[SPEAKER_00]: Welcome back to another episode of the Girl's Stop Plan podcast.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's your favorite home girl choreo.
[SPEAKER_00]: Here to encourage you to stop playing with your potential and start working for what you want in life and in love.
[SPEAKER_00]: You already know that I'm bringing you the information and the conversations to help you make the money and get the money.
[SPEAKER_00]: You can have it all as long as you are willing to work.
[SPEAKER_00]: And if you are not keeping up with your girl on the gram, then you probably didn't know that I have been doing my big one over on YouTube.
[SPEAKER_00]: I challenge myself to get back in the game, and I have completely dropped the ball when it comes to building up my channel on YouTube.
[SPEAKER_00]: So every day for the month of December,
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm uploading new content to my channel, specifically centered around motherhood, mindset, and money.
[SPEAKER_00]: So if those topics of conversation are of interest to you, definitely make sure you subscribe at courier and share the channel with a friend.
[SPEAKER_00]: Me posting consistently on YouTube is one of the things that has been on my imaginary to do list for some time, but I decided
[SPEAKER_00]: to get serious about it and really put in consistent effort so that I can start seeing consistent growth and consistent results.
[SPEAKER_00]: And this is just one of a few small daily tasks or goals that I've given myself because I realize instead of me thinking that I can wake up and be a totally different person tomorrow, it really takes
[SPEAKER_00]: strategic, actionable steps, consistently, like on a daily basis, small consistent changes on a daily basis will help get me closer to my goal.
[SPEAKER_00]: So if you're like me and you are not trying to wait until the new year to become a newer version of yourself, then hopefully this episode will be an inspiration for you to start getting serious about what you see for yourself
[SPEAKER_00]: season in this new season.
[SPEAKER_00]: So that we can make our next move, our best move.
[SPEAKER_00]: So y'all know, and this is not saying like a random segue, but y'all know everybody on the streets is talking about the Ditty documentary that 50 cent produced.
[SPEAKER_00]: Well, a big part of the conversation or a part of the conversation, maybe not a big part, but is what Ditty had to do with Tupac's death.
[SPEAKER_00]: And when I went down this Tupac rabbit hole, I saw this post that said,
[SPEAKER_00]: The impact that Tupac has on us right now in 2025 was all coming from a five-year career, like all that, not all that we know of Tupac, but the impact that he made on the music industry and on really just the black community as a whole was five years worth of work.
[SPEAKER_00]: And that just blew my mind to think that we are literally still, he died when I was in sixth grade, okay, in 1996.
[SPEAKER_00]: For us to still be talking about him and he's so relevant, he's still recognizable.
[SPEAKER_00]: All of these years later, that is already amazing.
[SPEAKER_00]: But to think about the fact that his career was only five years and he literally passed away when he was 25 years old is just mind-boggling that he could do so much, produce so much, make such an impact in just five years that he literally established a unforgettable legacy.
[SPEAKER_00]: And then I started thinking about my last five years, just like focusing in on this number five.
[SPEAKER_00]: I literally have birthed three children in five years.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like that is crazy to think that in 2020.
[SPEAKER_00]: Pre-COVID Me was kid-free.
[SPEAKER_00]: And just five years later, I have three children.
[SPEAKER_00]: One of which is obviously about to turn five years old.
[SPEAKER_00]: And if I could create three lives in five years, what could I possibly do for my life in the next five years?
[SPEAKER_00]: Like if I'm just focusing on my life, my dreams, my goals, my impact, my priorities over these next five years,
[SPEAKER_00]: What do I want that to look like?
[SPEAKER_00]: So I got out my little post-it-no, and I wrote down a couple questions, and I want to share those questions with you.
[SPEAKER_00]: It was a helpful exercise for me.
[SPEAKER_00]: It helped me to put some things in perspective and helped me to really realize where my focus needed to be.
[SPEAKER_00]: How I could keep my attention on my intention, which is this end goal in five years.
[SPEAKER_00]: So the first thing that I want you to just think about is
[SPEAKER_00]: What year will it be five years from now?
[SPEAKER_00]: So if you're listening to this in 2025, it's gonna be 2030.
[SPEAKER_00]: If you're listening to this in 2026, it's gonna be 2031.
[SPEAKER_00]: But just right down the year, that it will be five years from now.
[SPEAKER_00]: Then right down your age, how old will you be five years from now?
[SPEAKER_00]: So I just celebrated my 40th birthday, five years from now, I'm gonna be celebrating my 45th birthday, which brings me to my next question.
[SPEAKER_00]: As I am celebrating my 45th birthday, what are some things that I want to be thinking God for?
[SPEAKER_00]: What are some things that I want to be celebrating myself for?
[SPEAKER_00]: What are some things that I want to be proud that I've been able to accomplish on my 45th birthday?
[SPEAKER_00]: So whatever age you are five years from now, what do you want to be celebrating?
[SPEAKER_00]: What accomplishments do you want to be most proud of?
[SPEAKER_00]: on your birthday, five years from now.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like you are gonna be so grateful, you're gonna be thinking God for blessing you, for guiding you, for assisting you in aligning with this, this, and this.
[SPEAKER_00]: What are those three things that you wanna be so grateful for?
[SPEAKER_00]: And then we can reverse engineer that thing.
[SPEAKER_00]: You can look at those five year goals.
[SPEAKER_00]: and start to figure out if this is what I want to have accomplished five years from now, what actions do I need to start taking today?
[SPEAKER_00]: What steps do I need to start putting in place today?
[SPEAKER_00]: What strategies do I need to start implementing to support the version that I see of myself five years from now?
[SPEAKER_00]: So if she is going to be debt-free,
[SPEAKER_00]: What type of decisions do I need to start making today?
[SPEAKER_00]: On a daily basis to get to that debt-free version of myself.
[SPEAKER_00]: If she is going to be a successful business owner, five years from now, what decisions do I need to start making today that will support?
[SPEAKER_00]: me becoming a successful business owner and you can define success however you want, whether you want to be world renowned, you want to be award-winning, you want to have x amount of money in the bank, whatever type of success you want to experience five years from now.
[SPEAKER_00]: What type of strategies do we need to start implementing?
[SPEAKER_00]: What type of habits do we need to start adopting that will get us closer to that goal five years from now because you can't wake up
[SPEAKER_00]: four years from now and decide who you want to, I mean you can, let me not say you can't, but it'll be a much higher mountain to climb, a much harder battle to fight, if you wait four years and decide how you want to get to life together in the next year.
[SPEAKER_00]: Let's start now working with five years in mind at the end of five years, knowing what we know about two
[SPEAKER_00]: And the fact that he was able to create this amazing legacy for himself.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everyone still recognizes his names in rooms.
[SPEAKER_00]: However many years later, what is it?
[SPEAKER_00]: 29 years later, if my math is correct.
[SPEAKER_00]: Almost 30 years later, his name is still recognizable.
[SPEAKER_00]: His music is still being played.
[SPEAKER_00]: His songs are still being used in TikTok challenges.
[SPEAKER_00]: 30 years later, these new kids were not even alive yet.
[SPEAKER_00]: and their familiar with who Tupac is and what his legacy is.
[SPEAKER_00]: And he literally did that thing in five years.
[SPEAKER_00]: So if we just looked at the impact that he was able to make in five years, imagine what you can do in the next five.
[SPEAKER_00]: And so I decided to take a just a step further and I went to chat you could see me and chat go to go to RealBad.
[SPEAKER_00]: And I said, let's chat, that's what I call my chat.
[SPEAKER_00]: I said, let's chat, what are 21 questions because 50 cent popped in my head since I was all on this ditty documentary, rabbit hole, anyway.
[SPEAKER_00]: I said, what are 21 questions that I can ask myself that will get me closer to becoming financially free to get me closer to having my most prosperous year yet in 2026?
[SPEAKER_00]: What are 21 questions that I can ask for myself?
[SPEAKER_00]: So I made this list, well, chat made the list, and then I copied it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Of 21 questions to ask yourself, to get you closer to your best year yet.
[SPEAKER_00]: So if you want that list along with a free calendar, gold tracker calendar that I created, I'm gonna link those resources down below.
[SPEAKER_00]: I am very much a tactile,
[SPEAKER_00]: person like putting pin to paper helps my brain manifest.
[SPEAKER_00]: It helps me to remember.
[SPEAKER_00]: It helps me to get clarity.
[SPEAKER_00]: So I like to always have like printouts and lists and papers and pins and notebooks and journals and all of the things.
[SPEAKER_00]: So what I'm creating these resources for myself, I figure why not share them with y'all as well.
[SPEAKER_00]: So if you want that, check the link down below.
[SPEAKER_00]: If you are a mama and you're interested in all things, mindset, motherhood, and how mama can make some money, make sure you hit subscribe and join me on YouTube.
[SPEAKER_00]: You can also get caught up with all of the content that I have uploaded each day, so far this month.
[SPEAKER_00]: And I am building up my LTK.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's another one of my goals for December.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's a finally, get on the platform.
[SPEAKER_00]: So I did that.
[SPEAKER_00]: I have 20.
[SPEAKER_00]: Followers on my LTK now and I've sold almost $500 worth of stuff.
[SPEAKER_00]: So come Hala etch a girl I am uploading all of my favorite things all of my mommy must have if you are a pregnant mama a postpartum mama a Geriatric mama like me then definitely make sure you check out my LTK so that you can Get linked in with all of my favorite things.
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