perform the actual Zinnah, they're not just stripping their clothes, but they're stripping their body from their Eman.
[SPEAKER_00]: Me Allah Protects us and forgive us, I mean Allah by the Al-Alamine.
[SPEAKER_00]: Harajamin will iman iman exits the body.
[SPEAKER_00]: Can i lay hika vulla, then iman will be like a cloud outside the body.
[SPEAKER_00]: So i don't cut a raja in the iman.
[SPEAKER_00]: Then when that man or that woman mixed true toubah, sincere toubah to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, then that iman that left me go back to the body.
[SPEAKER_00]: You know what this shows?
[SPEAKER_00]: People say okay how bad is it?
[SPEAKER_00]: How bad?
[SPEAKER_00]: It is so bad.
[SPEAKER_00]: and that it destroys one's e-man.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's so bad that the e-man leaves the body, man doesn't want it.
[SPEAKER_00]: I got nothing to do with this action.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's how much it can scar our faith.
[SPEAKER_00]: Me, Allah protect us.
[SPEAKER_00]: But the doors of Taba are there, repentance is possible.
[SPEAKER_00]: As the Prophet ﷺ said, if this man stopped, if this man made Taba, Rajah, Ielah, e-man, e-man comes back to the individual.
[SPEAKER_00]: And then you hear about the Prophet ﷺ. And while we're saying this, you realize something about Zinnah.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's only a matter of minutes.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's all.
[SPEAKER_00]: We sell the world sometimes and we sell the ahra for a few minutes.
[SPEAKER_00]: Me Allah protect us and grant us jinnah.
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean our al-Alamin and halal substitution.
[SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet ﷺ, one time he had a dream.
[SPEAKER_00]: And we know that the dreams of the Prophet ﷺ
[SPEAKER_00]: You know, these are Ruaia from Allah Subhanahu Wata'ala.
[SPEAKER_00]: So he had a dream that he saw naked men and women with no clothes inside an oven.
[SPEAKER_00]: The oven was in a cone shape.
[SPEAKER_00]: The top is sealed as locked.
[SPEAKER_00]: And these naked men and women are inside that oven.
[SPEAKER_00]: Is your fire?
[SPEAKER_00]: No, not yet.
[SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet ﷺ says then the fire is ignited.
[SPEAKER_00]: Then they yell and they scream and they try to leave the oven.
[SPEAKER_00]: But the oven is in a cone closed shape.
[SPEAKER_00]: They cannot leave it and then the fire gets turned off.
[SPEAKER_00]: and then all of a sudden the fire comes back on again and it goes through that torture and the punishment because what they did to the society.
[SPEAKER_00]: Zina is not all so and so and so and so and so alone in a bedroom.
[SPEAKER_00]: La wa Allah, it's a lot bigger than this.
[SPEAKER_00]: When that sin takes place, Allah's anger and wrath takes place and the more people that do it, the more Allah's anger came about.
[SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet ﷺ says either the Harassina or Rebefiqarya when Zina becomes, you know,
[SPEAKER_00]: Everywhere and the river becomes everywhere.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah is almost common.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah has become an obligation.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah's punishment will come to the city.
[SPEAKER_00]: What are the two things?
[SPEAKER_00]: Zina and Reba, my Allah protect us in Arabic.
[SPEAKER_00]: So don't say always just me, no one is my life, my body, this nonsense.
[SPEAKER_00]: This body is an amen, a trust game, Allah gave you and gave me that we have to fulfill the Allah protect us and grant us strength in Arabic.
[SPEAKER_00]: Then you hear brothers and sisters, just to show you to what level we're talking about here.
[SPEAKER_00]: A man went to the prophet, Sallallahu alayhi wa sallallahu alayhi wa sallallahu alayhi wa sallallam.
[SPEAKER_00]: He says, Ya Rasulullah, Ayyud, then be Akbar.
[SPEAKER_00]: What is one of the greatest and the worst of sins?
[SPEAKER_00]: So He says, and ta'r ulilahi, niddan wa wa khalakak, when you associate someone with Allah, while it was Allah who created you, to do shirk, the worst and ever as many of you perhaps know, if not all of you.
[SPEAKER_00]: Then that Sahabi, rode Allah, and who he says, Thumma'ai, then what comes next?
[SPEAKER_00]: He says, Thumma'ai, and Takutula, Wala'adekha, and Anata'ama'ak, you kill your own son or daughter.
[SPEAKER_00]: Why?
[SPEAKER_00]: Because you fear that you will not financially be able to take care of them.
[SPEAKER_00]: You fear that they'll be a financial burden on you.
[SPEAKER_00]: So you know what?
[SPEAKER_00]: Let me just kill that baby and so on and get rid of them.
[SPEAKER_00]: Murder.
[SPEAKER_00]: So Allah put, I don't know, I'm saying, shirk.
[SPEAKER_00]: Murder, ready for number three?
[SPEAKER_00]: He saw Allah wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa'li wa
[SPEAKER_00]: When he mentioned this, there's an ayah that confirms that.
[SPEAKER_00]: Listen to the ayah.
[SPEAKER_00]: This is from Surah Al-Forkhan.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah says,
[SPEAKER_00]: Wala yakotulunan nafsallati harram Allah who illa bilhak and kill an innocent soul that Allah subhadah is made haram to kill unless there was a justification.
[SPEAKER_00]: So murder, Wala yas noun and those who came in Zina.
[SPEAKER_00]: What happens?
[SPEAKER_00]: What happens if someone does that?
[SPEAKER_00]: What man if I tell you that yelka a thema, whoever does that will face severe, severe punishment.
[SPEAKER_00]: How much you do?
[SPEAKER_00]: I've leveled up with you, man.
[SPEAKER_00]: The punishment will be multiplied.
[SPEAKER_00]: How bad is Jehanlam already?
[SPEAKER_00]: How bad is Yomokhema already for the disbelievers or the people of mayors sins of such short?
[SPEAKER_00]: It's so bad Allah says you do.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm double.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah Akbar.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yodhara Aflehu al-Ada Mu'iyom al-Tiyama wa yachuludfi Himuhana and they will remain in jihannab humiliated.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah protect us.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah put once again, shirk, murder and the committing of Zinnah.
[SPEAKER_00]: How bad is murder?
[SPEAKER_00]: Do you not destroy a whole family?
[SPEAKER_00]: Do not also only one soul, not one soul is families.
[SPEAKER_00]: When someone commits a sin, I know it's you as an individual, your heart.
[SPEAKER_00]: You as an individual, your modesty is scratched.
[SPEAKER_00]: You as an individual struggle to get married to a decent righteous person.
[SPEAKER_00]: You as an individual have caused so much harm to your family.
[SPEAKER_00]: You as an individual have caused so much harm to your city, to your message, to your society that repercussions are major.
[SPEAKER_00]: but Allah says after that.
[SPEAKER_00]: If you did shirk, if you did Zinnah and you still alive, yall'a rush back to Allah, Subhanzah, run back to Allah, Subhanzah to Allah, as Allah said, except those who repent and do righteous deeds.
[SPEAKER_00]: Faulah, Iqa, Iqa, you bed din Allah who say ye'a, the Him has anat.
[SPEAKER_00]: These are the people, Allah will substitute their sins.
[SPEAKER_00]: They say ye'a, into good deeds.
[SPEAKER_00]: Waqan Allah who wa'aforam Rahimah, and know that Allah Subhan wa Ta'ala is the most forgiving, the most merciful.
[SPEAKER_00]: Brothers and sisters, yes, some people may say, Allah is happening.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's very often, it's very frequent that this happens but relies that when you protect yourself from it, Allah will protect you and honor you.
[SPEAKER_00]: And yes, the ability for someone to commit Zina today has never been easier perhaps, Allah knows best in the history of humanity.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah make it hard and protect us all in the Arab al-Alamin.
[SPEAKER_00]: Make it hard for our brothers and sisters and ourselves to ever fall into the same Arab al-Alamin.
[SPEAKER_00]: But let me give you some glad tidings.
[SPEAKER_00]: But so Allahi sallallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuallahuahuallahuallahuallahuallahuahuallahuallahuahuallahuahuallahuahuallahuahuallahuahuallahuahuallahuahuallahuahuallahuahuallahuahuallahuahuallahuahuallahuahuallahu
[SPEAKER_00]: But she, though she was beautiful, she was a woman of modesty.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because Subhan Allah, someone needs to realize, when someone is given so much wealth, it's not so easy they don't do how I'm with it.
[SPEAKER_00]: When someone is given so much power, it's not easy for them not to abuse their power.
[SPEAKER_00]: When someone is given so much fame, it's not so easy for them to make their fame only in good causes.
[SPEAKER_00]: And similarly, when someone is given so much good looks, it's not easy for them to remain modest and have chastity.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's a challenge.
[SPEAKER_00]: They have to work on because they know they can do wonders.
[SPEAKER_00]: This wonderful lady Sahara, Sahara, God be Allah, O Nami Allah be pleased by her.
[SPEAKER_00]: She was one of the most good-looking women Allah ever created.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yet, she never used her looks to seduce, to hurt, and to ruin other men's lives.
[SPEAKER_00]: She never did rather she was modest.
[SPEAKER_00]: She saved guarded her body.
[SPEAKER_00]: She protected herself, so much so brothers and sisters, and you see how the fruits of that.
[SPEAKER_00]: One time, a hero at her time, when he heard about Sada walking into his city, he had the soldiers pick up Sada, literally pretty much kidnapping Sada.
[SPEAKER_00]: and taking her to for an out of that time.
[SPEAKER_00]: So the haris says Valemia Tamalik that Pharaoh that Luzo and his Sasaara he could not control himself.
[SPEAKER_00]: He couldn't even have a conversation.
[SPEAKER_00]: She was too good looking for him to have an introduction.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's how the hat is how good looking she was and that's how filthy he was.
[SPEAKER_00]: So then when he came to a preacher, Sara radiyallahu anah, she will go back to Allah with a du'a.
[SPEAKER_00]: What will she say?
[SPEAKER_00]: What will she intercede in?
[SPEAKER_00]: She said three things.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allahumma, in Quntu'amma, in Quntu'amma, in Qubikawabir Rasulik.
[SPEAKER_00]: Oh Allah, if I was a true believer in you and in your prophet, that's one.
[SPEAKER_00]: And I have not made a single man who's not supposed to touch me, touch me.
[SPEAKER_00]: If I did day Allah for your sake, and I saved God myself.
[SPEAKER_00]: So right when he said that that Pharaoh the soldiers he has all that power diminished Allah made that man go through some severe sort of seizure His hands were wrong right and left and his legs as if he's going mad and so on So then he begged her to please please give me a chance I promise I'll not do this again Long story short.
[SPEAKER_00]: She is saved and she returns back to her family But what was the thing that saved her on that day?
[SPEAKER_00]: It was her modesty and chastity
[SPEAKER_00]: She have to realize that.
[SPEAKER_00]: So me, Allah forgive us for any shortcomings, meaning, Arabic.
[SPEAKER_00]: And then you have this beautiful head-eat of the Prophet ﷺ on Yom Al Qayana.
[SPEAKER_00]: We give you dunya, we give you ahraq, Allah He never do you leave the haram, never do you leave the haram, except that Allah will give you something.
[SPEAKER_00]: and something equivalent to it, not something better than what you left in halal.
[SPEAKER_00]: You left that which is the haram, Allah will give you something substitution that is better than what you left.
[SPEAKER_00]: You see in dunya of protection and in ahir, the Prophet of Allah who alaihi wa sallam says, seven are under the shade of Allah when there's no shade, except the shade, one of the seven Rajulun.
[SPEAKER_00]: A man whom a woman comes and she seeks to have sexual intimacy on relationship with him.
[SPEAKER_00]: And he says, no, I fear Allah Subhanahu Wa'Ta'ala.
[SPEAKER_00]: And this also applies to the girl in Shah-Allah when a man tries to flirt and that's his target to have this relationship and she says, no, I fear Allah Subhanahu Wa'Ta'ala.
[SPEAKER_00]: And when you hear these things of reward, you hear this of punishment, you realize a loss of pain and what I don't want nothing but the best for you brothers and sisters.
[SPEAKER_00]: And then the question comes, okay brother, how do we protect ourselves from this?
[SPEAKER_00]: How do we do what's necessary for us?
[SPEAKER_00]: Not to fall into Zina.
[SPEAKER_00]: There's multiple things.
[SPEAKER_00]: The obviously that can be married.
[SPEAKER_00]: That can be mentioned.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'll share with you three.
[SPEAKER_00]: Number one, it's said my tongue is marriage.
[SPEAKER_00]: Of course, but also Allah is all Allah, who I let you with him.
[SPEAKER_00]: Advise the brothers and sisters to get married whenever that is possible.
[SPEAKER_00]: I pray to Allah, Subhan Allah, to grant everyone who's watching me right now.
[SPEAKER_00]: Every single brother and sister may Allah grant you a right to spouse.
[SPEAKER_00]: I may Allah al-Alamin.
[SPEAKER_00]: And don't be shy in the sense that
[SPEAKER_00]: You know the topic and someone that the Prophet ﷺ he told us to have that you basically the meaning you will get rewarded for having this sexual relationship with your wife, Allah will reward you with Hassanah, good deeds.
[SPEAKER_00]: So that's what happened.
[SPEAKER_00]: He said, we get rewarded for fulfilling our sexual desires with our wives.
[SPEAKER_00]: He says, some Allah, who is allowing you to sell him if you did it outside of marriage.
[SPEAKER_00]: Would you not be held accountable?
[SPEAKER_00]: Would you not accumulate sins?
[SPEAKER_00]: As a result, you're doing it in the hallal, Allah will give you wonderful amount of reward and Hassanat, Allah will recover.
[SPEAKER_00]: So marriage, I cannot.
[SPEAKER_00]: They know whether it's marriage or not marriage, this is something to do regardless.
[SPEAKER_00]: Lowering the gains.
[SPEAKER_00]: Looking away from the Haram, this is a very critical aspect whether you are married or not married.
[SPEAKER_00]: Don't think marriage is, you know, a hundred percent solution from people falling into sin and allow a lot perhaps the devil will attack you more than a single man because your punishment or married man married woman is far greater than the one who single.
[SPEAKER_00]: but pay attention those are single doesn't belittle the sin be Allah protect us Mirabil al-Alamin lowering the gaze that step two of three the Prophet ﷺ showed you just wonderful any very amazing point he ﷺ he noticed it was in Hajj it was when it was in Hajj when the Prophet ﷺ saw his relative cousin Al-Fabad Ibn Al-Abas Rada'Allah wa'ano' him and his father may Allah be pleased by both of them
[SPEAKER_00]: Al-Fadil Abbas, he was around the Prophet ﷺ when a young woman came to ask the Prophet ﷺ a question.
[SPEAKER_00]: She came to the question about hand yourself.
[SPEAKER_00]: So when the Prophet ﷺ answered the question to the sister, he noticed Al-Fadil Radhir Allah who and who, you know, he was looking at that girl.
[SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ said, he did.
[SPEAKER_00]: He gently tilted the neck of a father, so if a father is staring at this girl, he gently moved his neck and took away.
[SPEAKER_00]: don't say stuff like that.
[SPEAKER_00]: Do what the Prophet ﷺ, because there are steps.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah says in the Quran, Allah, the Krabhu Zina, don't approach, don't come close to Zina.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah doesn't say explicitly, don't go, don't commit Zina in this ayah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Don't even take the steps that lead to Zina.
[SPEAKER_00]: How many people committed Zina?
[SPEAKER_00]: Muslims and Muslims.
[SPEAKER_00]: Muslims and non-Muslim, when it was never planned.
[SPEAKER_00]: It was just a step after the other step after the other meal, I'll protect this.
[SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ,
[SPEAKER_00]: grab the neck off and fall in the abbas and gently tilt it away from looking at the woman.
[SPEAKER_00]: So guess who comes the father of the father, al-Abbas, al-Lawanhu, and the uncle of the Prophet ﷺ. And he said to the Prophet ﷺ, why did you tilt the neck off your cousin like that?
[SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ says the following, ready?
[SPEAKER_00]: Ready?
[SPEAKER_00]: He says R.I.
[SPEAKER_00]: to Shabban was Shabban.
[SPEAKER_00]: I saw a young man and a young woman.
[SPEAKER_00]: Phelom Am, and his shaytan, and I do not trust the devil towards them.
[SPEAKER_00]: The problem is that the young men and women shaytan tries to bank on them, tries to destroy them through the sexual desire avenue, and it goes step by step with them.
[SPEAKER_00]: He says, I don't trust the devil.
[SPEAKER_00]: He didn't say I don't trust them.
[SPEAKER_00]: He said, I'm concerned of the damage that the shaytan may cause to the people.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah, Akbar, and especially to young men and women.
[SPEAKER_00]: And here, the promise I said to him says, about both of them.
[SPEAKER_00]: He didn't say about the guy.
[SPEAKER_00]: He didn't say, I fell in love with shaytan.
[SPEAKER_00]: I lay he on the man.
[SPEAKER_00]: No, he's just from both of them.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't want that because shaytan may attack.
[SPEAKER_00]: And how is that Yara Sallah through looking?
[SPEAKER_00]: So we had to take the series in Shallah to look away as much as we possibly can.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah grant us strength and meaning of the Al-Alamin.
[SPEAKER_00]: And as the Prophet Sallah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah, O Allah,
[SPEAKER_00]: People think all you're crazy for saying that and nothing's going to happen to me and the doctor Yeah, he don't you actually don't these are this is here and you're right and you're half it's okay You go to the doctor as respectfully You know what it's an awesome of the opposite gender a sister a guy a doctor comes in the mail
[SPEAKER_00]: Ask, can we have the door open please?
[SPEAKER_00]: A little bit, just someone can over here the conversation for example, or just for my sake of comfort, do whatever is necessary.
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay brother, I can do that.
[SPEAKER_00]: There's a serious privacy matter.
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, no problem.
[SPEAKER_00]: Bring someone with you.
[SPEAKER_00]: There has to be one person in your life that you trust in Shala Allah that can come along and not be in a close room like that.
[SPEAKER_00]: just for your own safety.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah protect you.
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, I mean, that's for the girls and for the boys as the province of Allahu Alayhi was said and says, never is a man and a woman alone except the devil is the third.
[SPEAKER_00]: He will do whatever he can possibly do to go as far as he possibly can in the committing of the Haram.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah protect us.
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, Allah, Alayhi was said and said,
[SPEAKER_00]: Never does immodesty, immodesty, and the lack of chastity spreads in a society, except that plagues and diseases, pain and sicknesses that were never known before will spread among them.
[SPEAKER_00]: Me Allah protect us in Arab al-Alamin.
[SPEAKER_00]: So marriage definitely is up there, lowering the gaze whether you're married or single regardless.
[SPEAKER_00]: Number three and last as the Prophet ﷺ was advised fasting.
[SPEAKER_00]: Rosalacenem says that someone is unable to get married, then be sure to fast.
[SPEAKER_00]: Something to tone down that desire to your best of ability.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah protect us and save God.
[SPEAKER_00]: All of us, amenable.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm from Zina.
[SPEAKER_00]: The Zina of the hands, the Zina of the legs, walking to the location on someone.
[SPEAKER_00]: The Zina of the eyes, amenable.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm in, of course, the Zina of the private parts.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah protect us.
[SPEAKER_00]: The door of forgiveness is open.
[SPEAKER_00]: This is not a message to make you hopeless, but a message for you to UNI to wake up and be cautious and be aware that Satan will never let go of us until we fulfill that sin.
[SPEAKER_00]: And once we do, he will go to the next sin of many murder or the next sin, next sin of shirk, may Allah protect us, and may Allah allow me.
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