[SPEAKER_00]: So when Allah SWT is looking at each one of you now and of course looking at me, what is he saying about you, what definition he will define you, mother, wife, professional, servant of Allah, really, so the first thing is I need to know who am I,
[SPEAKER_00]: Where am I in the journey with a lost pantada?
[SPEAKER_00]: What I'm going to add or a question.
[SPEAKER_00]: Do you have a journey with a lost pantada?
[SPEAKER_00]: Or we are so immersed in our, as I call it, daily, or atrace.
[SPEAKER_00]: Meaning, when I go to bed, because we need practical,
[SPEAKER_00]: And everything you did is halal.
[SPEAKER_00]: Hamdulillah.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not talking about anything not pleasing to Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: But have you put your head when you put your head on that pillow?
[SPEAKER_00]: It says, you're Allah, like a hand.
[SPEAKER_00]: You help me to be a good wife, a good mother.
[SPEAKER_00]: I did well at jaw and my job.
[SPEAKER_00]: I prayed for the people of Raza.
[SPEAKER_00]: Is Allah in your daily life.
[SPEAKER_00]: When you say, on the servant of Allah,
[SPEAKER_00]: But are we really the observant of Allah, meaning, and I ask this myself before anyone.
[SPEAKER_00]: When I'm walking in that street, yes, I'm waiting in my hijab alhamdla, I'm an obvious Muslim.
[SPEAKER_00]: Am I really internally different than this person next to me in line in the grocery shop?
[SPEAKER_00]: Who doesn't know anything about Islam?
[SPEAKER_00]: She knows there's God, but doesn't know anything about Islam.
[SPEAKER_00]: Are you all with me?
[SPEAKER_00]: So the servant of Allah is not a word.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is not a claim.
[SPEAKER_00]: I use this word all the time with me, because it's so easy to claim.
[SPEAKER_00]: If I do a survey right now between the mothers without names, every one of you will say, I did my best with my children.
[SPEAKER_00]: only Allah knows, and the result is not the test or the result of the test.
[SPEAKER_00]: So what is the servant of Allah?
[SPEAKER_00]: True servant of Allah, which means if I know at this moment and Allah is my witness, if I know next to my name, he puts these servant of Allah, I'm going to tell him, take me right away, before things change.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because then that's it.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's it, near my lab in Nahu'a'wab.
[SPEAKER_00]: What a servant he is, Allah describes it in A'yub.
[SPEAKER_00]: What a servant he is, turns to Allah all the way.
[SPEAKER_00]: So I'm gonna take you back to the si'rah and I'm gonna tell you how Allah described in the Qur'an the real servant of Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's seven criteria, seven.
[SPEAKER_00]: All of us are either the seven one, the last one, is every woman in this room because there is option.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's the first six.
[SPEAKER_00]: So it is the verse and so on at Tahrim.
[SPEAKER_00]: But before I tell you the verse, I'm going to take you through the reason.
[SPEAKER_00]: You always have to know, why did Allah say this?
[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm not questioning His wisdom.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm asking, what are you teaching me, Allah?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Listen, because this is a big lesson to every one of us.
[SPEAKER_00]: Don't let us go to the superficial.
[SPEAKER_00]: So, the superficial is an incident.
[SPEAKER_00]: So, this is story is as simple as this.
[SPEAKER_00]: So, Rasuali, Rasuali, they were jealous.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Tell him that you smell a bad smell from his mouth.
[SPEAKER_00]: It turned to be said, the most probably, say the hafsa, the daughter of Sayyid Nalmar.
[SPEAKER_00]: Salwamatul Kauwama, this is how they describe her.
[SPEAKER_00]: You know what?
[SPEAKER_00]: Salwama, always fasting.
[SPEAKER_00]: Kauwama, always up and not in the night.
[SPEAKER_00]: So he came to her and he was greeting her and she says, Oh, I smell something not good.
[SPEAKER_00]: Marafir, they call it in the Arabi, which is not a good smell.
[SPEAKER_00]: What did you eat?
[SPEAKER_00]: He said, I just had honey in the house of say, designab.
[SPEAKER_00]: He says, now, maybe that honey was not the best.
[SPEAKER_00]: Wait, wait.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because if you're going to, again, if you're going to look superficial, you're not going to get there, the message that we all need to leave today with.
[SPEAKER_00]: So she, and then he went to say to her, she said, I was the second, and she said exactly the same.
[SPEAKER_00]: He told the say to Hafsad, don't tell anyone that I ate honey in the house of Zainab.
[SPEAKER_00]: She went and told the say to her, now, Araswari Slaatu Selma's unhappy.
[SPEAKER_00]: He decided to divorce them.
[SPEAKER_00]: And there's a story he probably did not.
[SPEAKER_00]: And you're talking about who, the daughter of Sayyid Nalmar, and Sayyid Haysha, the daughter of Sayyid Nalmar Bakr.
[SPEAKER_00]: So Allah's Fantah, Allah revealed this.
[SPEAKER_00]: When he decided he was contemplating on divorcing them.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah was telling him it's your choice.
[SPEAKER_00]: He didn't tell him, don't.
[SPEAKER_00]: He said, Aasar Abbu, in Al-Lakakun, Ayyub, Dilehu.
[SPEAKER_00]: If he decided to divorce you,
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah will replace them.
[SPEAKER_00]: You're talking about whom, say the Aisha and say the Hafsah, not you and me.
[SPEAKER_00]: If he decide, he wants to divorce them.
[SPEAKER_00]: Allah will replace him with.
[SPEAKER_00]: Khayir on Minkunna.
[SPEAKER_00]: Better than you.
[SPEAKER_00]: Ya Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Better than the mothers of the believers.
[SPEAKER_00]: And now he described.
[SPEAKER_00]: The following is the servant of Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Ayyub did ahu aswajan, khayram min kwann, must be matim.
[SPEAKER_00]: Mo minatim, karnitatim, taibatim, ahabudatim, saihatim.
[SPEAKER_00]: The yubatim, wa'avkara.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'll translate.
[SPEAKER_00]: You don't want them?
[SPEAKER_00]: Leave them.
[SPEAKER_00]: them or replace you with the following.
[SPEAKER_00]: This is the criteria.
[SPEAKER_00]: Mostly mad.
[SPEAKER_00]: You're going to say, well, that's me.
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, fine.
[SPEAKER_00]: I know.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'll come to it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Me not.
[SPEAKER_00]: Believe it.
[SPEAKER_00]: We are all right.
[SPEAKER_00]: Sure.
[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
[SPEAKER_00]: Two checks.
[SPEAKER_00]: Hamdadla.
[SPEAKER_00]: All in it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Now I have to say obedient.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because that's obedient to Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Al-Khanita, or Al-Phanet, is the person who's obedient to Allah, but listen to this.
[SPEAKER_00]: It will be obedient to Allah without a fanbutt.
[SPEAKER_00]: Without I don't like it, it's not fair.
[SPEAKER_00]: I live in the states, is 2023, I am not ready yet, all the list, the laundry list of excuses.
[SPEAKER_00]: What does that mean?
[SPEAKER_00]: That's mean they sin.
[SPEAKER_00]: No one is perfect.
[SPEAKER_00]: When do you return?
[SPEAKER_00]: When do you return to Allah's Pantale?
[SPEAKER_00]: When do you ask for forgiveness?
[SPEAKER_00]: Tell uba is returned to Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: When do you do that?
[SPEAKER_00]: When you are away?
[SPEAKER_00]: Or when you disobey them?
[SPEAKER_00]: Ta'a ibadin.
[SPEAKER_00]: Now you follow it.
[SPEAKER_00]: The sequence is not just because.
[SPEAKER_00]: You return to Allah and then I'll be that
[SPEAKER_00]: The only one that we don't have a choice, and each one of us in this room can be one of them, is say you're batting wa abqara, and there is a beautiful Arabic beauty I'll share it in a second.
[SPEAKER_00]: They can be virgin or they can have been married before.
[SPEAKER_00]: So the Allah, standing in the Rasul al-Satuh, doesn't matter.
[SPEAKER_00]: You say to Ayyshah, I was virgin.
[SPEAKER_00]: And she used always to say, I'm the only one that he married.
[SPEAKER_00]: that I was Allah says fine or replace you with a virgin.
[SPEAKER_00]: Thank you, but meaning she has been married before.
[SPEAKER_00]: But you say to have some.
[SPEAKER_00]: Now, are you those?
[SPEAKER_00]: Do you have these six?
[SPEAKER_00]: How many of you say yes?
[SPEAKER_00]: Show me hands?
[SPEAKER_00]: Alhamdulillah.
[SPEAKER_00]: What is a Muslim man?
[SPEAKER_00]: Muslim is not the one in this context, and most of the meaning of Islam in the Quran is not the Islam in the Hadith-Jubh-Ril, the five pillars of Islam.
[SPEAKER_00]: The five pillars will qualify you to be buried in a Muslim cemetery, and they will pray on you and me.
[SPEAKER_00]: But in the site of Allah, it's the beginning.
[SPEAKER_00]: Al-Mustlim, woman, ass and dunya,
[SPEAKER_00]: The real Muslim, the person who submit to Allah, he wants me to be in a difficult marriage.
[SPEAKER_00]: I am not going to argue, but you're going to take me through it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Or you're going to guide me to get divorced, did you see the way?
[SPEAKER_00]: You're not going to live in misery because he doesn't want that, but I'm not going to do it unless he tells me.
[SPEAKER_00]: I am not going to apply to this college or that college, although I qualify for Aber Unless he tells me.
[SPEAKER_00]: Somebody one day asked me this question, straight for was it, how do you know?
[SPEAKER_00]: And my answer was when you beg him, he will tell you.
[SPEAKER_00]: If you are really connected, he will tell you.
[SPEAKER_00]: How many Muslim are in this law?
[SPEAKER_00]: Did you see my point?
[SPEAKER_00]: Exactly, Asa and Takahusha, and you may dislike something and there's a lot of goodness in it, then you are almost there now.
[SPEAKER_00]: The moment you start arguing, and we are especially, unfortunately, in this day and age, everything is why I'm not convinced why me show me.
[SPEAKER_00]: The only word I take these days is why me, I turn and add the letter to it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Why not me or woman or Razza?
[SPEAKER_00]: Why you and me living in this comfort now, and they are bombs on their head?
[SPEAKER_00]: And they are the real Muslim.
[SPEAKER_00]: Mu minat.
[SPEAKER_00]: And you say, what is the difference, huge, huge, not I'm not talking about the six pillars of Eman.
[SPEAKER_00]: Of course, otherwise I'm not.
[SPEAKER_00]: You really believe, you really believe, with not a single doubt that he already have decreed, you are sitting here because he had decreed it upon you.
[SPEAKER_00]: You believe, you're king.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's what we are seeing in the woman over as a.
[SPEAKER_00]: When I look at them, I see the real faith.
[SPEAKER_00]: their real faith because their real faith comes in the first time when you're hit in the first time or something happens to you, not later on.
[SPEAKER_00]: Your immediatory action tells you who you are with Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: If you say, Ad-d-d-r-allahu nasha'a fa'an, Allah decree and whatever Allah decree will happen, you're a believer.
[SPEAKER_00]: If I have to remind you, you're a believer, but you're a second, not a first.
[SPEAKER_00]: Muslim, Latin, what mean Latin?
[SPEAKER_00]: So I submit to Allah, I believe in Him, then I am fully obedient.
[SPEAKER_00]: And pay attention, he didn't say or.
[SPEAKER_00]: He didn't say or.
[SPEAKER_00]: When he talked about virgin versus not, he said or.
[SPEAKER_00]: But this one is not or.
[SPEAKER_00]: This is all the criteria.
[SPEAKER_00]: You cannot pick and choose.
[SPEAKER_00]: Today, I'm a Muslim, because I'm in the Masjid.
[SPEAKER_00]: Tomorrow I am not, because I'm going to college or I am at work.
[SPEAKER_00]: My husband got me upset, I'm not a Muslim.
[SPEAKER_00]: While he gave me a gift and now I'm a Muslim, it doesn't work this way.
[SPEAKER_00]: 24 hours, Muslim, I mean, I think I need to learn to be obedient to Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is so hard for us, especially women,
[SPEAKER_00]: We by nature, and I am not feminist or against feminist.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm feminist where it comes, what it pleases a law.
[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm against feminist, if it doesn't please a law.
[SPEAKER_00]: For by nature, we are rebellion.
[SPEAKER_00]: Actually, scholars say, this is one of the reasons that hadith, Allah have said it, about the intimate relationship.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because women by nature, like a woman by nature, are givers.
[SPEAKER_00]: by nature you get up at 3 a.m. and the baby is crying and the husband doesn't.
[SPEAKER_00]: Not because you are better.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's how we put in you.
[SPEAKER_00]: And by nature we are rebellion.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's why the cognitat were more in the Qur'an about human than men.
[SPEAKER_00]: The only men was described on it was he.
[SPEAKER_00]: Sayyidina ibarahim,
[SPEAKER_00]: You know, when you say about somebody on it, you're at 4 a.m. in the morning, in your corner facing Allah's pantara, sobbing and crying, standing up, praying for the people of Allah's praying for your children, but praying for your relationship with Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Ya Allah love me.
[SPEAKER_00]: Ya Allah make me the one that you look at her and says, what a
[SPEAKER_00]: doesn't matter your wife, doesn't matter your daughter, doesn't matter your professional, doesn't matter your single, doesn't matter your daughter, you don't have children, it doesn't matter.
[SPEAKER_00]: He didn't say anything about children, do you see the verse?
[SPEAKER_00]: Nothing about husband.
[SPEAKER_00]: Nothing about career.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's all about you and him.
[SPEAKER_00]: Taibati in how many of you did not wake up for Fajr or Mr. Sada and sobbed and cried and says, Ya Allah, please forgive me.
[SPEAKER_00]: Verse says, okay, we are all in the Sada.
[SPEAKER_00]: And then when you sin and turn to Allah, show me the better.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's by Sayyia Al-Hassana, Dhamma-Hawah.
[SPEAKER_00]: Follow sins by good deeds, then the sins will be raised.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's Haditha, for us who are they sought, O sayah, O call of the NAS, we hold in Hassan, and treat people with good manners.
[SPEAKER_00]: And then, Sayah, I had him.
[SPEAKER_00]: So interesting, Haditha, when you read it, there is a long, but definite.
[SPEAKER_00]: Sayah, I had him.
[SPEAKER_00]: Many sayah, I had him.
[SPEAKER_00]: In the Arabic language, those of you who know Arabic, you think it's the traveler.
[SPEAKER_00]: Right?
[SPEAKER_00]: See, aha is your travel.
[SPEAKER_00]: But who is she?
[SPEAKER_00]: The woman who's in constant state of fasting.
[SPEAKER_00]: Fasting.
[SPEAKER_00]: And you really need to take a break and look and back and says, why did he say say I had?
[SPEAKER_00]: And he why didn't he say something else?
[SPEAKER_00]: Why didn't he say do I hate job?
[SPEAKER_00]: Why didn't he say Mu'atemi'ara?
[SPEAKER_00]: Why sad you had?
[SPEAKER_00]: She's in constant state of fasting.
[SPEAKER_00]: Why?
[SPEAKER_00]: How much you know your Qur'an ladies?
[SPEAKER_00]: Huh?
[SPEAKER_00]: It's not only stay away from since fasting control you.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's the only reminder that control you the next.
[SPEAKER_00]: You want this coffee, you want that tea, you want that water, you want that lunch, you want to go with your friends, no, I'm fasting, and especially when it is not from alone, when you're the only one and no one knows, that's the servant of Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: If you put 10 in each one of this, either one I just shared with you, what's your score or will be?
[SPEAKER_00]: What's your score or will be?
[SPEAKER_00]: If you are a real Muslim, a real Moumina, a real Anita, taiba, aabida, saaha, you will be the best wife.
[SPEAKER_00]: You will be the best mother, and you will be the best one in your profession, and you will be the best daughter.
[SPEAKER_00]: The problem is our relationship with Allah needs a lot of work, a lot of work, and we think we are fine.
[SPEAKER_00]: So let's change.
[SPEAKER_00]: Let's put the goal, put the goal that I really want to be the servant of Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: If you say the Aishah and say the Hafsah, Allah said there is better than you.
[SPEAKER_00]: I have a long work.
[SPEAKER_00]: But let's start.
[SPEAKER_00]: Let him see the truthfulness in you, each one of you, young before the not very young.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because the earlier you change, the life is much easier.
[SPEAKER_00]: And the struggle is much easier.
[SPEAKER_00]: Start the process today before tomorrow.
[SPEAKER_00]: Why did Allah make me or He is making you and me see this constant, non-stop, reals and videos and shorts about Gaza.
[SPEAKER_00]: Why?
[SPEAKER_00]: So, I say, Allah, I'm sad and I cry.
[SPEAKER_00]: Really?
[SPEAKER_00]: That's it?
[SPEAKER_00]: What does He want from me?
[SPEAKER_00]: change, exactly, change, change, start, step by step, one by one, you'll change your children change.
[SPEAKER_00]: Lead by example, walk the talk as we always see.
[SPEAKER_00]: So, as al-Rabbu, and I always say, you're Allah making you from among those.
[SPEAKER_00]: It was a question, umusselama, most probably, asked al-Rasuali, is al-Ati wa-Sanah, said, you're al-Raswa Allah, everything in the Quran is for the woman, for the men, what am I gonna, where are we gonna get?
[SPEAKER_00]: She's not feminist.
[SPEAKER_00]: She is a woman focused on her ahyura.
[SPEAKER_00]: She didn't say how much do you pay them?
[SPEAKER_00]: That's much and you don't pay me.
[SPEAKER_00]: She said, all the rewards in their Quran is for the man.
[SPEAKER_00]: What about us, Allah revealed this verse?
[SPEAKER_00]: And it's exactly almost the same sequence a little bit more detail.
[SPEAKER_00]: So be the Muslim, the one who submit to Allah, day and night.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's what you want, I'll do it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Show me, I'm doing it.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't care.
[SPEAKER_00]: I like it.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't care.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't like it.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't care.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everybody does it.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't care.
[SPEAKER_00]: Nobody does it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Muslim, more or less, faith, your team, the woman over aza.
[SPEAKER_00]: that you know Allah will never let you down.
[SPEAKER_00]: That you know whatever comes to you, it's clear.
[SPEAKER_00]: Even if I'm not seeing it, that faith in you.
[SPEAKER_00]: That faith in you.
[SPEAKER_00]: For everybody is making you scared.
[SPEAKER_00]: Let's not let them in the name of Allah or let them in the name of Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: How do you understand Allah when you are in the name of Allah?
[SPEAKER_00]: Don't be afraid from people, you are a believer.
[SPEAKER_00]: You're connected with the one who's strong, you're strong.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's the believer.
[SPEAKER_00]: Not the believer who comes here, where he does.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's a praise, I believe, and nothing changed.
[SPEAKER_00]: Hamdulillah, I'm not belittling this.
[SPEAKER_00]: No, all are.
[SPEAKER_00]: But there is way more.
[SPEAKER_00]: Way more, and we need to work on it before it is too late.
[SPEAKER_00]: Al Arab-Birjoun, La'alli-A'am al-O-Salihan, Pima-Tarakth, Kalli-A.
[SPEAKER_00]: in the hakelimatin who are awa illuha.
[SPEAKER_00]: Wa min wa ra'a yimbar zahun ina yumiyu baatum.
[SPEAKER_00]: Before a day, wa na'a gonna tell Allah, yallallahu apli sani'i bhaqq.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm gonna do good.
[SPEAKER_00]: And he was saying, no, no, it's a word from the tip of the tongue.
[SPEAKER_00]: And you're not going to go back.
[SPEAKER_00]: You're going to stay in the bazaar.
[SPEAKER_00]: Let's all make today a day of change.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah Spantala make everything that the woman of Gaza going through is a reason.
[SPEAKER_00]: We become real Muslims.
[SPEAKER_00]: We become real Muslims that Allah is proud of us, that the woman of us who lost all her family, when they tell her the woman, when they saw their video, they are all closer to Allah.
[SPEAKER_00]: What do you think she'll say?
[SPEAKER_00]: So let's be the tool for the change and the one that we start the change.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah Spantala respond to all our dua.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah Spantala make us better.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah Spantala make the path for getting better easy.
[SPEAKER_00]: May Allah lift to all this.
[SPEAKER_00]: as trocity and suffering that we are seeing and may Allah make us all keys, keys for God, and keys for general.