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[SPEAKER_01]: Difficult this or in this episode we gonna be talking about propaganda that we're not falling for y'all know what propaganda is hopefully right things that you know people try to shove down your throw people try you know make it the popular opinion but last time you know they be talking some nonsense okay some of the propaganda that we're not falling for that we brought up do we got respect their elders perhaps
[SPEAKER_01]: Do we got to stay out the sun?
[SPEAKER_01]: Is it okay to get a little darkened?
[SPEAKER_01]: A little glow on the skin, the brown skin, perhaps?
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, so many things that we bring up in the sub-zone way to the last one, because last one was hot, last one might bring out some heat, my burn, burn some bubbles.
[SPEAKER_01]: You gotta wait till you find out what that one is.
[SPEAKER_01]: But after I do, we hope you enjoy this amazing jam-packed beautiful episode of Difficultish.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This is, this is, this is your idea.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so I came through.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I bought that on my head.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I really like you thought of it all.
[SPEAKER_01]: I was just from TikTok and then I saw one of the TikToks I was like, propaganda.
[SPEAKER_01]: I was like, yeah, this is a thing right now.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it is a thing right now.
[SPEAKER_00]: So if you guys haven't seen the TikTok trend, it is propaganda that I am not falling for and you write down things that are maybe popular, but you don't think it is popular or something that you will be doing.
[SPEAKER_00]: And I made this video recently.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: And I wrote like, you know, just very hard hitting things.
[SPEAKER_00]: I can't even remember what I wrote.
[SPEAKER_00]: It was like, woman shouldn't have to sacrifice everything for themselves and everyone else to show that they love someone.
[SPEAKER_00]: And the one that really frazzled people was that I didn't like Machia.
[SPEAKER_00]: And that was like damn that that one got you guys right and I just want to put a disclaimer I do like some Machia and I haven't tried every single Machia spot obviously and like the authentic most authentic one I'm sure those are better than the more like water down trendy ones So don't hate on me, you know But anyway, these are supposed to be on like on popular controversial opinions that you might not agree with what's the what's it?
[SPEAKER_01]: I got a question.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: What is propaganda?
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know how to define that.
[SPEAKER_00]: Can you define it for me?
[SPEAKER_01]: Propaganda is, you know, just something... Like a war propaganda.
[SPEAKER_01]: Something that people shove in your face to make you bleep.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I mean, some can say Zoran Mamdami was propaganda.
[SPEAKER_01]: He was just being shoved in the face through social media and stuff.
[SPEAKER_01]: And if you talk to any traditionalist or any Republican online, they'll tell you, don't fall for that.
[SPEAKER_01]: Socialism is bad.
[SPEAKER_01]: Look at all these progressive states and look at California.
[SPEAKER_01]: They got some progressive in charge and shit going around over there.
[SPEAKER_01]: So don't fall for the propaganda.
[SPEAKER_00]: It could also be like, you know, like, when colonialism was happening when the British were coming to India with a clone colonizing, it seemed like they were doing it out of the goodness of their hearts and saving everyone.
[SPEAKER_00]: But that falls propaganda.
[SPEAKER_00]: They were actually
[SPEAKER_00]: ruining the country damn you can't stop with that.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that was a deal like that was just like on the back of the head.
[SPEAKER_01]: So yeah, we talked about South Asian propaganda.
[SPEAKER_01]: Honestly, we don't really have too much ourselves, but we got a lot of responses.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: So we decided to make this episode.
[SPEAKER_00]: episode.
[SPEAKER_01]: We decided to make the episode um you know just things that y'all said I haven't even looked through them yet I just saw that there were a bunch so you know this would be uh first look first first take hopefully y'all got some spicy stuff I don't want here no basic nothing yeah um but yeah you know let's get into a pretty shelf explanatory what's going on um I got one
[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, you're gonna say one right now.
[SPEAKER_00]: I thought we're gonna go.
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
[SPEAKER_00]: No, I got one.
[SPEAKER_00]: I got one.
[SPEAKER_01]: Kim, I'm on my way before we start.
[SPEAKER_01]: Start, um, according.
[SPEAKER_01]: Let's hear it.
[SPEAKER_01]: And it's, uh, inspired by real world of, real.
[SPEAKER_00]: Let's check in.
[SPEAKER_01]: Let's check in.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm, I'm just excited.
[SPEAKER_00]: Hey, let's check in.
[SPEAKER_01]: I just, you know, love to talk to us so much.
[SPEAKER_01]: It's inspired by real world events, right?
[SPEAKER_00]: Like, you're a real world events.
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
[SPEAKER_01]: Propaganda that I'm not falling for.
[SPEAKER_01]: Brown people tanning.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like not falling for that.
[SPEAKER_01]: Probably again.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm not falling for Brown people not allowed to tan like not being the son.
[SPEAKER_01]: I said it wrong.
[SPEAKER_01]: But like you understand what I'm saying right now.
[SPEAKER_01]: Brown people not allowed to tan.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know how it goes.
[SPEAKER_01]: My whole life.
[SPEAKER_01]: I know what you heard.
[SPEAKER_01]: The son.
[SPEAKER_01]: That's not your buddy.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: Stay out there.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, that's why I heard all my life growing up.
[SPEAKER_01]: Even though, you know, I'm not, I'm not the darkest fellow.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: But my delight is full.
[SPEAKER_00]: Right.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, my mom would tell me all that time.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I grew up in Florida, you know, sunshine, breathing on my brown skin.
[SPEAKER_00]: Honestly, there, you can't even escape it.
[SPEAKER_01]: Can't escape.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like you can't.
[SPEAKER_00]: No one can tell you like, oh, just stay in until like six p.m.
[SPEAKER_00]: And then you can go out.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like you need to do your work and stuff and be outside.
[SPEAKER_01]: I need to live my life.
[SPEAKER_01]: It should happen.
[SPEAKER_00]: Right.
[SPEAKER_01]: What am I going to do?
[SPEAKER_01]: Stay in the hallway.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, ski mask and be all day long.
[SPEAKER_01]: Um, but I'm be honest.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: All right, day.
[SPEAKER_01]: What do we learn?
[SPEAKER_01]: I went to the beach.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: Got me a little tanning.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: I looked at myself in the mirror.
[SPEAKER_01]: It's okay.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: I kind of liked this.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, because like it.
[SPEAKER_01]: No, that's the glow.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that's the glow.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, and like then I go see my mom.
[SPEAKER_01]: I won't be like, yo, yo, you got dark.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'll be like, I know.
[SPEAKER_00]: Exactly.
[SPEAKER_01]: And I like it.
[SPEAKER_00]: But like, you want to talk about like post tending what happened to you?
[SPEAKER_01]: No, so my skin was like peeling disgustingly for like the following week, but that's all me.
[SPEAKER_01]: That's all me right.
[SPEAKER_01]: I didn't, you know, supply myself.
[SPEAKER_00]: I told them to give up.
[SPEAKER_00]: We have to give him a milk bath.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like what they do to newborns.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like a whole load milk bath.
[SPEAKER_01]: Is that what it takes?
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, it didn't supply myself with the correct products or nothing.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: You just went to the beach, just brought dog dead.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, you know, I told you I got some SPF lotion.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: But he didn't realize that like, he went into the water multiple times, like dipped in and out multiple times for, you know, a couple of hours.
[SPEAKER_00]: He didn't think to reapply it every single time.
[SPEAKER_00]: So what did you think in the water was going to be like?
[SPEAKER_01]: I thought I was immune.
[SPEAKER_00]: You thought you were okay.
[SPEAKER_01]: That was remarkable, indestructible.
[SPEAKER_00]: This guy thought he was Batman.
[SPEAKER_01]: But not, you know, like long stories short, you know, like I really like the glow that you get from like, you know, the the sun, you know, that boy you really blessed me with his powers and his warmth and sunshine, you know, so and I know that like y'all will hear from a y'all parents who want not and like, you know, I heard from my parents, but
[SPEAKER_01]: Still gonna make it happen, you know, give you a little glow and make it yourself.
[SPEAKER_01]: Just make it over the ground or some.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, we're some sunscreen, but you know, like, I don't become patchy and pealy like him.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but you know, I think like the older I've got, like my whole life, I was always like, like, like, not that like, I don't want my skin to get dark, but like,
[SPEAKER_01]: I've like related it to like my mom getting mad.
[SPEAKER_01]: I mean, so I was like, I don't want to get me at mad anymore.
[SPEAKER_01]: But now I'm like, I'll sign like I like it like now like I love the son of a love being like, I mean, I've always loved the son, but like now like I like it like for me, you know, I got like what does, you know, and like, so yeah, you know, like if
[SPEAKER_01]: You like the sign behind all the time, don't go outside, go outside.
[SPEAKER_01]: Tell your mom that we told you.
[SPEAKER_00]: And you get new trends from Vitamin D, you know?
[SPEAKER_00]: All that.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that's good one.
[SPEAKER_00]: Actually, that's learned recently, like in the past two, three years that I also like going to, and being in the sun.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, because you turn like golden brown, like a nice, well done friend.
[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, thank you so much.
[SPEAKER_01]: Thank you so much.
[SPEAKER_01]: When I go McDonald's, I have sort of friend friends, well done.
[SPEAKER_01]: I see.
[SPEAKER_00]: I see.
[SPEAKER_01]: I see.
[SPEAKER_01]: There's a funny monster.
[SPEAKER_01]: Why not?
[SPEAKER_01]: Are you going to hungry?
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: So now we're gonna move into some of the responses that we got from you guys because we asked you on the story.
[SPEAKER_00]: What is some propaganda that you will not be falling for?
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, and we got quite a lot.
[SPEAKER_01]: You guys are busy.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm not here play.
[SPEAKER_00]: Really used up all the word count.
[SPEAKER_00]: So someone said men eating before woman.
[SPEAKER_00]: Why is that still a thing?
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: You know, it's like we always feel like the mom and the daughters and the aunt's being in the kitchen cooking it up for eat and serving the men while they're just sitting and then they just like wait and stand there while they watch the men eat and then after they're gone, they like eat the crumbs in the side.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: How are we changing that?
[SPEAKER_01]: we changing it by forcing our mothers and our sisters and our grandmothers to eat.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, we were just out of your crib.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, you do a good job at it.
[SPEAKER_01]: How many times have I told you mom, please lady sit down.
[SPEAKER_01]: She was not.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, so I tried to do my part, but you know, if it's ingrained in their heads, it's ingrained in their heads.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: At least you ask and you ask.
[SPEAKER_00]: Of course, of course.
[SPEAKER_00]: And you also help in the kitchen too.
[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yeah, big kitchen helper.
[SPEAKER_01]: Big kitchen.
[SPEAKER_01]: I always try and always awesome.
[SPEAKER_00]: Or than me, honestly.
[SPEAKER_01]: We got to some about that one.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, my thought is that, like, we have to be the generation that fixes that.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like, we can't be the ones that just keeps that cycle going.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: We have to invite the boys into the kitchen.
[SPEAKER_00]: They have to be the one to also offer to come into the kitchen and ask the woman to sit down.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Give up their seat.
[SPEAKER_00]: Where's the shillory at?
[SPEAKER_00]: Someone said, hot take.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Controversial, even.
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
[SPEAKER_00]: We should respect all elders.
[SPEAKER_02]: Oh.
[SPEAKER_00]: Should we respect all elders?
[SPEAKER_00]: You told me.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't think so.
[SPEAKER_01]: Why not?
[SPEAKER_00]: Because some of them deserve to...
[SPEAKER_00]: not right be allowed to say the things they say right and there's like this this thing where we have to respect them just because they're older they're a wiser yeah folks and you can't tell them off if they're saying something wrong but I think we have to break that notion that just because they're older
[SPEAKER_00]: They're always in the right and we have to tell them when they're doing something wrong.
[SPEAKER_00]: Tell them when they're being racist.
[SPEAKER_00]: Tell them when they're saying something very cancelable.
[SPEAKER_00]: Tell them that the traditional thinking that they have might not still be the same now.
[SPEAKER_00]: And maybe they won't change.
[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe they will be stuck in their own ways.
[SPEAKER_00]: But it's not up to you to always keep the peace and just accept everything for what it is.
[SPEAKER_00]: But again, I mentioned this in a last episode.
[SPEAKER_00]: I forgot which one.
[SPEAKER_00]: There's a difference between respecting someone versus, or like, there's a difference between disrespecting someone versus telling them something rudely.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like you can tell someone that how they're saying something or thinking is not right and might not apply in this day and age, but you don't have to say that in a rude way.
[SPEAKER_00]: So it's like if they're continuously still acting like that and still being racist or whatever the case is.
[SPEAKER_00]: Then it's like, you know, they're not going to look up to them the same way and maybe their level of your level of respect for them is not the highest anymore.
[SPEAKER_00]: But like I think they still deserve your like, nice, niceness, not niceness, but
[SPEAKER_00]: Not saying it in like a rude disrespectful way.
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: You thought?
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't really understand.
[SPEAKER_01]: What?
[SPEAKER_01]: Like, like, elder, like, what are you talking about?
[SPEAKER_01]: Like our parents?
[SPEAKER_00]: Elders, like Elders.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yes, Elders.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like, not new.
[SPEAKER_00]: They don't have to be in a wheelchair.
[SPEAKER_01]: Um, yeah, I mean, honestly, um, I always respect Elders.
[SPEAKER_01]: Um, even if you want some bullshit, I'm just gonna not associate myself with you.
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
[SPEAKER_00]: But what if it's like you're in your not new?
[SPEAKER_00]: Like you're not, it was like mushroom.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like all women have to stay at home.
[SPEAKER_00]: All men has to go to work, but your wife has to stay at home all the time.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, none of I hear you.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's crazy.
[SPEAKER_00]: No, that's crazy.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's actually crazy.
[SPEAKER_01]: No, um, yeah, I mean like I'm just not gonna go out of my way to because I thought that a like no wise changing no one's listening to nothing.
[SPEAKER_01]: You think they're gonna change something like if it's like a like some thought like that that they've had in their head their entire lives.
[SPEAKER_01]: What the hell?
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, you know if it's just like something like passing by something that they just learned like you know have the opportunity to correct them or something you know like if they just found out that like I Don't know like I found out about like alligators they fucking do Fearing for their life by alligators, you know I have the opportunity to only learn that age and I do but you know, but it's like something that they've no amount of time Yeah, I'm not gonna do nothing so I'm just gonna knock on and social myself with you
[SPEAKER_00]: But you know something, now that we're on that topic, it's like elders obviously have a more traditional mindset on the age that they grew up in.
[SPEAKER_00]: But there's also still the mindset now with parents that you should have kids as a woman before the age of like thirty.
[SPEAKER_00]: Right?
[SPEAKER_00]: Because there's this idea that your body source deteriorating and you are less less likely to have kids after a certain age, which I completely understand.
[SPEAKER_00]: But I think there's a lot of like fear mongering with that.
[SPEAKER_01]: Well, I'm just structuring my fingers.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, if you're mongering.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, if you're mongering.
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't think I've ever heard you say this one.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I mean, it's not like a daily word that I use in my dictionary, but you know, as me and you grow like you're going to be a word through the governor.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, not have a list of words that she says wrong.
[SPEAKER_01]: Wait, it's a long list.
[SPEAKER_01]: Trust me.
[SPEAKER_01]: where she says wrong where's that she says she has no idea what it means like one day I asked her like oh what's that thing that like you know people lay on like they like tied to trees and they lay on right she says can't be no can if he's also similar
[SPEAKER_01]: What are you saying?
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't even know what I was saying anymore.
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so if you're wrong.
[SPEAKER_01]: Okay, what else?
[SPEAKER_00]: If you're wrong, there's a lot of fear of mongering surrounding, like having kids as a woman, right?
[SPEAKER_00]: Which I understand, as you get older and older, it's hard to have kids, right?
[SPEAKER_00]: But dirty is not like the limit to having kids.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's what they say is the end you must have get before your thirty must be married you must have settled it and it's just like too much so it's like if I hear something like that from a parent from an elder
[SPEAKER_00]: Like, if I hear from my grandma, she's ninety.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's her dying wish.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I'm not gonna say something, right?
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'll just be like, okay, you know.
[SPEAKER_00]: But it's like, if it's someone that's like your parent or someone maybe like an Auntie Uncle age, you know, fifty, sixties, they're older but not that old.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: So it's like, I guess it depends on the relation to them and who it is and how old they are.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, you're gonna like this one.
[SPEAKER_00]: This is uh, propaganda.
[SPEAKER_00]: Say that.
[SPEAKER_00]: I would love to have your two cents on.
[SPEAKER_00]: No cookies.
[SPEAKER_00]: Inviting your whole way.
[SPEAKER_00]: No.
[SPEAKER_00]: Being nice to relatives, even if they start beef, just to keep the feast.
[SPEAKER_00]: There's lots of nuts.
[SPEAKER_01]: But what you want me to say?
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't know nothing about this.
[SPEAKER_00]: You know exactly everything about this and you are a big perpetrator on this too.
[SPEAKER_01]: perpetrator of what?
[SPEAKER_01]: Keeping the peace?
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: We're not keeping the peace.
[SPEAKER_00]: Keeping the peace.
[SPEAKER_01]: Explain yourself.
[SPEAKER_00]: So, allegedly, if there is a family that you don't align with anymore, you will go out of your way to like, still say, you know, your salam say, hi, hello, how are they doing?
[SPEAKER_00]: You won't go beyond that.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like you won't be like engaging.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like I think your sister is a lot more with the other side.
[SPEAKER_00]: But I think that you're not, you're in the middle where you're not like harsh where you completely ignore them, but you also don't talk to them and engage even further.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: So I don't fully understand.
[SPEAKER_00]: You prefer it to be in the middle.
[SPEAKER_01]: No, okay.
[SPEAKER_01]: Allegedly if there was like a family that I don't let all allegations.
[SPEAKER_01]: No, no, no, no, no, no.
[SPEAKER_01]: There was a family that someone in my family member that I don't like.
[SPEAKER_01]: Right.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm not going.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm not going to slap them in the face when I see them.
[SPEAKER_01]: It's not on site like that.
[SPEAKER_01]: Like I thought you wanted to try to keep the piece.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm not trying to start no problems like that.
[SPEAKER_01]: Right.
[SPEAKER_01]: But I'm not going, you know, go out and be like,
[SPEAKER_00]: So what do you think that our parents are incapable of doing this or respecting that we want to do that?
[SPEAKER_01]: Not because, you know, then they're going to tell this person that person, ah, they treat me some type of way.
[SPEAKER_01]: And then that person, and then now more people are looking at you some time.
[SPEAKER_01]: Why aren't you talking to him?
[SPEAKER_03]: Why aren't you talking to him?
[SPEAKER_01]: Why aren't you talking to him?
[SPEAKER_00]: Why aren't you talking to him?
[SPEAKER_00]: Why aren't you
[SPEAKER_01]: Where as?
[SPEAKER_01]: Further more young fellow like me, right?
[SPEAKER_01]: You think I give a fuck?
[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, wow if if my name is being spread around allegedly.
[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, this is where I have to go and like if my name was being spread around the family, um, you know, not in it like maliciously allegedly, I wouldn't give a fuck
[SPEAKER_01]: I think that's really heavy.
[SPEAKER_01]: That's where the difference is.
[SPEAKER_01]: They can talk their shit.
[SPEAKER_01]: That's okay, you know, because I don't care.
[SPEAKER_01]: Right, so I think that's why like our parents are like, you know, they try to keep them.
[SPEAKER_01]: They really try to, you know, like show face.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: I really try, you know, make it look like there's nothing wrong because again, allegedly, this is going on.
[SPEAKER_01]: I would know that my family would, you know, go out of their way to make sure that everything's okay.
[SPEAKER_01]: Just so there's no bad blood.
[SPEAKER_01]: They don't want to, you know, they don't want nothing popping up because at the end of the day,
[SPEAKER_01]: Our parents is like siblings like cousins family a media family.
[SPEAKER_01]: That's like kind of all they got you know for a lot of people so it's like if you if you burn that bridge or create a little bit animosity in that bridge You really got much else other than that whereas you don't feel like me I got I got shorty right?
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm shorty.
[SPEAKER_01]: I got sister all my cousins who like are not associated with any of that.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm good right?
[SPEAKER_01]: So
[SPEAKER_00]: I see.
[SPEAKER_00]: I love that you didn't mention like your friends too.
[SPEAKER_00]: You're also a friend.
[SPEAKER_00]: But, but I see that you're saying you rather have family close to you even if they're toxic and maybe not the best for you rather than cutting them off and being happier alone.
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't have to cut them off to be happy.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I can't keep them at a distance.
[SPEAKER_01]: I can keep them at a distance.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, dab them up when I see them.
[SPEAKER_01]: Keep pushing.
[SPEAKER_01]: That's fine.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm perfectly okay.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, like the media, I don't need to completely cut off someone.
[SPEAKER_01]: Okay.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I'm able to tell like the most of you distance by yourself.
[SPEAKER_00]: I think the response that this person said, I agree.
[SPEAKER_00]: That is propaganda that I am not falling for.
[SPEAKER_00]: I feel like I am.
[SPEAKER_00]: I have always been like that.
[SPEAKER_01]: So what is the propaganda?
[SPEAKER_00]: You're not falling for the idea of having to be nice to talk to family members.
[SPEAKER_00]: Having to be nice, we're inviting them, we're like having them in your life.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because also I'm the type of person where if someone has wronged me or my family or people that I care about,
[SPEAKER_00]: I am not going to be keeping up with their life inviting them to things or really caring about their opinion on anything.
[SPEAKER_00]: They're really done.
[SPEAKER_00]: They're done.
[SPEAKER_00]: And it's interesting because now that we are on the process of planning, wedding stuff, I don't want certain people at my wedding because of things that they've said about me behind my back and in front of my face.
[SPEAKER_00]: And also, my parents are aligned with that, but then also, you have to still save face in some way and prevent that back talk and gossip and stuff like that.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'll be okay.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I'll come back talk me on.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but hopefully like I think as a generation goes on and on like the last generation You know, they're so kind of be friends with the people that maybe have wrong them and talk to family members our generation I'm not really about that You know and then hopefully the next generation they'll have our support and then they can also do that for their support, you know
[SPEAKER_00]: So because it's like sucky imagine I mean this is like the really like serious scenario and like a bigger scenario but like imagine
[SPEAKER_00]: you being a daughter or son, having to go to an uncle's house.
[SPEAKER_00]: You're not having the best relationship with them.
[SPEAKER_00]: Then maybe doing something that you're not comfortable with.
[SPEAKER_00]: And then finally being able to open up to like a parent or a guardian about what they did.
[SPEAKER_00]: And then taking the uncle side or the, you know, the older person, right?
[SPEAKER_00]: That sucks.
[SPEAKER_00]: So it's like I hope that we as we get older and we have a family and stuff, we are at the generation that like,
[SPEAKER_00]: takes our kids' words, and then also accepts a good example for them.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: That was a good one, right?
[SPEAKER_00]: I know.
[SPEAKER_00]: You can't let it out of me.
[SPEAKER_01]: You can't let it out.
[SPEAKER_01]: What?
[SPEAKER_01]: I have to be the one to give you your flower.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know you can't let it out.
[SPEAKER_01]: No, but I had to be the one to claim you that.
[SPEAKER_00]: No, but you were taking a, like you weren't going to give it to me, so I had to do it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, you weren't.
[SPEAKER_00]: So that's like, let me take things into my own hands.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I knew you were.
[SPEAKER_00]: I knew you were.
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm sure they know how it goes.
[SPEAKER_00]: So someone said propaganda that I'm not falling for.
[SPEAKER_00]: Who does to you for not falling for this?
[SPEAKER_00]: Pressure to save towards buying parents a house before getting ourselves in a apartment.
[SPEAKER_00]: Thoughts.
[SPEAKER_00]: And you can agree or disagree by the way.
[SPEAKER_01]: I agree a great Because you know, we kind of talked about this in a recent episode, but like why do our parents think they're like buying a house is just it's like it's like buying a bag of talkies like you just go to the store and just let me go by the way on my son's card
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I told you like there was a house that went for sale on my neighborhood and my mom's like mushroom like think about it like If you buy this house, you can rent it out and you get paid And then it pays itself off right so mushroom by the house and then you rent it right think about it right right when you break it down like that so I feel like a lot of our pants, you know, they'll they'll try to you know, um
[SPEAKER_01]: minimize you know like the amount of work and effort and financial capability that goes into purchasing a home
[SPEAKER_01]: So when they see that we're spending here, thousand, fifteen hundred and we've got our own apartment, they just see the money flying away.
[SPEAKER_01]: They don't see everything, all the emotional, mental building that we're doing in that time that we're away and how much more productive we are in our own space and how much happier and how much more we're able to provide them support, all types of support because we got our own little crib.
[SPEAKER_01]: They don't see none of that.
[SPEAKER_01]: They just see that all this flying away.
[SPEAKER_01]: So, you know, I understand where they're coming from and whatnot, but it's like, you know, you gotta do you first, you gotta do you first.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I think you should still help them out in a meantime as help them out as much as you can.
[SPEAKER_01]: Again, yeah, I'm getting no crib.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, my word of advice.
[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm sure we've talked about this in like our moving out episode or other episodes that we talked about, but, you know, it's really important for you to still follow through with the things that you said they would do for yourself, whether it is moving out and get your own apartment or
[SPEAKER_00]: you know getting a car or like whatever thing it is that you've saved up for your whole like professional work career for and in the beginning it could be a couple of weeks a couple of months you know even years you're going to feel very guilty for using your own money on yourself because you're going to feel like you could have used that for your parents and they're going to make you feel guilty and then it's going to
[SPEAKER_00]: making not really enjoy the thing that you got for yourself.
[SPEAKER_00]: But at the end of it, you're going to realize that you're moving out or you're getting that thing for yourself is giving you the space to like have your own mental building blocks and your own space to just grow as a person and that in turn gives you more like space and like even willingness to save up or provide for your parents more.
[SPEAKER_00]: And it's like the more you keep
[SPEAKER_00]: saving up to buy your parents something without doing anything for yourself by the way.
[SPEAKER_00]: It just, it just, you're spreading yourself so thin and you're continuously giving and giving and giving to them without giving anything to yourself.
[SPEAKER_00]: And at one point or another, your parents might be just asking for more and more.
[SPEAKER_00]: They, they see that you're helping so much, which is a great thing and they probably are grateful for that.
[SPEAKER_00]: But then they're gonna be like, okay, we might as well just ask her, ask her the child for more.
[SPEAKER_00]: They might as well move in with us.
[SPEAKER_00]: help with the mortgage and this and that because you're just saying yes to so many things so it's like you might as well have your own foundation and things for yourself while in the process of also helping your parents you know and again there's a lot of guilt that you have to get over in the process but then eventually
[SPEAKER_00]: You'll get to the part of it where you feel like grateful that you did this for yourself and you can help your parents in the process.
[SPEAKER_00]: In the beginning, when we first moved out for me, it was four years ago, through years ago, right?
[SPEAKER_00]: We weren't even able to enjoy fully the fact that we were living by ourselves in our own apartments because we're like, how is it that you were living in a luxury apartment in Orlando?
[SPEAKER_00]: And me, I was living by myself.
[SPEAKER_00]: I was like, how is it that we are doing things that is so grand?
[SPEAKER_00]: You know, like my mom was never able to travel or live alone or move out, especially obviously, unless she got married.
[SPEAKER_00]: And how's it that we're living all these luxuries that our parents can never have and how selfish of us to be spending money on ourselves when we could be using this to finance our parents home or buy them a car or make their lives easier.
[SPEAKER_00]: And then we have to work through the guilt and stuff and then get to the point of helping them, you know, but yeah, that is definitely like propaganda that we shouldn't fall for.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like we can always help them.
[SPEAKER_00]: We can always make their lives better, but that doesn't mean that it should be at the expense of our own life.
[SPEAKER_03]: This one.
[SPEAKER_00]: This one is good.
[SPEAKER_02]: This one is good.
[SPEAKER_00]: Sure.
[SPEAKER_02]: This one is good.
[SPEAKER_02]: Sure.
[SPEAKER_02]: This one is good.
[SPEAKER_00]: This one is good.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This one is good.
[SPEAKER_02]: This one is good.
[SPEAKER_01]: This one is good.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but like usually like you're a little bit more abundant with your doubts sitting or being a little cheap.
[SPEAKER_01]: Not never been a bunny with them.
[SPEAKER_00]: You've been a bunny with a bunny because you've earned them in the past.
[SPEAKER_01]: No light.
[SPEAKER_01]: No, yeah, you have facts.
[SPEAKER_00]: I snap.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Sorry to say.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yes.
[SPEAKER_00]: What's your thought on that?
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: I took the words out of her mouth.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: You got it.
[SPEAKER_01]: You got it.
[SPEAKER_01]: I agree.
[SPEAKER_01]: All right.
[SPEAKER_01]: This was said, uh, propaganda and not falling for, um, weddings in general.
[SPEAKER_01]: It's just furious.
[SPEAKER_01]: Fuck weddings.
[SPEAKER_00]: No wedding.
[SPEAKER_00]: No weddings.
[SPEAKER_01]: It's so funny.
[SPEAKER_01]: Like I ran into one of my old co-workers in Florida when I was there recently and I told them that, like, I just, you proposed?
[SPEAKER_00]: I just proposed to whom?
[SPEAKER_01]: Oh and he was telling me how like yeah like after he proposed he said fuck a wedding and like him and his now wife like they just went to Vegas and they looped and they just spent like eight thousand dollars on like you know like like really funky like outfits and like got like a photographer for like two hundred dollars and just like partied and did a bunch of drugs for the weekend and just like made a bunch of friends and like
[SPEAKER_01]: just like caught a vibe in this fucker wedding that was like that's like was there when it's good so you want it's something like super hipster and you know something that's like you know like a little of them otherworldly but you know like there's something to think about you know so like so that's what you want I want to propose this idea to you I say instead of a wedding because his thing pros of a wedding right like yeah love family you spend time to all right
[SPEAKER_01]: Cons of a wedding?
[SPEAKER_01]: Do we have wedding sponsor?
[SPEAKER_01]: Anybody listening?
[SPEAKER_01]: You have money for a sponsorship?
[SPEAKER_01]: If hands are all vital, like a beggar said by the... For wedding sponsorship, I didn't think so.
[SPEAKER_01]: So, you know, big cons, right?
[SPEAKER_01]: Not the pros aren't that great.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, you know, love.
[SPEAKER_01]: But think about it.
[SPEAKER_01]: What if instead of a wedding, we... We just hire a clown.
[SPEAKER_01]: We just, um, we go to Jackson Heights and we just like buy some funny costumes and then just we like probably go around that the door.
[SPEAKER_00]: Why do you take our Jackson Heights to buy funny costumes?
[SPEAKER_01]: Um, it's just a proposal of an idea.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's this one.
[SPEAKER_01]: So, you know, like, um, can I answer?
[SPEAKER_00]: Nope.
[SPEAKER_00]: You couldn't cry, but your voice only cracked every episode.
[SPEAKER_01]: Okay.
[SPEAKER_00]: Um,
[SPEAKER_01]: Just keep in mind like the protocol.
[SPEAKER_01]: Um, I accept.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So they said yeah, like they said no weddings I don't know honestly like the wedding industry nowadays like we talked about this in our inner marriage episode, but like It's like a billion dollars industry people are spending four inches house down payments on weddings and honestly do like if you have the money for that do you like that is all for you, but I saw this one thing recently Jeff Bezos so the found the CEO Amazon founder you
[SPEAKER_00]: Founder of Amazon, right?
[SPEAKER_00]: He rented out a city in Italy, a fourteen, I think a fourteen million dollar wedding to rent out the city just to get married.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Fourteen million dollars.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know what?
[SPEAKER_01]: I could do a fourteen million dollars.
[SPEAKER_00]: What can you do with what do you even had a split?
[SPEAKER_01]: Fourteen million make chickens.
[SPEAKER_00]: I knew you were going to take it back.
[SPEAKER_01]: But you know like the only pro of wedding.
[SPEAKER_01]: Only pro love.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: Okay.
[SPEAKER_01]: The only pro is not like it's the only time you're like for this going to be every single person that you love.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: Like you're never going to get
[SPEAKER_01]: You're never gonna get the opportunity again.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, you know, I was literally talking about it like your god damn wedding or funeral I was talking about this was my mom and I was like dang like cuz we were talking about all the potential people that we would be inviting and coming to the wedding and I was like dang we haven't had even though all of us live in New York we haven't had a reunion like that
[SPEAKER_00]: since I was born.
[SPEAKER_00]: So like this is a big thing.
[SPEAKER_00]: And also for me, I don't know what your family relation is, but I was the first born daughter in America.
[SPEAKER_00]: And so everyone surrounded me and coddled me.
[SPEAKER_00]: So it's like a big deal.
[SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, your turn.
[SPEAKER_01]: My turn.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like how are people going to react when it's like mushroom getting married?
[SPEAKER_01]: Um, I don't know.
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
[SPEAKER_01]: I think people will be happy.
[SPEAKER_01]: I see.
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't think like me getting married is anything like a special word.
[SPEAKER_01]: You know, especially because me getting married, but like, I'm not the first.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm like somewhere in the middle of the family.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, sure.
[SPEAKER_01]: Last one, probably when I fall in for, um, hate between our people over religion.
[SPEAKER_00]: Mmm, what do you get thoughts on that one?
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I mean, I mean, hey, you know, like, core tenants of Islam, love your people, love everybody, you know, love all humans, you know, treat all humans equally, you know, so I love my Hindus, I love my Jewish brethren, I love all my people.
[SPEAKER_01]: We don't gotta see how to iron political and whatnot.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's okay, but you know, I think there's like a a human bond and you respect me I respect you But you know, there's like the extremists in every single religion, you know, it's not just Islam It's not just Hinduism like there are people in every single religion that will use the guys of religion to justify what they're doing and they'll take it to the extreme they'll follow their holy book or or scriptures or whatever
[SPEAKER_00]: To the most literal sense where it doesn't even make sense anymore, but they're delusioning themselves into believing that it's like true Yeah, you like that one you said brother and so I can't say delusioning is I don't think it's like I'm not too sure if it's the right word I know that was actually it so like yeah, I don't think that
[SPEAKER_00]: You should just automatically hate someone right away just because of the religion.
[SPEAKER_00]: You know what they look like.
[SPEAKER_00]: Your voice keeps cracking and I'm not sure why.
[SPEAKER_00]: Are you going to puberty?
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Every school episode, you're twenty six year old man.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like what is going on?
[SPEAKER_01]: But yeah, I think there's a way of Islamophobia that's definitely coming back.
[SPEAKER_01]: If you felt it, if you've seen it online, you know, a lot of stuff going on on that side of the world, you know, now we got young men, Muslim socialists, soon to be mayor of the city.
[SPEAKER_01]: I think there's some this coming back.
[SPEAKER_01]: And you know, if any Muslims is listening, you know, don't let these people get to you, man.
[SPEAKER_01]: We love our people, we love all people.
[SPEAKER_01]: That's some beautiful that like my friend today I was hanging out with him and he kept kind of like repeating different ways.
[SPEAKER_01]: You're like, you know like Muslims will be painted as this and that but like Muslims are like genuinely like the most loving peaceful people and like most accepting people.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yes, there is the crazies and there's always gonna be the crazies, but you know, you go to like a little city in Egypt or little city in Syria or some you're gonna meet the most beautiful people in the world.
[SPEAKER_00]: Agreed.
[SPEAKER_00]: Agreed, well said, well said, well said.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's a good one.
[SPEAKER_00]: Good topic.
[SPEAKER_00]: Good job.
[SPEAKER_01]: Appreciate that.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, let us know if you like this one.
[SPEAKER_01]: We might do propaganda.
[SPEAKER_01]: We do fall for you.
[SPEAKER_01]: I hear a propaganda fall for.
[SPEAKER_00]: Tell me.
[SPEAKER_01]: Chicken, taking walks like in like, uh, Gamsa and Lungi with like your arms.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, he's wearing a Gamsa, like Gamsa.
[SPEAKER_01]: I was going to work today, but it's too hot.
[SPEAKER_01]: But like walking like with your hands behind your back, just like looking at everything.
[SPEAKER_00]: Are you like a foreign man?
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like are you an uncle?
[SPEAKER_01]: Um, thank you so much for listening to this episode of Difficult.
[SPEAKER_01]: Did you have ten seconds advice for our love of this and this?
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: Okay.
[SPEAKER_00]: You've convinced yourself that you can do something just because you haven't seen influences, maybe you've just have a lower self-esteem or the lack of discipline and you feel like it's not possible.
[SPEAKER_00]: But if you really want to do something, if you really feel like you deserve a life,
[SPEAKER_00]: But you're just not there yet.
[SPEAKER_00]: You got a lock in have that discipline and believe that you will have it for yourself, but you got to really want it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yep.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: Where did that went from?
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_00]: That was like in the dome in the dome.
[SPEAKER_01]: Those are pretty good ones.
[SPEAKER_00]: I know.
[SPEAKER_00]: Those are pretty good ones.
[SPEAKER_00]: I know you.
[SPEAKER_01]: Don't ever trust anyone with watering your plants.
[SPEAKER_01]: That's not a responsibility to put in someone else's hands.
[SPEAKER_01]: Some things are meant to be dealt and managed and handled on your own.
[SPEAKER_00]: How do you plan on handling that on your own if you're traveling for two weeks?
[SPEAKER_01]: Figure it out.
[SPEAKER_01]: Just don't trust anyone.
[SPEAKER_01]: Ever?
[SPEAKER_00]: If you didn't know he's talking about me.
[SPEAKER_01]: In general.
[SPEAKER_01]: Thanks so much for listening to this episode.
[SPEAKER_01]: If you go to this bungalow at the day, um... Gobuddar.
[SPEAKER_02]: Gobuddar.
[SPEAKER_02]: Which means?
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't know.
[SPEAKER_02]: You don't know what that means.
[SPEAKER_02]: Go with our poetry.
[SPEAKER_02]: Go with it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm Bashayash city.
[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, I'm coming home.
[SPEAKER_03]: Coming home.
[SPEAKER_00]: But we love you guys so much and we'll see you in the next one.
[SPEAKER_00]: I love you.
[SPEAKER_02]: Bye.