[SPEAKER_00]: Your mind has the ability to transform any situation, but no one really taught you how to use it properly.
[SPEAKER_00]: Most of us live letting it make decisions for us.
[SPEAKER_00]: It reacts, interprets, judges, and we simply follow its conclusions without questioning anything.
[SPEAKER_00]: However, those conclusions are not always true.
[SPEAKER_00]: In fact, many times they are precisely what keep us trapped.
[SPEAKER_00]: because it's not what happens to you that defines your life, but what you do with what happens to you, and that is determined internally in your mind in how you interpret what happens, where you place your attention, and what you choose to believe about yourself and what is possible for you.
[SPEAKER_00]: But today, you're going to learn to think in a different way, a way of thinking that doesn't require everything to be perfect in order to work, a way of seeing life that gives you back your power, even when things get difficult.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because when you transform your way of thinking it not only changes how you feel, it also changes what you do, and what you do determines everything else.
[SPEAKER_00]: You don't have to wait for everything to be solved in order to begin feeling in control.
[SPEAKER_00]: Control appears when you transform your thinking, and you can start directing your thoughts today, with these 10 thoughts I am going to share with you.
[SPEAKER_00]: And before we begin, I want to invite you to take a first step, scroll down to the comments and write this sentence.
[SPEAKER_00]: My mind is my most powerful tool.
[SPEAKER_00]: Writing it is a way of telling yourself that you are ready to lead your mind instead of allowing it to guide you aimlessly.
[SPEAKER_00]: All mental training begins with a conscious choice, and this is yours.
[SPEAKER_00]: Now let's move on to the first lesson.
[SPEAKER_00]: Lesson 1.
[SPEAKER_00]: Stop looking for someone to blame and take control of your mind.
[SPEAKER_00]: There's something we all do when things don't go as we expected.
[SPEAKER_00]: We look for someone to blame.
[SPEAKER_00]: And it makes sense because blaming the external gives us temporary relief.
[SPEAKER_00]: It takes off weight.
[SPEAKER_00]: It makes us feel that it does not depend on us.
[SPEAKER_00]: If the blame is outside, then there's nothing we can do.
[SPEAKER_00]: But that same logic that comms us at first is the one that ends up imprisoning us.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because as long as you continue believing that your internal state depends on what happens outside,
[SPEAKER_00]: what happens externally, only triggers an interpretation inside you, and that interpretation was built by you.
[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe not consciously, but through years of repetition of experiences you didn't process well, of quick conclusions you never reviewed again.
[SPEAKER_00]: Taking control of your mind doesn't mean ignoring external reality.
[SPEAKER_00]: It means recognizing that between what happens and how you feel, there is a space.
[SPEAKER_00]: A space where your interpretation lives.
[SPEAKER_00]: And that is where all your power resides.
[SPEAKER_00]: You can continue blaming circumstances and wait for them to change so you can feel better.
[SPEAKER_00]: or you can begin examining the way you are interpreting those circumstances.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because two people can go through exactly the same situation and come out of it in completely different ways.
[SPEAKER_00]: Not because the facts are different, but because they're thinking and they're interpretation of what they lived are different.
[SPEAKER_00]: Taking responsibility for your mind is not easy.
[SPEAKER_00]: it means stopping seeing yourself as a victim and starting to see yourself as a creator and internal architect.
[SPEAKER_00]: And that is exactly where true freedom begins.
[SPEAKER_00]: When you stop waiting for the world to adjust to you and instead begin building a mind capable of supporting you in any scenario.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything begins to align when you stop giving your power away to the external.
[SPEAKER_00]: When you understand that your peace, your clarity, and your strength do not come from everything around you being perfect, but from you being in order on the inside.
[SPEAKER_00]: And before we continue, if you feel these words are giving you value, I invite you to subscribe to the channel and leave your like.
[SPEAKER_00]: Lesson 2
[SPEAKER_00]: Why does your mind sabotage you right before you take an important step?
[SPEAKER_00]: Why does that inner voice appear telling you that you're not ready?
[SPEAKER_00]: That it's too complicated?
[SPEAKER_00]: That it would be better to wait a little longer?
[SPEAKER_00]: It's not because that's true.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's because your mind is designed to protect you from any risk.
[SPEAKER_00]: and according to its most primitive logic any change represents a threat.
[SPEAKER_00]: That voice is not intuition.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is fear disguised as common sense.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is the part of you that prefers familiar comfort over facing a new possibility, no matter how promising it is.
[SPEAKER_00]: And the most dangerous part is that it speaks using your own voice, your own thoughts, arguments that sound completely reasonable.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's why you fall into believing it.
[SPEAKER_00]: But stop for a moment.
[SPEAKER_00]: How many times has that voice assured you that you couldn't?
[SPEAKER_00]: And in the end, you did.
[SPEAKER_00]: How many times did fear convince you that something was impossible?
[SPEAKER_00]: Until life forced you to do it and you discovered you were capable?
[SPEAKER_00]: Your mind does not predict the future, it simply repeats what it knows from the past.
[SPEAKER_00]: When it tells you you can't, what it's really saying is, you've never done this before, I don't have a previous map, I would have to work harder to find a solution.
[SPEAKER_00]: and because your brain always seeks to save energy, it fabricates imaginary limits to avoid working more.
[SPEAKER_00]: The truth is that you have no idea what you can achieve until you try, and not even after your first try, do you truly know?
[SPEAKER_00]: Because that first step only shows you where you are starting from, not how far you are capable of going.
[SPEAKER_00]: Every time you act even though you're afraid, you're reprogramming your mind, you're proving to it that risk does not always end in failure.
[SPEAKER_00]: There is a huge difference between recognizing a true limit and believing an invented one.
[SPEAKER_00]: A real limit is objective.
[SPEAKER_00]: You cannot fly on your own.
[SPEAKER_00]: You cannot be in two places at once.
[SPEAKER_00]: But most of the limits you impose on yourself are not like that.
[SPEAKER_00]: They are emotional.
[SPEAKER_00]: They are fears converted into absolute truths.
[SPEAKER_00]: Your mind deceives you because it believes it is keeping you safe.
[SPEAKER_00]: but the safety it offers is an illusion, the safety of staying in the same place, of not growing, of not discovering your potential.
[SPEAKER_00]: That is not protection, it is confinement.
[SPEAKER_00]: And everything starts to work better when you stop believing that voice automatically.
[SPEAKER_00]: When you learn to listen to it, identify it, and then ask yourself, is this I'm thinking a fact, or just a fear generated opinion,
[SPEAKER_00]: you regain the ability to choose.
[SPEAKER_00]: Us and three choose to see problems as information, not punishment.
[SPEAKER_00]: There is a way of observing problems that turns them into enemies, and another way of looking at them that turns them into teachers.
[SPEAKER_00]: The difference between one perspective and the other is not in the problem itself, but in you.
[SPEAKER_00]: When something doesn't go as expected, your mind can take two paths.
[SPEAKER_00]: It can interpret the situation as proof that nothing works, that you are not capable, that life is hard and unfair, or it can understand it as information, as data that points to what needs to be adjusted.
[SPEAKER_00]: The first way of seeing things blocks you.
[SPEAKER_00]: It makes you feel like every mistake confirms your incapacity.
[SPEAKER_00]: It drags you toward resignation, toward the idea that nothing is worth it because everything turns out wrong.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is a type of thinking that feeds on itself.
[SPEAKER_00]: Each difficulty reinforces the belief that problems aren't inevitable part of your destiny.
[SPEAKER_00]: The second perspective, however, moves you, pushes you.
[SPEAKER_00]: It makes you ask, what can I learn from this?
[SPEAKER_00]: What part of my strategy needs to change?
[SPEAKER_00]: What am I not considering?
[SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't eliminate the pain that comes with failure, but it gives it direction.
[SPEAKER_00]: It gives it purpose.
[SPEAKER_00]: Seeing problems as information means understanding that life is not conspiring against you, it is simply happening.
[SPEAKER_00]: And in that neutrality, each challenge becomes a signal, a guide that shows you in which area you need to grow, which skill needs strengthening, which belief must be abandoned,
[SPEAKER_00]: not everything is a sign that you are doing something wrong.
[SPEAKER_00]: Sometimes it is just friction.
[SPEAKER_00]: The natural friction that arises when you are trying something new, when you step out of the familiar, when you dare to create something different.
[SPEAKER_00]: When you decide to see problems as information, the fear of them begins to dissolve.
[SPEAKER_00]: Not because they disappear, but because you finally understand their function.
[SPEAKER_00]: and an indicator is not something you fight against.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is something you read, interpret, and use to correct your direction.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything begins to improve when you stop asking, why is this happening to me, and start asking, what is this teaching me?
[SPEAKER_00]: Because in the moment you ask that question, everything changes.
[SPEAKER_00]: You stop feeling like a victim and become a learner, and whoever is willing to learn always moves forward.
[SPEAKER_00]: Listen for, direct your attention toward what you can change, not toward what you lack.
[SPEAKER_00]: Your mental energy is limited.
[SPEAKER_00]: You cannot think about everything at the same time, nor solve every problem at once.
[SPEAKER_00]: Even so, you often spend that valuable energy obsessing over what you don't have, what went wrong, or what is outside your control.
[SPEAKER_00]: focusing on what you lack is like trying to fill a bucket with a hole in the bottom.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's never enough, something always seems to be missing.
[SPEAKER_00]: And the more you stare at what isn't there, the less you can recognize what is.
[SPEAKER_00]: But it is precisely in what is that your ability to act lives.
[SPEAKER_00]: Every minute you spend lamenting what you cannot control is a minute you stop using to transform what is in your hands.
[SPEAKER_00]: acknowledge what is, yes, but then ask yourself, what can I do with this?
[SPEAKER_00]: This is not naive optimism, it is pure pragmatism.
[SPEAKER_00]: If you have a problem and there is an action you can take, take it.
[SPEAKER_00]: If there is absolutely nothing you can do, then your only option is to change your relationship with the problem.
[SPEAKER_00]: But in both cases your power lies in the action that is possible, not in endless complaining.
[SPEAKER_00]: when you choose to focus your mind on what you can modify, something shifts inside you.
[SPEAKER_00]: Helplessness dissolves because there is always a margin of action.
[SPEAKER_00]: A decision you can make, a habit you can adjust, a different way to look at the situation.
[SPEAKER_00]: That step may not be the entire solution, but it is progress, and a single step is enough to get you out of paralysis.
[SPEAKER_00]: the difference between those who progress and those who stay stuck does not have to do with circumstances, but with the direction of their attention.
[SPEAKER_00]: People who stay stagnant focus on what they lack, what they lost, what others have.
[SPEAKER_00]: those who advance focus on what is available, and they use it.
[SPEAKER_00]: You don't need everything resolved to start.
[SPEAKER_00]: You don't need perfect conditions to decide.
[SPEAKER_00]: You only need clarity on the next possible step, and that clarity comes only when you stop scattering your attention on what doesn't matter.
[SPEAKER_00]: Your attention is your most valuable resource.
[SPEAKER_00]: more valuable than time, more valuable than money, because your attention defines which thoughts you feed, which emotions you strengthen, which actions you prioritize, where you direct your attention, you direct your energy, and where you send your energy your results follow.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything begins to align when you stop wasting your attention on battles you cannot win.
[SPEAKER_00]: When you learn to focus your gaze on the only territory where you have real power, what you do today, what you decide now, what you build with what you have.
[SPEAKER_00]: Lesson 5 Think from gratitude, not from scarcity.
[SPEAKER_00]: There is an invisible line that divides two completely different ways of living life.
[SPEAKER_00]: On one side is the mindset of scarcity.
[SPEAKER_00]: and that line is drawn with a simple but deeply transformative decision, from where you choose to look.
[SPEAKER_00]: Thinking from scarcity is to exist in a constant state of vigilance.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is waking up every day asking yourself what you lack.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is evaluating your days by what you did not accomplish.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is comparing your path to others and feeling you are always one step behind.
[SPEAKER_00]: This type of thinking not only steals your peace,
[SPEAKER_00]: It makes you blind to what is already in your hands.
[SPEAKER_00]: It makes you unable to see what is available.
[SPEAKER_00]: Thinking from gratitude on the other hand is something completely different.
[SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't mean ignoring problems or pretending everything is fine when it isn't.
[SPEAKER_00]: It means acknowledging what works before obsessing over what doesn't.
[SPEAKER_00]: It means noticing what you already have before focusing on what's missing.
[SPEAKER_00]: because your mind cannot hold to opposing emotional states at the same time.
[SPEAKER_00]: You cannot feel genuine gratitude and be immersed in despair at the same time.
[SPEAKER_00]: You cannot recognize the good in your life and simultaneously feel that everything is lost.
[SPEAKER_00]: Gratitude does not eliminate challenges, but it transforms the emotional climate from which you face them.
[SPEAKER_00]: And that climate matters more than you imagine.
[SPEAKER_00]: When you think from scarcity, every difficulty feels like a threat to your existence.
[SPEAKER_00]: Every mistake seems to confirm your inadequacy.
[SPEAKER_00]: Every obstacle is interpreted as proof that life is unfair to you.
[SPEAKER_00]: But when you think from gratitude, problems are still problems.
[SPEAKER_00]: They just don't define you.
[SPEAKER_00]: because you know that even in the middle of a storm, there are aspects of your life that are still working.
[SPEAKER_00]: This way of thinking expands, it affects how you relate to others.
[SPEAKER_00]: If you operate from scarcity, you will see competition where cooperation could exist.
[SPEAKER_00]: You will see danger where allies could appear.
[SPEAKER_00]: But if you think from abundance, you become more generous.
[SPEAKER_00]: Not only with your resources, but with your time,
[SPEAKER_00]: Because someone who feels they have enough does not fear sharing, it also influences how you make decisions.
[SPEAKER_00]: Scaresity pushes you to decide from fear.
[SPEAKER_00]: It makes you cling to whatever little you have, to accumulate, to protect excessively.
[SPEAKER_00]: It paralyzes you in front of any opportunity that involves risk.
[SPEAKER_00]: Grattitude on the other hand brings clarity.
[SPEAKER_00]: It allows you to release what no longer serves you
[SPEAKER_00]: It gives you the courage to try something new, because you do not act from desperation but from internal stability.
[SPEAKER_00]: And the most powerful part, gratitude trains your brain to find more reasons to be grateful.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is a muscle that strengthens every time you use it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Each time you acknowledge something positive, your mind becomes more skilled at noticing the good.
[SPEAKER_00]: Not because reality magically changes, but because you change the way you filter it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything begins to improve when you understand that abundance is not an external condition you must reach, but an internal perspective you can choose.
[SPEAKER_00]: You may have very little and still think from abundance, and you may have a lot and still think from scarcity.
[SPEAKER_00]: The difference is not in what you own, but in how you look at it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Lesson 6.
[SPEAKER_00]: There is a paradox many people don't know how to integrate.
[SPEAKER_00]: On one hand, you need to accept that you don't have absolute control over everything, that life follows its own course, that there are forces larger than your plans and will.
[SPEAKER_00]: But at the same time, you must recognize that you always have power, that you're never completely without options, that something, even if small, is always in your hands.
[SPEAKER_00]: These two truths seem to contradict each other, but in reality, they complement one another.
[SPEAKER_00]: understanding them together is what truly frees you, because when you try to control what is beyond your reach you exhaust yourself, and when you deny the control you actually have, you resign yourself.
[SPEAKER_00]: Both extremes weaken you.
[SPEAKER_00]: You cannot influence how others act, you cannot decide the weather, the economy, the traffic.
[SPEAKER_00]: You cannot control many of the things that directly affect you, resisting that reality will only increase your suffering.
[SPEAKER_00]: Every time you hold onto the idea that something should be different, you are fighting against what is, and that is a losing battle from the start.
[SPEAKER_00]: but within that broad territory that does not depend on you, there is a space that always belongs to you.
[SPEAKER_00]: Your response, the way you interpret events, the attitude with which you decide to face them, the decisions you make afterward, that is exclusively yours.
[SPEAKER_00]: No one can take that from you.
[SPEAKER_00]: Not even the hardest circumstances can steal your ability to choose how you will stand in front of what happens.
[SPEAKER_00]: This paradox resolves many internal battles.
[SPEAKER_00]: You no longer need to control every detail to feel safe, because you begin to understand that your safety does not come from managing the external world, but from trusting your ability to respond to whatever appears.
[SPEAKER_00]: That confidence strengthens each time you choose your response instead of reacting impulsively.
[SPEAKER_00]: It also helps you distinguish between what is urgent and what is important.
[SPEAKER_00]: The urgent is usually external.
[SPEAKER_00]: What happened?
[SPEAKER_00]: What someone said?
[SPEAKER_00]: What suddenly changed?
[SPEAKER_00]: how you process it, what you choose to do, what lesson you take from it, and when you begin investing your energy in the important, your entire life begins to transform.
[SPEAKER_00]: Accepting what you cannot control is not giving up.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is being realistic.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is recognizing the limits of your power without turning those limits into excuses to remain still,
[SPEAKER_00]: It is understanding that you always have a choice, even if that choice is simply, you're attitude.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything begins to align when you stop fighting impossible battles and begin conquering the ones that truly matter.
[SPEAKER_00]: The internal battles, the ones that happen inside you.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because that is exactly where your power has always lived.
[SPEAKER_00]: You just needed to remember it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Lesson 7.
[SPEAKER_00]: Stop resisting the inevitable and learn to flow with reality.
[SPEAKER_00]: Resistance is one of the most silent and deceptive forms of suffering.
[SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't hurt like a physical wound.
[SPEAKER_00]: It hurts differently, as an intertension that never dissipates, as a weight you carry without realizing you are the one holding it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Resisting what has already happened is trying to change the past using only your refusal.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is telling yourself, this shouldn't have happened when it already did.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is replaying over and over in your mind how everything should have been different.
[SPEAKER_00]: And every time you do that, you are living in an alternate version of reality that doesn't exist.
[SPEAKER_00]: You are wasting energy trying to rewrite something that is already written.
[SPEAKER_00]: But resistance goes even deeper.
[SPEAKER_00]: You don't only resist the past, you resist the present.
[SPEAKER_00]: What's happening now?
[SPEAKER_00]: You resist the way someone acted, or how a situation unfolded.
[SPEAKER_00]: You resist a loss, an unexpected change.
[SPEAKER_00]: And that resistance immobilizes you because you're trying to push against something that will not move.
[SPEAKER_00]: Reality does not negotiate.
[SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't care what you believe you deserve.
[SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't change its course because you expected something different.
[SPEAKER_00]: It simply is.
[SPEAKER_00]: And as long as you keep fighting against that neutrality, you will keep exhausting yourself unnecessarily.
[SPEAKER_00]: Flawing with reality is not giving up.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is abandoning the useless fight so you can focus on the action that actually works.
[SPEAKER_00]: There is a huge difference between accepting what is and resigning yourself to stay there.
[SPEAKER_00]: Accepting means recognizing your real starting point.
[SPEAKER_00]: Resigning means assuming that starting point is also your final destination.
[SPEAKER_00]: And here is the deeper understanding.
[SPEAKER_00]: When you stop resisting, all the energy you use to waste becomes free.
[SPEAKER_00]: And that energy can move toward constructive things, toward what actually can be transformed, because not everything is fixed or impossible to change.
[SPEAKER_00]: There are many things that can shift, but only if you stop pouring your strength into what cannot.
[SPEAKER_00]: Floating is not passivity.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is intelligence.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is behaving like water,
[SPEAKER_00]: water doesn't lose.
[SPEAKER_00]: It simply finds another path.
[SPEAKER_00]: And over time, that very water that flows can shape the rock, not through violent force, but with flexible persistence.
[SPEAKER_00]: Thinking this way reduces your anxiety, because a large part of anxiety comes from the gap between what is and what you believe should be.
[SPEAKER_00]: The larger that gap, the greater the suffering.
[SPEAKER_00]: But when you close that gap by accepting what is, your desire to change something doesn't disappear.
[SPEAKER_00]: What disappears is the unnecessary suffering that prevented you from acting clearly.
[SPEAKER_00]: It also makes you more adaptable.
[SPEAKER_00]: rigid people break when the unexpected hits, people who flow adjust, not because they are weak, but because they are strong enough to change shape without losing their essence.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything begins to improve when you stop demanding that life act according to your expectations, and understand that your task is not to control the current, but to learn how to navigate it.
[SPEAKER_00]: After every mistake, there is a decisive moment.
[SPEAKER_00]: A moment where your mind makes a choice without unnoticing.
[SPEAKER_00]: It decides whether that mistake is just a one-time event, or proof of who you are, and that silent decision determines everything that comes after.
[SPEAKER_00]: If your mind interprets the error as something that defines you, and invisible process begins.
[SPEAKER_00]: Your brain starts looking for confirmation, remembering other failures, tying them together into a coherent story.
[SPEAKER_00]: And that story becomes your identity.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's no longer about having failed.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's about being someone who fails.
[SPEAKER_00]: And once that idea takes hold, every new attempt comes contaminated by that belief.
[SPEAKER_00]: This doesn't happen overnight.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is a slow process.
[SPEAKER_00]: So slow, you don't even perceive it.
[SPEAKER_00]: One error leads to a rushed conclusion, that conclusion repeats, repetition becomes a belief, and that belief begins shaping your behavior.
[SPEAKER_00]: You end up acting according to a false version of yourself, built from incorrect interpretations.
[SPEAKER_00]: The solution is not to avoid failing, that's impossible, but to change what you do immediately afterward.
[SPEAKER_00]: In that critical moment when your mind wants to turn the event into identity, you intervene and turn it into something else, information.
[SPEAKER_00]: Turning failure into learning is a conscious act.
[SPEAKER_00]: It requires stopping, observing what went wrong without exaggeration, identifying what can be adjusted without attacking yourself, extracting the lesson without carrying guilt.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is a process that trains your mind to see mistakes as data, not as sentences.
[SPEAKER_00]: And here is the part few people understand.
[SPEAKER_00]: Speed matters.
[SPEAKER_00]: The faster you process the mistake as learning, the less opportunity your mind has to process it as identity.
[SPEAKER_00]: If you let days or weeks go by ruminating over your failure without gaining anything useful, you are giving your brain time to solidify a harmful belief.
[SPEAKER_00]: but if you process it right away, if you ask yourself what you learned, what you will do differently, what you need to strengthen, you are interrupting that cycle before it becomes toxic.
[SPEAKER_00]: You don't eliminate the pain of the mistake.
[SPEAKER_00]: What you eliminate is its ability to define you.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is also essential to separate results from worth.
[SPEAKER_00]: Your worth as a human being does not change with your results.
[SPEAKER_00]: You are not worth more when you win, or worth less when you lose.
[SPEAKER_00]: You're worth lies in being, in existing.
[SPEAKER_00]: And from that solid base, you can try, fail, learn, and try again without each cycle destroying your self-esteem.
[SPEAKER_00]: The people who grow the fastest are not those who never fail.
[SPEAKER_00]: they are the ones who fail, and process that failure before it becomes a monster.
[SPEAKER_00]: They extract the lesson while the pain is still fresh, and then keep moving.
[SPEAKER_00]: Not because they are insensitive to errors, but because they don't allow errors to become their story.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything begins to function better when you change your relationship with failure.
[SPEAKER_00]: when you stop fearing it, as if it were the end, and begin using it as if it were the beginning.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because every well-processed error doesn't distance you from your goal, it brings you closer.
[SPEAKER_00]: Not because failure is good, but because what you learn from it is invaluable.
[SPEAKER_00]: Lesson 9 Think about who you want to become, not who you fear ceasing to be.
[SPEAKER_00]: There is a way of moving through life that looks like progress, but is actually a sophisticated form of escape.
[SPEAKER_00]: It seems like you're building something, but deep down, all you're doing is running away, and the difference between advancing and fleeing determines not only your results, but also your inner peace.
[SPEAKER_00]: Many decisions that appear ambitious are actually driven by fear, fear of not being enough, fear of disappointing, fear of losing something you think defines your worth.
[SPEAKER_00]: that fear pushes you to act.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yes.
[SPEAKER_00]: But it does so from scarcity.
[SPEAKER_00]: From the idea that if you stop doing this or that, you will stop being valuable.
[SPEAKER_00]: That energy is exhausting because it never ends.
[SPEAKER_00]: Each achievement only calms your anxiety for a moment.
[SPEAKER_00]: Each goal reached just moves the bar a bit further.
[SPEAKER_00]: You live in a permanent state of alert, running not toward a destination but away from a threat.
[SPEAKER_00]: And no matter how fast you run, you never reach a place that truly feels like home.
[SPEAKER_00]: But there is another way to move.
[SPEAKER_00]: You can advance from construction, not escape.
[SPEAKER_00]: From the vision of who you want to be, not the fear of leaving behind the version that no longer serves you.
[SPEAKER_00]: Even though it seems like a small shift in perspective, it transforms your entire internal experience.
[SPEAKER_00]: Thinking about who you want to become gives you clear direction.
[SPEAKER_00]: It allows you to choose actions not out of pressure, but coherence.
[SPEAKER_00]: Not because you have to, do them to prevent everything from falling apart, but because they bring you closer to the person you want to build.
[SPEAKER_00]: Each decision becomes a solid brick, not a desperate patch.
[SPEAKER_00]: This way of thinking also gives you rest, because you're no longer in survival mode.
[SPEAKER_00]: You can pause without feeling like the world will collapse.
[SPEAKER_00]: You can celebrate your progress without the permanent feeling of insufficiency.
[SPEAKER_00]: You can fail without destroying your self-esteem, because your identity doesn't depend on external results but on an internal process of conscious evolution.
[SPEAKER_00]: And the most liberating part, you no longer need to cling to old versions of yourself that no longer serve you.
[SPEAKER_00]: Many times we get trapped in who we used to be because we believe that without that identity, we are nothing.
[SPEAKER_00]: But that is living from fear.
[SPEAKER_00]: From the need to preserve an image instead of allowing yourself to evolve.
[SPEAKER_00]: The real question is not, what will I lose if I change?
[SPEAKER_00]: But what will I gain if I transform?
[SPEAKER_00]: What new possibilities appear when you let go of what no longer represents you?
[SPEAKER_00]: Growing requires letting go, and letting go requires trust.
[SPEAKER_00]: Trust that your essence does not disappear when you change form.
[SPEAKER_00]: On the contrary, it becomes clearer.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything begins to align when you stop building your life from the fear of losing something, and start building it from the vision of what you want to create.
[SPEAKER_00]: Only from there can you advance with true freedom.
[SPEAKER_00]: Less in ten.
[SPEAKER_00]: Understand that everything starts working when you stop demanding perfection.
[SPEAKER_00]: There is a powerful irony in perfectionism.
[SPEAKER_00]: You think it protects you from mediocrity, but what it really does is chain you to an action.
[SPEAKER_00]: You believe that by demanding perfection you are taking care of yourself, but in reality you are sabotaging yourself in the most effective way possible, because perfection does not exist.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is not a high standard, it is a fantasy.
[SPEAKER_00]: As long as you keep waiting for the perfect moment, the perfect conditions, or the ideal version of yourself, you will be waiting for something that will never arrive.
[SPEAKER_00]: And in that waiting, life passes by.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything you have learned so far comes together in this central idea.
[SPEAKER_00]: Take control of your mind without waiting to have everything resolved.
[SPEAKER_00]: See problems as information without needing them to disappear first.
[SPEAKER_00]: Move forward even when you're mind insists you aren't ready.
[SPEAKER_00]: Direct your attention toward what is possible without getting lost in what's missing.
[SPEAKER_00]: think from gratitude without denying that there are still things to improve.
[SPEAKER_00]: Each of these lessons has been telling you the same thing from different angles.
[SPEAKER_00]: You don't need everything perfect to begin.
[SPEAKER_00]: In fact, waiting for perfection is the most sophisticated form of self-sabotage.
[SPEAKER_00]: It sounds noble, seems like a commitment to excellence, but it is nothing more than fear disguised with beautiful words.
[SPEAKER_00]: In perfection frees you.
[SPEAKER_00]: not because it glorifies mediocrity, but because it allows you to move, it allows you to try to learn from experience instead of getting stuck in theory alone.
[SPEAKER_00]: And it is in movement in that imperfect action where real progress happens.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything valuable you have in your life came through imperfect processes.
[SPEAKER_00]: No one enters a deep relationship being flawless.
[SPEAKER_00]: No one builds something important without mistakes.
[SPEAKER_00]: No one learns without messing up.
[SPEAKER_00]: Perfection is not the road to results.
[SPEAKER_00]: It is the obstacle that prevents you from starting the journey.
[SPEAKER_00]: And here is the final truth.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything starts improving not because you master everything, but because you accept starting without mastering anything.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because you move forward with what you have today instead of waiting to have more.
[SPEAKER_00]: Because you do your best now, knowing that tomorrow you'll be able to do better.
[SPEAKER_00]: because you understand that life does not reward perfection.
[SPEAKER_00]: It rewards persistence.
[SPEAKER_00]: Let go of the demand.
[SPEAKER_00]: Not your standards, not your discipline.
[SPEAKER_00]: Just the absurd demand that everything must be flawless for it to count.
[SPEAKER_00]: That demand is costing you more than you imagine.
[SPEAKER_00]: It costs you time, opportunities, growth, life.
[SPEAKER_00]: You've made it this far.
[SPEAKER_00]: And if you did, it's because something in these
[SPEAKER_00]: because you recognize that the way you think shapes the way you live, and that transforming one transforms the other.
[SPEAKER_00]: You don't need a total revolution from one day to the next.
[SPEAKER_00]: You need small daily adjustments.
[SPEAKER_00]: in how you interpret what happens, where you place your attention, what you choose to believe about yourself.
[SPEAKER_00]: Those tiny adjustments repeated consistently, rewrite your entire story.
[SPEAKER_00]: Everything begins to go well when you stop waiting for the world to change to accommodate you and understand that change begins in how you speak to yourself, how you respond, how you choose to think.
[SPEAKER_00]: That is your real power.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Thank you for being here for choosing to grow even a little each day.
[SPEAKER_00]: See you in the next episode.
[SPEAKER_00]: Until then, keep strengthening your stoic character.
[SPEAKER_00]: Thank you.